domwas2: A lady who came to lagos from East worked for her male boss for 6months and travel back home. She came back yesterday to lagos for work as previously discussed with her boss.
Now she's stranded because she refused to sleep with her boss who asked her to visit the hotel before she can continue with her job.
She's on standby with bags at Bariga. She's just an online friend please who can help her or which organization can I contact for help in Lagos. Thanks
Bloody passionate abortionist abeg go away I no get ur time......I am thinking about how Trump is going to win the election
Anyways I have made my point and I stand by it,LEGALIZE ABORTION FOR ANY REASON WATSOVER THEN RAPE SHOULD ALSO BE LEGALIZED TOO... SIMPLE!!!!!
I will never justify the killing and murdering of unborn children all because of ur stupid, reckless and irresponsible sexual lifestyle
Trump already lost, sweetie. I understand that you are slow. But surely, you aren't that slow.
Go retreat to your cave and mourn the electoral loss of your equally primitive, white supremacist trash. While women continue to take charge of their bodies.
Fruitful women out there,your womb is so precious,a spring that bring forth life.don't turn it into a grave yard all in the name of modernisation.
Women don't owe you shit, geezer. Our bodies, our choices. A concept that is very foreign to you
Reproductive rights are here to stay. If you don't like it, you're free to remove yourself from existence. Trust me, you'd be doing the world a huge favor. One less troglodyte to deal with.
From Wat u said now it's like u think poverty in Nigeria will reduce because of legalization of abortion and I kinda doubt. Poverty or wealth is not related to abortion at all but sound economic policies.
Okay remove contraceptives but the bible is not against it tho,the bible preaches abstinence,theres also sterilization, and what of advocating for strong adoption policies than just legalizing abortion anyhow all because u want to Bleep around irresponsibly.
Children from IDP camps are a result of government bad policies on terrorism and not because of poverty, most of them had parents before the war please. Rather u should be clamouring for strong adoption policies to cater for those IDP kids instead of abortion.
China legalizing abortion isn't to enable fucking irresponsibly on a grand scale but for population growth and even though it has never relatively affected their economy in any way,abortion doesn't equal intelligence!!!!!!.....Russia legalizing abortion is just like Planned Parenthood vs Casey in the USA.
Please and please Dont justify ur selfish nature to open ur legs anyhow all because u don't have self control and start blaming children. Wen u were fucking irresponsibly why didn't u take responsibility before, during and after the sex.
Feminism is very flawed in the area of sex because man and woman can and will never be equal, it's nature u can't fight it. The woman can't just grow embryo on its own, she needs a man's sperm so to disregard the man's right wen considering abortion is equal to RAPE to me.
Before u sleep with a man do it responsibly and ensure he's a responsible man don't be so gullible and stupid that u just Bleep him without sense. God gave us brain but some people choose not to use it because of their sexual lust and selfish desires.
Abortionists are equal to serial killers, no difference between them at all. Both are selfish, inhumane and demonic.
And I don't know why abortionists don't clamour for legalization of RAPE cos they both have the same acts of penetrative sex, disregard for the opposite partner rights, seeing the sperm and foetus as a nonliving thing and Action of DISCHARGE from the penis and vagina from the man and the woman respectively!!!!!
Yes, the poverty rate would reduce if people stopped birthing kids they cannot afford to raise. It’s common sense.
Nigeria is a secular state. The teachings of the Bible cannot and shouldn’t be the basis of our daily living. If your religion forbids abortion, then YOU shouldn’t do it.
So, the people of Borno were living well before terrorism, huh? Wrong. Very wrong. Besides, my point flew over your head. If you and your fellow bible thumpers are that concerned about ‘life’, why haven’t you adopted these already here and already suffering ones?
Again, your self-centered nature is at play. Not everyone knows about contraception. Not everyone can afford them. Not every pregnancy is a result of consensual sex. Once again, a moot point.
You are an absolute slowpoke for comparing rape to aborting an embryo. Your poor grasp of the English language gave your ignorance away, but this solidifies it.
Don't u find it alarming that u don't consider the man's donation of sperm into the stupid vagina also
But there are other options that are far better than abortion regarding reproduction,moreover the man consent must be sought after before abortion. Moreover wen both parties were having sex didn't they know it's their responsibility to handle Watever happens before, during and after the sex.
We have sex education, contraceptives,abstinence,sterilization, advocating for strong adoption policies that is Wat a moral country should b campaigning for
Abortion should be considered only in three cases; RAPE, INCEST AND PREGNANCY LEADING TO DEATH OF THE WOMAN.
