₦airaland Forum

mostHandsome01:
This shouldn't be a surprise, when an incompetent, brain dead fellow rules the affairs of a nation, these are the kinds of reports you get to see.

Foolish Igbo but when it rises in the next quarter you n your father will be shouting it is Jonathan Ebele that set it up that way ba ?

You, my brother is a fool.

cominghome:
Hello Nairalanders,

My Girlfirend of 5 years who has a child for me confessed to me about a month ago that she had been sleeping with older men for money before she got pregnant for our child, I have been out of the country but going back in less than a Months time.

I am aware she he had cheated a couple of times because I caught her while she was at it, twice when we just started the relationship(her excuse was that she didn't know I was taking her serious) and the second time was about 6-7 months into the relationship(her excuse was that I was pushing her away). There was never a time she asked for money that I didn't give her and before this revelation, she has even boasted to my sister that I am very generous when it comes to giving.

I am worried that if I should go on and get married to her, she might still cheat and if I do not go on, how do I explain to her parents that their daughter has done these horrible things hence the decision to cancel the plans. Although I told her I would tell her parents, she cried and begged me not to.

Your kind advice is highly needed.

Thanks


Edit:- At some point, she had sent requests to some male Nairalanders(this I also found out before she got pregnant) but she claimed it meant nothing

Ire2:
Good morning nairalanders please treat this issue with urgency!

I met a girl 5 days ago, I asked her out the next day to be my gf after inviting her over for a date, she eventually agreed! I was happy, she is a beautiful chocolate skinned girl one can kill for!

So day before yesterday I invited her over to my place, she came, we got talking and then we got into a really hot romance section and we were both turned on, so I took off her clothes and all that, then I discovered she was wearing a pad and I asked her about it and she said she was seeing her period!

I said no problem let us stil do it like that o (i said to my self "this one I don manage fit one bang this babe so if I leave her go now as the thing they her body she fit come make yanga next time o" ) so I pressured her and she finally accepted so we had sex that day and she left.

Guys since then I have been having endless nightmares anytime I close my eyes! I have exactly the same dream, which is being stabbed repeatedly endless of times by unknown person in the dream!

Now I had this same nightmare this night again and this is the reason I am awake right now!

Please My people here what could be the cause of this torment in my dream and what is the solution to this? please help a brother here the dreams are so real and scarry It almost feels like I am going insane right now

Simple stop sleeping

The sad thing is all these foolish Igbos read this article and clearly understood this debt was incured under Jonathan who who could not fulfill it part of an agreement he signed, then refused to pay the agreed out of court settlement for that specific failure but would rather blame Buhari who could not understand why he has to pay 9 billions dollars for nothing and chose to challenge the validity of paying such money for absolute no reason.

Igbo deluded mentality.
If 100 of them is to comment on the topic they will simply ignore who caused the problem and blame the person that is suppose to park the shii.

Nnemuka:
This op is yet to recover from heart break.
You will be in my prayers today...
The single mum will still remarry, she already told you to carry your patriarchy and get lost. Involving her family in little misunderstanding speaks volume of your kind of person.

Resolve issues with her without involving her people. Ordinary boyfriend, imagine what will happen if she marries your type. Little argument u may involve your community.
Now that you brought the issue here nko what did u achieve? Mtcheww

Kudos to men who don't take BS from any female.

What is there to resolve with a girl that went to Abuja n answering call becomes heavy laden ? Exposing the foolishness of many girls with such sickening altitude is an achievement am sure the guy will be satisfied with.

Also the dude will not marry bcoz he escaped from the clutches of a pretentious single mother ba ?

Wake up when u done jonzing.

NPComplete:
This is the problem with most of you on Nairaland. Your hate for other people cannot make u see well. The man isn't even arguing that Lagos port should stand still. He is countering Throwback's argument that one sea port is enough. The man is saying that more sea ports can be economically beneficial.
But ur prejudice and hate has read other meanings into it and has started calling him Igbo. You can't deny that the sole purpose of this your thread is not to engage in any intellectual discussion but to fuel hate like most of u do on Nairaland.
I am expecting u to call me Igbo too and start throwing insults. SMH

How many ports do we have in Nigeria now ? If you add the dry port to it how many will that be ?

The sole purpose of the thread is to expose the lies by most Igbo that only Lagos port is functional. Now, if that is being prejudicial am sorry I can not help that, the lies told over the years by many Igbos fuelled that.

As for calling anyone Igbo is that a crime or you are simply being delusional ? I care less if you are a Jew too.

Odingo1:
Most Yorubas dont live in the north and are not widely travelled but Igbos are widely travelled and have first class information of happenings in Nigeria.

In the north Yoruba muslims are not allowed to enter fulani mosque and when killings start, as Igbos are running Yorubas both muslims and non muslims will also be running, to Sunni muslims yoruba muslims are worst kind of muslims than the Shiites muslims.

o se pathetic Igbo analyst, continue.

trapQ:
I think you're very daft. How is correcting an obvious misconception wailing? When and where did I blame Yoruba or any other tribe for the reality on ground? Also where did I mention anything about hate for Yoruba?
[b]You obviously think I'm Igbo [/b]hence the reason for your sentiment and don't bother to reply as I wouldn't wanna lose IQ points arguing with a dunce like you.

