₦airaland Forum

mazeltov:
Olisah Methu agian? You still dey talk? Make Lai catch you there. Back to the topic.
Scoffs- Honestly karma is truly a bitchy bitch. Aunty Karma is playing ludo game on Pdp. The party had once used the same judicial wing to supress the rise of other political parties in our country before. When they were in power, they had every opportunity to correct this judiacial anomaly and to equate every injustice rather, they chose to use it as a political weapons to clip the wings of other party. Obasanjo understood what I'm saying very well because he is architect of this set up and he enjoyed it very well, He was the one that assembled Efcc as his political bull dog to bully his political opponent either in party or individuals, now the chain of the same bull dog has been given to Apc.
Please tell Pdp should sit back-grab popcorn and enjoy cus this is an Indian movie produced by Pdp and it is their turn to watch it. winksss, the film loooong oooo

That's why we all voted CHANGE.

Oh... Change mantra might be from BAD to WORST

I thought the electoral act stipulate that a candidate must win an Election with simple majority never thought of it that politicians can also get into position of authority using judicial system to subvert the choice of the people.

If that's the case, politicians after intra party activities should angle for loopholes of their opponents and drag them through Judicial process instead of using the electoral system to disturb the people with elections which the outcome is likely not going to represent the wishes of the people.

It seems this government change mantra is a vendetta change instead of reforms.

Some men are so unfortunate marrying _hores.

freecocoa:
Dude Buzz off, stop mentioning me, I couldn't care less about you or whatever concerns you.

Abasi Mbok!

Dude?

Kachisbarbie:
Yes, I am imperfect. I can't remember saying the males around me are perfect either, I learnt to focus on their perfection. This topic isn't all encompassing, it's centred on a particular ideology some people (mostly males) believe in. "It's only on NL I see them in QUANTUM" _ meaning, they are everywhere...but somehow, majority are here.


It won't be far fetched to call them aliens. When a being behaves/reasons in a way that's strange to normal human beings_ it's safe to call that person an alien.
Please, be reminded that there are males I respect on this forum, they don't fall into this category.


What's deceive? Is it nuclear physics for a man to help his wife with chores where you come from?
'but if I told them my husband bludgeons me everyday, it won't be deceiving ba?



Amen. God that brought us all this far, would most definitely see us through.
There is no provision for divorce in my marriage, just love and more love.

No hard feelings dears.

There's few or no section of Nairaland "gender supremacy" is fiercely contested expect on family section or "maybe" romance section.

Let suppose these 2 are where grown men and mature women desirous of family life congregate to share views on marital relationship in order to make the society a better place.

In view of my explanation it's assume you based your statistics on the male population of the highlighted sections of Nairaland. In your reaction you pinpoint that these male nairaland members (Quantum) represents what you aren't familiar with probably in overview of life. You went on to "Canonized" all male members of your family including your extended members. That's where my problems lies.

My argument is that some of these male nairaland members having different views of your opinion might have Wives here praising their husbands too. Telling us your male acquaintances is better than the guys here is unbelievable.

Men of this generation cooks. I mean the educated ones. No biggie.

Sorry for typo errors, uncoordinated contexts, grammatical blunders and malapropism. I just stressed and fatigued.

freecocoa:
Yea right.

Freecocoa my lovely daughter kedu? You see, you could be the age of my second daughter.

Kachisbarbie:
See this one... men like that plenty. If my husband were a book, I would print/photocopy and sell to your lot, he would definitely be an International Best Seller ...

Imperfect me, loved and pampered perfectly. It's grace dear

You accept to be imperfect. Fortunately for you every male around you is near perfect. From your husband to your brothers, male friends, husband male relatives but only on nairaland that you'd seen weird males with distorted view of life.

My question to you is "who actually are those suppose males on nairaland" ? Aliens, No?

Please stop deceiving young ladies here with fallacy of emotion.

Kachisbarbie:
It isn't easy at all


By God's grace, the only place I see such st*pid and medieval men in quantum is on NL. I ain't surrounded by them in reality...
My husband, father, brother and male friends are very-very different. There are days I hang my leg up like a barbie(that I am), while my Cuddle-boo does the work. ... he's a sweeeeet husband. No be juju at all, it's love and understanding.
#BlessHeavens.

Believe this, do this and sign the divorce papers except you aren't in Africa @ladies

Course Rep stroll in.

Good morning class. Handout for this course is available for purchase from the lecturer,kindly avail yourself the opportunity cos limited copies available.

Prof. SYPDER sure will be my project supervisor.

Fake story from the pit of hell.

Husband was in the office, side chic called.

Husband had an accident on his way to Port-Harcourt, that again was the day of his wedding.

