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 Family › Re: .......... by funlord(m): 7:49am On May 16, 2015 |
Enahi:
OK am seriously tired of dating,am ready to take someone serious but right now I don't know who?
For instance the person am thinking of giving a chance to seems to act like a mummy's boy.  He is not young,the few times we sit down to gist he always talk abt going to do stuff for his mum. Am very sure if his mum was based on the moon,the man won't mind going there to do stuff for her.
Am getting irritated,seems the mum controls his life. So by your own admission.. "U ARE READY 2 TAKE SOMEONE SERIOUS NOW BUT U DON'T KNOW WHO?" Na so your customers plenty reach? Well maybe his mum can smell your scam and is trying 2 save her boy so try 2 find your next victim elsewhere! Good luck |
| Romance › Re: I Love Lala247 by funlord(m): 7:40am On May 16, 2015 |
auchomage:
Proverb 19 vs 22 "what's desired in a man is steadfast love, and a poor man is better than a liar. A man who shows his wealth is like a beggar who shows his poverty; they are both looking for alms, the rich man for the alms of envy and the poor man for them alms of guilt.
LaLa247, a wealthy man believes a woman owes him for his time and money, therefore his respect for her is low, so he says " I won't condescend to give her an orgasm, but I believe a woman should be loved and respected. So I won't take for granted the time you give me. Am going to make you feel like heaven is walking with you, holding you high as a bird.
I maybe poor;however, I will love you more for I have nothing else to give, but to love you as long as I live. I know love does not pay the bills, worry less, because it only gets better with you by my side . Also, I know many women with materials and cash, while wishing their men stop cheating or at least give them a descent conversation. I am the right choice my love, with you in my life am going to find me a job and do the best I can to take care of you. However, there might be struggle and some bills might njust have to wait.i will put you first, before first and forever. Love you
Straight from the heart to Lala247.
No hating pls...  auchomage:
Proverb 19 vs 22 "what's desired in a man is steadfast love, and a poor man is better than a liar. A man who shows his wealth is like a beggar who shows his poverty; they are both looking for alms, the rich man for the alms of envy and the poor man for them alms of guilt.
LaLa247, a wealthy man believes a woman owes him for his time and money, therefore his respect for her is low, so he says " I won't condescend to give her an orgasm, but I believe a woman should be loved and respected. So I won't take for granted the time you give me. Am going to make you feel like heaven is walking with you, holding you high as a bird.
I maybe poor;however, I will love you more for I have nothing else to give, but to love you as long as I live. I know love does not pay the bills, worry less, because it only gets better with you by my side . Also, I know many women with materials and cash, while wishing their men stop cheating or at least give them a descent conversation. I am the right choice my love, with you in my life am going to find me a job and do the best I can to take care of you. However, there might be struggle and some bills might njust have to wait.i will put you first, before first and forever. Love you
Straight from the heart to Lala247.
