₦airaland Forum

JamParkMe:
Boko boys will soon have free reign over the entire northern Nigeria. I think it's time we gather all those who tested positive for COVID-19, euthanize them with a lethal IV dose of potassium chloride, cremate their bodies and bury their ashes 100km beneath the ground in a remote jungle. How do you think China was able to defeat this virus? Have you forgotten how they said a hotel housing corona virus patients mysteriously collapsed?

Difficult times call for difficult measures.

Lovely idea. Do you grant us permission to do that to you and all your loved ones if we test you guys and find you positive.
One for all mate- you’d sacrifice yes?

The rich and influential are getting tested- what happened to the poor and average?

Let’s discuss this later please!

Omg this is the way people were dropping dead in China. Those whose immune system can’t handle it will began to drop suddenly while going about their activities.

The mental health of those workers must be taking a serious hit

Blisplendor12:
It has affected every sector

As in...
Things were not this bad when I created this topic.

naijanaso:
You don't even trust the deity and you are here telling us the year will be great for you. Hmmm

The thing off me- Inside life.

Since coronavirus reared it’s ugly head , lives have been lost and the world has been thrown in disarray.
Let’s talk about the business aspect of things- How has it affected your business?
Importation wise, sales wise and exportation?
How have you been handling the challenges?

cfree14:
Haba hanty! Fear God na. U fit use dis ur comment create new thread

Na Wetin I talk. This one na project o! Choi! Abi na him girlfriend don come block am for here? Because I no understand?

Behold you must be a great writer o
This one na 3 blog posts. Omg.

Leezah:
Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.

Maybe.

2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.

Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.

Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.

Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.

Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.

Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner. If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own.

Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.

I especially think in today's world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in other areas.

Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…

Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).

Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it.

Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.

Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.

Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.

Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one?
Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous?
Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend?
Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side?
Many questions to ask before you take any action.

Starboytwo:
forgive my naivety, I have never engaged a lawyer before? So I don't even know where to begin. Do I look for a property lawyer or any lawyer at all?

Also, if I walk into the office of one? Do I pay for the service, i.e would the lawyer demand money(I mean I'm I suppose to pay etc)

I've never conversed with a lawyer before, nor do I know how they operate...

You need a caretaker

xynerise:
Hmmmm...Please, do the popcorn well so we go dey alright after consumption

As in- I think sey na the sugar or butter Dey change the color. Inside life

antivirushop:
just as i said before just start small. dont use greed to start a new biz. u can buy few samples and test in ur area. i remembered when i started biz years back. i use to buy few pieces of any item and then know d ones dt people liked more and sold out fast. for instance if u re interested in fashion like mens jeans. u can come to d market and pick a piece or two of different designs and material u think is good and move. when u sell them then u can come back and buy bundles of those ones dt people in ur area liked more. u dont just wake up and enter market and start buying bundles of jeans dt u dont know if it can move for u

i received lots of chats asking almost same thing. its only courageous people dt re ready to take d bold step of starting something.dont stay and be having fears. start trying sth , if one fail d other might work. dts why i its good to start small. also dont spend much of ur money trying to package or beautify ur shop. u can even start from ur home or office or a small inexpensive shop. just make sure u have varieties of goods. thats what ur customers will be more interested in.dont spend all ur m oney acquiring a luxurious place for ur biz. i remembered a guy i use to read his thread dt started a phone and gadget shop in ibadan. at a time he started spending much in beautifying his shop while he has less goods in his counter. these days i dont know if he is till in biz. here in onitsha u can see a very small shop but if u re told d amount and volume of transaction dt goes inside it u will shudder. am not saying u have to be in a tacky place but invest more in ur goods/ if people in d same market wit importers are making it and making good profit how much more u that is a far market with less competition.

