₦airaland Forum

med:
. . . discovered that the average Nigerian has a huge sense of humour

Blazay:
I don't advocate moms being single parents for the most parts, where dads are sole bread winners of a home

The lives of BOTH parents should be felt in childrens' lives. Both should play equal parts in relieving each other from the home as a TEAM.

It helps the children bond equally with BOTH parents. Less chances of divorces that way.

A man that is not used to spending time at home can NEVER bond with his children. NEVER.

This makes him a whole lot more prone to living an eemotionally unstable and nomadic lifestyle. . . and the women ever so willing to be 'single' parents by not trusting the men with THEIR own children upon seperation or divorce

tjskii:
this line alone has got to be one of the most demeaning and disrespectful ever written

samtoye:
Its such an irony where most African women would readily downgrade the traditonal marriage values as achaic and oppressive but still want to hold on the the traditional sanctmony of marriage. They have forgotten that under such values their parents lived and thrived together in matrimonial bliss.

Princek12:
[size=13pt]I can just imagine how many Naija girls in Dallas, TX he infected with herpes. It reminds me of another Naija dude in Houston who knowingly infected many Naija girls with HIV, many of whom were married women. The women have probably infected their husbands, too, and the cycle goes on and on.

macjive01:
Sorry if I am bringing on the sour grapes, but why is no one thinking around the paper/ visa angle?

It could b he married u for visa. Forget the fact that he called u a fool when u brought it up most men marrying for visa would never accept it or let the girl in question know about it.

How long are u married now for ?

If he still depends on you for his stay in the country mayb u shd mk the attempt to threaten him with divorce and see his reaction.

U know wat, try going out wit your girls and stay a little longer than usual if he doesn't get jealous ( most Nigeria men are JEALOUS) or keenly wants to know wat transpired over the night then forget It he doesn't give a flying fucck abt u. U cud as well end the relationship.

Those supporting his man, do u think he intends to live the rest of his life this way? I doubt it. I think he is hanging in there a little longer waiting on wat he is waiting for. Forget the kid he/she can't and won't prevent him from leaving the abydee girl wen d time comes.

Sorry but it is wat it is!

Outstrip:
You Nigerian men should keep fooling yourselves. Quite honestly it is disgusting to me that anybody can say it is okay for a woman they respect and adore to have to hand wash clothes all by herself because you feel "it is not a man's job". Hand washing the clothes for the whole family is a whole day affair. I am sure the man still expects his lunch and everything else just like it was a normal day. How can a woman even respect such a man. A man that has a lawn to mow can obviously afford a washing machine so you have it all wrong with your analogy. Also I can bet money on it that a man that thinks his wife alone should sit under the hot sun and wash his dirty clothes all day will have no problem with her also carrying very heavy things while he watches.

vanitty:
Some have memorised & can quote the bible from Genesis to Revelation and still are clueless on what being a christian is really all about. I like to think of them as history student. Common sense should tell you that there is a time for everything and this thread is not for you to show your bible knowledge. [size=13pt]Didn't God say not to pass judgement on anyone?![/size]

Nektar:
.dnt pray for that or anyoda to come your way bcus u re a multi billionaire for just bn healthy.

Bhola:
[size=13pt]What we sow, we will surely reap. For all the kids that did not go to school, because your dad used the money to send you to school in America; for all the parents that could not afford food, because your mother used their salaries to get a tummy tuck; for all the young men that died from joining bad groups because they couldncouldn't a job and have been unemployed for years. For all of these people that all they did was to be unfortunate to be born in Nigeria and your parents caused them agony, may your parents and the next six generations, know agony and may peace never reign in you abode.[/size]

kalahariNG:
I wonder if the answers would be the same if the MIL slapped the wife, I doubt it