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Drabeey:
Guys, naturally i wouldn't have brought this up here, but it seems i can't think straight any longer.


I need your candid advice my good people.

I am a guy who is set and ready to hit the stop botton of 'single and bachelor's life' ASAP. .... After many break ups and ladies palavas, i have finally gotten this lady that suit my heart desires. I love her without any remorse and reminants.

Just as we are about sealing the fate of our marriage some days ago...... In short, i was even running my mouth about how u can bring heaven down and carry land back up when she suddenly stopped me and broke this news about her genotype and blood group.


I am a guy who can be related to an 'educated illiterate' because i don't think i have ever asked a question relating to this issue for once. Im always concerned with two things.... No HIV, Not SS. Im too stupid to know any other thing.

As fate may have it, she stopped me from making vague promises and knowing what she is before i make the major move. I tell you my online family, this lady is all a man can ask for.

Now that she had opened the truth to me that she is a B- and also CC genotype, im confused.

Naturally, if she had not raised any suspicion on this issue i wouldn't have given any glitch too, but i went as far as making researchs on this rare two 'combo', i am AA and O+ Now i can fry my beans no more.

Now the question is, should i proceed or just stay put..,, nonetheless, the later is not a favorable option because 'im stupidly in love with her'.

My research have given wider knowledge the she might go through a lot of stress while pregnant and probably the child too. Please how true is this, im an 'ibile' guy who don't really believe all this science brouhaha, but shouldn't I ?


Please i crave for matured advice, im in a middle of a life attached decision making, HELP ME!

I also know i've opened a bashing avenue to my nairaland jovial friends, yet kindly use @drabeey for your kind advises. Thanks



Drabeey wrote this....

Deres absolutely nothin to fear AA O+ is the best blood group/ genotype. You can marry anybody..

No cause fr Alarm

There isn't a verse in the bible that specifically says you shld pray unclad or not.. But I think dere is nothing. Wrong with that if you do it alone in your closet

rem44:
Anti-Smuggling Campaign: Rice Smuggler’s Ingenious Ways Exposed!

Officers and men of Ogun Area Command have made 20 seizures between 19th May to 3rd June, 2017.

The seizures include:
-  One Toyota Carina II car with rice concealed in boot, spare tyre, engine compartment, roof and every inconceivable parts of the rickety vehicle.
- One  Renault truck loaded with two hundred (200) bags of 50kg rice concealed with woods and
- One J5 bus with thirty (30) bags of 50kg rice also concealed with woods.

The seizure demonstrate the desperation of smugglers to bring in rice as NCS step up action against rice smugglers


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/06/anti-smuggling-campaign-rice-smugglers.html

OP, this is not new.. Close to a decade ago, I was a smuggler and this is exactly one of the many methods we use in bringing rice and groundnut oil to MILE 2 Lagos

madridguy:
Well, I guess the NPF intentional declared the gallant officer dead for security reasons because from the video so far the officer escaped unhurt.

Anyhow, may the peace of thy Lord be with him.

Correct Brain!!!

kidrossy:
So there's going to be a Season 2 I tot they cancelled it...

No, they did not

Abumtestimony1:
Guys Abeg run away from all these bet scammers.. those winning slips are designed by them...once your money enter their account.., you will realize. They are fake..If you're bent betting.., chose any betting prediction site of your choice. These guys are scammers.. They have scammed many people. Always changing their contacts.. BE WARNED!!!!!!

Of course they are! Any right thinking person will knw that they are scammers abi how will anyone tell me he knw the result of a match that hasn't bn played.. Even dose prediction site only take a guess.

I play nairabet and I choose my games myself only with the help of prediction site sometimes

MiaB:
If all you broke asses want sex in exchange for payment, go to a brothel and pay for it

If all yu broke asses want free shopping.. Ping your parents

Hadez:
Men should learn to hv self respect.hw will you talk about sex jst because u spent some chicken change dt small boys waste in club. Is that how loose your mothers are?

Chicken change?! Really?!! Will you accept the chicken change if yu can afford the chicken change?!

ShawttySoFyne:
Only nigerian guys have this silly mentality that once they spend on one date a gal must spread her legs

Only nigerian ladies have this silly mentality that a guy shld be the one to pay when they both go shopping..

sekem:


You see?

