Printerscanner: This boy shouldn’t have locked up his elder brother for stealing from him nah. Na your brother steal your money, if he no steal from you, shey make he go steal from outside ni?
Dont be surprise they will be enemy for life, there by affecting their children and that's how it will remain a history in their own family and life
Infolenka: I’ve never been the spiritual type. I don’t believe in ghosts, the supernatural. Or at least, I didn't’ until recently. Something strange has been happening in my house, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew.
I lost my girlfriend in a tragic accident last November. She was on her way to a friend’s traditional wedding when it happened. I’m not seeing anyone currently, but I have hookup girls visit on the weekends.
Two months ago, I was in the sitting room watching a premier league match when I heard a strange sound coming from the bathroom down the corridor. It sounded like someone moving buckets and rushing tap, almost like someone was washing clothes. That was odd, considering I was home alone.
I got up and walked toward the bathroom. As I approached, the sound abruptly stopped. When I entered, everything seemed normal, except for the dripping tap. It was as if someone had just turned it off a second before I walked in. I assumed it was a plumbing issue and brushed it off. But it kept happening. Not once or twic, more than six times now. And always when I’m home alone.
What haunts me most is that this was the bathroom my ex girlfriend used to wash cloths. She once told me washing clothes helped her relax and helped clear her mind.
But it doesn’t stop there. Sometimes, I come home from work to find my bed made and my clothes folded neatly. At times, the entire house is spotless, like someone had just cleaned it from top to bottom. It got so crazy I installed security cameras to figure out what was going on. Strangely enough, once the cameras were in place, the activity stopped. I left them running for a month. Nothing.
A week after I removed them, everything started up again. My girlfriend was always the type to clean my house and make sure everything is spotless. That's why I think she is the one. I know I sound crazy but that's the only possible explanation. At night, I hear footsteps in the corridor and living room. Once, while I was on a Zoom call, someone knocked on my bedroom door. I immediately exited the call out of fear . There was no one else in the house.
I’ve considered moving out, but it’s not so simple. I just renewed my rent in January, and with how crazy housing prices have gotten in Lagos, finding another place close to work feels impossible right now.
I don’t know what’s happening. I don’t know if I’m losing it or if something or someone is really still here with me. I never believed in ghosts. But now? I’m not so sure. If you have any advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it. I just want some peace of mind one way or another.
At this point look no further, she is probably the one, trying to come and do her chores but being a spirit, she can't come back
I will suggest you visit her grave site with flowers and appeal to her that death have separated both of you and you want her to take this flower and stop frightening you as you have moved on that if it was possible, you could have prevented her death, but it happened far away from you.
If you don't know where her burial ground is, you can contact her parents and inform them of your experience, so that you can separate yourself from her
Very soon she may be coming for fun and you may loose guard and fall into it
Okeytech: I have this neighbor who happens to be my friend but not close. He has come to borrow money from me more than three times promising to pay back on so so and so day but never returns it and infact he never talks about the money again and i also kept quiet. Now he met me again this morning asking me to borrow him 5k, promising to pay back tomorrow evening that his children have not eaten since yesterday. Sincerely i feel pity for him because of the children but i'm equally scared of giving him due to the previous ones he hasn't returned. Please guys what should i do? Honestly if i'm sure he'll return it tomorrow i won't hesitate to give him right now but i fear he'll repeat what he has been doing.
The funny thing about him is that anytime he doesn't have money, he remembers i'm his friend but once he has money, i'll never see him at all, he doesn't come close to me, his wife becomes his friend when he has money. I've been helping him and his family in so many ways that i don't want to mention. He has a car and i've never dreamt of having one ooo.
You have to apply wisdom at this point
If you are ready to forget any money given to him, whwj he ask give him
If you are nit ready to forget about any money given to him, tell him you are short of cash and have been managing
If you feel to proud not to tell him, then keep on supplying him and don't come here to complain
dramatic situation unfolded when a husband allegedly discovered a vibrator and Love Machine among his wife’s personal items. Disturbed by the discovery, he reportedly escalated the matter by involving both families, sparking a heated discussion on privacy, boundaries, and marital expectations.
