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OBku4:

I know say na from movie u hear this line.
Keep on to dey deceive urself

the problem with people like una be say u have been programmed to follow rules. So I don't expect you to agree.

Etinosa1234:
I'm sorry to say this but all u just wrote up there is complete trash

My father's family are still together despite their differences...

One of my uncle travelled to Australia in the year 2000 or so...Years later...He arranged 4 his family..then 4 some of my uncles and their children

Recently..My own visa is being processed

Even some of my family that were not able to go ,he still comes back and sends them some money in times of need

I can Even boldly say that 90%of my clothes have been bought by my family members that are overseas...

So I can't really know ur basis 4 this ur baseless assumption esp if u are not Benin

Story. I have a Benin name, I grew up among them.

When handling issues like this, do it statically and count yourself lucky if what you shared up there is true.

2 over 10 is a poor mark.

Xisnin:
You are wrong.
Prostitution is exchanging sex for money.
If you sit your girl down and tell her that your only deal with her is the exchange of money for sex
and she agrees. That is prostitution.

However, no sane man will call to ask about a prostitute's day, how her parents is, whether she got the contract,
tell her about his birthday, whether she reached her destination safely or discuss future plans.

I admit that some men don't know the difference between prostitutes and girlfriends and you are obviously one of
them.
They are not even close.

Tell me you have not spent money on any woman you dated and I will take you serious.

Everything is business

lefulefu:
but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

Nope... Most girls expect you to drop something. Either immediately or after... They expect something in return.

Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.


The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you

The mind is the power house but you can control it.

Just delete her number, block her on all socia media. It will hurt her but it will pass.

When you know you can now live without her, you can unblock her.

The goal is to control your mind to stop being emotional and be detached from every feelings linked to her. When this is achieved, you will be able to move on.

I said it before and I will say it again... Buhari is not letting Sowore out till 2023 Except the Yoruba people demand for it in unison.

How can that man be releasing Bokoharam and incarcerating Sowore? Does that make sense?

lefulefu:
but any guy who gives a girl money after sex that one is not his girlfriend .sometimes we mistake hookups and bootycalling as girlfriend.

Most Nigerian girls don't offer guys anything aside sex and they expect you to compensate them for that.

Bros leave story. This is fact.

Ipheeoma24:
my dear maybe she doesn't have family members that need the contract na

She is from Edo according to the story and I can tell you for fact, based on my blood link to Benin, don't count them as family,aside your siblings.

If you are even unlucky, your siblings can be a danger to your life.

Those people do not wish each other well... They compete, jealous and wish evil against one another. There is no unity...

And in Benin, its all man for himself. They can do anything to survive, absolutely anything, either good or bad.

Just had to point out "why" she may not have brother to link to such contract.

ebyjoyken:
Hi! Good morning all.

I have been married for 10 years, and I have never had any serious issues with my husband, I have never treated his mother badly. I love his mum just like i love mine. I lost my dad last year and my husband never showed any concern towards my family, i didn't call any of my siblings or my mum till date.

But recently each time we are having a discussion he keeps saying that anytime I challenge him that he will ask my children to insult me. This breaks my heart because i was never rude to my parents as child even as an adult. I have never spoken ill of my husband before my kids, so i don't understand why he keeps saying that to me. My children mean alot to me, i have invested so much in my kids and they are lovely children. I am scared that he might start poisoning their minds towards me.

Matured advice needed please.

Lol... The kind of people that get married these days eh.

Omoodua007:
Go and teach your own commentars civility first

we no see you for thread lamenting about Buhari's nepotism by The Nation.

Suddenly, you have found your voice.

24kmagic:
Thales by moonlight.

There's a difference between looking down on people and condemning what is bad.

I will always condemn prostitutes, that doesn't mean I'm looking down on her.

I know orphans who hawk pure water and other petty stuffs to make ends meet.

No be this your story go make me begin fvck ashawo, tufiakwa.

Nobody say make u go fork ashii...

For inside this life there hundreds of ashiii happily married and faithful while holier than thou have divorced cos they are still forking dicks.

Everybody has a reason for taking certain path in life.

Plus, ashawo get standard...

When u give girl friend money after sex, what's that? Or when the only thing you gain from her is sex and you in turn do heaven and earth for her, what do you call that?

luvyaself95:
Oh My God.

what kind of sex worker is the lady that getting you contracts back to back.

Some of the best deals or business contracts are sealed at night clubs.

Don't shiiit yourself bro.