No hating pls... Erm...Gringory! Does she love U back? I'm sure U just want a squeeze of her oranges and maybe have a taste of her backyard watermelons for good measure! You better quit that your unholy relationship with nivea cream and focus on getting some guap! |
| Romance › Re: Approaching A Lady. by funlord(m): 11:57pm On May 15, 2015 |
what of those that the ladies prefer 2 approach? |
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| Politics › Re: I Will Expose Anybody That Offers Me, Other Senators ‘ghana Must Go’ — Ben Bruce by funlord(m): 7:20pm On May 15, 2015 |
If I hear say ben murray go even report 1 bribe merchant? Na 2 begin trek go bayelsa in his honour! Make alert begin show, my guy go delete this twitter account sef! |
| Politics › Re: Conduct Bureau Orders Jonathan, Ministers, Others To Declare Assets by funlord(m): 7:13pm On May 15, 2015 |
The final SCAM before the dj offs the music and the club villa closes! |
| Politics › Re: Missing $20b: Alison-madueke’s Real Crime by funlord(m): 7:10pm On May 15, 2015 |
 Abegii Thief na thief, all this unecessary grammar and senseless quotes by the clueless one and his co-horts are 4 the birds! She will be indicted soon! |
| Politics › Re: Adams Oshiomhole And Wife, Lara Dancing (photo) by funlord(m): 7:06pm On May 15, 2015 |
Beauty and the B.........? As the say "money talks and beauty turns around sharply and starts walking back towards money"!!! |
| Family › Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by funlord(m): 6:35pm On May 15, 2015 |
@op! Well if after 5 yrs of marriage with some kids and as U say "a great sex life" with your husband, u still end up discovering this about your man? Does that not mean that u are in a dysfunctional marriage? Well 4 the sake of your kids futures I would suggest you both try 2 work things out and keep your family unit as one but also threaten him with the option of divorce 4 good measure! But shine YOUR EYES! |
| Family › Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by funlord(m): 6:29pm On May 15, 2015 |
emilyone:
Is three sum. The new thrend among married men these days
A married friend of mine caught her hubby pants down engaging in this unholy act just of recent 3somes are as old as humanity itself my dear it is in no way particular 2 married men alone! Straight people, gay people ans bisexuals all do it! Get familiar! |
| Family › Re: Husbands Who Demand Their Wives Submit Their Salaries To Them by funlord(m): 6:00pm On May 15, 2015 |
These types are not called husbands they are called CAVE MEN! |
| Family › Re: I'm Finally Letting Go! by funlord(m): 5:43pm On May 15, 2015 |
steeze:
Hey guys, update on what's been happening. I've got a steady job now. Pays about 60k plus accommodation. I'm starting on Monday by God's special grace. At least it's a start.
Now, since I put up the last thread concerning what's been happening with me and my girl (check my profile), I've been trying to make amends. Been trying really really hard. Most times she wouldn't pick my calls, sometimes she would pick and allow my credit to burn out, other times she would pick up and scream at me to leave her alone to move on with her life. No one from her family picks my calls now, they are in ignore mode. Eventually, I had to make out time to buy a few baby clothes and some jewelry for her and went to meet her at her house earlier today.
She was surprised to see me but still was reiterating everything that happened for which I'd apologised a million times over before. I just feel that a man has to be a man, not under anybody. She was bathing the baby, and when she finished she wouldn't let me hold him, not even once.
There is a man staying with her in the house - her mother's boyfriend's elder brother (it's that complicated). He was most emphatic on refusing to let me hold my baby. He seemed to have grown so attached even. I sat there looking so confused not knowing what else to say or do. Sure I messed up, but is there any sin that is too great to deny a father his son? Or the chance to start a real family? Or another chance with his mom?
In the last thread I mentioned that my girl's mother was a single mom and couldn't seem to hold a man down as they always ran off eventually and never returned, and a lot of people almost ate my head off, as if the attributes of the mom would hold no bearing or impact on the daughter. I mentioned something about breaking a generational cycle but I can see that I have already failed. She has determined to raise the child without me, and another cycle is now in effect. I know the effect not having her dad (he never cared a bit for them) around had on her in our earlier years.
Eventually she asked me to leave as she had some business to attend to. As I hung around forlornly, wondering whether to leave or not, I met a woman who recognised me and asked where I had been all this while. She told me that the man (her mom's boyfriend's elder brother) and my girl had been living together like a couple since I'd left and anytime she asked about me they would say I traveled or I went to school. Soon the story changed to them telling her that the man staying with her was her husband and I was his younger brother. Eventually the situation changed to them avoiding her altogether, and she soon got the message and learned to mind her business too.
The man should be 47 years but has a youthful look and could somewhat pass for my elder brother since we are both fair skinned. The way he held my baby like it was his, I can only estimate that it's just a matter of time before they start sleeping with each other. I may be wrong but at this point I don't really care anymore. I am only saying things as they happened. I asked her if she really wanted the baby to grow up without the father and she told me that he (the baby) is not complaining. She said a lot of other stuffs, but I will take it sha.
Questions:
Was I wrong to want to stand on my own two feet as a man?
