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Family / Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by francdec4(m): 7:26pm On Dec 08, 2023
If you can please help your in-laws remember your kids may benefit from that in the future as well.

No one can predict the future.
Travel / Re: Lady Kicks Her Hubby Out Of His Own Home In UK After He Brought Her From Nigeria by francdec4(m): 12:42am On Mar 15, 2023
Calm down folks. This couple make skits na. This is not real. They are very popular in Facebook and live overseas.
Travel / Re: Which Visa Is Easy For Nigerians To Get In 2023 by francdec4(m): 5:58am On Mar 06, 2023
Kenyan visa is no longer on arrival for Nigerians. It's now E-visa which you must apply online get approval before travelling to Kenya.



Warmaterial:
Kenya visa on arrival, Bolivia visa on arrival, Cambodia visa on arrival, Iran visa on arrival... grin grin grin
Romance / Re: . by francdec4(m): 7:20pm On Sep 11, 2022
Best test for any virus is PCR, it looks for the RNA or DNA of the virus itself. It is more reliable than rapid strip. Also some factors can give false negative or false positive results. PCR is the best test for Any VIRUS.

Ask her to go do a PCR test. You can also do yours.
Family / Re: Living With An Aged Relative by francdec4(m): 1:32am On May 16, 2022
You seem a very good hearted woman. Your husband is a happy and fortunate man.


pocohantas:
The mama should come.

They should get a nanny that would help the wife in taking care of her.

I don’t see the issue here. Old people are generally difficult.

A four bedroom apartment is okay for all of them if you ask me.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 200k Weekly Or 800k Monthly, Which Salary Type Would You Prefer? by francdec4(m): 6:05am On Jan 30, 2022
Smart fellow lol

biafraisdead:
200k weekly because some months go be 5 weeks so I go make up to 1million for those months. Sense no go kill me.

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Health / Re: Celebrating One Year Of Abstinence From Sugary Drinks by francdec4(m): 12:17pm On Dec 25, 2021
Just curious did you notice any sign or experienced any side effects while you were taking daily soda and if yes what has changed since you stopped.

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Nairaland / General / Re: What Calms You Down Whenever You Are Angry? by francdec4(m): 4:40pm On Dec 15, 2021
This really touched me...

Lincoln275:
I calm myself down coz I know I have nobody

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Religion / Re: Prophetess Patience Obi: Submit Your Money To Your Husband Before Spending Dime by francdec4(m): 7:04am On Dec 11, 2021
But sincerely how can a lady submit her whole body and loyalty to her husband but not willing to submit money. Which is greater to submit, your body and loyalty or your money
Religion / Re: Prophetess Patience Obi: Submit Your Money To Your Husband Before Spending Dime by francdec4(m): 7:03am On Dec 11, 2021
Why. You don't plan to submit to him?

Joygift3666:
Just pissed
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Inquiry Of The Best Loan Application by francdec4(m): 11:56am On Nov 20, 2021
OP listen to this. This is an EXTREMELY good advise.


Tallesty1:
Avoid loan apps please.

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Health / Re: Help On Constrictive Pericarditis by francdec4(m): 9:07am On Nov 19, 2021
Good morning, check your email and let's chat to know what exactly is the issue.

Healfastijn:
Good morning everyone, thanks for always being there for me. God bless you all. Please I'm yet to see any kobo for the surgery fees or referrer, I'm still soliciting for people to help me, I hate to be idle because of body weakness and low pcv, I have my CT scan with me for any verification please. Kanu foundation said a lot of people are already on ground. Many foundations I went to said they don't have much in their accounts. Someone or any group can help pay directly to the hospital account, I'll go there for the surgery please. I'm still on drugs and faith. God bless you all Amen


@Odewaleadesoye
@IBtxo
@fostermd
@francdec4
Family / Re: What's So Special About Getting Married? by francdec4(m): 8:51am On Nov 13, 2021
You sound like a very intelligent lady. Bravo

Hathor5:


Who is they? The people who say marriage is not important are probably not the same people who talk down on unmarried people so I see no hypocrisy here.

Whether she is getting married in her 30s or 20s people will congratulate her because under normal circumstances an upcoming wedding is a happy occasion. It means that someone has found love which is wonderful, isn't it?