Feminism, legalized of LGBTQ and abortion doesn't make a society progressive if not countries like China, Russia, UAE won't b considered civilized and progressive nations.
Dear, you are a man. Your opinion on women's bodies is simply worthless. But if you want to go there, okay. If most men stayed to take care of their responsibilities, I bet you abortions would drop significantly.
You cannot ban abortions. You can only make tgem unsafe. People still have abortions in Nigeria, they only go to quacks.
But if abortions are legalized, they'll become safe, and the risk of complications would be minimal, if not non-existent.
Abrahamic religions forbid contraception. Remember 'Be fruitful and multiply?'. So, good luck selling sex education to deeply religious Nigerians. Who are also, btw, very much uneducated and impoverished.
There are currently about 11 million out-of-school children; IDP camps are full of poorly taken care of children and the already-insufficient orphanages are underfunded and underegulated. How come our 'morals' and 'pro-life' stance haven't helped them?
Again, abortion is health care. A woman shouldn't owe anyone any explanation for terminating an embryo. Better an abortion than for more children to suffer. We are 200 million ffs and the vast majority of us languish in poverty.
I agree, China and Russia aren't anyone's model countries for human rights. But even they have legalized abortions.
KingAzubuike: It shall never be well with the Nigerian army and it's supporters. What business does an innocent wife of an innocent soldier have in all of these dictatorship. Anybody with details about that corporal and his family should pls contact me. His kids must be taken care of.
This soldier put his life on the line to serve us cold tea. If you’re going to risk your freedom by becoming a whistleblower, you better do it right. Faulting the military higher ups doesn’t quite cut it. Even the puff puff seller by the roadside can opine so. Sorry. Now he’s thrown his family into disarray for nothing.
Davesaves: they are IG hoes cos they crave our attention.. they are our tools anyway.. we use them when nature calls nothing more... they were created for our amusement anyway..
Something tells me you do not have the range for this conversation. So, yeah...
Pettyprincess: Ladies have to be extremely careful especially when visiting a guy's house,always take your pepper spray along incase of necessity!!! Prevention is better than cure!!!Like me nw i dnt even visit a guy's house especially the one i don chop him money b4
A pepper spray is useless when confronted by 4 physically stronger men, though.
The only solution or preventive measure is for men to stop raping.
Bro you just said the hard truth. I don't like the fact that a minor is being raped and abused, but the mother should have known better. Her husband didn't just wake up one morning and started behaving reckless and irresponsible. It's been there yet he was the one deemed fit to father her kids. How appalling.
But no matter what the wife must have done, that man should have come to rescue the kid. Some people get mind.
Yes. Let's blame women for men being useless, and let's pretend responsible men are lying around in excess and women are deliberately not picking.
Look at all of you absolving the man of all responsibility and blame. Must be nice.
Mindfulness: If you must leave the father of your children, make sure it actually improves your and your children's situation. I don't see how her situation has improved if her 5 and 6 year old girls have been left at the mercy of strangers and her older one is being s.exually abused. Something doesn't sit right with me.
It clearly says in the op that the man was not taking care of them eve when they were with him and was unfaithful (exposing her to stds). The way some of you bend over and backwards to blame women for the evils of men is disgusting.
In civilized societies, the trash father would be made to pay child and spousal support, regardless of the location of the children. But in Nigeria, it's fair game for a man to be nonchalant about his kids' welfare.
Are you out of your mind? Which action did I try justifying?
That he raped her? Where you there when it took place? How sure are you that he raped her? Don't you have common sense?
So someone accused a man of raping her 20 years ago and you expect a reasonable person to believe it immediately without any prove, evidence and substantial reason to?
If Bobrisky accuse your father of raping him, how quick will you to believe it? Won't you ask for evidence?
Asslickers like you are why some random ladies will be courageous enough to falsely accuse a man of rape and expect to get away with it.
First, it's proof, and not "prove", sir.
Second, you seem personally offended, are you a rapist? Why so aggy?
Third, I don't know why you sheeple are acting like this is an isolated incident. Different women from different backgrounds have come out to accuse your god of rape and sexual impropriety, but some of y'all are hellbent on acting like Busola's accusation came out of thin air.
Finally, Christians asking for proof of anything, when the core of their belief system can't even be scientifically proven is the most hilarious thing ever.
Some of you have internalized so much misogyny that you even act worse than the misogynists themselves. Aunty Simbi, tell your pasito to keep his dick to himself.
Here on Nairaland we have men defending rape, even to the point of denying that someone can be raped.