This man just expose his inability to perform in the other room
When does intimacy gadgets becomes an offence, isn't it better than cheating on him
ThaThinka: Hello, everyone! I was wondering if anyone reading this has moved to a new state, region, or country where they knew absolutely no one at one time or another.
I would like to know what the experience was like, especially how you were able to get work and accommodation (as a stranger). Plus, how did you spend your lone time?
Your responses will be quite useful if you have this sort of experience. Thanks in anticipation.
Moving to a place where you know no one, is a big risk. But if you can afford to lodge in a hotel then go about your search for either job or anything
ChildOfDoom: I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.
It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).
The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.
I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.
Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work
But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.
The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.
I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.
Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me
You go get sense bye force
You are the cause of your own problem
You don't even have any future ambitions
You have already concluded that you have a short life
ukukaegbu: The question should be if he was adequately compensated.
If he was, then there's no issue there.
Dont be surprise he may not be compensated, but there could be a gentle man agreement to that and the state may exenorate him from Tax from a certain period as compensation
GistMedia0: A man allegedly caught his wife with her lover inside a shop and decided to lock them in, taking the padlock keys with him.
The dramatic moment, captured in now-circulating footage, shows the husband found his wife and the alleged lover inside the shop. Instead of confronting them verbally, he allegedly locked them inside the shop and calmly walked away with the keys.
The video shows a growing crowd outside the shop, desperately trying to intervene. Several bystanders can be seen using various tools to cut the padlocks and free the allegedly trapped couple. The wife and her alleged lover were visibly sweating and uncomfortable due to the heat inside the shop.
Due to some ugly circumstances, i dropped out of school in 2019 and I've been at home since then, periodically picking up one or two low paying jobs. 2 years ago, I decided to learning a tech skill. I taught myself C++ programming language and I'm currently teaching myself mathematics aggressively, studying for min of 8 hours daily.
For the past two years, I've mostly always been in my room, I can be in our house for more than two weeks, without stepping a foot out of our door due to how engrossed in studying I always am. My goal is to learn C++, DSA , And Math to an undergraduate level then use my skills to apply for scholarships to study abroad, and probably work in a hedge fund company as a quantitative trader in the future. For those who know what leetcode is, i can currently solve most leetcode (hard) problems in less than 40 minutes.
Now, I'll be 24 in August, and my dad is worried that I'm wasting my life away because I've refused to pickup any real job or learn a trade, his worried that I'm already getting old, always reminding me that people my age are already getting married. Now he wants me to leave his house to go look for my own place to stay, and has offered me 7 million naira to go start life else where.
Now I plan to move out of Lagos to PH or Akwa Ibom, then use part of the money to start up a computer business center, where I'll be doing typing, printing, lamination, jamb registration, GCE/WAEC registrations, etc. One of the reasons I chose this is because I've worked in a place like this before and I have experience in how to run such a place. Another reason is that, this business would give me time to also study and sharpen my Math/Programming skills. I plan to rent a shop that is big enough so that I can also be sleeping/living there.
Now I seriously need advicing because this is such a turning point in my life and the next few years is going to make or break me because there is no room for any disastrous bad decision
I wish you good luck, but you see that Porth Harcourt and Akwa-Ibom, women dey free and easily available there, if you don't have self discipline, you will enter part two of life
Video showing some men of the Nigeria Police Force lining up to receiving N5000 cash gift from their Chinese bosses has made the rounds on social media.
The officers who were more than ten in number, lined up as their boss counted N1000 mint notes and handed them N5000 each.
While some Nigerians find nothing wrong in the video as it showed a boss showing love to his workers, others argue that it is demeaning to have had the officers file out to get cash gifts. Watch the video below
MONEY247: Hoodlums, drug addicts and different types of wayward individuals plague parks in almost every city of the country. here in Edo state where I currently reside, the trouble of this motor park guys is alarming. The harass drivers, commuters and claim to be tax collectors.Theey even fight themselves like it's a legal job... Really I don't see any value they're adding to the economy,they just disturb..
Many claim that if they were not not in motor parks they would have been thieves... But that's not an excuse
All government agencies should please stop this menace it's not good at all
They are every where constituting nuisance and out of control
Telltruth123: Thank you sir, my close families are aware, initially I didn't know it is hernia I was spending money on herb to treat him, it will go and come back it was a month ago I got to know that it is hernia and they told me it can only be treated by operation. I didn't have the experience of hernia, I thought it only happens to adult.
