Just because you're fortunate to learn a skill during your internship program. Which landed you a banking job. Does mean everyone will be lucky. E be like say you never work like jack@ss before. Na why . Always speak about the good and bad side. Don't favour one side.
My advices for interns. Don't kill yourself nor drain your mental and physical health. Just work smart, speak up if you're not treated fairly. Cause some bosses are ev!l. They will work you off.
A lot of people who did well during their days are working around the street. Cause no job, the connection na scam, skill didn't favour them . I've seen men who graduated way back 07",08". Everybody dey street dey survive. No job.
This world is hard my Friend. You must know the truth. No allow anybody jonz say e go better just like that. Especially, when they say do this and that. And don't be decived that marriage will solve off 80% of your problem.
My advice be independent before you venture into marriage.
Follow your heart and trust God. Even the skill sometimes doesn't assure you a job.
Remitush: You need to be disciplined enough to take free tutorials online. But like I said, disciplined. I was lucky to get a mentor. If you need options, you definitely need a mentor. Or just follow your gut but might take a longer time. You can join the club link I sent or contact the admin of the club directly (she is a techie mentor)
Remitush: There are several clubs and rooms in clubhouse app you can learn a lot and even pitch your ideas if you think you have a sound idea.
To pitch your idea as a Nigerian to investors abroad is nearly impossible. Those who have been lucky so far are very very few and they go through rigorous process. Most times some countries are flagged and priorities are given to western countries.
In club house app, you get to speak to these investors and even connect with them freely.
Just make sure your idea is very sound, because a lot of people will be listening. Don't go and embarrass yourself.
Also, there are other room and clubs that I have found very interesting.
There is a club that focus on careers in tech and Remote opportunities for unpopular Tech Jobs that companies are looking for and willing to pay more.
This club talks about all the tech jobs that most people have refused to look into. Because everyone is talking about javascript or data analytics everybody's attention is on it. But what everyone fails to realise is, there are other roles too that even pay more than these popular ones and the reason they pay higher is cos there are very few people qualified for it.
So while you are looking at switching careers, know that regardless of your educational background, anyone can break into tech and get a very decent pay if they have the right information and mentor.
I currently work remotely as a Salesforce administrator. Got this job on indeed.com right after I received my training from a tech mentor whom I connect with at the NGO I was formerly working. She also runs the club (link already shared) on clubhouse.
One thing I can say is there is a huge difference between watching tutorial videos on YouTube or website and having a mentor guide you through a path.
Bro, Stop worrying yourself with choice of course to read in a Nigeria University. Just goto school and get a degree. Nobody cares if you graduate with first class or you're a doctor.
That was Nigeria of the past. Even doctor don't have jobs today. If nor of the listed course's isn't given to you. Just find one stress free course and do.
You think say na to go school, and become a doctor or a graduate of first class.
Once you enter that school. Your eye go open. You will be expose to the real side of life.
Na before way degree dey determine person success for Nigeria. Now na hustle.
Pricelessruby: I can't date a man that is not working, he must have something doing, I am saying this from experience, money matter in a relationship, if he cannot afford 3 square meal, pay his house rent and having little money for expenses, then it a "no" I dated a guy that almost wreck my life and business, because he wasn't working, I was feeding him daily, clothing, and I invested money in poultry business, he told me, that he had done it before, and he had the experience regarding it, so I believed him and invested in it, but I never knew he was using my money for experiments, he lost all the birds, because he was feeding and giving them the wrong vaccine, I ran into debts, I was owning my sister 4 hundreds thousand, my mum 2 hundreds thousand and also owing some of my friends, I because a shadow of myself because of one stupid love, I have learn my lesson, money for me is number one in relationship, if you Don't have, pls start clear, before I started dating him, I have been brainwashed most expecially, "nairaland" that it is better to start with a guy that has nothing, painting ladies that are after money as bad girls, I use to blamed girls too that goes after money, but I don't anymore, because some do that based on experience, please never judge anyone until you have worn their shoes, thanks
Lol Pele. It's good you invested on him. But Shame on him for not giving out same vibe. Some men are just too lazy.
Lol. See as woman dey wash you. And you dey panic. See it's simple, Since you've paid her dowry, you have nothing to lose unless you don't have options.
Follow this rules. For maximum sure odds.
1: Pretend like you still care
2: Don't even ask about the guy. Just flow along.
3: Find another girl. Just dey collect giveaway from this your yeye babe. While, building connection with another lady.
Because a woman who have no endurance, materialistic, and self discipline isn't worth to be called a wife.
4: Since you've paid the dowry. Don't correct her. Just allow her to continue with her she*t. Cause this is prove incase her family would want to drag you. If possible have physical prove. Like record her conversation, screenshot the chat. Cause some family no get chill and she might deny her infidelity.
5; Once the guy play 2X and he wins the game. That's eat from her cake. He go run. E sure me goon. Unless, he gets her pregnant. And you should be happy
6: Kill that d*mb idea of getting her pregnant. Shey you won marry problem?
7: When she comes back. Just tell her that the relationship between you two, can't work cause you see no future In her. And walk away forever.
7: Instruct her never to call you, nor come to your place cause you've moved on a long time ago.
8: Then like a cloud of mist. She will seeth everything that have been hidden. And settle with a lesser man. Not you.
Sorry for your lost bro. Maybe you didn't have options. 7 years no be small thing. Me I can't date that long without a purpose which is marriage. It's too long for bf and gf. She wouldn't take you serious. And I value time alot.
Anyway, be glad that she left you now. Make e no go be say na Inside marriage you go dey cry.
Don't worry bro. She doesn't know that she lost a good man. That alhaji will just chop and dumb her. Shebi na work and sex. E don finish. Abi you think say to find husband easily? Lol. Most guys aren't ready for marriage. Problem too much.
Calm, down bro. Just focus on yourself and build another relationship. Don't be surprise, when she comes back begging. And never accept her. Just see her as a b!tch.
See me, I am naturally paranoid. I have trust issues. Maybe that's why these breakup don't really accept me. I've already program my mind that such would happen. Even though it wouldn't.
It's like my mind has built a defense mechanism with a backup plan.
I never for once believe what people say or do. I see it as someone telling me an interesting story. Even if it's truth. Yeah, I'm all messed up.
I will never believe you until my doubts are proven correctly, or you prove to me you're right.
Even my close friends I don't trust them. Talk more of a woman I'm dating. I can be friends with you and I'll never trust you. You just wouldn't know.
Some said I have a problem. I don't know if it's a medical condition. I sha no dey trust.
Just forget her and find another woman. Dem plenty jawe. Fresh catfish