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*In posh queen's english* Oh, puhlease! Throughout the history of this big planet's inhabitants, Millions of extremely talented celebrities and geniuses have existed all over the world, China, India, USA, Canada, Australia, Africa, Europe, who have been brought up solely by their mothers after the father became absent for whatever reason; death, debt, separation,etc. And these people have in return being hugely successful in raising their own families and also massively impacted others, being acclaimd in history. Google is your friend to get a name and dates. There are also people whose mothers did a bad job, I agree.

Answer: To have children

As some people will say, any woman who marries just anybody deserves what she gets.

Women, go for rare breed [size=4pt]do special men still exist, [/size] not common ones. Even if another woman snatches/marries this rapi.st husband, all she will get is still a RAPI.ST, nothing more and nothing special.

So, his former wife is not losing anything special (so far he takes care of his kids and the mum minding them).

Some people will come and say, why did she always push/provoke him to r.ape her? Hmmm.

Because they have


1. Brains, we have women in rocket science, science, tech, politics(merkel, thatcher,etc), medicine, business, etc WHEN THEY DECIDE THEY WANT TO USE THEIR BRAINS

2. Womb WHICH MEN WILL NEVER HAVE

3. Succulent flesh mounds called booobs.s that can feed babies with life-food, WHICH MEN WILL NEVER NEVER HAVE AND NEVER NEVER KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO HAVE ORIGINALS   and how it feels to feed a baby

4. Soft beauty[b] WHICH MEN WILL AlWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS NEED[/b]  

5. They can give birth, WHICH MEN WILL NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER  NEVER, NEVER  EVER BE ABLE to do and will never know how it feels carry a human in your body.

Men, you will NEVER KNOW HOW IT FEELS, NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

6. They have more integrity in relationships.

7. They have physical power too although its not too much. e.g. serena williams, sharapova, etc

8. They can act as mother and father at the same time. men do not want to.
9. They have much more self control.

10. They do their tasks and still assist the men even though they are physically weaker. in the olden days, men ALWAYS needed women to work in the farms.

11. They can fight in war, we had female warriors in yoruba land in the olden days.

12. They help bring peace and calm.

. . . and lots more

Don't hate, appreciate and lets work together.  . Men have their own assets too.

if the huge self-confidence drilled into nmen from birth is given to women, the world will be a better place.

apart from that, there is still the issue of sin of the eyes or mind sex. 

according to the bible, all power is in God and satan gats no power so all the demonic power we see is from leaves, animal parts, human blood and parts, all created by God. how much more power will now be in the blood of Jesus.

so if there is ifa magun, xtian magun must to have some effect no matter how small. if God can't use a human, he will use invisble beings to stop the man(na real battle). the wife is the body which contains the powerhouses , the man is the head and the two have solid authority in the covenant.

the man has authority over his wife's body and the wife has the same authority over his body (the new testament legislation ). others bodies are a no-go area but for a believing couple, the rule works.

unity between man and wife is a beautiful, attractive and POWERFUL thing just like unity of the left and right hand to wash each other, the two eyes, the two nostrils, the two legs, the two ears, night and day, sun and moon etc.

so at the end of the day, its better for the man to be wise and behave and save his poor wife from praying and fasting like mad.

this one i heard 70% of ghanian ladies have aids, aids, aids, everywhere in africa. i heard of a popular nigerian man who prayed and said the day he cheats on his wife, he should die, i was touched.

o ga sha, happy marriage aint easy but is so worth it. [size=3pt] i hope some men are not scared to marry with all these binding  o  [/size]

ronkebp:
@ poster, there are so many marraiges that God has not joined together, some people are enjoying their union irrespective of what they are going through only because God is the foundation of such relationships. I would rather the couples looked inward to see what joined them together, is it God or money, sex, friends, family, physical looks, unnecessary attraction. and so on. And what God has not joined together, ''trust me'' when i say, so many things would put asunder, unless they run to HIM.
"what God has joind togeda let no man/creature/thing . . ."