Personally, I believe that Nigerians 'hype' marriage too much but I agree that being married to the right person can be a beautiful experience.

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Religion / Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by francdec4(m): 11:48am On Nov 07, 2021
If she won't join you forget about settling down with her. #from experience.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

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Health / Re: I Just Diagnosed That I’m Hepatitis B Positive by francdec4(m): 8:05pm On Sep 11, 2021
First on the test i will recommend you go to a very good diagnostic molecular laboratory and tell them you want to run a PCR test for hepatitis B virus instead of the usually anitibody based test.

The PCR looks for the viral particulars and it's load instead of looking for the antibodies. I will also recommend you use very trusted and reliable labs.
Be strong and trust in God.
Health / Re: I May Have Caught Something (graphic) by francdec4(m): 10:09am On Aug 30, 2021
I will advise you to see a doctor at the hospital for proper evaluation and management. From what you described above it is likely scabies (which can easily be managed with Benzyl benzoate cream and afew presciprion) but again see a doctor at the clinic for examination and management.
On the having sex part, abstinence is the goal till you are married.

Cheers.


Papanicolou:
I feel like I have ruined my life. I have not had sex in about 5 weeks I rarely have sex mostly 2 or 3 times in a month, I always use a condom and I've never had an experience of it tearing at any point. So for two weeks now my thighs have been itching with burning sensations at my buttocks, my little papi and nutsack were doing great the whole time no itching at all till today.

So I thought at first it had to be my water so I bought Dettol but no changes I decided to buy an antifungal cream and take Piriton. I don't know but after my third dose of Piriton exactly 1hour later I go out to pee only to find two bumps on my glans.

I have never been so scared in my life. What do I do please I am also very low on cash as it is. I need counseling I don't want to fall into depression or get tempted to do hemp. I was just getting my life together. How do I get out of this?

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Travel / Re: Anyone Working In Saudi Arabia by francdec4(m): 6:02pm On Aug 01, 2021
I stumbled into this and am most grateful for all your insights. Pleaae I sent you a dm can you reply I really want to ask you a personal questions. Thanks nwanne nkem.

chineloSA:


Hey dear.

I am hear oo. I have not been to nowhere?

How are you applications going?
Celebrities / Re: Kcee Visits His Wife And Children In Turkey (Video, Photo) by francdec4(m): 7:10am On Jul 29, 2021
Just curious why do you prefer an introvert partner. Won't you think she is hiding you from the world (just asking)


Princeton92:


I love that oo
Autos / (Sold) Clean Toyota Sienna For Sale At A Great Price. by francdec4(m): 6:44pm On Jul 22, 2021
Well maintained, great condition,
Ac: working fine.
Alloy
Auto
Leather seats
Power door.

Owner is relocating.
Price: N1m (Negotiable)
Location: Onitsha, Anambra State

Call +2349056271178
Please only serious buyers

Autos / (Sold)Extremely Clean & Well Maintained Toyota Sienna For Sale, Very Good Price! by francdec4(m): 6:30pm On Jul 22, 2021
Well maintained & AC works fine.
Owner Relocating.
Ac
Alloy
Auto
Fabric
Sound engine.
Price: N1.1m (slightly negotiable)
Location: Enugu

First come first serve!
Call the number for inspection. (Please only serious buyers)
Call: +2349056271178

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Career / Re: A Week In The Life Of A Female Cab Driver by francdec4(m): 1:50pm On Jun 25, 2021
This is very personal. I can relate to every single line I read up there. A life of struggle is not easy but again at the end of the tunnel there is always light. Thanks OP for sharing. God bless you.
Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by francdec4(m): 7:48am On Jun 24, 2021
You have no point my dear. Assuming that he is not a "born again" because he is a Catholic is myopic to say the least. You are obviously supporting her because you share in her believe system too which is very lowly to think Catholics are less of Christian because he is not in her church. For his sanity I really wish he leave that relationship cos this lady will make life difficult for him if he refuses to join her. Let her pastor find a husband for her. I shouldn't be replying you anymore if you have this kind of mentality.


BRATISLAVA:



Most advice here is from people who are angry that she doesn't consider him born again. But she is right in her own belief.

Whether you think the man is unwanted or not is up to the man in question. I know the discrimination I've faced from Catholics, so I'm not going to go into that.