PerfectlyPerfect:
I honestly don't know who advises these people. Banning importation of goods isn't the answer, whether the goods are produced in the country or not. If these countries decide to retaliate and ban importation from Nigeria, we'll be the ones to suffer it.
Solution: Create a good environment for businesses to thrive, and watch if we'll need to import some of these foodstuff again

The stupid man was willing to spend billions for RUGA, but he has not spend shishi to help destone local rice in order to make the rice look finer like the imported ones.

GraGra247:
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!

Do you know the narrator? lol... do you follow him on facebook?

In this life, I will never look down on anyone and it has always been my motto. Those who do can always learn the hard way. I have seen a lot to stick to this.

Happy Reading folks.

Weeks ago I attended a child dedication ceremony in Port Harcourt, among other notable people in Port Harcourt who were in attendance, was a serving Commissioner in Rivers State. My friend's child was the celebrant and he the host.

The mistake most of us made in life is lack of the wisdom to distinguish a casual friend from a relationship, hence, we treat prospective partner like a casual girlfriend, and treat a girlfriend like a wife.

Years ago, me, this my friend and one other of our friend used to be roommates in a One room self contain in Port Harcourt. Though things was rough for us, we were almost oblivious of the realities of our poor circumstances, hence our primary concern was money for beer, sex, food, clothings and contributions for rent.

We were together when he met his wife. We met her in a club, normally any of us taking a woman for the night goes home first, after action he sends a message then the others come back. The only consideration is that we leave the bed for them and sleep on the floor. The only time we leave the room to sleep in a neighbour's room is when the girl is not a club girl.

Usually, after the first person that brought a call girl home is done, the other two try to negotiate for a side show which is often half price of the Night, but that day she was so upset that my friend didn't tell her he had other people sleeping in his room, she refused to let me or the other guy to do even with our money.

In the morning she kept insulting my friend, and reported him to us for telling her he likes her and would want to make her a serious date. She ridiculed him and began calling him "Osho Free". She said my friend thought she's naive, that he is looking to be having sex with her without paying by telling her about relationship despite knowing that she is a hustler.

The next weekend, he didn't come back home, next morning he told us he went to the call girl's apartment and he had to pay higher because she initially refused to see him because of him having roommates, then they agreed they do their transaction at her apartment but on a higher price.

That's how my man began dating this lady, then we honestly believed he was under Edo spell and spending all his money. We kept advising him that it was only a man who just moved to the city from the village that falls in love with a commercial sex worker.

The lady began coming over on weekends to cook for us, we soon became friends, though we never disrespected her to her face, we continued to discourage our friend because she kept doing her normal business and my friend's defense was that she told him she was never going to sleep with his friends, neighbours or colleagues even for a million dollars.

In those days we didn't really have big dreams, aside securing a job that could pay up to N70K per month. We were yet to realise that we have graduated, we kind of still lived lives as students. We just graduated from the university. Our highest aspirations was a Master's Degree, ability to afford Toyota Camry and move to a bigger apartment.

Until the day, the girl told us about "Water Hyacinth" contracts in NDDC, then it was a new agency. She has an inside contact and would present my friend as her brother. My friend is from a non-NDDC state while she is Edo, but since I am from Abia State I was to partner with him while the girl arranged Local Government Certificate of origin from Edo State for him. My job was to use my Legal professional skills to draft our proposal and also defend it at the NDDC.

Few months later we got the contract, for the first time in my life I realised how poor I have been.

Well, from that day i stopped calling the girl "dancer" and began addressing her by her name. I and the other guy stopped being condescending to her.

She later arranged for another Interior Decoration contract, I know Aba very well so I was the person that sourced all the materials and arranged the skilled labourers from Aba.

We moved to a 2 Bedroom Flat and bought cars, my friend and his girlfriend took one room while me and the other guy took one. In less than 6 months we went for her Traditional engagement. From that day, as bro code I started addressing her as "Madam " being my friend's wife.

They later moved to another apartment. My friend was the first amongst most of our contemporaries to buy a land in Port Harcourt and began building.

Well, a club girl changed our life for the better. Sometimes, I sit back and wonder where I would be and what I would be doing today if we didn't meet that girl or we succeeded in persuading our friend to leave the girl. I would probably be in my Learned Senior's chamber hustling for Appearance Fee so that I can go to court to be screaming "I put it to you".

I have not seen my friend for some years but he insisted I come for the occasion, he wanted us to discuss. He told me they were relocating to Australia. That the wife got a contact and they paid huge amount of money. Him and his family are moving, but he will come back from to time because of his several engagements in Port Harcourt.

Source: https://web.facebook.com/newallahkaduna.nzeogwu/posts/615893265906729

nameo:
You dey mind that chap??