Your response gave you away. I never said you are.

Met one on InstaChat forming all sexiness cos of her big backside, undressing in front of me na hardwork. She sha claim her relative wan do burial for village.

As she travel # unreachable, claiming poor network in the village 2018 but vowed to call me every night once she's back to the hotel she lodged. I laughed, na me one yeye girl de play wayo

I knew I'll never marry a baby mama, she claimed she never had a child initially too but I insisted cos her body tells a different story till she confessed.
Na so I just let am no kolewerk jejely.

No time to de reason call or network cork n bull bs,
No time.

winnah:
what is the economy benefit of having only one functional seaport in a country like Nigeria.


if calabar and onne port in rivers state could be as functional as Lagos port.

can u picture the great economy benefit that will follow.

If person talk they will say someone should find a polite way to get his point across but with all due respect do you expect Lagos port to stand still so other port after it will catch up with it ? Why do many of your Igbos chose to be deliberately foolish just to be a tribal bigot ? Why ?!

Was Ebele Jonathan a state governor when Fayose became governor or will the federal government of Eveleth die if it chose to be responsible n fixed the road?

PointZerom:
Shut up and stop displaying your frustration on public forum. Are you expecting ndi Igbo to love a man that called them 5% and vowed to punish them for not voting for him?.



Cc immhotep Lzza

Silly ignorant Igbo trying to be logical.
What happened when he never called you 5% n choice one of your tribesmen as his running mate ?

Yeah, that was what I tot too.
What a full you are.

lilbest4:
you think I'm igbo?

You see your life? Anybody whose thought doesn't rhyme with yours is Igbo. You are very slow

Your father is slower if you like be German

Look at all these rnorons from the yeast side spoon fed with endemic hate from pathetic generation to generation.

Only God can save Igbos from unnecessary hate.

NwaNimo1:
Adeosun lacks confidence..... she should go for a makeover.

Amadioha ripe off your fingers. Should she have been looking like the amoeba with gele on her head. Is that what confidence mean to you Igbos ?

lilbest4:
This woman sef always having strange clueless look

How "cluefull" does the amoeba with gele on fat head looks during her years as finance minister.

trapQ:
Stupid cunts saying thrash they know absolutely nothing about. My sister has worked in 2 shipping companies one in Port Harcourt and the other in Lagos and told me about some of the restrictions they face with their port Harcourt shipments. Sometimes in those countries they don't have port Harcourt on their list of destinations meaning those shipments must come in through Lagos.

Also most large ships cannot berth in Onne port as it
is obviously too shallow.

and wailing about the shortcoming is the remedy ?

Is the Apapa port not shallow compared to ports from neighbouring countries ? How does Lagos do it n not wail NL to death over it ?

What about the persistent grindlock n now complete damage of the port road ? Did the Yoruba wail Ebele to the grave when he refused to fix the road ?

Didn't they lick their wound n get someone that can do the job ? Why do your kinsmen believe those you hate deserve to fix your problems while those you love were never held accountable for not fixing the exact same problem ?

clarocuzioo:
I think I understand better, your deep hatred is obvious, I won't continue wasting time with you because your arguments are not logical, they are void of facts and does not in anyway sound intellectual but what we see is a flagrant display of hatred.
Let me tell you this,
the Igbo nation is blessed.
The Igbo nation is progressive.
With or without those ports or any help from the govt, the Igbo nation will survive and move forward more than some tribes that have enjoyed the federal govt. Priviledges, and the interesting thing is that a trillion times of your hatred will not stop them an inch from progressing.

And your brain finally works. so why were you wailing in your initial response instead of seeking to improve on the 40%. You thoughr the world will bend to please.

For every act of wailing by the Igbo it is a proven fact a sledge � to your medulla rather reasoning with you will solve the problem. Pyton dance comes to mind.

Senselin:
Look at how brainless most youth here are. Post any topic and it is tribal/religious e-war.

How come it is when Igbos are being bashed that you lot come online and start lamenting about tribal slurs but when it's Igbo throwing the slur you are never anywhere to be found.

Says Saturday Sun of Biafra.

You'll be amazed this Igbotic newspaper does not have any headline detailing the resignation of Oyegun which is actually a news, rather it will dwell on lies ignorant Igbo as been fed from generation to generation.

An example is the lies of hating HaussFulani like Buhari n the sultan but falling in love with Atiku, Makarfi n co like they are Jews. Confused set of humans.

clarocuzioo:
First of all I made my points without insulting anybody or tribe, but you choose to insult the entire Igbo tribe when it's absolutely not necessary, it goes to show how a low life you are I won't go down to your level.
In your bid to defend the indefensible, you only succeeded in making a fool of yourself. I never complained about the shipping lines, there's no issue with the shipping lines, after all after the bribe has been paid by Igbo traders in Aba, goods are now coming in showing that there's no issue with the shipping lines but pure politics is what that has grounded it.