Truth be say sports bettïng eh, e too sweet

You can't even stop once the addiction sets in

Jus see as you bounce back from 30k loss to 130k profit in a matter of days

Now tell me, how many businesses in this world go fit allow you do that kain tin?

That na one of the main reasons why sports bettïng no dey gree pesin leave once you don enta am because of its huge potential earning

Yh, the huge potential earning is what keeps us addicted to it. But the fact is that 150k plus all my winnings since iv started is nothing compared to what iv lost since I started..

sekem:
My own addiction now na sports bettïng

I no believe say the thing go hook me like dis

Chai

You go dey lose eh, buh e go jus be you like say nothing dey happen as per say you no say you just blow the bookïes away one day

Like play like play dat one day don take style dey reach four years but still wetin man pikin go do?

Akin alabi and co eh, una weh done

Una jazz strong pass pericome, I swear

Walai, you just spoke my mind.. I neva tot I am gonna be addicted to nairabet like this.. I started when I was unemployed, now I av a job, I still can't leave it.. Its bn a while I win.. On saturday, I deposited a money(30k) meant fr a project I'm doin into my nairabet account.. Within 5hrs, I lost all. I vowed nt to play again...

Yesterday morning, a thought came to me that " you can win nah, play again".. Well, I listened to the voice and deposited 5k again and I vowed neva to play again if I win or lose. I accumulated 5 matches from japan league to av 2-3 goals. And fortunately I won over 150k..

Now, my point is I remember vowed neva to play again after that yesterday game but this morning, I decided to withdraw 130k and leave the rest in my nairabet account to play with...

I Just dnt knw how to stop this.. I REALLY WANNA STOP!!!

siie:
Foolish airline ..and u think afta this guys go still patronize u?! Con put "we are not proud of the arrest". Rubbish!!

Tah!!! I really do not knw weda yu are just bn ignorant or you are slow..

ddddon:
If celebrities that we are supposed to be looking up to is capable of doing this. Wahala day be that oh

Tah!!! I dnt look up to any celebrity no matter how influential he/she is.. They are all fake.. I better leave my life the way I want it

I won't date her, not because of the tatoos but because she had the guts to open her thighs fr someone else to draw "cartoon" ...

Well, fr me, dat kind of woman will be pretty much closer to infidelity wen we gt married

And someone is asking why I'm still single

When exactly is this kingdom gonna leave the hand?!!

Just curious dou!!

Why d fork wiill you crash my party?! If I want yu dere, yu ll sure get an invite. No Celeb can try this shit with me...

Guess, he knew party jollof rice is always diff

skitkid2:
Vikings not on the same level with GOT.

I have only seen season 1 of Vikings,
doesn't make much sense to me.

Will try and finish the whole seasons, maybe

You can compare Vikings to the last kingdom, not GOT

Watch and finish the two shows befr yu strt comparing

There is something I still havnt understand about love....

Imagine a child saying she misses her mother because she always provides anything she want.. Isn't that conditional love?! Does that mean she wouldn't hav lovd her if she wasn't taking good care of her?!

I just don't understand!!

Abudu2000:
u be wise man?

You bam?

Ishilove:
I hope you realise the internet is not as anonymous as you think?

So unwise of 'em

mamatayour:
Engineer Abubakar Adamu u no try for English language @ all @ all

Buhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!!!! Thought I was the only one that noticed that... Engr; indeed

cristianisraeli:
there you go again someone like me...same category......i think you are the one really disgracing/soiling the image of nigeria not those outside..you are displaying the true character of a typical nigerian,ALWAYS ANGRY AND FRUSTRATED...when someone tells you the truth you tuck your tails and run...my advise to you stop jumping from thread to thread and keep getting into peoples business..stay in nigeria..we all cant travel...someone people need to stay back and build the country(e go better)..keep building while we come back and take over....i hate cyber bullies that hide behind their keypads and rain curses on people

Just free that pidgin2 gal already.... Its not worth the time.. She's a frustrated lady looking for who to take it out on...

ellagabs:
dis guy, u wicked o.... frm him, his galFrnd to his kids?!!!!

