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Well, I'm not married Sha. But my opinion is why not sit her down and ask her why she's sex starving you.

If possible, buy her something she love and use phycology to make her talk. She might be cheating or she has a low libido. Do your research.

KrustyKrab:
Memories.

Mine was way back 2019. I think around August/September, I got a gig with a US company, working as a transcriber.

1. Transcriber.
2. A friend gave me the connect.
3. Around $300 per month.
4. I enjoy the work flexibility that the gig provide, as I can work whenever and wherever i want. But there are peak hours(8pm -5am) though, when audios files are in infinite flow.

Working remotely is one of the best feeling ever. I mean, the flexibility, liberty to work at your own convenience, earning in hard currencies etc. You don't have to subject yourself to the many hassles, inconvenience and frustrations that are accompanied with onsite jobs.

Remote job is bae



I Love Krabby Patty..

I've seen a lot of ads on transcribing jobs. The thing is I don't know how to get started. Can you put me through on how you perfected this skill.

Don't worry about finding a remote job. I'll do it myself. Just put me through.

This is deep. But how can one track a call.
Any tips?

But wait first. All these lies the Nigerian police and military are given us. Would it be bad if these guys walk with drone and live body cam.

Omo, this country no fit go. No drone for live fight, no body cam

Baba you get wahala. She told you that she's tired. Yet you insisted, because you were desperate. See bro, chill the F*k down.

You're pushing you're self too much. Just give her space. Don't talk to her for few days. If she love you. She will call.

You dey act like married man. No be only you dey love. A woman will respect based on now you place your self..Duo, some no get sense. Some will still disrespect. Chill the F*ck down.

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

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Wisdom. Wisdom .. wisdom

No give yourself high blood pressure because of woman. Any woman who value and Respect you wouldn't cheat.

Things dey happen. My gf called me that she saw me in her dream for the first time. According, to her she hardly dream.

I asked her for further explanation. Could you believe she told me what I did and said in person.

I was shocked to my bone. Because it happened a night before. And I never informed anyone about it.

She said she saw me on my bed. That I was disappointed, complaining and I made some personal statement which she heard. Exactly, what she said. I did at midnight in person at 1am-2am.
I.e she was listening while I was praying that night. This girl is about 5000km+ away from me.

Though, at that time I was pained and praying to God for assistance and growth. I had to expressed my pain to God that night.

According to her. She saw me and was sad by
my expression and reaction.

The following day at noon. I called her and boom she told me.

Me way dey hardly believe anything spiritual. Till now I still don't understand why she saw me.

SportsHD:
Gtb is all shades of useless and lootery.

I use union Bank and i don't get debited like this for charges. Even though AdSense payment comes in it regularly.
change your bank sir.

I wanna start blogging again..Just don't want to go into entertainment industry. Which do you suggest?

Nawa. Under this challenging administration. Were hungry, limited resources, Sapa and red eye full. Your mom still never understand. Oh, boi. E choke!

I don't know why some parents want to build a future for there kids, with full submission. By fire, by force. Well, it common in Africa. Such happened but me but me no gree o.

You can't force me to live your dream. Or force me to become somebody I'm not. It's again the law of nature. For me Sha.

No offense, I'm surprised that your mom doesn't understand how difficult it's to live with such decision. Sorry if I am blunt.

When I was preparing for jamb years ago as a teenager. My mom was a medical practitioner.

she wanted me to become a doctor. Aside health wise who doctor help?

Omo, she bought jamb for me. I passed jamb and failed the post jamb woofully. She insisted I retake it the following year. No wahala, My people I still fail am again. After quarreling. She allowed me followed my dream. If not for say dream no sure for the country. Who knows I would have become a billionaire by now. but this country go make Reverend father turn street boy. Just to hustle. Na when you stop to eat mama thank you. Na that time your eye go open. Like say you chop Eve apple. Then you'll understand life is hard.

