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Dear H Plus Community,

Back in 2015 I was running up and down submitting proposals for partnership with my project, she caught my eyes with her perfect shape as she was walking forward to board the same taxi that I was in as it appears we were headed the same direction. Her tight jeggins packaged her thighs and hips in a way I could only imagine my girl to be, Joy has the kind of shape that you can mostly achieve through constructive surgeries, but her was natural.


She sat close to me so I never wasted time, I started chatting with her all the way to where she dropped so I never forgot to get her phone number. It looked like the beginning was promising because I could see how the relationship was moving smoothly. We lived at same area but to visit her it would cost me two hundred naira bike to and fro, she has never been to my house because she refused to visit, instead I was the one doing the visiting and not to house but rather we will hang out at a sit out bar close to her house.

Not all the time that Joy wanted to see me, sometimes she would never pick my calls for months but when I tried to enquire she would say has been busy, she had never for one day called my phone either so I took a wide guess that she may not be so interested in me because she has already rated me as broke. I was so patient with her until last year 2017 when I decided to move closer to her house hoping that this might help the relationship, my house was now a five minutes trek to hers but yet she would find it difficult to even make out the time to see me, this made me got tired of the relationship and I stopped... Read More>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/chronicles-until-i-won-n48m-from-bet9ja-my-girlfriend-who-never-showed-interest-got-busy.html

Dear H Plus Community,

Back in 2015 I was running up and down submitting proposals for partnership with my project, she caught my eyes with her perfect shape as she was walking forward to board the same taxi that I was in as it appears we were headed the same direction. Her tight jeggins packaged her thighs and hips in a way I could only imagine my girl to be, Joy has the kind of shape that you can mostly achieve through constructive surgeries, but her was natural.


She sat close to me so I never wasted time, I started chatting with her all the way to where she dropped so I never forgot to get her phone number. It looked like the beginning was promising because I could see how the relationship was moving smoothly. We lived at same area but to visit her it would cost me two hundred naira bike to and fro, she has never been to my house because she refused to visit, instead I was the one doing the visiting and not to house but rather we will hang out at a sit out bar close to her house.

Not all the time that Joy wanted to see me, sometimes she would never pick my calls for months but when I tried to enquire she would say has been busy, she had never for one day called my phone either so I took a wide guess that she may not be so interested in me because she has already rated me as broke. I was so patient with her until last year 2017 when I decided to move closer to her house hoping that this might help the relationship, my house was now a five minutes trek to hers but yet she would find it difficult to even make out the time to see me, this made me got tired of the relationship and I stopped... Read More>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/chronicles-until-i-won-n48m-from-bet9ja-my-girlfriend-who-never-showed-interest-got-busy.html

The phrase “happy wife, happy life” might be true, but let’s be honest: it’s pretty one-sided. A successful marriage is a team sport, where both partners do their part to ensure the relationship is moving forward just as much as the life they’re building together is. If you want a successful marriage, you need to own your part in it.


Here are 5 tips on how to be a better wife and build a healthy marriage:

1. Acknowledge what he does, not what he doesn’t.
It’s easy to point out what your spouse isn’t doing. Like how he doesn’t pick up his wet towel from the bathroom floor, leaves the toilet seat up, or always manages to forget to take out the garbage. But you should acknowledge and express gratitude for what he does do too. Multiple studies have shown that expressing gratitude for everyday gestures can not only be a “powerful mechanism for relationship growth” but it can also sustain and maintain the longevity, as well as the intimacy, of your relationship. So the next time he makes your first cup of coffee in the morning or washes your car on the weekend, say thank you.

2. Speak up when something’s bothering you.
Admit it: you’ve said the words, “It’s fine” when your husband asked you if everything was all right. Chalk it up to wanting to keep the peace or the fact that women have trouble speaking up in uncomfortable situations, either way you don’t want to sweep relationship issues under the carpet and let any resentment fester. Your husband isn’t a mind reader. If something is bothering you, it’s best to speak up and tell him what it is, especially if it’s about something that he’s done. If you just need a sympathetic ear, let him know that. If you need him to offer advice or maybe even an apology, let him know that too. Clear communication is essential to every relationship and it’s the glue that holds a marriage together.

3. Compliment him.
After a number of years together it’s pretty common for couples to start taking each other for granted and become complacent. The perfect antidote for that: compliments. Whether it’s on his new suit for work or his haircut, or how great he is at coaching your son’s Little League team, shower your husband with little compliments everyday. You don’t have to go overboard, but doling out a few genuine compliments regularly shows that not only do you value him but that you’re also still attracted to him. That’s huge. Men need to feel desired and respected in their relationship to feel secure... Read more>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/how-you-can-be-ideal-wife-and-have-a-better-marriage.html

The phrase “happy wife, happy life” might be true, but let’s be honest: it’s pretty one-sided. A successful marriage is a team sport, where both partners do their part to ensure the relationship is moving forward just as much as the life they’re building together is. If you want a successful marriage, you need to own your part in it.


