₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM EXCLUSIVE

Following the effect of the Coronavirus pandemic on the media industry, Television Continental (TVC), a broadcast television station in Lagos, has slashed its staff salaries.

This was disclosed in a broadcast message by the Chief Executive Officer of the company, Andrew Hanlon to the staff on Monday.

Mr Hanlon said the station owned by former Lagos state governor, Bola Tinubu, has been managing the business carefully since the outbreak.

"Broadcasters across the world are battling with losses. In order to save jobs and not lay off any staff, I regret to inform you that we've been forced to reduce our pay", he said.

According to him, staff earning N80,000 will get a 5% reduction, those earning between N80,000 and N200,000 will get a 10% cut.

More so, senior staff earning between N200,000 and N400,000 will get 15 per cent while those earning N400 thousand to N1 million will get a 20 per cent reduction.

"The management team and director get 25% cut while the CEO also gets a reduction," he said.

He said Pension, transport, accommodation allowances remain the same without any cut.

TVC produces and broadcasts talk, lifestyle and information shows for Nigerian audiences of all ages.

SOURCE: https://politicsnigeria.com/just-in-tinubus-tv-station-tvc-slashes-staff-salaries/

Iyiataata92:
you wan kidnap me? I'm moving out of my house

Iyiataata92:
I won't blame the government for easing the lockdown, neither will I blame some residents for refusing to come out.
Rather, this is what is called democracy. The government gives you a choice and it is left for you to decide.
For me, I'm moving out tomorrow morning. I'll do all I can to protect myself and leave the rest in the hands of God.

jawalis:
You mean More Malaria patients were discharged?
Audio Discharge.
I keep asking myself and the entire Nation what the hospitals and agencies discharging patients has been administering to the patients that aid such fast recovery and recuperation.
And why can’t the Medical researchers, virologist and Other health professionals come together and enquire for that special gene, trait of biological concept of the body of those discharged patients and collect sample while the push effort to produce probably a temporary vaccine for the main time.

Arrewa:
I'm highly disappointed in Ganduje!!

Ganduje and his love for money Sha!

Golan007:
Actually, Buhati did merge some ministries the last time around such as Power, Works and Housing.

ikemesit4477:
How does charging of phone lead to someone's dead! Please I need some explanation!

HIbreed:
Christianity has done what Islam will never ever do when it comes to terrorism and killings .it just got reformed over time because the Europeans that invented got tired of it and it's nonsense.

The transatlantic slave trade was founded on Christianity. That's just one example of the evils of the religion and how it hurt and killed millions of people here in Africa.

Christianity did more worse in the 18th century and down.

I guess you do not know much about Christianity and its spread throughout the World.

In a bid to spread and convert people Christians killed millions of people.

Religion itself unleashes terror where ever it goes.

dukeprince50:
meanwhile Nigeria is producing Ankara nose mask

dukeprince50:
meanwhile Nigeria is producing Ankara nose mask

lmm4real:
You see him name? Start from there. Mohammed Atiku Abubaker, Na only Mohammed be him own there.

lmm4real:
This guy na really daddy's Boy

yyba:
he recovered from coronavirus, that means their is treatments for the Virus ?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Wow most (depraved) guys would love that sort of thing and would even request a 3some. I like people like you, you're not a hypocrite. Most Naija guys would threaten thunder and brimstone if it's two guys that are caught together but once it is two women, they become accepting and even get turned on. Disgusting bunch.


See what I mean? smh.

SirMichael1:
Caught her smooching and caressing another lady. I had been suspecting her though and I'd asked her upfront if she likes girls but she replied in the negative and prior to the d-day, I caught her lip kissing a close friend of hers on the bed. I remembered telling her never to try such shit and then she said she was only playing and how she never meant it, yen yen yen. Then few days later, I caught her but this time, it was full blown. LOL, She hasn't heard from me since.


I don't have problem with lesbians and I don't want them within my close circle. Cool I know you from a distance but don't come close. It's disgusting.

zionmde:
Some of her wedding pictures were taken with the phone i bought for her

Liliantalks:
Blocked me everywhere on social media, it killed my soul , I couldnt breath . Men ar wicked

Bluezy13:
At last.

Bluezy13:
If you think I'm here to call you names, you're mistaken.
You said I believed the story without proof ( which you accused me of rightly saying)
And you also said that I don't believe the story until I hear from the dad.

Are you not confused ??
Why are you contradicting your dilemma

By the way, there is a difference between "prove" and "proof".
Know when to use it and don't forget to use your head too

Bluezy13:
Understanding in that a reasonable, mature and learned person would observe that the story is one sided.
A 13 year old claiming to be raped, without the rapist confessing to the crime or any medical examination carried out, is not enough to judge. Anyhow can manipulate her into accusing the father.
It is not stated in the report either.
The man remains innocent until proven guilty.
I am neither saying he is guilty not innocent.
I simply can't judge a claim without evidence. Hence I have nothing to say.
Reason I opined that you are bereft of understanding.

Bluezy13:
You are bereft of understanding.

Bluezy13:
As long as it is rape case, no matter the parties involved, until I Listen to both parties,



I have nothing to day.

Advancedman:
Inappropriate.