Shool is just necessary. But it's not certain you'll become rich or great with it. Talk to your mom. Let her allow your brother follow his dream now. Before this country change his orientation.


Doctor no help anybody oo..



Yep! I buy Bitcoin, eth, and usdt. Bring all I'll pay in naira.

Mustiboy:
We're still together, stronger than before.

But her continual talks about marriage may make me dump her soon. I'm not ready for any commitment yet.

Lol they all want to marry ASAP

Mustiboy:
She was broke one time and agreed to send her nudes to one Nigerian in Canada. It was even video.

From the chat, the man had been begging her to send him nudes for over 3 months. But, all of a sudden one night, she messaged the man herself and said she was ready. The man paid her 20k.

I'm the one who deflowered this girl, and she's a really good girl. But what I saw shocked me. I never believed my girl could do such . We've been together for 3 years.

I only checked her phone out of curiousity. My girl is not the type that waka upandany, so i trusted her very much. She's a really good girl. But what I saw that she send her nudes, i want die.

I confronted her, and she was crying, saying she couldn't have asked me for the money she needed and that she was desperate. That's why she did it.


I forgave her sha, and she kept bringing up the issue for months, asking me to still forgive her and know that she's not that kind of girl.

If na me I don move ooo. You two still dating?

Where I fit find this kind woman?

Mehn, this one shock me o.

JackDaAlienz:
When i was dating her I meet someone who is gifted spiritually
This person said that the girl is my soulmate and my coming to Russia to study was not a conincedence
That she was my love in another lifetime
And me coming to Russia was a divine way of reuniting with my soulmate "Yulia"
I never believed all this soulmate stuff
But thinking back, I can see why I can't get her off my mind.

I hope you see this bro, you both love each other. Well, like you said she want the money and you can't provide enough. Money is good. But true love surpass all. If she stayed with you for 2 years and she didn't cheat. Bro, get her back.
That man might not love her as much as you do.

I believe you can still reach her even after it been 3 years. You shouldn't waited this long.
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She might have fallen deep in love with him or maybe have kids for him. But don't give up yet.
Why not find a way to contact her and tell her you still love her and you want her so much.
Confess your heart to her. If she said she has moved on. Fine, forget her at less she knows you spoke your mind. And you'll be at peace.

Stop been a cry baby. Go for what you want or you will forever remain in pain and restless. If you read this reply me.

You all are weird. Funny how 90% of this act comes from ladies. If na don wear cloth..Na don turn demigod

Never had such terrible experience. Me no get chill. I go fight or almost beat up my boss.

Though I prefer working remotely online.

Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

Mr Arinze... I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid

Since you know him well..Why no f¢k his wife

Everybody go Sha get Tori to tell. Anyway Enjoy it while it last

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I've been in similar situation like this.
The thing is she likes you. No doubt and at the same time she love her man.
The problem now is she needs attention to get over her worries and trouble.

The moment her man comes back into her life. That's the end for you bro. It would look like she used and dumbed you.

My advice ask her what does she want with you. Is it S*x or causal friendship. If it's causal friendship. Strictly, tell her to stop calling you like something emotional is attached..

If it's S*x just f*ck her. Like you said she's separated from her husband. So you're free to do what so ever you wish.

Josephtimrock:
I dey feel u guy ,na no stress level nain sure pass.

Naso e suppose be

baba you get time i swear. You don't think of what to say to a woman. It should come out of you naturally.

You're trying so hard to impress. Which is not cool. Why not just go straight to the point and tell her you find her attractive and you would like to meet up with her again. And give her your so she can typing her number..

If she refuse just move on. No just stress yourself over nothing. Girl way another man dey hang her leg.