Here are 5 tips on how to be a better wife and build a healthy marriage:

1. Acknowledge what he does, not what he doesn’t.
It’s easy to point out what your spouse isn’t doing. Like how he doesn’t pick up his wet towel from the bathroom floor, leaves the toilet seat up, or always manages to forget to take out the garbage. But you should acknowledge and express gratitude for what he does do too. Multiple studies have shown that expressing gratitude for everyday gestures can not only be a “powerful mechanism for relationship growth” but it can also sustain and maintain the longevity, as well as the intimacy, of your relationship. So the next time he makes your first cup of coffee in the morning or washes your car on the weekend, say thank you.

2. Speak up when something’s bothering you.
Admit it: you’ve said the words, “It’s fine” when your husband asked you if everything was all right. Chalk it up to wanting to keep the peace or the fact that women have trouble speaking up in uncomfortable situations, either way you don’t want to sweep relationship issues under the carpet and let any resentment fester. Your husband isn’t a mind reader. If something is bothering you, it’s best to speak up and tell him what it is, especially if it’s about something that he’s done. If you just need a sympathetic ear, let him know that. If you need him to offer advice or maybe even an apology, let him know that too. Clear communication is essential to every relationship and it’s the glue that holds a marriage together.

3. Compliment him.
After a number of years together it’s pretty common for couples to start taking each other for granted and become complacent. The perfect antidote for that: compliments. Whether it’s on his new suit for work or his haircut, or how great he is at coaching your son’s Little League team, shower your husband with little compliments everyday. You don’t have to go overboard, but doling out a few genuine compliments regularly shows that not only do you value him but that you’re also still attracted to him. That’s huge. Men need to feel desired and respected in their relationship to feel secure... Read more>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/how-you-can-be-ideal-wife-and-have-a-better-marriage.html

QueenSuccubus:



Matin0 is single since Jesus left the world

Also my new found friend DairyKidd ooo.

These are few men i know... I wonder why so many single in Romance seXXXtion .. Where all the ladies at?

You can do them good by sharing it with them.

For those of you who are single, Meet matches at hpluscommunitylink..com.
Let love lead..... #hpluscommunitylink

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Jah Bless.

Hi Hplus,

Make una come follow me see wahala oh! I have stopped being a fan of interfering in people’s love life by trying to settle a quarrel between a couple, but it seems like the one quarrel that I did settle in the past is now hunting me till this present day.


There was this my former course mate back in our university days who later became my friend after our graduation, he never stopped having series of baby mamas up and down, infact he would have merited the tittle ‘king of baby mamas’ if it were to name by a person by his achievements, he sticks his raw manhood into anything that has skirt on, not minding the age, level, beauty or size without bother. Worst part of the whole this is that he is over 40 and refused to settle down with any of his baby mamas, but it seems he enjoys taking care of them. I have tried to advise him couple of times but we always end up in quarrels.

His parents got really frustrated over his reckless living, so since they cannot convince him they shifted the blame on me, that as a friend I am supposed to be advising my friend since I am the only person he listens to, so if I fail to convince him them am not a good friend. Make una follow me see wahala oh! Come to think of it he is more than 8 years older than I am, so why do I have to take the blame of the choice that a full grown man has decided to make?

One day as we were strolling together, on the way we met one village girl that I used to know him back in the day, to my surprise she was pregnant, so I tried to enquire if she was married and why didn’t invite me to her marriage but she only told me that should ask my friend. I already understood what she meant so I never bothered to ask further. Later that day I went to her house and asked her again whose pregnancy she was carrying and she now told me that it was my friend’s. Choi! This guy no dey hear word o. I asked her how she could be pregnant for a man and still not living with the man, I advised her to pack her things that night and go and live with him, if she fails to move in with him now he will still go and get another woman pregnant and she might find the chance to move in with him while you are still here. Since he wants his freedom so that he can be running around and getting women pregnant up and down then it would be better if she goes live with him and tie him down.

She heeded to my advice and moved to his house that night, but quarrel ensured between him and her. He was trying to drive her away but she stood her grounds in her baby’s daddy house. When his parents heard about this, they refused to accept her because they hated her, they said that she will kill their son for them. They blamed me again for advising her to move into his house, that the girl is too local, this and that… I asked them if there son was blind and didn’t realize she was local when he was sticking his manhood into her, why do they always have to blame me for their son’s stupidity? Someone who is old enough to be my uncle. I asked them to allow the girl be, since it was their wish for their son to settle down by all means and this may be the opportunity they were looking for him to settle down and might never have again, which might also make him stop his reckless life of fathering babies with different women up and down.

When they finally started living together, they lived like cat and... Read More>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/How-I-Helped-My-Friend-Who-Is-King-Of-Baby-Mamas-To-Settle-Down-Now-Am-Being-Terrorized-About-It.html

Dear Admin,

I was in love with Christiana and was already planning to settle down with her immediately I finished a project I had at hand, we have been in relationship for 2 years. She was a popular girl in my street so everyone knew that she was my fiancée.