Husband begged side chic for money. Is it for his wedding, hospital bill or car repair?

Op, receive sense IJN amen.

bellong:
Is there anything to contribute to her quest?

The opening sentence is a give away of a deep underlying problems between them "hubby has been acting funny of late".. Meaning, he wasn't like that prior to acting funny of late.

I do not encourage divorce as the first point of call in a marital crisis. Yes, she could be distraught at her finding but it doesn't give her the right to bring the case to a court of public opinion without letting the accused know his offence. In law, her case would be thrown out for not following due process. I could wager my pension that she can't win this case if she goes straight to divorce proceedings. The presiding judge will ask efforts they have made at resolution before arriving at divorce.

She needs to discuss with her husband. Her subsequent post shows that the husband is not totally irresponsible except for this new found hobby in drilling different artesian wells..

God bless you. Freecocoa come and see fact.

freecocoa:
What else is new? You can now go live happily ever after with your husband and leave me to my frustration/singleness.

Next time choose your fight.

You want to devour me because I sounded logical rather than being sentimental.

Let her approach the court.

The marriage must be 2 years before she approaches the court.

The learn jurist will give her another two years to work on the marriage.

Then another 6 months to sort the marriage before divorce can be entertained because

1. No witness.
2. No concrete evidence.

Unless the husband Plead guilty and enter plea bargain.

freecocoa:
Please I don't have time for rubbish, quote me whenever you intend to make sense, thank you.

I regret quoting a frustrated single lady who doesn't know what it feels to be married and stay married.

Smh for a single lady asking a married woman to divorce and join her in the nairaland single club.

freecocoa:
I don't need to consider who's behind the moniker because these things happen everyday, if you don't know that, I do.

You know for some weird reason,I actually thought for a second, the other post or yours was some kind of joke and now I wonder why.

So seeing series of flirtatious sms where conversations of how much was given to the other ladies and refusing to sleep with his wife, is not enough proof? Are you really being serious? How many people who knew their partners were /is cheating, caught them in the act? I am sorry but I find this line of thought seriously insane.

You can't tell someone what to do in a situation like this, divorce might be the best option for her as decided by her, you don't know the deal between her and her man.

You are insanely clever by half. It's people like you that get married in the worst condition but will pretend on nairaland that your hubby is the best since Christ yet will advise other women to divorce on the silliest excuse.

Not making light of the situation, the choice is her to make. Either to investigate or divorce what's my own. Being gender protective is not desirable in this sensitive issue.

freecocoa:
I see.

Making unsubstantiated claims is rather just irrational. She should have conclusive evidence before approaching hubby.

Nursing Murderous tendencies and divorce in a short time over unconfirmed allegations can be summed to be a predetermined decision to bail out of her matrimonial responsibilities.

Divorce should be the very last option she could nurse in a matrimonial conflict resolution except she want to prove a point to nairaland ladies that she walks the talk. Have you even consider if it's a male behind the moniker trying to stir and Guage the waters on females perspectives?

freecocoa:
Please answer me this one thing if you will, does this woman not have a right to feel the way she's feeling?

Not until she had caught him red handed in the 'act' , text messages and other leads are inconsequential except she has decided to enact her nairaland orientation of gender struggle and emancipation.

Bungalow bookmarked for future endeavor but with modification on interior setting.

The dullardiho thinks he has 8 years but Nigerians will correct this 'western mistake' or do I say imposition in less than 4 year time.

If Biafra could wage war with the Nigerian army for 3years +, 40 years ago using cutlass, Dane guns and locally fabricated detonating device I wonder what will happen now that the average igbo man of fighting age can conveniently purchase AK 47 rifle.

Welcome home Democrat.

You govern Nigeria like a typical USA president. The Duara dullardiho is ruling Nigeria like the Ayotalla in IRAN

clevadani:
As someone who was born and brought up in the Niger Delta, I am inclined to ask Igbos on nairaland this question. This is because anytime the issues of Biafra are mentioned by Igbos on nairaland, they tend to include the south south. It is clear to a rational mind that Igbos will gain so much from the ss like land,oil,access to sea etc. But I have been trying to think about what the ss will benefit from the Igbos if seccession occurs.

NOTHING.

Rather you will have lot to benefit.

1. 80 % of the oil revenue gotten from the south South is shared by the northerners and the West. With Biafra, South South will have so much money even the graduates will not need to work.

2. Have you noticed that the oil wealth is controlled by the northerners? With Biafran, South South will control their oil blocks.

3. Biafra will run a subsidized email economy your children will not need to pay tuition fees until the graduate, work and then repay for their education.