That is SirJamo switching accounts.

0monnak0da:
Why do you like feeling important? Did Igbos invest in Lekki port to make it viable. They don't need you so stop attaching with style. The Port will serve Cameroun Chad Niger and NE Nigeria as well as the oil industry in that part of the Niger Delta.

no vex for that my brother. It is one thing I do not like about them. Bragging and boasting is something I HATE with passion.

Blue3k:
Here's a link. I cant get a good screenshot. The blue box I made is the port and future expansion of port. The rest is the industrial city.

The super highway connects to port if you look at number 11.

how far on this project bro?

Kalashnikov102:
Bullshi zooms off!!

And stop nonsense.

Rubbiish:
U and the person who led u to them will share the 5% from owner of d land & the 5% from d buyer.

Thanks for helping last time.

We are still on the verification stage of the land. I asked the supposed surveyor if the land has any problem, he said it does not have and they even assured us that the king of the community will be involved during the last stage.

So, I collected the survey plan and sent it to the buyer, both soft copy and scanned copy since the buyer is not in Nigeria.

The buyer handed things to his Surveyor General guys to vet and it turned that the land is under acquisition. Though he said he wants to check whether it is possible to lift the acquisition on the land. So we are waiting for the feedback on that one, which is now 50-50.

How is it possible that a family owns land that is under acquisition and even surveyed it?

Does this mean the someone can actually be a genuine owner of a land and at same time the land will be under government acquisition?

NGpatriot:
If den like, make den address by field marshal idi amin, that's their headache, it's called freedom of speech, something they claim they don't have.

See contradiction, confusion and hypocrisy.

They don't even know how dumb and idiotic they sound, a whole news paper.

PMB no send you..


smh

Doing is job for peanut as usual. Punch correspondence was kicked out of Aso Rock.... all aides have been reacting since and you say dem no send? lol.

joker.

ebuk4real:
To remember that this is the same Adeshina I religiously followed his column while still at The Sun newspaper still baffles me. He wrote as a man of strong convictions that if thrown in a pit of Lions like Daniel of the holy scriptures, he would still stand & speak for the truth. And I never missed his column.

But after APC welcomed him to the banquet table, I guess it's either he intentionally shuts down his brain or his meal was laced with memory loss.

Now I know the meaning of the saying which goes thus: Never trust an average Nigerian with power.

Forget Nija...

It was a marketing strategy... did Adeboye, a whole pastor, not contribute to the calamity of today? ALL OF THEM are fighting for their survival. These men know Nigeria's end is near. All money collected and being stored in dollars.

Make no mistake. Anybody who believe someone is coming to safe them in this country is a big time fool.

statusquoante:
Back to sender! In Jesus' Name. Amen.

If I hit your flat head hard now, the mods will come and ban me

swebe

statusquoante:
All these just to justify your olodo status

Chai!

go use am collect money for bank na... May all PMB is doing to Nigeria befall you and your entire family. Fool.

statusquoante:
Typical olodo comeback... I know you have learnt something. Even auto correct will never suggest 'perchance'...

Now say thank you to daddy...

Mumu Nigeria. China that does not even speak English will reinvent your life without a word in English... Things they can do, your English will never get you in 2000 years to come as a Nigerian.

Fools THINK ENGLISH is a yardstick of intelligence and bright future

statusquoante:
Olodo!

ode, I type faster than ur brain can match, hence the typos.

Germi9:
Am really surprised that the Southwest elite are quiet about this issue...
This can't happen in SS or else all d pipelines will go down

they are the intelligent one na while the rest of us are stupid.

statusquoante:
Nothing happened
Obasanjo didn't become president
June 12 is not democracry day
MKO is not GCFR
Abuja stadium is not MKO Abiola stadium

ode, how has this improved the economy. Nigerians and their stupid perchance for titles.

Okoroawusa:
No body is addressing the fact that Sowore said things he shouldn't have said even in the most liberal counties of the world


I don't have one iota of pity for Sowore

Did his statement kill a soul? The Bokoharam being released are they better than him after killing hundreds? Make una continue

Advocate500:
This is not funny anymore, Buhari with his cousin's and nephew will soon get what they are looking 4 in this country.

nothing will happen. I assure you that when the protest start, it will be strictly the Yorubas affair. Other ethnic groups will exclude themselves.

The fact that your elders are silent should tell you what is coming.

carbon1224:
This is the right answer. Yorubas are watching until the main thing happen then you would understand it better.

this is where you guys always make mistake. So someone has to die before you do what is right?

Chai...