I found her her first job at a gym owned by my friend called Charles, after she complained of being tired of staying at home, saying she undergo series of temptations everyday staying at home, she claimed that her neighbor who was a medical doctor would come back from work at the middle of the day when everyone living in the compound is at work including her parents, he would be making sexual advances towards her.

A friend of mine Felix called me one day and told me that his next door neighbor called Jay who was also my close friend was sleeping with my girlfriend Christiana and that this has been going on for a while. Jay is a friend that I do visit together with my girlfriend, I also knew Jay’s girlfriend, and she knows my girlfriend, we all knew each other because we all used to hang out together. Felix told me that he was sure Jay was having sex with my girlfriend Christiana every time she came to his house because he could hear them moaning during a sex session any time she visited him.

That information really devastated me which I resulted to drinking and smoking heavily that night. At the bar where I was drinking, I met another friend who knew about this and I asked him why he knew that my girlfriend was cheating on me with my best friend but yet he couldn’t share it with me despite him being my friend. His answer was that he was trying to avoid serious trouble with my friend, and judging by our closeness he said I might have ended up murdering him.

I got home that night around 8 pm, I called Christiana on phone and asked her to come over to my house. I wanted to confront her that night to know if she will deny it. She told me she was in her kitchen preparing meal for her parent and wouldn’t be able to leave the house that night. So I decided to visit my friend Jay not to confront him but to say hi to him, as I got there I saw Christiana who just told me she was at home cooking for her parents, she was already there lying on his bed while Jay was eating with his...Read More>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/My-two-Girlfriends-Slept-With-My-Best-Friends-And-How-I-Later-Had-My-Revenge.html

anthony533:
fake stories.

No military man is allowed to assault his wife.

bloggers and lies are 5 & 6

Read the story well oga madam, it didn't say that the military man was married to the girl he only got her pregnant and kept her in his house. Simple English u cannot understand yet u are looking for who to correct.

We hosted a radio talk show on the topic: Why Are There More Rise And Rise In Single Motherhood? And the controversies between our guests (Men and Women) were recorded. The women were asking the questions while the men were answering them. Here are the questions below:

Q. Ladies: Are men raised to be intimidated by ladies, unsure, have double standards, not being humanly objective but flow with crowd mentality? All I see is men who are too afraid of women, while women seem strong because most men can’t hold their own views.

A. Guys: Some timid men are intimidated by successful and beautiful ladies, or should I use the word flashy girls. They consider these women dangerous, difficult to handle and unfit for marriage because they believe that their success gets into their heads, they believe that these women think that they have all they want and a man can’t offer them anything they want, and they only want to bear the tittle of a married woman. It always ends up with the thought of turning to a slave in their own home. In Africa men and women always believe that marriages and relationships always have to do with what the man can do for the woman, you will hear that in discussions, in songs, movies etc. There is a degree of truth in the way these timid men think, but the men who thought that they were bold enough to take these successful women were mostly the ones who live in regrets to tell the stories of how they failed in their lives. Men only want to be cautious with life until they are satisfied that they made the right decision.

Q. Ladies: Cautious with life! That thing you call cautious is the reason good and resourceful women keep waiting for men to toast them, after almost 40 they would just opt for having babies. Isn’t the world collapsing because men can’t go for what they really want? Can’t men have a heart like Prince Harry – go for your best and boldly get her shunning everyone?

A. Guys: Marriage is a life time contract, I can’t say because good and resourceful women keep waiting for men so let me rush into marrying her which might tomorrow turn sour and full of regrets. We are too selfish when it comes to our happiness and we are proud of that.

Q. Ladies: If a man is unsure of his life goal and can’t lead by taking action, nothing happens especially in the love- relationship-home circus, we women cry out in pain for men to rise, until then women and children whimper in pain.

A. Guys: Men eventually get married, it’s not like we never settle down, and whom we choose to settle with is our choice and we respect that, no matter how long we wait to settle is what we feel is best for us. Besides these generations of men are getting married earlier than some past generations, from 28 they have started thinking about settling down.

Q. Ladies: A woman who knows her self-worth is a global resource without limit and smart grounded men do not miss them because they know they can ‘husband’ them just like everything in their lives. This kind of man women seek often is a game-changer any day…He’s not perfect but is responsible for the outcome of his life.

A. Guys: A game changer! You mean a wealthy guy. Women’s idea of a so-called ‘game changer’ is a man who is successful, a man who commands respect from his peers, a man who can get whatever he wants with his money, of course money moves the earth, that is the only thing that makes women feel romantic. For so long women have placed a lot of burdens on men, but men are not going to accept the blame of women’s failure just because they can’t put their lives together to find themselves a decent man. A woman will shame a man just because he’s... Read More>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/hplus-questions-and-answers-between-guys-and-ladies-about-the-rise-in-single-motherhood.html

Dear Admin,

I write to you with a heavy heart, not to see if you can solve my problem but to get my story out to the world to see so that everyone will understand what I have been experiencing throughout my life time...