Some adult sickness now runs in children, things like even BP and diabetes
But line I said run to familys and friends, they will be willing to help
Arshley: I just saw a video of a soldier on the bonnet of car, hanging on to the wiper of the vehicle while the car is in motion. Watching the video reminded me an ugly incident that occurred about 9yrs ago.
In 2016, i was hustling at a wood factory owned by some Chinese guys. It was a friend that took me from Ibadan to that place to work. The place is called C & G wood in Ogobia, Benue state. Some of you may know there. While using those machines to cut and saw woods, I was sustaining injuries everyday. I almost lost my sight one day when a piece of wood flew from a colleague's machine to pierce into my eyes. But thank God, it didn't do much damage. On one fateful day, I had gone out of the yard(we call the factory yard). Myself and the Chinese men(about 6 men and 3 policemen) lived inside the yard. Of all my colleagues(Over 50 colleagues), I was the only one that had a room inside the yard. So on this day, I went out to get some food at Ogobia market which isn't far from the yard. After getting the food & trying to return back at 10pm, I couldn't get a bike. I had to jump on a tipper filled to the brim with sharp sand. The driver didn't even know that someone was hanging on his tipper. When we got to where I was supposed to drop, I began to call, driver! driver!! driver!!!, but he couldn't hear me. He was on speed since the road was a newly constructed one, no potholes and no hold up of any kind. I kept shouting, no way. He had drove past the yard already. Now my hands were already weak as I hanged on that tipper. The sand Inside the tipper were entering my eyes. I tried to jump inside, but I couldn't. Since the sand was full, I could couldn't jump in. My hands became totally weak and I began to cry cos I was already seeing death. I looked around to see if any of the road users would call the attention of the tipper driver to my Plight, but nobody was coming cos it was late. The place is a village. I had no other option than to jump off the tipper. Immediately I jump off, I became unconscious, I didn't know where I was, I began to bleed. No help was coming. I managed to roll away from the main road so I don't get crushed. I was bleeding from my nose, mouth, head. Injuries everywhere. The coal tar destroyed my body too. Luckily, someone was riding a bike and saw me, he rushed me to the clinic. There was no hospital in that village. I got treated and left the next morning. Till date, the scars are still on my body but in all of these, I still thank God.
I pray nothing happened to that soldier guy hanging on the bonnet and holding the car's wiper?
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Haaa, what an experience sorry about that ugly near death experience at times in this life, uouust pass through one nonsense experience to that will remind you of life suffering.
Telltruth123: Please my people, I was told it can kill if left untreated, anybody can pay to hospital either Lagos or Ogun State, I will take him there please my mind is not at rest, please assist me.
Honestly, the way people are defrauding people here, it's difficult to know when one is in real distress or in dear need of help
Anyway as it is now, you have to make move to your close family's and friends before they will blame you for not telling them on time
If each can contribute 5000 then 20 family and friends can assist with the funds
Those your friends and your husband friends you attend parties with and buy Asoebi can also help
We in nairaland, if even we are contributing 1000 each, we can also help
But truth be told, make move to family and friends who sees you and knows you very well, those are the people that will believe you more
This forum is faceless and we don't even know anyone, but we have been helping yet they keeping scamming us
What I do now is to call on video and see your conditions before I give anything as I have also been a victim of fake stories
My wife had a child with a deadbeat that put himself on child support and it’s been over 10 years without a payment and we are not bothered neither have we tried to enforce it. He have not seen my daughter in over 8 years, no call nothing. I am not the kind of person to stop a relationship between another man and his child. We have completely forgotten his existence until a week ago he when he called my wife’s office wanting to speak with her. My wife wants nothing to do with him.
I am the only father my daughter have known and she’s almost 14, I love her with every fiber in my body. My wife said she don’t want confusion in her life and also worries about her siblings knowing that I am not her biological father. I know how sensitive this is and I am being as careful as I can.
My daughter don’t know anything about him and that’s on him. How would you handle a situation like this?