Bros, thanks for the advice. Howfr shey you get the format ni? Let me try it and see if it work. Or add me to the group.
Don't ingore this. Biko

M*M* you are a simp too. Real nigga would sue her @ss

RealGboy:
Recently one babe I liked so much told me she couldn't date me cos she has a serious relationship going on , I said okay and even though it hurt me I make sure I deleted all her number and blocked her everywhere .. funny enough I moved on. only for us to meet and she was surprised I could block her ,I told her I was only giving her space since she's hooked to a guy she then told me she wasnt in a relationship but said that hoping I would keep trying to show how serious I am with her.. I was like "Heya "...

so Is this normal?..I'm I too hard ..should I calm down or I'm completely normal

Lol so she lied just to see if ya serious. All this girl get as dem dey reason. If a girl woo you. Just know he want you..So what has she been upto since?

He should have cut it off. I can stop to imagine how the guy would scream. It just like Freddy Kruger doing it's thing.

See wetin women dey cause. If it's too big. They will complain. If it's small. Complain again

Me I don't like advising people because I have enormous problems that has been bothering me for years now. E no easy.

Anyway, bro I hope you see this. The truth you can't change an adult. You can only add value by helping out or advising.

It's left for the person to sit-up or find another alternative. I see you're the ambitious type. Just like me.

And you need a strong woman who can hustle and support your family. So that when things goes haywire, you know someone is there to help out.

The truth is you are the cause.

1: She has no advance formal education. I'm sorry if this offend someone here. The thing is most people who doesn't have higher formal education. Have a different sense of reason.
Because of there location or there In ability to meet different people with different mindset.
They prefer hanging out with same Calibre of people.

They're just like crave men who find the world too intimating to explore. Only a few are different and act way more advance than does who had advance higher education. These ones are smart, very ambitious, and unique. Inrespective of the gender.

2: You connected her to expert in her niche still yet. She has refuse to grow. Bro give that opportunity to another woman and see how she would worship you. ( Education or not)

3: You've never had any sexual intimacy with her. She's still a virgin bro. So you haven't invested sexually. And that's the real deal. Imagine if you took her V. Atless she'll have something to hold back. In your case na giveaway you dey do.

4: You're based aboard. You don't know if she's having sex with someone else now. People change.

5: You spoilt her with money. You trained her, spent huge sum of money, finance her career. And she's just your long distance gf. Not even your wife. Wahala. Red flag.

She can easily call off the relationship. Because she had nothing to lose. No s*x, no help, no positive impact. Only you dey do.

You at your lose.


My solution.

1: See bro, forget virgin or not. Just look for a Nigerian there. Someone who share same vision as you.

2: Stop all this funding like she's your wife, sister or mom.

3: She failed your test. Woman way you dey send money. No fit send you #10. Then she's not worth it.

That money most University graduate don't earn that much.

4: Just forget her and date a woman who has big plan and high intellect like yours.

5: Long distance relationship na scam.

Like I said earlier, you can't force an adult to make decision. Its left for you to make a decision. I've Sha given you my own piece of advice. Take it or leave it.

Mywd:
Like deeper life...... Ah love your story man..... Im happy for you

Thank you

Ayrastarr:
Oh please STFU!

Why stress myself to become one? And it might even take me 15-20years to become one WHEN I can easily get married to one within a year.

With his money, I can push my already existing business and open more businesses and factories and become a billionaire in 2-4years.


Lol!

Chicken brain.

Your girlfriend is something else. I wouldn't be suprise if you tell us that she has a nasty and bad character. People way dey carry chruch too much for head get there own wahala.
It either you two never dated or she never liked you. A woman who really likes you wouldn't just call it off. She's obviously hiding something.

Anyway, the truth is going to church is not bad at all. I used to sit at home every Sunday or I'll just go somewhere. I hated going to church for no just reason. I notice the emptiness in my live. Everything became like a blackhole to me.

I later found out that we all need God. Though, I'm not that very active. But I'm gradually coming back to church. Make baba God bless person.

It's not necessary you go to same chruch with her. Just find a chruch that preach the truth.

Go to church baba. Even if you don't understand what the priest or pastor is talking. Just talk to God in your heart. Pray for minutes.
Or just find a day go pray alone.

Church Good ooo. Take it or leave it.