Metrix147: It was a sight of weeping and tears on Saturday as a middle-aged man, Friday Arunsi, a native of Ebem Ohafia, Ohafia local government area of Abia state who was killed last year by trigger-happy policemen at his home town is laid to mother earth.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIB1N7cPTeE ABN TV gathered that friends and family who could not hold their tears as he was being committed to the earth exploded in uncontrollable tears.
Recall that the late Arunsi lost his life shortly after the COVID-19 lockdown was declared in Abia early last year.
He was accosted in his hometown by the irate policemen for allegedly violating the protocol and later killed unprovoked, a situation that threw the community in chaos.
I can't even hold my tears seeing a young man full of life with a bright future gone to the mother earth because of hatred from a fulani police man to my brother. It shall never be well with nigeria.
dignity33: Please my dear brothers from South West try to emulate ESN that goes to forest and farms to attack criminal not in the town or market disturbing peace loving citizen. Go to there hideout in the Forests and chase them away instead of creating hoodlums who cease the opportunity to loot the properties of innocent traders in the markets. Please I beg una Fulani crimal herdsmen don't operate inside town or market.
First and foremost I thank the ESN for doing what is right. And let me also tell you that every fulani man is a murderer no matter where he is, it's in there blood. 99.9% of those you see in the turn are Awusa people not fulanis
Nels55: "Only those who are elected know the fear of been unelected" Anonymous
To the commoner, life goes on irrespective of the outcome but for a politician especially in a country like Nigeria, a bad outcome of an election is just the divide between life and death. This is why elections are Do or Die affairs and indeed blood always flow.
The Northern Cacus of APC have entered a very tensed and pressured phase which will decide their fate.
The bone of contention is what to do with the zoning of 2023 presidential election. Half of the Cacus want to retain power in the North (NE) while the other want power to the South (SW).
The rationale of the former is that PDP has resolved moving power to the North (NE) and any mistake of sidelining SE and SS by backing SW is nothing but a disaster.
The rationale of the Latter is that the gentleman agreement of power to SW must abide and this set believe that with the backing of the North, the SW can come out on top irrespective of the decision of other southerners..
Irrespective of opinion, there is a strong fear within APC north of power going to the PDP North as majority of APC North are marked men who have used their influence to strongly dealt with the opposition and taking abuse of power to the next level.
The question remains if APC can retain 2023 as anything less than that is just the end of APC northern cacus.
The best way is for them to kill each other. Vultures in a human form
missjo: Hello all, as shown in the topic, what I need most in my marriage is trust. My husband does not not trust me, he's extremely suspicious of me. At first, it was flattering seeing him show his insecurities by being protective and wanting to know where I am and who I'm with all the time. But I can take it no more cos of the way he keeps mentioning specific names of men he thinks I'm having something with.
To give you a bit of context, this is a summary of our marriage.
By the time I and my husband met, I was in a relationship with someone else. He didn't mind and we clicked mostly because we were classmates from way back. I instantly fell for him and it was easy for me to fall in love probably because the relationship I was in at the time was on shaky ground, we were always fighting. I found peace with my current husband when he showed genuine interest and we developed our friendship, and that led us to where we are now as a married couple.
Now I'm not stupid, my mind tells me that perhaps at the back of his mind, he feels that if I was able to leave my previous relationship to be with him, then I can do the same to him. This is what I'm thinking, but I also believe there's more to what may be going on in his own mind. Missing his calls always becomes an issue, he has this attitude of calling me on video immediately after I tell him where I am and then he would insist I pan out the camera angle to show him around. He has gone as far as mentioning the name of two coworkers of mine, and makes jokes that insinuate I'm having a secret affair.
I love this man, and I would not cheat on him. He makes me swear and make promises to him all the time and frankly, I'm tired of swearing for someone who just won't get that he's got me and won't lose me. It's gotten to the point that his continuous suspicions of my coworkers have made me start noticing them in ways I shouldn't have. I honestly started watching them more just to understand why my husband would ever assume I can be interested in them.
I want him to trust me, I need his trust, but I have run out of things to do on my own. I was going to suggest couple's therapy to him, but I'm so not ready for one of his long speeches. I just want to do all I can to build the trust and if it don't work, then I can be bold enough to suggest therapy as a last resort.
My dear sister,I can feel your pain. I can as well see what you are going through but then marriage is not a child's play. For my 14 years in marriage I have seen so many things as a man, but I decide not to involve third party to settle any issue I have with my wife. Just resently my beautiful wife told me that she doesn't love me anylonger and I ask her what I must I done wrong and she said nothing just that she doesn't know what is wrong with her. The next thing I did was to go to God and of a truth God answered my prayers today is like we just met yesterday as husband and wife. What am I saying,go to God in prayers and He will build the trust once again. Man can't bring solution to any marriage because it was oreginated by God. May you find peace, love and trust in your once again.
yungpowers: I got this message on Thursday, and the message reads thus.
Dear Applicant, you have been pre-qualified for the NYIF loan programmer, kindly click on this link to apply. https://nyif.nmfb.com.ng/app.
I opened the link and my bvn was requested and I keyed in and my details popped up. Since then I have been careful not to keep money in my bank accounts, I now transact from my e-wallets. Please is this another security breach in my bank accounts?
Did you actually apply for the loan? If so, there's no wahala,at the same time meet your account officer should in case of any transection in your accounts which you didn't sanction.
This the same number called me sometime last year that he mistakingly sent me a credit card of which he wanted to sent to his son in school, and when I checked my box I found out that he sent upto 15 credit card to my phone I immediately forward it back to him no time for nonsense talk. Thereafter he called again and begin to preach how he has been helping people to become rich so on and so forth, and I told him never in his whole life to call or mistakingly send an SMS to my phone number or ex I will trease him to wheresoever he is and reword him in full measure.
