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The first time I asked, he gave me money to employ a maid; now when I raise the topic, he just says “NO!” angrily and walks away. Three months ago, I would have rejoiced at this reaction from him because his mom is a trouble maker, but now, I am just frustrated. My husband hates his mother and I can’t help suspecting that I caused it all.


When I first met my husband, he and his mother were 5 and 6. He would visit her and buy her gifts almost every week. Being an orphan, I admired their relationship.

I liked that he was so caring. And, when he finally introduced me to her, I recall that me and her vibed. We even became close and she would always call me to check up on me. Two years into my marriage to her son, however, her attitude towards me changed. She was bitter that I had not taken in and given birth to a grandchild, so she started making things difficult for me. She even turned my husband’s sisters against me.

Any small thing, she will pick fight with me. She did everything to poison my husband’s mind against me.


At first I was always begging. But after about a year of dealing with her wahala, I decided to use her own tactics against her, and I started to whisper in my husband’s ears as well. I would exaggerate the things she said to me or did to me and cry to my husband. I always made sure I deprived him of sex every time I was depressed from what his mother may have said or done to me.

Just as I wanted, he started getting irritated by his mom’s attitude too. I think the straw that broke the camel’s back was one of the nights when my mother-in-law was visiting. She woke up in the middle of the night and started screaming that she had a vision that I came and sprinkled something on her while she was sleeping, that I was a witch and I wanted to kill her. My husband, who was well aware that I had not left the bed, got really upset and asked his mother to pack her things. He drove her back to the village that night. At 3 am. Me, I was even scared. This was over a year ago. He stopped speaking to his mother after the incident and I was very relieved.


The thing now is that God has blessed us finally with a son, but as an orphan, I have no mother to help me through the process of becoming a mother. My grandma that raised me passed on a while ago, so I have no one.

I have hired a maid, but it is not the same. I feel like I am doing everything wrong. I need a mother to teach me the tradition of caring for a baby. I already reached out to my mother in law and she is willing to come, but my husband is the stumbling block we are having now. I cannot believe that something I rejoiced over, has come back to bite me. I am feeling so much regret now, because my husband is too stubborn.

eneji50:
Let inec make all those that will vote buhari pay a certain amount before we could vote him, he will still win 2019 election


Buhari is a tsunami no one can stop till 2023,

So wailers should take heart

Tambuwa is a gonner politically!!

@eneji50 say so oooooo!

i go pay sha

shey it's bn paid for? Let those who want to vote do so.

jeff1607:
not all women would take money.

some would want a deeper connection that money can't provide

Very few that know their worth, very few my dear!

eneji50:
Let inec make all those that will vote buhari pay a certain amount before we could vote him, he will still win 2019 election

Buhari is a tsunami no one can stop till 2023,

So wailers should take heart

Tambuwa is a gonner politically!!

@eneji50 say so oooooo!

i go pay sha!

eneji50:
Let inec make all those that will vote buhari pay a certain amount before we could vote him, he will still win 2019 election


Buhari is a tsunami no one can stop till 2023,

So wailers should take heart

Tambuwa is a gonner politically!!

@eneji50 say so oooooo!

i go pay sha...

sarrki:
30k in make i less than 4hours

I swear with God Almighty that created heaven and earth

Ask around those that knows me in person on Nairaland

My love for Pmb is personal conviction

May cause follow me if I do support him on financial gain or if I have ever collected money from Apc agent

Having said that if anyone accused me wrongly may the they never witness happiness in life

AMEN!!!

Nackzy:
Politics, APC will never allow any defector defect in peace, na wa for this kind party, Na North Korea?

hahahahahahahahaha

midolian:
At this age, not a virgin? Is she/he female? Even if na female, is that an excuse for this kinda beating? Do you even know if one sex starved paedophilic bastard took advantage of her?

If you flog her in this manner because she has lost her virginity at this tender age, does it mean the lost virginity will be found?

A lost virginity can never be found..quote me anywhere

my own is that... is the soldier lady a virgin?

what's the warning or reason behind this? He should go to court and hammer jor!! 30 billion loading

God is everywhere... but only few feel His presence. If you know, you know

budusky05:
So many fake news everywhere, how can the Senate president who is a member of the opposition become vp?

dem say acting president... you're talking vp. So if acting president resigns while the president is away, who becomes acting? Tell us na...

Lordave:
I don’t understand why God would be lenient even to our past military Heads of State.
Every one of them should have ended up miserably.

i think the post calls for individual reflection into how God has been merciful and patient towards man. How often do we exhibit such virtues for the betterment of mankind?

Focus on the message pls

give her money, more money and more than she can spend.... let's see if she won't manage all situations with u

tolugar:
This just changed my view

Love is a choice.

Happiness is a choice

true

hia... did his dad vomit him d resemblance though

RIP

so shall we all


RIP

how true?

the problems man has been through from time immemorial till date... we still can figure it out, why?

Anytime we leave our brain to reason with prick and Vjay, the outcome is never productive. Because brain is for reasoning while P n V are for straffing...just straffing.

OP let ur brain reason for you and you'd do just fine!

i know even as we speak, P and V are already putting some ediots in trouble already.

i thought prayers go with good intentions. My thoughts though

Caseless:
Atiku is alone. Until he wins the primary of the pdp, then I can say what's on my mind concerning him.


For now, he should go and face the embarrassment of the primary.

Next...

that second paragraph carry belle....

Caseless:
Her makeup fit paint house.

hahahahahahahahaha too heavy

OP do u know what eye popping means?

livinus009:
Actually this case is Opposite. We men are the ones that enjoys $ex the most because we men will always Cum whenever we have $ex. But women, they rarely reach Orgasm which of course is the real height of $ex.

try make she cum too na... shey everybody suppose dey cum.

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
Can't relate on how Ronaldo statement should make him feel pained, his statement were so direct to Ronaldo, while Ronaldo's wasn't even so directed to Madrid..

dem still dey mourn am... just wait and see how Madrid fans will monitor Ronaldo's goal celebrations...

Meanwhile barca all the way....

Mynd44:
R-APC Is not a faction. It is a group within the APC.

Factions have parallel excos and a headquarters

Gaskiya too much sense will not come and kill you... Your enemies go dey envy u while u prosper...

Edygrin:
If he came back to see the guy hitting the bitch nko?

na to maim u be dat.... that man no get chill atoll!!

Mrquincy:
Must they add SARS at the end? No sexy names? �

like "the ooh aah agency" abi?

una no go kill person ahswey!!

haba see world cup traffic on this thread!!