Was I wrong for accepting the responsibility for the pregnancy in the first place? (The baby is mine please, there's no question about that)
Was what I did so bad to be undeserving of forgiveness and reconciliation?
Come to think about it, why was there so much pressure for me to take the job in the first place? (I already had my vision and career path mapped out and I'm currently on that path by God's grace)
My salary while working for the mom was 25k, and she rubbed it in my face at every turn that she doesn't pay anybody else in the company such a huge amount of money and made it seem like she was doing me a huge favor, acting like I had never held 25k in my life. Please note that I do not in any way seem wretched, desperate or poverty stricken. So even if I wanted to continue to tough it out and work with her, there was no motivation. The money I make on the streets and while hustling far exceeds that. In time I never even had time to work for myself, only the mom - for 25k. And I had my pride and self dignity to protect. While leaving to sort my life out in February, I never collected that month's salary to show the mom that that wasn't my problem. My girl was 8 months old at the time. No one acknowledges the fact that I stuck by her for so long through all the degradation and humiliation while she lapped up all her family's love and support. I was in a strange territory and she couldn't see the sacrifices I was making for her. She was the one that eventually succeeded in making me take the job.
I repeat - N25,000... Not N250,000.
I'm willing to answer any questions you may have for me. If you want to insult me and judge me that's fine as well. I just want to know what the public opinion is. Remember there is a child's life at stake here.
Please do NOT move this to frontpage. Thank you all.  steeze:
Hey guys, update on what's been happening. I've got a steady job now. Pays about 60k plus accommodation. I'm starting on Monday by God's special grace. At least it's a start.
Now, since I put up the last thread concerning what's been happening with me and my girl (check my profile), I've been trying to make amends. Been trying really really hard. Most times she wouldn't pick my calls, sometimes she would pick and allow my credit to burn out, other times she would pick up and scream at me to leave her alone to move on with her life. No one from her family picks my calls now, they are in ignore mode. Eventually, I had to make out time to buy a few baby clothes and some jewelry for her and went to meet her at her house earlier today.
She was surprised to see me but still was reiterating everything that happened for which I'd apologised a million times over before. I just feel that a man has to be a man, not under anybody. She was bathing the baby, and when she finished she wouldn't let me hold him, not even once.
There is a man staying with her in the house - her mother's boyfriend's elder brother (it's that complicated). He was most emphatic on refusing to let me hold my baby. He seemed to have grown so attached even. I sat there looking so confused not knowing what else to say or do. Sure I messed up, but is there any sin that is too great to deny a father his son? Or the chance to start a real family? Or another chance with his mom?
In the last thread I mentioned that my girl's mother was a single mom and couldn't seem to hold a man down as they always ran off eventually and never returned, and a lot of people almost ate my head off, as if the attributes of the mom would hold no bearing or impact on the daughter. I mentioned something about breaking a generational cycle but I can see that I have already failed. She has determined to raise the child without me, and another cycle is now in effect. I know the effect not having her dad (he never cared a bit for them) around had on her in our earlier years.
Eventually she asked me to leave as she had some business to attend to. As I hung around forlornly, wondering whether to leave or not, I met a woman who recognised me and asked where I had been all this while. She told me that the man (her mom's boyfriend's elder brother) and my girl had been living together like a couple since I'd left and anytime she asked about me they would say I traveled or I went to school. Soon the story changed to them telling her that the man staying with her was her husband and I was his younger brother. Eventually the situation changed to them avoiding her altogether, and she soon got the message and learned to mind her business too.
The man should be 47 years but has a youthful look and could somewhat pass for my elder brother since we are both fair skinned. The way he held my baby like it was his, I can only estimate that it's just a matter of time before they start sleeping with each other. I may be wrong but at this point I don't really care anymore. I am only saying things as they happened. I asked her if she really wanted the baby to grow up without the father and she told me that he (the baby) is not complaining. She said a lot of other stuffs, but I will take it sha.
Questions:
Was I wrong to want to stand on my own two feet as a man?