BabaIbo: I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.
As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.
Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.
Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.
Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).
My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation? *Go on and start a relationship with her. *Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.
Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.
Note: She has never been married. She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
My brother without hesitation call that relationship to an end because there's nothing you will do that will make her forget the man whom she has two kids for. And focus on your business.
ChukwuObe: Obaseki went to procure fake judgement from one of his justices in Edo hoping that when he is disqualified on Saturday, the APC will have no candidate. What a shame!
• Let every family member know these facts and discuss them openly.
• We have seen an upsurge in the number of people who keep treating "malaria" instead of going for the Covid test. Many such then start using all sorts of steam inhalation and home remedies for their cough and chest congestion. It is not helpful to do this, especially if you are also diabetic, hypertensive or with a number of other health baggages, or above the age of 60. It may be rather late by the time you are breathless and are rushed to the hospital. Most of those dying delayed going to the hospital till very late.
This is not to alarm the people, but rather, to alert us all to what is happening and call on each person to do again what we have done very well before. Eve, life is precious and we implore Nigerians to do whatever is needed to save our people.
The present trend is worrisome and if it continues, it may overrun our capacity before we can ramp up again to catch up. So let us hearken the directives given by the authorities. This will save many lives.
We are collaborating and coordinating with the State Government, FMOH, the PTF, NCDC, Tertiary Institutions and other stakeholders to deepen this public discourse on all that should be done to bring the situation under control as within the shortest time possible.
Remember, let us do the work of staying safe before we pray that God should help us. Prayers alone, without the work, is futile.
Please Stay Safe.
PROF CHRIS BODE Chief Medical Director Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH)
Prof I know that covid-19 is real but if I tell you what we are seeing inside the isolation center you wouldn't believe it, If you're company does not settle the medical doctor that is in charge of the tests some of the workers will be tagged covid-19 positive but if you settle they we be negative.just last week some of my colleagues result was inconclusive.
sholarr12: How would you solve this kind of issue?
This kind of thing has happened to me several times, and the funny thing is that the man will just come and knock at my gate with his knife and cut it down and back to his compund without thanks or sorry.
leadzeal: Religion in general, is a school you should graduate from as soon as you can so has to discover your very own spiritual path ordained for you from the beginning.
Religion can NEVER lead you to God, only spirituality can perceive God; for God is Spirit.
It is only one of the means and never the End. If you see it has the end, you will never understand your being and consequently God.
Glad Adichie is coming to that understanding.
You are correct brother, God is a Spirit and them that worship Him must worship Him in spirit and in truth
ebukajay184: A Nigerian lady from Enugu state, Ella Ada, claims she recently went on 30 days of dry fasting for Hushpuppi, the suspected Nigerian internet fraudster, arrested by Dubai police in June 2020, IgbereTV reports.
Ella shared photos of herself on the mountain, burning a candle as she prayed for Hushpuppi who has been extradited to the US to face charges bordering on internet fraud.
We4all: Don't be surprised to find Bobrisky at heaven's gate on your way to hell. God doesn't look at the physical, and I think Bobrisky has so much to offer other than his physical appearance
why should I not be surprised in fact heaven gate is far away from the person who questioned God why He (God) made him male instead of female.
OLisaMacaulay: Pleas lawyer in the house I need your help, my house rent will expire on April 2021 while my land lady give me three months quit notice to vacate the building.
She wickedly removed the security guard in the building and decided to rent out the security House, All the tenant in the building protested her action but she arrogantly said that it is her house that she can do anything surprisedly today she send quit notice letter to me.
I need legal advice on what to do.
You need not to be worryfor the facts that you have the receipt of the of payments.But then,men should be very very careful renting apartment belonging to a woman at times they can do unthinkable things
Good one brother, it's makes the family more healthy. I remember those days when I see people chewing meat I ask God when is mine own turn but today the rest is the case
Five persons, including a toddler died during a shoot-out between two rival cult groups at Lobia community in Southern Ijaw Local Government Area of Bayelsa State, Reports.
Spokesperson of the State Police Command, SP Asinim Buswat, who confirmed the incident said four cultists were killed during the clash which happened in the ealy hours of Monday, December 28.
It was gathered by News Crew, that the two rampaging cult groups supposedly from Ukubie and Azuzuama communities clashed during the remembrance ceremony of one Chief Genesis at Lobia II community over a conflict that could not be immediately ascertained.
According to community sources, the toddler, said to be the son of one Mr Amos, an indigene of Lobia I, was hit by a stray bullet. Three of the dead persons are from Ukubie and one from Azuzuama communities.
"Two rival cult gang clashed at Lobia community, Southern Ijaw Local Government Area on December 28, 2020 at about 0230 hours," said SP Butswat.
"The unfortunate incident led to the death of four cultists. Their identities are yet to be ascertained at the moment. The corpses have been deposited at the morgue. Investigations have commenced." he added.
God please, destroy this country just as you did to Sodom and gomorrah and recreat her the way want her to be but please don't call her Nigerian again.
envoymedia: Lawyer Considers Leaving His Profession After He Made N10k In A Day As Taxi Driver
A Nigerian lawyer with the Twitter handle @AlamsKabuk has said that he is considering leaving his profession after he made N10,000 in a day from taxi work, IgbereTV reports.
He said the profitability of the business is making him consider leaving his lawyer work to become a proper driver.
Crime › Re: DSS, Army Uncover Arms Store, Shrine In Ebonyi; IPOB Indicted by freetheking: 9:37pm On Feb 13, 2021