I wasn’t born the way I am, I was sick when I was 2 and my mum took me to hospital for treatment and a nurse gave me an expired injection on my right butt and from that day my right leg became disabled. I grew up becoming deformed on my right leg, from that day life has become a living hell for me.

Everyone I know has been treating me like cancer including my own mother because of my condition. I am the first born child and the first daughter out of five, 4 girl and 1 boy. Even though I am the first child my mother treats me as the last, she values my younger siblings more than me as if I am the cause of my condition. My mother never allows me to go out and any time I go out she will call me on the phone and starts yelling and ask me to come back home that I am not supposed to leave the house, left for her she always wants me locked up in the house and she still beats me up at even at 29 years old, but she treats my younger ones with respect.

5 years ago I gave birth to a boy for a military soldier, who is an alcoholic and abusive, he beats me up at any slightest opportunity; this is a relationship that my mother pushed me into because she wanted me to give birth. She knew that the man is abusive and also knew the sufferings that I was going through at the hands of this man yet she still insisted I stay with him.

He only made promise to my mother that he will marry my five years ago or whatever deal he made with my mother on my head that I don’t know about and that was it, he has never married me since then, he only uses me as his intimacy gadget. He will keep me in his house and go out because he is not so comfortable to let me go out with him, I will remain at home to clean, wash, cook for him, when he gets back at night he eats and hops on top of me to get his sexual urge out, when he’s satisfied he comes down and sleeps off, he never says a word to me and I dare not provoke him that day because he will beat me up and also beat up my son, tomorrow he continues in the same cycle and he will never care to know how I was doing or his son.

There was a day he was beating my son in my presence, I couldn’t stand the sight of him flogging my little boy with belt, I fought him with my last strength that day I unleashed the beast inside of me that I never thought I had, I poured fuel on his car that he cared so much about and threatened to set it on fire if he laid one more hand on my boy again, and that was how he stopped beating him. I might accept him beat me to some extent but when it comes to my son I cannot allow it. He will bring in different women into the house and be sleeping with them as often as he likes and I dare not say a word or I receive humiliations and beatings of my life. I have anticipated committing suicide many times and in many ways but just for the sake of my son I have still been going.

One day I ran away from his house and... Read more>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/06/chronicles-my-mum-forced-me-to-live-with-a-soldier-who-isnt-my-husband-he-kidnapped-both-my-son-and-my-lover.html

majorbravo:
The solution is simple.
If you don't want promiscuous women demand to marry a virgin.

If you don't want a woman to want you for your money marry an ugly woman that loves you for your lack of money. After all it's not by force to have money and its not by force to look beautiful.

If you don't want to make money, marry a feminist that has a deep pocket.

If you dont want a woman that likes to do dishes, be ready to start doing dishes sha.

But don't come later to complain that you are being emasculated in your home. To be a man is not a day's job. Even the bible says a man should provide for his family.

I am not saying a man should neglect his responsibility as a man, all am trying to address here is the fact that women need to go easy on men, yes bible said that a man should provide for his family but what am trying to say is that women should learn how to appreciate their men no matter how little he is able to provide because you dont know what he went through to put food on the table. Now what am trying to make you understand is that being a man does not necessarily mean u must be rich. While in the society we live in now, women are in more position to make it (I know many of them will doubt it)but the smart ones see the opportunity and are taking it while the dumb ones are still claiming slay queens. A word is enough for the wise.

Society says that a real single man tries to "get" with as many women as he possibly can. If a man practices abstinence, society labels him as gay or something must be wrong with him. I can personally say that I suffered a lot of ridicule while growing up due to practicing abstinence.



One might expect that the mocking came from guys. But I would say that 95% of the ridiculing came from females. They would make joke after joke and often said I was not a real man. A poll was recently taken and women were asked if they wanted to marry a virgin or a man who is sexually experienced. Well over 50% of the women answered that they wanted the experienced man.

Then again it is obnoxious and cruel to expect a man to be financially buoyant simply because he’s a man is just as offensive as expecting a woman to cook and clean simply because she’s a woman. Not every man has deep pockets.

Feminists can’t yearn for gender equality and yet expect men to be wealthy because they are men, especially if you as a woman don’t even have your own money.

If you don’t want the validity of your womanhood to be evaluated based on your domestic prowess, then stop devaluing men for being broke. Everyone is on their personal journey, he will get there when he gets there.

If you don’t want to date a man without money, it’s your choice, but don’t shame him because of his financial status, it is cruel. Some women shame men for being in the exact same financial position as them.

It’s not that men do not see all these and choose to remain silent, but men have been programmed as robots right from their tender age not to complain... READ MORE...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/03/the-wrong-ideas-women-have-on-men-that.html

Society says that a real single man tries to "get" with as many women as he possibly can. If a man practices abstinence, society labels him as gay or something must be wrong with him. I can personally say that I suffered a lot of ridicule while growing up due to practicing abstinence.



One might expect that the mocking came from guys. But I would say that 95% of the ridiculing came from females. They would make joke after joke and often said I was not a real man. A poll was recently taken and women were asked if they wanted to marry a virgin or a man who is sexually experienced. Well over 50% of the women answered that they wanted the experienced man.