It's not as if Catholics think Pentecostals are Christians the way they are, therefore no need for Catholics to play the victim cards here.

It has nothing to do with pastors or any other allegations here, but simply her conviction as a Pentecostal. She wants a Christian who isn't lukewarm, and the man in question is. Plus he's Catholic, and as Catholics have made me understand, they are different to other Christians. It's obviously an issue for her.

She will make the decision she will live with, not angry guilt tripping from Catholics and others who don't seem to understand her point of view. When did it become a crime for a born again Christian to want to marry a born again Christian? It's never an issue if a Sunni wants to marry a Sunni.

The only advice to her is to ignore his religious inclinations since he's supposedly a Christian too.
Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by francdec4(m): 7:33am On Jun 24, 2021
What kind of advise does it look she need. Someone who clearly stated he isn't a born again because he is a Catholic does that person need that kind of advise you are presenting. I know this kind of situation as long as that lady don't get him to join her in her so called "born again church" that man will always feel unwanted. Let her leave him since according to you she knows what she wanted. Am sure there are many of her kind where she has joined or let the new pastor find one for her and let the man find his own type. it's simple.


BRATISLAVA:


She's entitled to her opinion and choices. If it gives her a problem, then she is free to make choices that she will live with. She knows what she wants.

After all, Catholics think Pentecostals aren't good Christians. They are discriminatory, so don't act like she is being bad.

The only advice you can give her is to overlook it, as he's still a Christian, unless she knows that they will have fights about it in the future that will destabilize their marriage if he is a Catholic extremist.

OP probably has other things she isn't saying, because his being Catholic isn't that big a deal if he is okay in other regards.
Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by francdec4(m): 1:02pm On Jun 23, 2021
So for you Catholics are not "saved". I really wish this guy who you claim to love and ticked all the boxes of what you desire in marriage will read this your write-up and withdraw cos it's obvious you are not even serious. If you really want to be so serious and your complaint is that he is not supporting or joining you in that lane inside the same catholic church then that it's different but labelling him not serious with his faith simply because he is Catholic is unacceptable. Join charismatic in the Catholic Church or any other pious societies in Catholic church of your choice and enkindle your faith as you desire but please and please just let him be and let him remain a Catholic as he desire...the land looks greener the other end till you get there and realise what you have lost.

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Career / Re: What Will Your Occupation Be If You Had Followed Your Childhood Dreams? by francdec4(m): 8:06am On May 26, 2021
Catholic priest or Geologist but now am a medical doctor. God's decision always takes over.
Romance / Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by francdec4(m): 6:26pm On May 18, 2021
If you don't mind may I ask is she behaving well at the moment or the yes sir yes sir was to enter the house first?

Jirehz:
grin

My cousin had exactly same issues with his now wife 2 years ago
Girl wey no dey bring any kind of financial support to the wedding oo

My bro just called her 2 days after the argument and told her to put the phone on loudspeaker and give her mom the phone.

“Mama I’ll be coming with with my elder brother to apologize for all inconsistencies. I no longer want to proceed with the wedding. I no get money!”

Nah there area scatter
Nah she come dey beg las las
She turn to Yes sir Yes sir girl till wedding and trad finish grin

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Romance / Re: How Wife's Lose Their Husbands by francdec4(m): 5:41pm On May 16, 2021
And looking at your signature quote below and then this your comment I got confused brother.

seunlayi:


Just let your side chick know what you want from her... Not children but sex. Your wife brain will reset later
Romance / Re: The First Time You Had Sex; What Was It Like? by francdec4(m): 8:01pm On May 05, 2021
The society now thinks premarital sex is the norm anything else like not engaging in it leads to this type of your question & thinking. #smh

Rozcol:
Are you serious or there's something wrong down there lol that's commendable anyways.
Romance / Re: The First Time You Had Sex; What Was It Like? by francdec4(m): 2:07pm On May 04, 2021
Keeping it for wedding night

Rozcol:
francdec4 oya share your own lol
Crime / Re: See What Google Is Now Suggesting by francdec4(m): 9:22am On Apr 30, 2021
That is not complete add "be" to it don't stop at "to" then you will see what it will show


squash47:
See my own. Op, the fault is from you.

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