Lol.. Thought I was the only one who saw that

SoNature:
OP, the only reason u should take that job of 30k is if it's related to your career path. I would never take it, never!...imagine paying a graduate 30k..so, this is what a degree has been reduced to in Nigeria?

Everyone should be working toward being self-employed...that's key.

You can still afford 1k subscription money, I guess

Such a useless team

nerovito:
Bros I Don laugh tire...asin e dey always b like film trick ni

Honestly, till today, I still can't fathom how those guys took the money and phone from me

I'm only a little above 30yrs old and iv only been scammed once but that once, its a day I will never forget.....


Like one decade ago, I was a student in one polythecnic in ogun state but I also work as a security officer at lafarge ewekoro just to get some extra dou cos I came from an average background.. I worked from 7pm till 7am everyday and attend classes, mostly 8am till 4pm.

Well, fast forward to the end of the first month, it was a lovely morning I woke up to cos I already knew I was gonna be paid that day. I decided not to attend class that day, just to sleep at home till I receive alert.. Lo and behold, at exactly 10am on that tuesday mornin, I got a 21k credit balance in my UBA savings account. After a long thought of what to do with my first salary as a student, I came up with the conclusion of going to sango ota to get few clothes for my self and also get foodstuffs( as I no longer have foodstuff at home)..

With excitement, I ran to the nearest ATM port, withdrew my 21k, stopped a bus and headed straight to sango otta.

Alightin at the last bus stop, I decided to work down to where I was gonna gt foodstuffs first... On my way, I met some guys shouting, looks like they were advertising something... Guy1: how much is it? Guy2: its just 1k naira Guy1removed 1k naira from his pocket and handed it over to the 2nd guy) Oya give me ..Guy2: (hands over a phone to the 1st guy)... All this happened in less than 1minutes, I slowed down to see what they were doing and a guy ran to me and said " we are doing promo and with just 1k, you can even win a blackberry bold 2"... That BB bold2 caught my attention cos only a handful of student in my school use it, so I moved closer to them. The next thing I remember was that I started begging them to at least give me the sim in my nokia touchlite if they won't give me back my money. I was duped in less than 90seconds, I don't knw how but I remember vividly that one man gave me #500 to go back home when I was crying by the road side..

Its a day I will never forget!

TinaAnita:
I can't remember the last time I ate beans. I like it though but the effect of it is what prevents me from eating it every now and then

Its a lie, you don't like beans... 85% of females I have met hate beans, my mum and sisters inclusive... And since you are a lady dere is 95% possibility that yu hate beans

Oga OP, frgt ooo, I hav bn eatin beans in large quantity since 3 decades ago and I neva fr once hav all these your side effects...

I eat beans like my life depends on it......Infact, you will marvel when you see me eat beans

Ohagoda84:
I have been an ardent reader on this platform for a long time now.
I have read how God, through this platform uplifted some members.
I hope and believe that it's my own turn to share a testimony.
I resigned from my banking job as a result of my crave to be my own boss.
The business i started later was booming. Not, until last year october when i travelled to lagos for a church program and there met a US citizen cum Nigerian who develop likeness for me because of my easy-going nature and we also lodged in the same hotel.
He asked me to come over to the States the land of possibilities. Which i foolishly hearkened.

Before i could know it , i have spent all that i have, yet, unsuccessful.

Now, no US, no Capital to continue my business.

Since january this happened, i have being looking for a job but to no avail hence, this channel.

My wife just gave birth and my house rent is waggling before me.

Please, kindly assist a brother:

Qualif: MBF, PGD, HND, ND, etc all in banking and finance.

Skills: Microsoft Excel, Microsoft word, Outlook, inter-personal skills, etc.

Special trait: Writing short stories, poems etc.

Current location: Kano (NB. willing to relocate.)

Age: 32 years old.

Marital status: Married with two kids.

Kindly contact me on :

Email: godwinderichman@gmail.com
Phone: 07064748348 or 07066031078

Thank you very much.

Take a bold step and move out of your comfort zone, your location is what's hindering you from getting a job, I dnt think dere are better jobs in kano for ppl with your experience.

My opinion dou!!

ManU fans were lucky my phone internet was bad during the match...


Such a useless team!!!