Then again it is obnoxious and cruel to expect a man to be financially buoyant simply because he’s a man is just as offensive as expecting a woman to cook and clean simply because she’s a woman. Not every man has deep pockets.

Feminists can’t yearn for gender equality and yet expect men to be wealthy because they are men, especially if you as a woman don’t even have your own money.

If you don’t want the validity of your womanhood to be evaluated based on your domestic prowess, then stop devaluing men for being broke. Everyone is on their personal journey, he will get there when he gets there.

If you don’t want to date a man without money, it’s your choice, but don’t shame him because of his financial status, it is cruel. Some women shame men for being in the exact same financial position as them.

It’s not that men do not see all these and choose to remain silent, but men have been programmed as robots right from their tender age not to complain. READ MORE...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/03/the-wrong-ideas-women-have-on-men-that.html

Dear H Plus Community,

I have a story that burdens my heart anytime I think about it. You can call me CJ, for the sake of not revealing my identity. Please no one should judge my case I just want you to share my story and get a good tip on how to go about it.


I got married Easter of last year to my husband after my ex that I was dating back then could not raise enough money to pay my bride price, you see my ex and I loved each other very much and we were inseparable. We had been through a lot together for the past 2 years we dated and like they say ‘situation qualifies a man’, he was everything I needed in a man, but the problem was that money wasn’t coming yet and time was no longer smiling at me.

Of course I began to receive pressure from my relatives and society asking me to look for another man and settle down because I wasn’t getting any younger, I received this pressure every day and everywhere I went that it made me to become so desperate. You see, my ex was really talking about marriage and was serious about us settling down but he had no steady income. He is a graduate and self-employed but his job does not come steady, but my husband is not a graduate and has handwork.

I met my husband just a month before he paid my bride price, he had to rush the marriage because he knew about much in love I was into with my boyfriend, because he was jealous of him and furious any time I mentioned his name in a conversation. My husband turned out to be a hot tempered person which I never saw in the course of the one month dating journey I embarked with him.

My ex had a hard time accepting his fate but he was my best love, he showed me love in ways that I had never dreamed of but leaving him was the hardest thing that I had to face. I tried to make it up to him by sneaking to still have sex with him, we had raw sex like we used to have when were together.

One day my husband started suspecting... READ MORE..>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/05/chronicles-i-gave-birth-to-cute-baby-now-am-afraid-my-husband-is-soon-to-find-out-whose-child-it-is.html

Hi Splendour,

Oricha is a girl I met on social media in 2013 when she was still a youth corper serving here in Abuja. When I met her in person I liked her immediately because she had a very sexy body in fact, it was her back side that got most of my attention because she has it in abundance.


You see back then still struggling trying to make ends meet. I was working with a bottled water distribution company so I was entitled to a van, yet when I was done for the day I will pick her up from where she worked and we will spend what’s left of the day together.

Towards the end of her youth service months, one day Oricha came to me and told me she was pregnant for me, I was surprised because I only slept with her once and with a condom, I considered the possibility of getting her pregnant with a condom, so I spoke with a pharmacist and he confirmed there is a possibility.

It wasn’t my plan to get her pregnant neither did I thought of marrying her, am Yoruba while she’s Egbira from Kogi state. I told her to get rid of the pregnancy but she refused claiming that in their culture any woman who aborts a baby dies. She has started mounting pressure on me asking me to come and see her parents and do something about her situation because she will not give birth to a bastard. As foolish as I was I never bothered to take her for a CT scan to confirm if she was truly pregnant to begin with talk less of the child being mine. Later I accepted to marry her, I took her to my parent and told them that she was already pregnant with my child and I intended marrying her and I went to see her people to make all the preparations for the marriage.

Just when the marriage was almost set to take place in the following day I received the greatest shocker of my life. Oricha came to tell me that she lied about the pregnancy; I became so disappointed with myself. She pleaded with me and told me not to tell anyone and that her reason for doing such thing was that she wanted to get married to me because she loved me and couldn’t afford to miss me, and promised to love me more. I am sure that if my parents ever heard about this and the marriage will be over. I was touched with those words so I accepted and helped her keep her secret.

To help her conceal her secrets, a months after our wedding I called my parents to tell them that my wife has lost the pregnancy. Then later her attitude began to change, just when you feel like you have just helped you woman out hoping that she owes it to you to pay you back with goodness, but she becomes an evil who you feel that is on a mission to eliminate your life. READ MORE...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/05/chronicles-oricha-used-false-pregnancy-alert-to-trap-me-now-shes-the-worst-evil-ave-ever-met.html

The young woman above has complained about how she freely throws her legs open whenever she meets a wealthy man.


Relationship adviser and psychologist, Joro Olumofin has shared the story of a young woman who gets turned on the moment she sees a posh car or any good thing money can buy.

A man recently slept with her in his car and she is not proud of her actions. Her problem, according to a social media commenter, has to do with poverty.