THAT IS THE KEY WORD AND THE KEY 'INCANTATION' TO ENGAGE GOD, ANGELS AND THE ELEMENTS OF THE UNIVERSE IN FIGHTING FOR ANY HUSBAND. lol


The kindgom of husband suffereth violence and the violent wife taketh it BY FORCE . [size=4pt]this signifies my latest thinking cap.[/size]

for desperate xtian wives(Oluwa ojo maje ki temi ba mi ooooooo), do xtian magun for your husband. use your wedding ring and the word of God which is your incantation and bind every mistress. Loose the organ and sanctify it from contamination for your sole use

Say,  its either the mistress repents or God deals with her or with the husband(make he no die or sick o ). Na mfm style warfare. it must to work except God (His word) is dead.

for the ones who slept with married men when they were single, well, 

but really its better for a man to make up his mind to be faithful with his wife's active co-op or else the woman go faint while praying cos how many mistresses she wan bind?

You don't have to have a business to be entrepreneurial.

Even when working, you can make the company your own (well sha, dis one difficult for naija   or rather might not be worth it).

your job title becomes your business name and the more you stretch yourself for your employer, the more potential you earn for yourself and your future biz.

it will work if the company NEEDS, encourages and appreciates constant innovation. from there you earn extra for innovating and still have a job.

i believe even a cleaner can invent something based on his or her cleaning experience as change is ever constant.

May all hardworking mothers (infact all hardworking parents) reap the fruits of their labour.

op, why not focus on your own life and let others do whatever they want. abi you are interested in joining them?

regards homos, its their choice so far they don not affect me or my family. e.g. no advert or media image of man-lover people kissing where kids will see them.

even man and woman intimate images, i am not in support. all these music videos that destroy young people's minds and the musicians think they will use their income to train their own 'special' kids.

all these Same-sex marriage issues are distractions by our super-smart politicans. whetehr its legal or not, people will never accept it.

IN A COUNTRY WHERE WOMEN, CHILDREN AND POOR PEOPLE HAVE LITTLE RIGHTS, WHY JUMP THE QUEUE FOR HOMOS?

and africans live inclusive lives so most gay.s will remain discreet for a long time except they wan use am escape from nigeria.

if you are sure its wrong, then do your own right thing and focus on and reap the benefits of doing right. you can't force other adults to live to your own standards.

homosexuals may be suffering from hormonal imbalances, hermaphroditism(due to diff spiritual and medical causes), after-effects of por.n at strategic periods of their lives, lack of well-rounded, well-balanced and well-adjusted upbringing, ETC.

there are more serious evils to worry about in nigeria like BURYING PEOPLE WITH DEAD KINGS, RITUAL KILLING BY POLTICIANS, RITUAL ACCIDENTS BY POLITICIANS, selling of human organs,

note pls i do NOT support homosexualism and WILL NEVER EVER do but i believe people should not be maimed or killed for personal bedroom stunts when politicians who are crushing and bulldozing millions of destinies are allowed to plough on.

[size=15pt]Freecocoa, Freecocoa, Freecocoa don't need to join any church to know God.


if everyone in the world decides to turn their back on God, won't you rather have a church in YOUR HOUSE?? remember NOAH.

Tell God, God you know I don't wanna add to my probs by joining a fake church so please direct me. Until I hear from you, I am staying in my house.

GOD WILL ANSWER, I AM 10000000000% SURE. IT TAKES PAINFUL  AND PLENTY PLENTY PRAYERS BUT HE WILL ANSWER. GBA BE.

now, i don't know about JWs but what i know is that it is good for you to take donated blood. nothing we eat or take in is clean but ONLY the blood of Jesus sanctifies. God said we will eat poison but not die. so if you need to take donated blood, take it and sanctify yourself.


E.G. inorganic food causes cancer yet i eat it everyday and pray for mercy. can't afford organic.


also the bible clearly says GOD the father GOD the son GOD the holy ghost. ALL THREE ARE GOD.

GOOGLE THE VERSE.


the word of God was not there in the beginning. KING JAMES OF ENGLQAND COMMISSIONED PEOPLE TO WRITE it yet it is referred to as GOD.



remember, GOD IS THE BEGINNING, THE MIDDLE AND THE END.

so shine your eyes AND WASTE NOT YOUR DESTINY IN A fake church.   Not saying JW is fake oh.[/size]

Ileke-IdI:
Who in his or her right mind would drop an international citizenship for Nigeria?

I dont think so.

Someone who is guaranteed of getting 2billion naira in 2 years with just a few flimsy trials to endure after.

Who fit make that amount abroad in that short time?

besides if war come, cameroun, senegal, ghana dey there. even south africa dey look for rich immigrants.

dem fit renounce the int. citizrnship, get the money for naija and then get another int. citizenship.