We also have people defending a man that has been accused, apart from the rape, of multiple philandering, one of whose victims has left Christianity as a result...and who has not acknowledged he sinned with her.
The sad thing is like Ese Walter case...this one too would be swept under the carpet, and nothing will be done. Because we must defend our god and master the Pastor from the antics of 'oloshos'...
Seems like Nigerians christianity get work. Christian men justifying rape, and christian men justifying sleeping around...even after marriage, all in the name of a man.
I'm sorry, but sometime, sometime, God is going to come down heavily on the Church. God is not mocked. God is not hearing our parayers about Boko, Sister Leah and so on , because we are not a godly people.
Time for repentance. Before things change in Nigeria....Christians got to change. No two ways about it.
U don't need 2 get personal or emotional. State ur facts. My "limited-worldview-having self" isn't d subject of discussion.
U said d lady in question was a child. Did she mentione her age in her write up? When he kissed at d wedding in public, don't u think it would have drawn d attention of d public that d guy was kissing a child? If she was a child as u said, would he be inviting her to a hotel?
You're right. The lady's age isn't stated. Regardless, a rape case doesn't have to perfect or fit your ridiculous standards for it to be regarded as such.
Rotimi47: What happens to all these celebrities and those wey carry this rape allegation matter for head, if it is found to be false?
FurtherMore, how will the world see the other person(Pastor) if the rape allegation is found to be true?
Anyhow, i seat on the fence for now and only react fully after a Competent judge say in the court of law, that it actually happened or the allegation is false.
All of a sudden, Nigerian courts are to be trusted to deliver fair judgments. But if they rule against any thieving politician you support, it's woe unto them. Lol.
Many women accusing a man calls for one to get off a fence and pick a side - the victims' side. If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it IS a duck.
I will advise them to divert their efforts to protesting against the Nigerian government raping our economy and giving us daily heartbreaks with no hope of a better future
And how would you know they don't already do that? Not everyone is an e-thug, you know. If for anything, they put their money where their mouth is. And they should be commended.
Madam in this very story, I don't c d assault or rape. D pastor made advances and there's nowhere she said he forced himself on her. If she didn't like what he was doing y didn't she tell him off? According to her, d guy kissed her in public. Y did she allow it? Now she is telling us to serve what purpose?
No. It isn't up to your limited-worldview-having self to "see" rape. Rape is defined by the superseding authority, the Nigerian constitution, as pertaining to lack of consent.
She was a child dealing with a man much older and wielding a very huge amount of power as a pastor. How can you fix your (I assume) grown ass mouth to question why a CHILD didn't react appropriately to the situation? Just when I think humanity can't possibly sink any lower, you all come out to prove me wrong.
Oh, these brave women speaking out helps expose Fatoyinbo for the scum he is and above all, to prevent other women from falling victim.
What I'm going to type may not make sense to you, it may be the worst post you've read from me. You will expect me to follow the crowd because like the mob mentality, I'm not supposed to have sense but just follow.
I understand.
It's the Nigerian mentality to jump into any trending issue, become relevant with it, especially when it has to do with supporting anything female or women's movement.
Excuse me.
Before I start, let me remind you that my best treasure in the world are not my assets but my beloved daughter. She's the only reason I can kill. I love her more than I love myself and my son. She's my soulmate and everything that makes my world sweet. She's the only one that can tell me not to be a witness against Senator Peter Nwaoboshi and I wont be a witness but fortunately for me, she's still a baby who doesn't know I'm fighting corrupt people.
I'm first a woman lover before a man lover... No apologies.
But I still have my sense, my brains intact.
I have never loved Pastor Biodun of COZA. I see him like the serpent in the Garden of Eden who plays on women's emotions, especially the Abuja girls who flock his church in their seductive short skirts and hugging gowns that will make a righteous man forget the kingdom of God. If I ever go to COZA, it's to partake in the sin that goes on there with the daughters of Eve. Their thick curvy girls makes the place a second Sodom and Gomorrah.
He's manipulative in my thinking.
Busola Dakolo I don't know. Her husband I know and loves his songs. His Great Nation song remains my best, reminding me of patriotism to a nation that cares about no one.
I have watched the video of her rape claim against Biodun. It's sickening listening to it, but again I am not moved by emotions.
From time immemorial, the biggest victim used against men have been rape. Joseph was accused of rape and we all know how he ended up in jail. In Europe and America, the easiest stunt pulled by a girl is rape against a man. The society we are is a world of women who once they mentioned they were raped by any man, majority are bound to believe.
I do not know Busola reason for this accusation but the journalist in me believes in giving fair hearing to ALL SIDES especially in an issue that happened over a decade ago. Three times she claimed she was rape.