4. Have you noticed our people go to law school to become lawyers while the northerners did same to become justices? That's why they churn out judgments that stupidify court processes.

5. The igbos borders the south South in all angles. Have you heard of any communal disturbances to indicate that the are hostile people? I suppose the south South marries a lot from the igbos and both zone shares religious and related cultural believes.

6. Capacity building and development will be encouraged and meritocracy will be encouraged for faster development rather than quota system.

7. Peace as there will be no religious killing, insurgency or cattle rustling. Any attack on Biafra will be treated diplomatically or warfare.

Need more?

A Bag of gworo, Alabo Tonye Graham Douglas is a sadist and a tribalized man. He tried the unruly behavior with Odili, Amaechi and now Wike. The fact is his time is past therefore he can keep convening dissident voices in his GRA home it will never translate to any political value.

WIKE has done enough to pacify his over bloated political ego yet he feels every political opportunity calls for further massaging of his egocentric ethnic ego.

My guess might be misplaced but that's the only voice of dissident in this present political firmament engineered by the political bulldozer of Rivers politics called Wike, the tamer of the claw less Lioness of Ubima.

A Bag of gworo, Alabo Tonye Graham Douglas is a sadist and a tribalized man. He tried the unruly behavior with Odili, Amaechi and now Wike. The fact is his time is past therefore he can keep convening dissident voices in his GRA home it will never translate to any political value.

WIKE has done enough to pacify his over bloated political ego yet he feels every political opportunity calls for further massaging of his eccentric ethnic ego.

My guess might be misplaced but that's the only voice of dissident in this present political firmament engineered by the political bulldozer of Rivers politics called Wike, the tamer of the claw less Lioness of Ubima.

The only way the authority can catch them is by bait. Kidnap Bubu and enthroned Jonathan and see them coming out from their hiding to demand for their own.

Please don't allow any 8 cylinder engine overtake you. Car is car regardless of manufacturers, engine size, color or build.

She and I, I wonder who is prettier?

OrlandoOwoh:
There is a cinema in Okija Street, the road beside it has a concentration of northerners.

Okija street from emenike towards emekuku in D-line with adjoining streets like umuoji street, anyama street have the largest population of Igbo traders. Gambia street is the only place you find the hausa population which is broken down with the population of igbo traders in ikoku and it's environs.

Gambia is a short street with clustered shanty settlement for the hausa. There population is never a threat there.

But in old Port-Harcourt town, they own mosques, close all the major roads around town for their prayers and that's their berthing place for their agricultural produce.

The ministerial nominee from Abia state investment.

The man thrilled the senators today with brilliance and eloquent oratory

It's no news that Dangote has bought the Port Harcourt Port Authority for his cement business and all the Port Harcourt waterfront and shoreline connecting to the Port while Atiku controls the Federal Ocean terminal at Onne yet puppets like Barcanista sees Ndigbo as enemy.

Following the judgment of the Rivers State Governorship Election Petitions Tribunal that nullified the election of Governor Wike of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), revelations have surfaced about a grand plot to build Nigeria’s biggest mosque in State’s capital city of Port Harcourt.

According to sources, the plan, which dates back to 2012, is to repossess a large portion of old Port Harcourt Township from the popular Aggrey Road, through Victoria to Bonny Streets and unto Creek Road and convert it to a new development to be called Great Dawatul City.

The developers of the project, which will have Nigeria’s largest Mosque, 6,000 units of 3 and 5 bedroom residential duplexes and world class business arcades as its star attractions intend to use it as a global model to showcase and redefine Islam as a progressive religion in cosmopolitan cities around the world.


NNPC Refinery inPort Harcourt
Funding for the project it was said, had been secured by a billionaire mogul and industrialist who himself had negotiated some years ago to purchase the entire shoreline from the Creek Road axis which he has earmarked for world class luxury apartments and Africa’s first 7 Star hotel.

Possession of the shoreline was hindered by the Goodluck Jonathan administration’s refusal to give its nod following agitations by local inhabitants of the area claiming forced eviction. The new plan, it is reliably gathered has got the nod of the Presidency and will have residents and property owners handsomely compensated in return for their lands.

A former governor of the State who is already in talks with the promoters of the Estate development assured them of cooperation on the condition that allegations of corruption against him are ignored and the current Governor Nyesom Wike is removed from office to facilitate the smooth implementation of the project.

The developers plan to market the project as an open society which would provide jobs for the teeming unemployed and change the skyline and landscape of the Garden City.

The area earmarked for the multi billion dollar project already has the highest concentration of Northerners in the city and is expected to see an increase especially of elite class after its completion in 2023.

Culled from the Trent. Online blog platform.