1. Low self-esteem, this is the reason why some people who seem to have it all commit suicide.

2. Absence of hope.

3. Wasting your ability

Some disabled people love themseleves JUST THE WAY THEY ARE and they have chosen to be happy. They want to be abled but even while they are waiting for the operation or miracle, they have CHOSEN to be satisfied, positive and happy. Because they know their eternal self esteem and have hope.

Whereas some abled people are still waiting for when they will buy a car before they are happy. Whereas not having a car is not stopping them from being happy but from being comfortable and mobile, they can still choose to be happy regardless of being car-less.

I agree with someone here.  DON'T DERIVE YOUR HAPPINESS FROM OTHERS DISABILITY OR SADNESS. derive it from the good thing that has happened to you not from the bad thing that has happened to others.

ecclesiastes says life is about SEASON(TIME) AND CHANCE, so the same lottery that made you abled is the same lottery that made the disabled, disabled. . . in most cases

in a developed country, even a disabled person has lots of hope. in the  eyes of the Creator, all humans have equal potential.

Nonsense. These people are super-smart and super-corrupt , A LETHAL COMBINATION

Our main problem is light but the PHCN ogas have swallowed too much bribes to let there be light.

If there was light, whther the govt is working or not, the economy will WORK.

These people are always distracting us.

when a corrupt person leaves, they will do one flimsy trial for him, humiliate hima bit, satisfy the eyes of the illiterate masses and then after the person emerges to enjoy his loot forver more afterall he can't be tried again,

even if that wants to happen, ordinary people will cry, ha ha.

Education+exposure is freedom mehn.

Congrats D'Banj. Too much jealousy here it can injure, haba!!!

Ideally, he should give back to his community but if he doesn't then . . .

The worst is that people will not buy his CD or go to his concert or even buy any product or service he endorses.

The Jews have gotten over the holocaust and I think people should stop talking about slavery. Every continent has a dark historical moment but most have moved on.

If anybody calls me a slave, I would just look at the person like he or she is mad, seriously. Cos slavery ended long ago.

One question I ask is why should present living Africans fel guilty for slavery WHEN THEY DIDN'T ENSLAVE THEMSELVES. The whites packed them like sardines in a tin in the ship and starved them through the whole journey. When anyone died, they were thrown into the ocean. And when they got to wherever,they were fed minimally and used like animals. I have been to at least two slave museums in Lagos.

Even if my forefathers sold those slaves, was that also part of the contract? What were the terms and conditions? They didn't. They were outmanouerverd and manipulated with guns, singlets, silver bling bling, etc.

So why should I FEEL BAD for what I didn't do when I still have my own sins to brood over?


Abegii, the REAL PEOPLE who should f3eel bad including thier current generations have used style to shift the blame whereas THEY ENTERED THE SHIP WITH ONLY ONE AIM IN MIND: TO ENSLAVE.

Why did I type all these stories? EXTREMELY LOW Self -esteem/self confidence IS STOPPING SO MANY AFRICANS from focusing and achieving something.

Even some of our leaders have it thats why they steal so much money to compensate.

Akiika:
Ok guys, every human has the tendency to be corrupt if nobody is watching or there are no consequences for it. The disrespect for the rule of law is the issue. If the law is enforced to stupor, then people will refrain from sharp practices. That's why we need to get it from the top, if the legislative arm can promulgate good anti-corruption laws, the executive are commited to enforcing it and the judiciary is unbiased, then problem is solved. Let there be capital punishment for corrupt public officials and the society will adjust itself. There are more terrible humans here in the western world, but they are careful of what they do because they understand the law is not a respecter of anybody. When public officers are made to resign for alleged infidelity in the western world, our legislooters are been supplied with glorified LovePeddlers in Abuja constantly.

Thank you. Westerners are even more corrupt but they are mindful of THE LAW. Nobody is really civilised, it just has to do with the absence and presence of laws.

Iolo:
Our ancestors were definitely corrupt and greedy. Without both there wuda bin no slavery in the first place. Cause everybody would have stOod their ground and said No.

The white's were not taking our people by force, slaves were sold for foreign goods.

Please I beg to diasgree. This point of view is destroying many Africans' self esteem and it is even not true in the firts place. Okay, not 100% true.

Can a foetus negotiate with Donald Trump?

Can an African baby sign any contract with Bill Gates, for example without being taken advantage of?

The white man can also be wrong, he is not always right. Infact, I think there is something abt us . . .(cos we are always under attack) nau

Anyway as i was saying the white man CAME ALL THE WAY FROM ABROADI LOOKING FOR WHOM TO enslave.