Hell No.
I can accept the first one grudgingly but not the second and third. Pastor Biodun must be a magician to have hypnotized her during the first encounter.
If you have slept with virgins and I mean real virgin, you will understand why some men prefer to have a girl who have been deflowered. It's a battle. Even the second and third time remains almost like the first time especially when there is blood like she claimed
With over five virgins passing through me (sorry if it hurts but this has to be proven beyond doubt), I can tell for sure that rape in that first instance can't be done in silence when there is someone inside the house like she said.
I broke up with one of my virgin girlfriends in the University because the left side of my neck was bitten by her during the struggle to enter her Jerusalem without a Visa. Till date, once I hear virgin, I unconsciously remember my left neck and feel the teeth on it. With condom that has lubricant, it's a tug of war. Imagine going inside without condom and use of lubricant. Biodun will not only get bruises but he can't penetrate fully especially with her legs closed all throughout.
Remember its rape not consent like she said.
In rape, the victim continuously close her legs and holds on to anything to kill the pains of penetration. For the man, it's a struggle to keep opening the leg which will result to bruises. None of these happened in Busola and Biodun case.
After the act, it's mostly obvious that something has happened as she's naturally expected to start acting strange in the house and getting moody, accompanied with the pains that comes with it, for a girl of seventeen. Her elder sister should have seen all these. When her parents comes back, they will notice their daughter withdrawing from their beloved Pastor. None of these happened.
And Chude who did the interview like a replayed reality show wants me to believe it.
As a child in JSS 1, I have been molested by Head Girls, who kept passing me round to every new Head Girl until my dad changed me to an all boys school. So I know the trauma I passed through those years but I could not also speak. Most of us have been victims of these but we must discern truth from emotions.
Like Falz the bad guy sang, this story no dey add up, this fabu no dey add up.
'Krest' it on my chest that I'm supporting rape and it's your cross to carry not mine.
For anyone to go extra mile to organise a protest so fast to COZA Church is simply loss of sanity. Because someone said she was raped which we haven't confirmed, our senses went away and emotions took over.
For everyone planning to go to that church tomorrow for protest, you are one of the problem of Nigeria. You are the reason we are where we are today because of your gullibility. This is why Buhari said he will make N1 to $1 and we believed it.
This is why the politicians keep using our brains because they know we have no brains to reason but believe everything without applying logic and reasoning.
Protest against rape but not the one that needs time to prove.
Protest against rape but not the one decided by social media influencers who will see it as their claim to fighting against injustice.
Protest against rape but not the one that is told when a husband is asked to check the paternity of his children.
Protest against the Ruga settlement which is Nigeria's biggest rape.
Protest against the malfunction of government which when we call, you all pretend to develop deaf ears.
Protest against going to immigration offices and you are told there's no booklet for weeks.
Protest against underage marriage in the North and advocate for pens not penis.
For randy Pastor Biodun, pack your church filled with the military tomorrow and flog mercilessly anyone that will disrupt your church service.
Jesus flogged people in the temple, so should you.
I believe in consent. I believe that wearing a short skirt does not mean consent. I believe that wearing a tight cloth does not mean penetrate. I believe wearing a sexy lingerie is not a call for sex.
Most importantly, I believe in using my brains.
F.O (God's Pen of Morality ✍)
National President - Table Shakers Association
This one time, you didn't.
A paltry 6% of rape claims are false. To be more explicit, 9.4 times out of 10, women who claim to be raped speak the truth. How rape sympathizers like you manage to hang on to this 6% deficit anytime rape is a topic of discourse is beyond irritating.
And I'm sure your daughter is an angel. It is for this reason I pray she doesn't get sexually assaulted at any point, because with a rape sympathizer for a father it'll be too ugly a situation.
Your poorly thought out write up is littered with YOUR experiences. How on AlGore's internet do you think your experiences as a man in a patriarchal society like Nigeria is applicable to everyone?
Multiple women who don't know each other coming out, at great risk to their reputation, livelihood and dare I say life (giving the borderline deification Nigerians accord their pastorpreneurs), to speak out against ONE man is no coincidence. It is a pattern of harmful behavior that is too much to be ignored.
You need to step out of your bubble, sir. Many organizations already tackle other issues that bother women. We can walk and chew bubble gum at the same. We do not need directions from a pastor-worshipping, rape sympathizer with a limited world view.
Lastly, your opinion, foolish as it is, is no rarity. You have many other rape sympathizers on your team. You have, therefore, shaken no table. Get off your high horse, snowflake.
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