The shipping lines are not economically viable for goods to come in but are viable for crude oil to leave the region? Also go and check when these ports in South south were built, you will know that they are not new ports, a lot of them have been functioning optimally and excellently before unnecessarily politics started playing out, do a little research to update your outdated and ignorant brain. My dear are you not seeing your foolishness?

I never mentioned the Yoruba in my comment even though I called Lagos, it's not only Yorubas that are working in Apapa wharf, I wonder why you choose to personalise it as a Yoruba man.

Now talking about inland ports by El-rufai, we saw a report recently of a concluded inland port in Onitsha which is about #4b investment and that place is lying fallow since, just for the government to appoint a concessionaire, that place with the infrastructures there are wasting, a place that is supposed to be generating revenue for the government especially as this government is talking about diversification. So my dear you see that you are hypocrisy personified or you are and ignorant non entity.

The insecurity comment was made by the transport minister himself, on the 40% increase it talked mostly about cement.

You called the Igbos lazy? I can't believe you are this foolish. We know the lazy tribes in this country, I don't want to mention names.
Besides its not only in Nigeria that Igbos have excelled, so even if those ports don't work, the Igbo nation will move forward. I don't want to confuse your little brain.

Firstly every opinion of any Igbo is a foolish one so my response is not to argue with you but to expose the foolishness of your Igbo n igbotic reasoning.

Concerning Igbo not being lazy, my brother selling hard drugs n fraud is not hard work. Claining that as hard not only expose the foolishness in the heads of lots of Igbo but butress the fact that millions of you are outrightly mad.

Insecurity problem should be solved by host community or state govt that is why we have democracy n federal system of government but being a DEAD brain Igbo like millions of your kinsmen you can't comprehend that. Lagos did it with Baddo, Oyo did too with motor park touts.

Elrufia did what he had to to ensure the dry port works what have your forefather n fathers being doing since most especially Jonathan was the president ? What on another lame excuse for the generational lazy Igbos, rnorons.

Lastly you do not have to call Yoruba before I can tell you exhibited the entitlement mentality like every lazy ass deranged Igbos. Was the problem you highlighted not there when your demigod the drunk one was the president ? Where did the entitlement of someone you never helped to the throne solving all your generational problem while that you chose yourseld could not solve a single one.

Furthermore, I am not sorry you are beating the brunt of what Ipob sow on NL. I care even less that u are not a member just in case you want to wail yourself to the grave on that. Like I said igbo opinion DO NOT COUNT.

Deal with any typo I do not have time to proofread shii to any of you lazy loudmouth wailing kinsmen.

fasho01:
This ain't looking ordinary. What even made him think of jumping out from the 7th floor Did he just wake up to the fire and realized it had engulfed the whole apartment or what that he couldn't risk using the door?

I am not understanding

He woke up to discover he over developed Malaysia while he is yet to bring any development to the yeast side.

Lalas247:
Collecting phone and stealing close to 1.5 million Naira are totally different if that means the same value to you then please don’t even bother reply ...
Imagine a phone you know ... so what she did is it illegal?

Assuming you read OP story n think your meagre 1.5M is more valuable than the disdain n challancy he suffered tru the relationship, then you need a brain surgeon to work on your medula.

What a fool!

I would rather not waste my time arguing with some foolish Ipob or Ignore on national issues if I were you, especially when I know they are never up to any good.

Axelrod:
As shared on Facebook by the user Sagir Yana
The user claimed that the young man was beaten because he dared to say President Buhari will not win in 2019.
Lol!

Some Igbos are too dull abeg.

This campaign of culumny you embarked upon in the last election without success is what you expect to win you the next election. Can't Igbos think outside the box? I hate when an entire tribe is filled with bigoted dullards.

kimbraa:
Mumu! See your mentality. So just because the woman is white, someone can't correct her in her home country? Inferiority complex!

Mechonu! What does Adichie as in her head to be correcting someone else ? Bcoz she wrote a fantasy book you Igbos are excited about or what?

obi4eze:


All these toppling you mentioned cannot be compared with the ethnic cleansing that is going on in Benue with Buhari keeping silent and pretending not to know that people are being killed.

If Garbs Shehu cannot prove beyond every reasonable doubt that there is no corruption in this government then he should shut up and stop pointing fingers at others.

He and his principal are failures and should prepare to vacate their seats in a year's time.

Anyone that do not support the nonsense you n your likes support should shut up n quit the media space for you n your Ipob / Igbo likes to continue making noise.

Na your papa own the media space?

Rickyuzzy:
FYI, I am married with kids, defending gay rights is not assertion of my sexuality. I have studied this... I have a master's in Gender studies and I have been exposed to alot. I am simply progressive and you are regressive.

I took an interest in sexuality studies when a friend of mine(guy) committed suicide because of it. Simple research made alot of things I thought wrong right and true. I won't engage in throwing tantrums, when you have a reasonable and logical argument. Quote me then.

As seemingly valid as your initial post look, you friends simply killed himself inside of seeking medical attention just like every other person committing suicide bcoz of the present depression in Nigeria.

Any one with same sex trait should seek medical help. Homosexual is an unbalanced state of mind that need medical or Phycological help not a situation we seat to glorify. Just like mad people need help either phycologically or medically so do same sex patient.