We didn't go there.

We had our own govt, hierarchy, arts, SOCIETY already. They even took record of our names.

There IS ABSOLUTELY NO WAY WE WOULD HAVE NOT BEEN CHEATED cos they were more enlightened.

Again, a foetus cannot negotiate with Donald Trump.

A village girl from Ijebu or Aba cannot negotiate with Naomi Campbell and not be cheated.

We have less than 10% of the fault.

swagdude:
IT IS QUITE SAD THAT A WOMAN CAN SAY THESE THINGS! I AM IMAGINING IF YOU HAVE ANY FEELINGS @ ALL? I AM ALSO TRYING TO WONDER IF YOU EVEN RESPECT ANYONE AT ALL! I ALSO CANNOT PUT THOUGHTS TOGETHER AS TO WHETHER YOU RESPECT YOUR OWN PARENTS @ ALL!!! WHAT THE HECK? ARE YOU SERIOUS? THE SAME WOMAN WHO BORE YOUR SO CALLED HONEY-ROASTED-HUSBAND? OMG!!! WHAT IS THIS LIFE TURNING INTO? I AM DAMN SURE THAT IF IT IS YOUR OWN MOTHER,YOU WON'T WANT YOUR HUBBY TO CHASE HER AWAY (THAT IS IF YOU EVEN RESPECT YOUR OWN MOTHER AT ALL) . . . TONIA,YOU ARE VERY SILLY OOOO! I JUST CAN'T BELIEVE I READ THIS!!! THAT SHE DOESN'T DO ANYTHING FOR YOU! IS SHE YOUR HOUSE HELP? ARE YOU FOR REAL? THIS IS WHAT THESE RUBBISH "WIFY-SWAG"CAUSES!!!! . . . .TONIA,IF YOU WANT TO LIVE LONG,HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER/ELDERS!!!! YOU HAVE NO IOTA OF HONOR!!!! NONSENSE! YOU BETA THINK TWICE!!! OYIONSHI!!!

You are talking like a man. Probably this woman has to WORK, TAKE CARE of herself, her husband, the baby, the house and then the mother-in-law and the visiting people. Probably the husband will not help out. Do you want to kill her? She probably has no house-help and her kids are still babies.

The man should be the one to tell his mother to help out, at most with the baby, that's not too much. Or the man should tell her to leave diplomatically and ASAP.

If it was her mother, am sure her own mother will lighten her load. please put yourself in the position of a woman for once, you won't turn to one, don't worry

God is your strength and your legs. Amen.

I know people are praying for her to walk and I did that the instant I saw her but what if she doesn't? How should that stop her from achieving what she wants to do?

When life hands you lemon, make lemonade not ask for apples. God answers fast fast but sometimes He can be 'slow'. And not everyone believes in healing or has the emotional stamina for faith.

As a society, what we should do is make life fairly comfortable for everyone, tall, short, blind, lame , deaf, dumb, diseased, anyone not just close our eyes and be wishing it will change.

We should contribute to anything that has to do with disabled or 'peculiar' (i hate the disabled word) people in nija and africa.

They go through hell phase one, sometimes in certain cases one starts wishing their parents never had sex talkless of giving birth to them. And alot of Africans think maybe if you are disabled, your parents or your grands must have sinned. And people also think that they have evil spirits. Whereas 99% are medical conditions.


We need to consciously accept and embrace anything that has to do with disability.


P.S. I believe in spiritual healing

[size=18pt]May God help all of una.[/size]



OP, first are you OK? Seriously, are you OK??

99.99% of African men (and maybe other beings) get married for the sake of unexisting/existing foetuses and children ONLY not for any woman.

Is that what you want?

African marriage is all about WOMEN SACRIFICING for their children. Nothing more.

If you want unconditional love, your parents are siblings are there, nobody can love you more.

If you want to avoid societal stigma then have you asked yourself whether that STIGMA is intelligent?

As in why would any SANE being insult a woman who is not married when it is not her fault, she did not do abortion, she wasn't wayward, etc. WHY?? OP never said she did any wrong. What if she now did wrong? So she should go and commit suicide?


LET ME TELL YOU, THE NIGERIAN WOMEN THAT LOOK DOWN ON SINGLE WOMEN ARE MISERABLE.

They have suffered, are in a traumatic state (africans don't believe in therapy, only Endurance 101) and ARE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO JOIN THEM.