Was I wrong for accepting the responsibility for the pregnancy in the first place? (The baby is mine please, there's no question about that)
Was what I did so bad to be undeserving of forgiveness and reconciliation?
Come to think about it, why was there so much pressure for me to take the job in the first place? (I already had my vision and career path mapped out and I'm currently on that path by God's grace)
My salary while working for the mom was 25k, and she rubbed it in my face at every turn that she doesn't pay anybody else in the company such a huge amount of money and made it seem like she was doing me a huge favor, acting like I had never held 25k in my life. Please note that I do not in any way seem wretched, desperate or poverty stricken. So even if I wanted to continue to tough it out and work with her, there was no motivation. The money I make on the streets and while hustling far exceeds that. In time I never even had time to work for myself, only the mom - for 25k. And I had my pride and self dignity to protect. While leaving to sort my life out in February, I never collected that month's salary to show the mom that that wasn't my problem. My girl was 8 months old at the time. No one acknowledges the fact that I stuck by her for so long through all the degradation and humiliation while she lapped up all her family's love and support. I was in a strange territory and she couldn't see the sacrifices I was making for her. She was the one that eventually succeeded in making me take the job.
I repeat - N25,000... Not N250,000.
I'm willing to answer any questions you may have for me. If you want to insult me and judge me that's fine as well. I just want to know what the public opinion is. Remember there is a child's life at stake here.
Please do NOT move this to frontpage. Thank you all. leave your baby mama drama on the sidelines and focus on being a good provider 4 your kid! Also focus on progressing in your career and always remember many good single parents across the world are also walking this same path! Be a father 2 your child unless u want another man 2 do it 4 u! |
| Romance › Re: What Women Want by funlord(m): 5:30pm On May 15, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:
cc ishilove, farano, lalasticlala etc So now you need to report 2 mods 2 save U? Lol! Good to see you have learnt your lesson! Do not ever get near my posts in the future! Cc ishilove, farano and lalasticlala! |
| Romance › Re: What Women Want by funlord(m): 5:20pm On May 15, 2015 |
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| Politics › Re: Man Trekking For GEJ Replies Omotola After She Called Trekkers 'Silly' by funlord(m): 4:54pm On May 15, 2015 |
They are silly! Trek 4 gej my ass! Nigerians will celebrate mediocrity 4 a living if it was possible 2 make it a paying job! |
| Romance › Re: I Can Never Take A Girl With Double Ear Peircings Serious.. by funlord(m): 4:44pm On May 15, 2015 |
this op is 2 local! Expand your horizons you have been spending 2 much time with local mgbekes! |
| Romance › Re: I Don't Drink, I Don't Smoke, I Think Am A Wife Material by funlord(m): 4:35pm On May 15, 2015 |
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| Romance › Re: IS It Wrong To Sleep With 99% Of The Girls In Your Department In School? by funlord(m): 4:19pm On May 15, 2015 |
I'm sure this mongoose also has over 99% of carry overs also sleeping with his faculty file! ITI! |
| Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by funlord(m): 7:17pm On May 14, 2015 |
Bumping "The Life by freddie foxxx featuring dj premier"! If u listen 2 this track your face would also look like mine! Its that hard! |
| Romance › Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by funlord(m): 5:52pm On May 14, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:
Nescient . Since u ran from the message on the 1st thread I'm happy 2 give u a home delivery: I have forever soaked your reputation in a mixture of lions shite and cow dung! Eternally U shall be remembered as the immature empty barrell of a feminist that got butchered by a "Boss a.k.a FUNLORD"! I have severed your abnormally large and shapeless skull from your scrawny neck and stuffed your hollow and empty windpipe with ripped up and excrement stained pages from the books of the best selling feminist twunts that have led your destiny into an evil forest! U are now inconsequential on NL! Now it is open season on vicky biatch! Everyone has now been exposed 2 your cowardice, stupidity and vacuous nature! Maybe u were molested as a child due 2 the hells kitchen of an environment in which u spent your tragedy