Read her story below:-
READ MORE...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/05/anytime-i-see-money-i-get-wet-lady-opens-up-seeks-help.html

This should be a fun and enlightening article, in today’s article, I’m going to cover 10 situations in which a girl will sleep with you... even if she doesn’t like you.


If you’ve ever had a girl sleep with you who didn’t really seem all that into you, and it kind of surprised you she’d have sex with you... and then you didn’t hear back from her after, or she was just neutral to you when you ran into you, as if you’d never even spent a night with your most intimate parts inside her most intimate parts...
chances are, you’ve slept with someone who didn’t like you (or at least was not excited by you).
Strange, right?

She may have secretly liked you but you just weren’t able to tell (like I discussed in this article – skim down to “You Won’t Always Know” if you want the exact spot I talk about that), but for the purposes of this article we’re going to focus on those cases where she just out-and-out isn’t a fan (of you).

As guys, most of us are aware that we do this from time to time – you didn’t really like that girl, but hey – you needed the bang.
So, you sucked it up, put on your game face, and pulled it off.
Well, believe it or not, women do the same thing .
We’ll talk about the psychology of the various reasons below as we cover them, but as a foundation for thinking about these, consider this: sometimes, if you talk to enough women , sooner or later you’ll run into a girl or two who’s willing to do something with you, even if you’re not exactly someone she’s excited about doing anything with.

Try not to take this personally. It’s the same as with rejection ; not every gal is going to click with every guy. And it can often just be that your angle does not appeal to her.
But it’s like being hungry, and realizing there’s nothing on the table but a plate of some food you’re ‘meh’ on. You may not be excited about chomping on that, but if that’s the only option, well, you may just take it.

But wait! Don’t women have tons of offers on the table for sex?
Yes and no.
Yes, any guy a girl walks up to and propositions, if she’s reasonably attractive, is more likely than not to take her up on it.
Most girls won’t do this though, because:
There are ego reasons – she wants to feel desired, not like some low value undesirable woman who has to solicit men to sleep with her.

There are discretion reasons – a guy she approaches is about 1000x more likely to decide she’s a skanky slut he can blab about banging to all his friends and anyone else who will listen (“Lol, this girl was hurting for it so bad that SHE walked up to ME! I totally bent her over the sink and...”)

There are ‘respect for his game’ reasons...READ MORE...>>>https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/04/10-shocking-reasons-why-women-will-have-sex-with-you.html

thorpido:
Your daughter nearly fell?Most girls nowadays don't nearly fall,they fall headlong.
They always fail to do their homework like the father in this situation has to do.

Yes because they see material things, when you say women are materialistic they start to argue about it. The ones that own up to it will try to justify it with a shallow logic.

Hi H Plus,

Ok I need a serious advice because am going crazy on this one. Am married with 3 kids, I am a nurse by profession and I own a drug vendor known as chemist. I am the one carrying my family, all my children depend on me because my good for nothing so-called husband cannot provide for his children though he has a job that he stays away for more than 6 months before he comes back to see his family, he doesn’t even stay 4 days and he leaves again, Even when he returns, he will never drop money for up keep, children’s school fees, feeding, clothes etc.


Sometimes he will be demanding money for his transport. One day I refused to give him and he became so angry that our neighbors had to hear him shouting. This attitude started since I gave birth to my last child Destined, that will be over nine years. Now as if what am facing already isn’t enough I now started having another encounter with my business.


We chemists are expected to get a license from the Pharmaceutical Council of Nigeria to be able to operate as chemists and I have been going about this license for about a year now, I have been delayed since then. To apply for it you must go through an inspection, so I had to renovate my shop in order to be able to pass the test, notwithstanding the money I had to put into the unnecessary rebuilding my shop so I can qualify to get a license, I will also had to make some non-refundable payment for the inspection to the council.


Ok long story short Hplus, I have been going to their office at Secretariat since last year and it has been so hectic because it never becomes successful, just to get one form it will take the whole day sometimes 2 days while I lock my shop, there was even a time last year when they came to lock up my shop because I don’t have a license.


One of the directors who issue the license assured me that he will try his best to get me my license, this man suddenly started becoming nice and polite to me the first time we met in his office. Due to the way he was acting I sensed he wanted to take advantage to have sex with me, but I was avoiding any close contact with him, he will call me frequently, sometimes he will even call to ask some stupid and unnecessary questions but I will act polite to him because I needed to get that license.


Just last week I went to the office again to enquire about when my license will be out and I met this man again, he asked me to join him for lunch and I refused but he insisted. So I went with him and my hope was that he was taking me to an open restaurant but it was surprising to me that this old man was actually taking me to a hotel. I didn’t say anything I was just following him because I was very curious at this time and I wanted to know what this man had in mind.