There is nothing much about it your stand with your daughter is fine and don't worry about the man
He doesn't need to know where you live pls so that he doesn't have to come over to be disturbing your home
As for your wife, let her tell him to go to court and the case will be brought up in the court
Even if it gets to that point, whatever he wants let him tell the girl that shouldn't bother you and when the girl comes to tell you anything that he tells her, let her know that you love her so much and you have always been there for her
Because no matter what, one day she will know that she has a dad and she will also know that you are the dad she has
Winslet99: Please dear people of Nigerian forgive me, Have mercy on me, if I can help myself I won't be here begging for your help, please come to my aid, I've been seeking assistance on nairaland. I'm celestine am 32 year of age frm Enugu State Awgu L G A.I have a spine injury @ neck that has have keeps me indoor mostly for d past 17 years.It also affected my hand making me not able to use my finger normally i.e I can't pick up thing from floor. my problem now is that life has been very difficult for me and .to provide feeding and some medicine is hard, I don't have anything doing for now.living with pains and bed sore on both Buttocks and continual urine Infection,Not able to Go for routine hospital visit due lack of funds. Please I am pleading to well meaning Nigerians come to mine aid,I recently lost my mom . she been the one caring me All this years. she been sick for long due to complication of high sugar level I'm asking for your financial help to enable go for medical, the last doctor i see said I need to do MRI scan test, which I don't have the funds for now,pls no matter how Small it will enable me get some medicine,food and other basic items for my daily SCI cares. I depend on some daily medical supplies for survival pls I need your help. Acct :
Location: Nkpor anambra state.plz try reach on WhatsApp if it touches you to help,am available for video call/physical verification my phone number and address is not hidden.please Watch the video evidence below to confirm
please come to my aid I don't have any other choice, I'm not a scammer if to say life was a little bit easy for me I won't be doing this always I can prove my condition beyond any reasonable doubt. one of the document below is my hospital file not a receipt. thanks and remain blessed
Hello Nairalanders, this guy story is pathetic, am one of those that must do a video call to be very sure of any financial gift I will give to those in distress, called him this morning to be very sure he needs our help, I spoke with him on video and sent money to him and he acknowledged it
Pls any help we have to offer, let us give it to him, his legs are hands are just crippled because of the effects of his health and, inshort let's dash him whatever we have, is real that he needs our support.
KobomatPhones: I met this girl on 8th of March (last month) and around 22 of the same march. She called and said she was experiencing pregnancy symptoms. In less than 2 weeks?
Long story cut short, she’s pregnant.
Pls how is this possible?
According to her, her last period was around 20th-25th of last two months (that’s February)
If you don't mind, you can keep the pregnancy and wait for DNA test to confirm the paternity
She could be in her heat period within the time frame you slept with her
So DNA will be the way out and pls inform her so that she will know
And once you insist that you will do a DNA test, if uts for you she will not be bothered
But if thr pregnancy wasn't for you and she is imposing it on you, she will terminate it because of the fear of DNA test result
No matter what, a woman actually knows who own a her pregnancy
GiftedOnyiye: She works In a Hotel As A Cleaner, She has night shift 2 days In A Week, She is a Single Mother of One. She Claimed to be Pregnant for me since February but came to tell me last week that she had a miscarriage due to work stress, since that day I have not picked her calls or replied any of her text because I believe she is not being truthful. Before we met she was dating a sugar daddy who helped her get the job n also live close to the hotel but she claims they are no more together. She talks about her Ex's sometimes much to my chagrin. I don't think I should continue this relationship plz advice.
Since the pregnancy didn't continue, just leave her let her go and find her bearing because the issue of trust is affecting the relationship
jazzman7711: I’ve never understood why we were so quick to abandon polygamy just because the British came with their so-called holy book a mere century ago.
In the thousands of years prior to their arrival, we were polygamous and happy.
Content.
No issues.
I am starting to feel like my ancestors must have felt in their era.
I need at least 2 more wives to feel complete.
Dont be surprise two may not be enough, you can add more to fulfill your desire for having many wives
But I bet you, with this economy and the ladies out there that are not ready to take nonsense or suffer like our parents do, , just show your family where you will be laid to rest incase it comes suddenly
Politics › Re: Oluwagbenga Abiola Steps Down For Abdulganiyu Obasa (Obasa’s Son) by frozen70(f): 9:14pm On Apr 24, 2025