laced formative years, Which is why u have the gumption 2 want 2 come and eat the remnants of your own vomit, If u think returning here with your tail between your scraggly, Sscoliosis ravaged legs would offer u any sort of redemption, then your buffonery, shamelessness and stupidity must really be hereditary! I have exposed u as a nobody, becuz that is what U ARE! U are like farts from a pigs anus, totally worthless, u are like a failed politicians ambition, the apex of failure, a no hoper in the game of life, constantly spitting hogwash 2 the detriment of your already depleted brain cells! U are like the kind of confused feminist that REAL feminists hope and pray get run down by a trailer on the highway, u are roadkill, a discarded menstrual pad from the vagii of an aids patient! with age u will learn respect, but 4 now remain as the obsessed, hopeless, imbecilic,confused, mong like, retar.ded young HAG that u obviously are! Your burial was sweet but it would be nice 2 dig up your filthy cracked bones 4 an encore! Now excuse me I am about 2 go and deposit your mentions, opinions and ideology in the only place where they all truly matter, in my TOILET! Copy and paste this in that apartment of germs, mucus and viruses that u gladly call a vagi.na |
| Romance › Re: Can You Date Someone Whose English Is Very Poor?? by funlord(m): 5:24pm On May 14, 2015 |
ritux:
This is a nice finishing move in Mortal Kombat.......FINISH HER!!!  
Sorry VictoriaBee ritux:
This is a nice finishing move in Mortal Kombat.......FINISH HER!!!
Sorry VictoriaBee 
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| Politics › Re: Buhari Plans Special Courts For Corruption by funlord(m): 4:55pm On May 14, 2015 |
So this means some billionaires are about 2 go back 2 being thousandnaires? We dey wait! |
| Family › Re: I Saw Indecency In My Sister's Phone. What Should I Do To Her? by funlord(m): 4:41pm On May 14, 2015 |
clevvermind:
i was going through my sister's phone, and i saw indecency films. i just feel like smashing her head that moment. i just manage to hold myself. i was very angry with her cos i don't want her to be watching such things. i should be the only one watching such films. i don't want her to corrupt herself. she is just 20.
please, what should i do to her? what punishment should i give to her. hope say u no see the one wey I bin star in oh! Cuz that Your sister tastes like fanta! |
| Romance › Re: Can You Date Someone Whose English Is Very Poor?? by funlord(m): 3:46pm On May 14, 2015 |
Brandnew2:
The British accent is ugly. What type of standards do u expect this "village mgbeke" 2 have bros! Even ghana border resemble yankee 2 this keke napep drivers daughter! Lol! |
| Romance › Re: Will You Abandon Your Girlfriend Of 5years If Her Cultist Brother Insists?? by funlord(m): 3:42pm On May 14, 2015 |
Sermwell:
My friend has been dating his girlfriend for 5years now and they are so much in love with each other. They even plan on settling down immediately after youth service nextyear.
But his girlfriend's brother who's a notorious cultist is angry with his parents for no longer paying his fees and he's venting his anger on everyone in the family including his sister that every guy should stay away from her.
My friend was beaten blue-black yesterday as a sign of warning from him.
What do you think my friend should do?? Sermwell:
My friend has been dating his girlfriend for 5years now and they are so much in love with each other. They even plan on settling down immediately after youth service nextyear.
But his girlfriend's brother who's a notorious cultist is angry with his parents for no longer paying his fees and he's venting his anger on everyone in the family including his sister that every guy should stay away from her.
My friend was beaten blue-black yesterday as a sign of warning from him.
What do you think my friend should do?? Tell him 2 give us a call! 
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| Family › Re: Wife! My Husband Rape Me by funlord(m): 2:34pm On May 14, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:
I think that should be for your obfuscated stvpidity, cow! 
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| Family › Re: Wife! My Husband Rape Me by funlord(m): 2:25pm On May 14, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:
Does that mean you bought her?
I pity your wife... I think u should pity yourself 4 being such a waste of space mixed with abject stupidity! |
| Romance › Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by funlord(m): 2:20pm On May 14, 2015 |
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