Wise words.
Thanks so much for your leadership sir. That’s why when I see people on NAIRA land asking what business can I do with 150k and some people will be saying it’s too small I will just be wondering. Sometimes having too much money can be a problem if you don’t have experience with learning how take the right steps in business- you will just blow it up on the wrong things. Start small, restategize, come back, try again.The road to success is not a straight line.

emeijeh:
Prepaid meter, 2k a month.

Please how do you do it? My prepaid is 10k per week

45 minutes after which I begin to develop headaches , sweat profusely and feel the onset of immense sadness.

Yimu

Kobicove:
Are you actively involved in the business or are you one of those people who only go about selling training and consultancy despite not having any practical experience?!

My brother�� all those bloggers and trainers that know nothing

hope4nigeria:
i collected BOI loan #2m, I was thinking of business to invest that business, and the money will not go down the drain, I bought fairly used standard DYNA coast #950k, and I bought golf 3 direct Belgium #1m. I stationed at deidei building material market, I transport goods twice a day that fetch me nothing less than #25k, If I buy fuel, 4k, I go home with nothing less than #20k, without stress, then when I close 5:30pm. I will enter town and do car drop with the new golf3, before 8:30pm, I return home. I can confidently tell you I safe #23k everyday after flexing, at month end, I bank deduct loan repayment, I will still have more than excess cash to do other project. In less than one and half year, I was able to set up tiles Business, I've been supplying tiles to people in there houses with my DYNA, Im getting more profit. That's how it all started, when bank saw my repayment performance, they offer to grant me #5m for my next loan. Tho I'm yet to decide. Did I inform you that I'm a graduate Bsc. I will never further my education again, all I'm thinking now is money, money and money, and I will never work under anybody again.

Wow I like your spirit
Lol once anyone starts doing business to pursue a career is always weird.

justlaw:
Please OP, just flee from this Forex business. It's not as they they portray it to be.

Really? Please tell me more because I have been feeling like I am missing out on something and that these guys are making serious money

The thief comes to steal kill and destroy. If you are so unhappy in your marriage. Leave honorably and do the right thing with the next guy. See what cheating has caused?

elektra:
The only time cheating bothers men is when it is a woman doing it.
Look at this OP, he is not even the one being cheated on, but it worries him so much he had to open a thread about it.

The woman left the kids for her husband. Who should she have left them for? Are the kids not bearing the man’s name?
There are many women tired from raising kids by themselves, have you ever noticed anyone of them? The moment you see one man raising his kids you come to open thread.
You men should get used to raising your own bloody kids.

Party scatter

antivirushop:
the key thing for success in any biz is having a good customer base, i keep stressing that, do u know why, bc their cooperation can bring u success, that been said,

i have seen alot of bizmen who never bought a single thing off d shores of nigeria, they trade locally,and re successful, here in onitsha there are traders who buy from,d importers and sell in,d same line with them , most of them have built many four storeys in this town, alot,of,people keep sending me meassage asking which bizness they will do dt is profitable, i will,say all biz are profitable just depends on ur strategy, in this thread i try as much as possible to give info dt can,help, am not a motivational speaker,am,just telling what i see happening,
d basic thing is dt thing u re doing already find a way to,enhance and upgrade it, u can visit this town and check what positive impact it can add to,what u re doing already, last year nov dt i,went to,d north, i saw alot of men who re doing big businesses there, almost all of them buy their goods from either lagos or onitsha, some of these guys re richer than their suppliers in onitsha, ask me why, bc they sell wit a higher profit margin than people here,make i stop here, make i take my malaria and,catarrh drugs,

Well done sir! Antivirus shop for president. I went all the way from Lagos and enjoyed my time there. For a strategic business person like me - it was like going to Disney and I didn’t even scratch the surface! I have already started work on a business I had started before and packed up.
What he is saying is true o. There are stuff I used to import from China and the cost was killing me. Lo and behold they are cheaper in Onitsha.

Antivirushop God bless you o. Though you were not around, God blessed me with a divine helper who really helped me. But your guidance is invaluable!

