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SeaTrade:
Most of you will think it's money but that's not true.
Money will only attract gold diggers and trenches girls.
I'm 30 years old,technically single,very well to do,well travelled,educated and enlightened in pursuit of happiness.
Now I'm a trader(onye ahia) due to circumstances but I managed to do well at it.
But the challenge now is getting a suitable woman,one who will complement all of my qualities(youthful,smart,fun to be with and growth oriented ) but its turning into a nightmare.
You see to get a homely,middle class girl in this country,you have to roll in their circle because most times,you guys won't cross paths and they like to stick to their circle and you can't even see them.
They hardly go out,move in packs and to single them out and date them na wahala!
They're held up in private universities and will only date from there or in their workplace or work circle.
Now where does that leave you,a street neighbourhood hustler with all your money ?All you will get is a very wide variety of trenches,bleaching,airheaded gold diggers that I don't even go close to or talk to and a host of milfs(30+ with plenty history and baggage) to chose from.
Now the old ones might have money,education,eloquence,maybe class but youthfulness is gone!! No matter how you try to trivialise it,you'll always see the difference. You get to start tolerating rather than enjoying an innocent,youth filled relationship. Their money is now useless to you and no longer an attraction since you have yours and can afford their lifestyle without flinching,so you now start looking for extras that they can't give.
One party is over experienced and the other party is just getting used.I've done it and I don't want anymore of it.
milf na milf abeg.Nothing exciting about them.
You see guys that you're way better than catching all the softies and all that keeps coming your way is bones and I hate it.
I won't give up on my quest,I think I need to leave the shores of this country and go get what I want and convince them to come back home to be with me.
Nigeria is limiting when it comes to relationships .
Many of you that keep shouting money up and down,I look at you and just laugh,you are just ignorant,unless you don't have taste for quality,great women and just want to attract smellos to come spend your change with you.Asides that,your options will be really limited in the dating market.
Younglings,my advise to you is finish school,build a network with great people and everything will fall in place.
Don't rush life,everything will come in its time.
The last place you want to be in is rich without a solid network,its better not to have that money at all.
Because the success will take you away from your real friends who are still down the food chain because thought processes will now change and reality gets different(this isn't classism but pure fact) and then you cant mingle at the top as well cos you don't belong there.
You're now stuck in the middle and alone,that's the real definition of hell.
You will beg for trenches but then lifestyle has changed and you can no longer adapt.
It takes wisdom to escape this.Hell!
Be careful young ones.

Kudos cumrade
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Hayzed2022:
Hello everyone here I want u to b careful of the telegram fixed match scammer named @DAVIDFIXED4455

He agreed to send me fixed game for 6k n after he received d credit alert he deleted all chats n blocked me

The receipts n chats re below

Matalo

Why

Lol

Sorry for the lost little G
Very painful to lose both parents at this stage and age

Seniorwriter:
Forceful buying of handouts for marks!


We need vote into all leadership positions young visionary leaders come 2023 and most importantly vote out both APC & PDP alike.

@Seniorwriter

DSS ARE WATCHING
BIG BROTHER

annycase5:
Today is my birthday but I feel so empty and useless,I've been crying all night for weeks now to a point I feel pains in my chest all the time,my only source of joy which is my child has been taken away from me,even the guy I had the baby for doesn't give me attention
It's killing me so bad I'm depressed.i need to get away from this vicinity cos it gives me memories and each time I remember I can't help it

Anyone that has a job that comes with accomodation pls assist me so I don't commit suicide.pls assist me

Where do you live and how old are you ?
Can you take care of aged person

Omo eru
In portable’s voice

Matalu

YourBestWriter:
So my friend got this job in management because he knew somebody in that company. But there is high expectations from the company for him to deliver positive results as one of the managers in that company.

This my friend is a university graduate with second class lower result and this manager position is for guys with first class results.

He has never been in management before. Infact, this friend of mine have been at home as an unemployed since 2014. He is socially awkward and easily discouraged. Now he's got this huge job with a big pay, and he is telling me that he feels like a fraud.

He asked for my advice, but I sincerely don't know what to advice him.

So I throw the topic to you guys.

How is he going to behave and probably grow some confidence to overcome this inferior complex?

Introduce him to Nairaland
Let him read from this comment section
I mean this particular comment section
That’s my one cent

Drillminded:
Not pride but principle


If it's the custom in abuja the why not follow it unless there is underground cow meat.

Blessed
Most sensible comment
He’s try to set a standard
And there is no crime in
Doing so .
His life ,his wrath , his happiness

Chisaedhor:
Pls mode post this to the right section (thanks).

Things are really get out of hands in Portharcourt.

This small yam below is 2,500 naira at Elelenwo Portharcourt. I just bought it from one aboki lol.

We cracked some jokes though and we became friends, he said he even removed small thing for me lol after mentioning 3.5k (3 pipe )

Its not a joke, how person wan take survive like this

What could this cost in your area?

Matalo
Malugi

Thereisstillhop:
Good evening sir/ma
Please for the past 6 months now I have scratching myself so bad . I bought enough antibiotic with even tube Cream. Last week it seems reducing but now it really inching me especially my laps under my balls. The funny thing is there's no rashes there o
Please prescribe medication for me thanks

Stop using sponges
Start using warm water to bath with soap only
Buy damatol though it’s always very harsh on skin but if you can withstand the pain use it all over ( except eyes and balls area)
Take vitamin c and other immune Building supplements
If this no work
Then go and buy blood purifier herbs or tonic

Don’t let that aboki cheat u again

Kitchen

Try it

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I’ll be posting stuffs on here daily
Like , share and comment
May peace be upon us

cutemoses:
does anyone have any idea what 1 million naira in fixed deposit will yield in 3 months. In a bank like oceanic.

Put your money somewhere it’s gonna save you later

Pain is a greatest motivator
Experience is the greatest
Teacher .
We should all learn to play our games
Above our shoulders if we actually want full
Peace
The poor will be eating the rich soon

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram On ur way to success BRO!


It's a good idea and don't let anyone talk u down on it..


Look for a good used Keke and buy..


PEACE BE UNTO U..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

May peace be unto all jaja puffer
Awon omo ogbaaaaaaa

This one don dey on drugs no be yahoo boy use her

Okobola146:
I Just arrived from Bódìjà Market in Ibadan.
10k well spent

Obobola
Why u Dey bobo
Us

Okobola146:
Seun is from Ogun state

Awon eyan Dagrin

I wish

PrinceFredo:
mad man, denying their followers.

May peace be upon you MR Fredo

What happened to ASU , NASU , SANU AND OTHER .
Nigeria is doomed

Government of the terrorist
Useless cabal
These people ain’t Muslim
They are unbelievers with
Poor mindsets.
Islam is a religion of peace and truth
May peace be upon all the believers throughout the world
Jumat Mubarak

Dope