Misery loves company.

Married women envy singles but will never admit it till the end of planet earth.

The acheivements they want for thier own children, the OP has it already but nobody will pat her for that.

They will only destroy her verbally,. .  why, . . .  because no selfish human being wants someone to be better than them, either it's from God or it's by hardwork.

Most married people thought they would find FREEDOM AND HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE,

everyone is seeking for this, but it is not in marriage, kids, RETIREMENT, etc but in God.

You won't find out until you are married and by then its too late, the responsibilities keep increasing till you are old and then there is no more strength left.

[size=20pt]Everyone is on a journey they never arrive but in God. [/size]



[size=20pt]Maximise your single life, don't waste it on some unknown/unseen man you are yet to marry.[/size]


Why do you want to have a child? For companionship, immortalization and to contribute valuable somebodies to humanity,abi

You are already precious and valuable (in the eyes of God where it MATTERS MOST) WITH OR WITHOUT A CHILD.

If your "enemy" dies single, will she have lived a wasted UNHAPPY,waiting-for-a-man life?

You want to have a child that will fulfill destiny, have you REALLY fulfilled destiny? You have a career, are you doing well there or are just managing?Are you not someone's child? Did someone not sacrifice for you?

Why do want a child, I repeat?

HAVING CHILDREN IS CONCENTRATED RESPONSIBILITY, YOU KEEP GIVING AND SACRIFICING TILL YOU DIE EVEN IN RETIREMENT. Have your strategy and prepare for that.

All children are God's gifts. People's kids are  basic but precious human beings. You could adopt, Jesus was adopted, Esther was adopted.

You are in the UK, think intelligently, don't waste the UK angle.

Not everybody ahs the opportunity of thinking intelligently or living in an intelligent society.

Life is NOT ALL ABOUT A MAN or getting one.

Anybody who crucifies you for this knowing it is not your fault(as you said) is not intelligent. Pity them. It is like blaming an old man for dementia.

They are living an African illusion that children are everything.



They are NOT.


THEY LIVE FOR THE SAVOURS OF THE FUTURE WITHOUT SAVOURING THE PRESENT.


P.S. There are also spiritual solutions to these: fasting, prayer and positioning, pursue these, don't know if you are spiritual though.

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Hahaha, people blaming the US as usual, not unexpected!
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So, for you guys having us to believe that the US must be responsible, what do you think the US stand to gain from a fall in Naira?

[size=15pt]OIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/size]

THE US IS BROKE, THE UK IS BROKE, EUROPE IS BROKE. WHERE ARE ALL THE PATRIOTIC AND INTELLIGENT PEOPLE IN NIGERIA? orun yabo ki n ma se oro eyin kan

clemcykul:
they are hilarious, an average nigerian is a comedian.

AS IN!



@topic, The films are hilarious, 'Emi Nire Kan' is an example.

I saw some film posters recently, 'Tea and Coffee', 'Omo olomo larin ero', 'Hot Potato'. Mehn.

Yoruba films are good, sha, REALLY, REALLY GOOD. Too many moral lessons to gain. I watched 'Mawole' recently and I realised that the days of Nigerian films reducing IQ are long gone.

If I had dough to spare, I would gladly donate to the industry cos they are trying, both Yoruba and English.

It's a pity the marketers control everything including quality.

I do think most like 99.90% will cheat, WHETHER black, white or mixed.

It has to do with societal values. Even in the developed world, people see a cheating man as a stud talkless of the developing world.

A cheating woman is seen as a disgrace.

But as a sexually active person, it's just natural to want VARIETY. I can imagine sleeping with the same person from age 30 to age 80. Damn! One has to step into the shoes of the man sometimes so that one can get a customised solution to the problem.

Even recent UK research has shown that when a woman is well-heeled, she is almost as much likely to cheat as the man.

Back to Nigeria, brides are told that "its a woman who makes the home" that means she has to endure whatever happens. I have seen soft, do-goody men saying that too.

A lot of women actually expect the men to cheat. Awon mama pensioners will even tell you, "Omo e ni ko dimu" meaning "just focus on your kids".

I have seen two girlfirends and one wife (as in, I heard them myself) saying they were ready for that aspect, so far the man comes back to them and the home remains 'intact'.

Infact, one of the girlfriends knew her man was cheating on her. She knew. But she also knew he was going to marry her at last and that was what mattered to her.