We got to hotel and...READ MORE...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/02/chronicles-of-desperate-mother.html

Hi Hplus community,

My only daughter finished her youth service three years ago and started her white collar job in a ministry here in Abuja not quite long. My wife came to me one evening, she started telling me about a man that our daughter has been seeing for a while now and that he wanted to marry our daughter,
he lives in Lagos and works in Chevron and other detail she could spill. My first thought was that the guy is a scam, Chevron of all the places he could lie about?! At first I didn’t want to start having that kind of conversation with her, so I chatted with my daughter and asked her to invite this guy over to Abuja.

One day she brought this guy home and at the first moment I saw him I didn’t just like him, he looked so unreal. I had a little chat with him and I had suspicions about him, his phones will ring for minutes but he will never answer, it was clearly written on him. I later talked to my daughter and her mother that I don’t like anything about this man but my wife will defend him and my daughter says she knows him well. I decided to go further and enquire more about this man but it already seemed to both my daughter and my wife like I was trying to destroy my daughter’s life because he appears to have some to spend.

It wasn’t too long this guy came for introduction, and it was at that point that I was really bent to figure out who the guy really was. I started digging for some information about him, I work with the military so I have access to military and police information, so I sent some spies to do some findings on him there in Lagos. Finally when my spies concluded their investigations, I didn’t tell my wife and my daughter about my findings because they think I am being too paranoid about this matter.

I told them that we are going to do an investigation on this guy but they are going to do the investigation by themselves, since am becoming paranoid on this issue. I cannot be alive to see my only daughter suffer in the hands of a man that doesn’t have a plan for his life or a future. I have told my daughter that she can choose a man that has a future over a man that doesn’t have anything real that he does, that everything that glitters isn’t gold, even if he works as a sewer and admits what he does that I am going to set both of them up. You know women with their long throat, she wants a ready-made type of guy who will sweep her off her feet and my wife her mother, was in this too.

I bought plane tickets for them to go to Lagos and enquire... READ MORE...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/02/chronicles-of-yahoo-yahoo-suitor.html

Let me be clear. I’m not arguing that women don’t have moral standards. Of course they do. Even sociopaths have a moral framework, though it is devoid of sympathy and concern for others if it doesn’t also benefit them.
The most basic definition of normative morality is “what a person ought to do.”
The operative word here is “ought.”

For many people, their “ought to do X” revolves around duty. This is called duty ethics, for obvious reasons. “My family, my tribe, or my culture demands that I do X, thus X is my duty.” Of course, at some level they have to accept this duty, but this is meta-ethics, and a digression.
Others argue that we should be utilitarian, that our actions should benefit the greater happiness of society. This might also be classified as a duty ethic.

For some moral frameworks, morality is absolute. In others, it is relative. In some scenarios, you should act according to “good,” in others, you should act for yourself, even if it means doing something “bad.”

The usual response to this is some pseudo-intellectual form of “Well, who can define good and bad, huh? It might be bad to one person but good to another,” and it’s left there without an actual foray into meta-ethics.

This response, if anything, is an implication of normative moral relativism, which states that “Because we can’t come up with a good definition of good and bad, we should tolerate everyone’s definitions.”

How that works out in practice, you can judge for yourself.
Fortunately, this isn’t an article on normative or applied ethics. It’s an article about descriptive ethics.
I am describing the observed amorality of women. Nothing more, nothing less.
What you do with this information is up to you. Any anger or spite you may cultivate as a result of this article is your responsibility alone. If anything, I respect women for their savagery. They may not be as violent as men, but they can sure inspire violence, socially and physically. If you want to truly become a lover of women, you need to understand and accept the amoral nature of women. Any remnant of false idealism, and you are loving a false ideal of women, not women themselves.
Let us begin.

NATURE VS. NURTURE READ MORE...>>>https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/05/women-dont-care-about-morality-female-morality-revolves-around-her-good-sexuality.html

ImaIma1:
When i see story telling, i scroll down first to see if there is a "read more" link. I just move on.

Bad habit.

You can choose not to read by not clicking the link if you like, you have all the rights, but keep it to yourself. Please Don't post this kind of text on my topic next time. Cos i might not be so gracious next time. Thanks...

Hi Charley,

Please what is it with girls these days that none of them want to compromise on anything these days
or that they don’t want to leave their comfort just for the sake of their relationship? Does your article not mention somewhere that partners should be generous with each other but not necessarily in the financial sense? It says “if you notice that your partner takes and takes without giving, perhaps it’s time to find a new partner.


My Lawyer fiancée who I just had to end a relationship with just on Sunday really got me wondering if (I wouldn’t like to use the word ‘some’ but majority) of women these days are jokes. It really bothers me because all of friends have similar stories to tell about their encounters with either their exes, present girlfriends or even their wives. A friend of mine told me that to an extent, his marriage of 10 years with his wife started developing cracks the moment his wife opened her mouth to ask her husband what he has ever done for her. The same person she was asking what he has ever done for her, made everything possible to make that woman comfortable, not to mention he even had to buy her a car while he was still trekking, but yet she was never satisfied.


