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cococandy:
iwatch pls ignore them.

A chip and microscopic lens has been employed to investigate your inappropriate behaviours and the feeds from eleme in Rivers are appropriately gargantuan in my moral analysis and deduction of your character.

Landing is the best interesting part, turbulence another scary part but take off is the most challenging part.

This character always in the news for the wrong reasons.

If I should open her book of remembrance even lucifer would be qualified to go through penance.

Op, No man should accommodate a verbally abusive woman and no woman should tolerate a physically abusive man. Any sign of whatever "Abuse" the marriage should come to an end.

It's high time we start leaving as ANGELS on planet earth.

.... But I sure know every confrontation that results into Physical abuse starts from Verbal Abuse.


But my own advice is that your friend should take his boyfriend in for therapy, anger management session and psychological evaluation from a professional. She is in the marriage (sic) to bring out the best in him. As time goes she will discover more worst characteristics in marriage about him and what will she do. .. . Run away?

Relationship hides a lot when dating but marriage brings reality to bear.

For Temperament, Every human has it but we all learn to manage it. She should stop doing those things that trigger the husband to be towards being temperamental.

Sacking the Igbo woman and replacing her with Alhaji Usman Adamu El- Abdulraman is imminent.

This thread should be pushed to the front page. It's not primarily about the buyer/Op but the knowledge one Could deduce from the response of owners.

safarigirl:
it is only a shameless man that waits for his in-laws everytime. Her father pays his kids' fees, if that hasn't gingered him to work even menial jobs, then he's a failure

He was working right until now? Do you know that one of my friend the husband lost his banking job and took to cab driving but she has to stop him. It was too demeaning for her young family. Thereafter he join a refuse collecting company and the mostly work late in the night and early morning just to support his family and yet again my friend kick against it asking the hubby to sit at home until she saves enough money to enable him start a good well funded business. This is pure expression of love.

I'd not exonerate the husband of laid charges but they should strike a balance in their family income.
She praised the husband but FINANCE is the problem of this marriage.

Your husband nags about everything, you complain

When he has he provides, sooner he lost his job he became mentally slow without vision

You know he's from a poor background lust blindfolded you now it becoming obvious

Truth be told you never loved him but was attracted by his charm.

Don't just think you are an angel and it's his duty to work his life out just to please you but think of a way to make your rich family support him. Most guys are CEOs and directors of their in law business empire.

All I read was a hate filled post by a distrust woman who is pained in her marriage due to lack of finance. Why didn't you ask the forum how you could help your husband overcome his joblessness?

Like most modern feminist : divorce him his lazy asz doesn't deserve you

softysparky:
Nawaaaooooo!

Pure sarcasm

raayah:
Very Very bad Advice!

Look, my own mother suffered abuse in the hands of her husband after doing heaven and earth for him. You know what my mother told me one day? She sat me down and said, "Raayah. My husband does not love me, If he did, he will not abuse me like this for no reason".

Weeks after that, She moved out and hasn't looked back. She is planning to return the dowry to his people very soon. Life is so much better for her. No more spending nights at the hospital,(Yes, that's how serious the physical and mental abuse was), no more tears.. Life is good!

If you choose to stay with an abusive man because of the "children" or because you cannot "live independently", then say so. Don't tell women to stay with men with abusive men..
Same advice for men, don't stay with abusive women. They can kill

She dared him by doing what? How many of you will fight an agbero who dares you, or a man who disrespects you, Not a lot!
But when it comes to your wife, she does something wrong, you decide to give her head injury!
All of you justifying this abuse are cowards, yes I said it!

My dear thumb up for your orientation concerning gender equality and respect. Your mom did good.

My advice to you in this life is NEVER tolerate any form of abuse whether physical or emotional from your future husband. Just kick him out from your life and look for another man. If they cannot be Perfect let them rot in hell like your mom ex husband.

To you never verbally abuse your husband, if you do and he responds back, dump his ass cos if you allow him the pleasure of responding someday he might go physical.

Keep it up and do not hesitate to dump any man who has the audacity to be irrational at any point in time. Women in the West have embrace single motherhood, baby mamas why can't we enact same here or even surpass their record?

So Ibo people has silently reduced this man to Waka about in the street of London.

SailorMen:
In Life, I don't believe in knocking other peoples hustle or bringing anyone down, believe me I have much more details to put on here, however I am giving the dealer ample opportunity to sort this stuff out before I go all out on him because once I do, He is finished.
This thread is just a preamble before the full details.

You are acting like a kid. What you are doing is legal and if he's legit, he will come here and defend himself and we will hold him to his word. If he act like a con artist then you have graciously warn other unsuspecting potential customers of his antics but now he owes nairaland explanation of this underhand to retain our trust.

Act.

Okokobioko. Another saga.

Build up to the Gubernatorial poll Amaechi was shouting over the roof top how WIKE collected funds for contracts and converted it with no response on the legal binding contract. No inquiry was set up by Amaechi to try failed contractors and bring them to justice and here the table has turn and WIKE is doing the right thing.

Let applause Governor WIKE who is doing the right thing. Check and balances, probity and evaluation will with time make our leaders accountable

mrvitalis:
Tonye... the fact that people actually praise ur analysis shows the level of decay in Nigerian educational system
Let me educate u a little bit
1) a minister is a mere representative of the president in that ministry
2) the president can pass his directives or give instructions based on his manifesto to any ministery WITH OR WITHOUT A MINISTER
3) ministers are only needed when the president wants to reduce the work load on him.... And if the president is not complaining..... I wonder y u should.. ....
..