Setf:
Please see below prices for each item

7 seater chair set - 110k
4x6 bed frame and two bedsides - 40k
Mattress Mouka Flora - 28k
One center table - 12k
One TV stand - 17k
Mini fridge with freezer space - 22k

Location is Lekki, Lagos
All used for less than a year.

Have you sold the bed set?

How old are you?
Have you ever seen war??
If you know what happens during war you will be wise enough to suggest a better solution.
War will be too heavy for you to say!

iyandaoluwaoba:
I have a burden on my heart.
I can feel it like it's happening already.
There's a dark cloud over Nigeria.
It's time to liberate the slaves.
The slaves are seeing light at the end of the tunnel already.
It's time to go
It's time to go.
War is looming.
After war comes peace.
Oodua is rising
Ipob will soon stand yet again.
Buhari will be the last of his kind.
It will happen like a dream.
The war will be short.
But it will happen
And the next generation will be liberated.
Our fathers spirit has risen again in us.
Ooniirisa where are the gods of our fathers
Alaafin, wheres the greatness and the powers you claimed our fathers had.
Obasanjo
Do you want your mistakes to be corrected in your lifetime.
Then be ready for war.
Yoruba be ready
They want to take us unawares.
Yoruba in diaspora.
You guys should start warming up to take back your generation from the ills done to her.
Yoruba,
This is beyond xtians and moslems.
Let's go back to the drawing board
It's war time omo oodua
Let's not shy away from our problems
It's the end of the suffering.
Eshin ko kin ko Ere asarele.
This is not the time to pray to Jesus or Mohammed.
Isreal where you guys copied Jesus from still fight war.
Infact God himself is a warlord.
Ologun loluwa.
It's war time Gs.

antivirushop:
d Engr DT handles all my Pc repairs died last year. have not been able to get anoda person I can give my trust 100%. but u can try this guy who stays at Old post office house, first floor, d name na Okocha . he is good but I don't give him jobs.I prefer people I can talk to in case of any incasity.lol. well he is .one of d pioneers in DT sector.

old post office is d two storey building standing beside our Lord plaza at d junction DT leads to Emeka offor plaza

Please where can I get the wholesalers for men’s socks, boxers and also perfume oil wholesalers.

I have been trying to call you for days. I have to be in Onitsha first thing Monday morning

samuelsam:
I am a native of Ogidi, in case you are new there, you can contact me for help, if you also need land to buy or flat/shop for rent, i will help

Antivirushop we know but who art thou? Hmm... let’s all beware. People are suddenly coming to advertise on this thread....

antivirushop:
their park is in Asaba shortly before the Niger bridge if u re coming from Lagos

Okay thanks

Is there GIG there ? God is good motors?

antivirushop:
a lot of people has expressed interest about the offer I made . pls note DT it will be first come serve, so d first two person DT comes first

Please how do we know we have made it?��

antivirushop:
d major markets have started for d year, the markets are bustling much more than i expected, i took some little time out o my busy schedule to move around main,market yesterday evening, things have started in full,force,

as part of my happy new year gift, will be offering to take 2 people around here in onitsha who might wanna buy sth,
i hope GOD gives me time to do this

Please I book oo! When do you want to do it sir.

Charleys:
Antivirushop you haven't answered my question. Did the Late Ojukwu ever said that for if is to remain relevant in Nigeria, they should not open their containers in Lagos that they should take it to their state or Village?

I.e onitsha?

Would you be civil enough to take this conversation elsewhere? This is a safe, kind thread where business people are rubbing minds and seeking opportunities to better themselves. We don’t want it sidetracked. Thanks and have a beautiful day.

GraGra247:
Seconded!! Clearly tell her that going forward, she gets any money she requests for through her husband.

Problem is that once a woman forms the habit of begging men for money outside her marriage, not too long afterwards she'll end up in their beds one by one.

So better be careful.

Word!