What I will just say is that wives should do A LOT OF REBRANDING SO AS TO KEEP THE FIRE OF PASSION BURNING(Why I say this is cos a lot of men find their wives less attractive after witnessing childbirth, etc. According to polls, oh, no be me. They mentally place their woman in 'MOTHER' category instead of 'HOT' 'FLAMING' ''CHIC'.).



And sincere husbands should CRY OUT AND ASK FOR THEIR WIVES' HELP TO STAY FAITHFUL. Afterall, two have become one.

They are just attacking the bankers sha. Why? I know the banks have their weaknesses. But why are they trying to give the financial heart of the South a stroke? Why?

All these people, Sanusi, Alhaji Umaru Abdul Mutallab, Blair and co that want to islamize Nigeria, May God judge you.

BIGER BOY:
i smell something fishy about all this.

1 check the statement in red; muslim oil rich country (Muslims as an excuse for invasion, and oil rich as the shrouded goal) this goes to all the silly ethnic, jundiced bigots, do u think they see Nigeria as north and south, no. just a massive oil field inhabited by undeserving morons.

2 does any one feel that the bombings in nigeria are becoming to sophisticated to be just boko guys perpetuating it. not even those in maiduguri know who this guys really are, just thinking

SCARY!!!

They even said Nigeria is made up of MOSTLY muslims? Omo mehn . . .

Unicef says, A MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE.

And I say, parents' sacrifices, personal efforts, teachers' slogging and friends 'n' relatives chipping in; TORI OMO NI, for all that to waste is horrific.

So working-class all the way. But there may be situations that may warrant the man or his wife staying at home or working at home for certain amount of time.

What happens if one has only girl children and one stayed at home for them?

queensmith:
Absolute ignorance in its entity- the woman os obviously a biggoted and that's one of the reasons africa is where it is today, what's your business with what people do in the privacy of their homes or hoe they live their lives? Bloody morons, how about you concentrate on takong a competant team around the world to represent the country? Is that not what they stupidly pay your sorry Bottom for? Kmt

True.

I belive sexuality is a personal choice not a societal choice.

As a xtian, I believe lesbi.ans/gay.s will go to hell but that doesn't mean I should force or expect other people to live by what I believe.

Show love not hate. Hate is not the answer.

Whatever stand is right, its the balanced one. Its good to teach kids as early as possible about "blood, sweat and tears" but I will prefer it to be done the Tiger Woods, Williams sisters, Roger Federer, etc way. The focus should be on achievement, passion, talent instead of accumulating dollars,pounds or naira.

At the same time, kids should be taught independence(including financial empowerment) as early as possible as in you start when they are innocent, enthusiastic, and still "empty-headed".

Why I said all this should be balanced is that most abroad kids have no compassion or mercy on their parents when the latter grow old. I have seen a few personal and random examples and I have heard of lots.

Because they are thinking, " I made myself". "What did they really do for me?" "I made my own money by myself" and similar thoughts.

This is contrasting with most Nigerian kids who are always dreaming, "I will buy Bugatti for my father. I will give my mother Bottega ", and the whole shebang.

So the cocktail of targets should be constant talent-stretching, a large dollop of earning livelihood through this or some other work and  bits of dependence and interdependence till they are on their two feet.

There is nothing that is special about being a woman that is not special about being a man. Men have more physical power. We have . . . (*you understand) power.

Also, we can incubate an embryo and breastfeed a baby which they can't do and that means 2 ge 2. So its all equal. Everyone is special.

Na wa for the make-up sha. Must they all put plenty of black stuff on thier faces. Why can't they use transparent or brown eyeliner, eyebrower(lol!), etc.

And too much red lipstick. What colour are they looking for again, they have enough colour in their skin, biko lipgloss or brownish lipstick will have been better. The aesthetic effects they have achieved will have been unbelievable and natural. An ywayz sha, Miss Ondo rules.

And why do you want to know? Are you working for immigration?

tiwantiwa:
@freshera
just know if it is God's will , then he/she will never change to a gay or whatever , He is not a God of error or mistakes, He knows the end from the begining . , Getting God's will is actually not a straight forward thing , there are blurry and thin lines in-between . it worked for me , being married for 6 years and its real bliss !

6 years is too short to judge (thats not to say I wish you evil, rather I wish you God's best).

But since God knew Adam and Eve were going to sin, why didn't He stop them?


What about Judas? or Anainias and Saphiras? Afterall He loves everyone.