Mumu. You can't even write Ministry well yet you feel you have an opinion.

Civil service is career oriented arm of governance and it cannot be mixed with politics and politicians. They must not be seen as partisan but to implement policies and programs of the government in power.
To separate civil service from politics and allow them to be really professionals, A politician / individual need to be appointed to represent the sitting government in any ministry it so desire. Then it is the duty of the Minister to formulate policies, programs and ensure the ministry runs on the Political party Agenda or manifestos. The duty of the Minister and of course the eye of the President in a specific Ministry is to always brief the President, attend Executive Council, Party Functions and then work in liason with the Ministry he supervise.

Without a Minister, Ministries are at standstill except the President decide to use the perm secretaries as 'stand in minister' for the period being which is dangerous to the civil service ethics of profession. Exposing the civil service to politics is bad in its entirety.

RedCard1:
Only those Stingy Igbo men does the cooking in their marriages.

They do it for silly reasons of economising things unnecessarily.

I pity women that are married to typical Igbo men.

No blood vessel connecting your medulla oblongata no wonder it malfunctions

ochejoseph:
Nigeria needs China and China needs Nigeria !!!! That is the truth.........

Read this

Nigeria needs China’s financial and technical assistance in the development of its decaying infrastructure. China too needs Nigeria’s oil and gas to fuel its growing industry. In addition, Nigeria is, potentially, the largest market for China’s industrial products in Africa. Nigeria’s imports from China account for over a third of its total trade with West Africa.

The influx of Chinese products in Nigeria’s domestic markets is very evident. No matter the number of questions raised about the quality of those products, customers are provided with cheaper alternative choices.


http://leadership.ng/features/434584/nigeria-economy-how-china-and-usa-battle-for-relevance

Don't argue with someone without intellectual Content cos he will bring you down to his level and beat you with stupidity.

Snipes009:
How does religion relate to this?? I'm assuming you are a Christian. I am too, and the difference between you and I is, I'm learned and cultured like the bible taught us, you are learned but stupid and uncultured like the bible warned us. Won't hurt you to use your brain a lil bit more....

Go and tell that to Buhari who doesn't have a first school leaving certificate much more a School cert.

I didn't vote him. The illiterates up north did so shove your emotional tantrums up your vest

Today we're talking about the actualization of the sovereign state of Biafra. I hope the world knows that Yoruba land is part of the Igbo struggle because it's part of the agenda to annex yoruba land. Odumegwu Ojukwu was on his way to Lagos to actualize it before but Nnamdi Kanu has vowed to annihilate that land for the Igbos. Are they Igbos no longer Israelites? We shall Conquer the land as Israel is doing to Palestine.

The Yorubas need not worry because there is settlement plan already in place to unite them with their kith and kins in Benin Republic and Togo. As the middle east move into Europe so shall yorubas cross border. The reason being that we need to safeguard and continue with our investments in Lagos and others.

Biafra will have it own army and deadly arsenals. Any fulani cattle rustler nonsense we unleash the army on Arewastan.

I came to you with catapult please don't bring in your bazooka here ooo

Ibadan should be blown up with with a deadly dynamite and the lands reallocate to IBOs for faster and modern structures.

An impeachment notice should be served to the duara dullardiho before he reference quoran as his guiding principles on national matters.

I know for sure Holy Ghost has left this thread but please God don't hands off on nairaland.


Disclaimer : This thread is rated 20+

Op it natural for some women to behave that way.
The moment they realize it's paycheck day the began to "honey, darling, sweetheart" their men and loving increase until when the salary wind down due to their extravagant demands. During the lack period you will notice some attitude that will "shock" you and make you question if she ever loved you.

My dear a lot of ladies nowadays marry for FINANCIAL SECURITY and not love. Where you work or the job you do determine if a lady will say Yes to your proposal. Imagine the frustration telling her story that the windfall she had hoped and pray for is just trickling.

Men should as a matter of necessity marry only working class ladies. I don't get it when a young man set for marriage will look for an undergraduate or a jobless woman. How do you intend to run your home in this harsh economy because this is no longer the 60s or 70s. You will end up having no savings or getting your own property.

The remedy to this nonsense is to marry a working class woman or set up business for her to inject into the family instead of being a leakage.

Obiodunukwe:
Is that the Picture of the bridge that they have been constructing for the past 6 years?

When will they finish this bridge?

Jonathan scammed we the igbos because we are gullible.

Why do we igbos need Zoogeria to build a bridge for us?

How can we want Biafra and at the same time also demand a bridge from the Zoo?

I still pay tax, Vat, and oil is still drilled by the government from Anambra, Imo, Delta and Abia States

Let me go Auto section check if the car is there

willibounce1:
Oga keep quiet. You sound very annoying with this ur none sense bragging. You are not briscoe or automedic.

If u are truly honest, you should even be the one to suggest to your customers to follow u to get the spare parts. That's how you build trust and by the time you mention the amount u are charging for workmanship, no body will argue with u cos they already trust you to be honest with the parts.

All of u mechanics are the same. You won chop additional money for spare parts, you con dey form agidi.

If na me u do this kain tin, I go break bottle for your head ni. Mechanic wey quality timba for lagos o. No go let ur head dey swell because some ppl dey support you. IRANU

There's something called company policy.

He has repeatedly said he is not a kazeem but a professional and professionals get 'packages' that might be distasteful to clients.

Will you term a doctor bad because he allowed an emergency patient died in his clinic because the relative weren't able to provide deposit even when you know his statutory job is to save lives?

We shouldn't mix business with emotion.