Anyways what made me end the relationship between me and my fiancée; I called her on Saturday lets hangout, she insisted that I take her to Dominic hotels in gwarimpa, a usual expensive spot where I normally take her to. You see, this period has not been so gentle with me because I am really broke. I had budgeted 5k for this date but if I have to take her to the Dominic hotels then the 5k wouldn’t even buy us much.
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https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/02/chronicles-of-anonymous-poster.html

My father works with police and he has always been transferred from state to state, so I lived most of my childhood days moving from one state to another with my parents and siblings. We finally settled in Port-Harcourt, Rivers state.

I was still in my third year at the University when I met Kc, then he approached me while I was strolling with a male casual friend who was at that time chasing me. Kc confidence was so overwhelming, and his technique was fierce, he seemed to be one of those alpha males that can turn a strong lady into a melting ice.

Kc does all kinds of entertainment business for a living, he organizes musical shows, parties beauty pageants and anything of the sort. At the point when he approached me he talked about me being part of his upcoming beauty pageant, we exchanged contacts and then he drove off.

From then he started inviting me to so many of his programs, sometimes he would request for me to invite some of my pretty female friends to serve as ushers, asoebis, participants etc to his events. I even contested in one of his pageants.

Later we started dating, story short, I realized that he was sleeping with all the girls he uses for his events, including the ones I invited for him. But then I realized I was already pregnant for him. We had a fight and he asked me to get rid of the pregnancy, I took it as an option because he was not ready to be a father yet as he was still enjoying his life.

At the pharmacy the nurse advised me to keep the child despite knowing the kind of man the father seemed to be. I heeded to the nurse’s advice and it paid off because he later came and paid my bride price on the 8th month of the pregnancy. I became a proud mother of a bouncing baby girl who I love more than anything in this world, all thanks to this nurse whom I heeded her advice.

Now where the story gets worse is that he seems to be still recruiting....

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https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/03/chronicles-of-ex-beauty-queen.html

Dear H Plus,

I am stuck in making the biggest decision of my life. This pretty girl whom is just a casual friend of mine has been so supportive, even though we are not in any romantic relationship, neither does she have any intention of orchestrating a relationship with her supportiveness. Matter of fact she even suspects I have a girlfriend but it hasn’t really bothered her.


We are just friends and we are closer than anybody I have ever been close to, we can talk about anything and still feel comfortable. She has invested in me that in fact I am what I am today because of her but she has never boasted of it, not that she is too comfortable but she has a good heart.

On the other hand is my girlfriend of a two year old relationship which feels like we met a week ago because we see once in a blue moon, by ‘blue moon’ I mean once in 3-4 months though we don’t live too far apart, we live in the same city in Lagos, we talk to each other on phone once in every week or 2 weeks.

READ MORE...>>>
https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/04/i-am-confused-over-whom-to-choose-as-my-wife.html

OlufemiWhit:
You don't even know what sexting means.....smh

Mr Corrector didnt you get the idea of the word? Dont you people ever get tired of being bitter? Mtscheww...

Dear Splendour,

I met Ifeoma in NYSC camp during our youth service in Kebbi state, Ifeoma is a black beauty, six inches tall with those sexy legs and she is from a royal family in some town in Enugu state.

She recognized me when she first saw me in the camp, we used to attend the same JAMB lesson center back in the days in Enugu. So immediately we became friends in the camp.

When we were through with camp it was time for our place of primary assignment, immediately I managed to secure a place to do my primary assignment and also a room and palour self-contained apartment inside the state’s capital (Benin Kebbi), while Ifeoma was still trying to figure out the strange city. When she heard that I have gotten an apartment she moved in with me. So throughout our service months that was how we lived together.

During our staying together was a very remarkable moment for us, we lived as couple, we played all kinds of love games, the sexting was heavenly. Ifeoma was so addicted to me that she wouldn’t want to be away from me for too long, she wouldn’t like to go anywhere without me. There would be days when we would remain in the house all day just chatting, eating, sexting and having fun, everything was so wonderful that infact the one year that we spent together seemed like just one month.

When our service was due it was time for me to go back to my state Ebonyi for job hunting, while Ifeoma has already secured a job at cooperate affairs commission Jos, through her uncle who is now a senator. When it was time to leave, she was filled with tears and we couldn’t let go of each other that day was dramatic, Ifeoma later moved to Jos while I went back to Abakaliki.

Ifeoma never stopped ringing my phone day and night asking me to move over to Jos that she had found a nice apartment where we can settle down and start live together. Apparently I gave it a deep thought and I figured it could be a big mistake if I eventually moved to Jos to settle down with her. My mind was filled with all kind of stuffs;

Firstly, I don’t have a job so moving to Jos to settle down with a girl like Ifeoma who has a job and from a wealthy family (I could only see her dominating my life).......

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https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/05/chronicles-ifeoma-later-found-me-but-her-marriage-is-in-2weeks-yet-she-still-wants-me-to-marry-her.html

The “love drug”, “cuddle chemical”, “trust elixir”; call it what you will, Oxytocin is a powerful chemical that plays a major role in maintaining the relationship we have with another.
Read more...>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/2018/03/discover-oxytocin-drug-ends-infidelity-in-your-marriage.html
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