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punisha:
Pampers, baby wipes and baby food are expensive...just a friendly reminder.
Talk to ur diick and explain reality of things to it.

Lol

Jack005:
Free punna na him you loseguard. Another nigga Don bang the pussy scatter. Move on my guy

Na wetin I come realise at last, the girl no come dey too come close again

Juliusmomoh:
Op, be careful oo.. I like your decision..

It was not easy oo, I almost fell out of pity

paulolee:
in some such type of cases, opportunity comes but once, jus forget her and move on, anoda better bea go show or she fit still pity you and reason you carry kpekus come bt dts would be hard because girls de hardly ask guys for sex and they feel bad when they try and the guy rejects them...jus forget her and face front

Bro I Bleep up but maybe if I run am then it fit be abortion money wey the babe for don dey collect because as I don drink two bottles of small stout earlier, I for run am local

Vade1:
I can’t believe I just wasted few minutes reading this trash, guy warn yourself o

Lol And also wasted extra more minutes, commenting about the wasted time wasted during reading, I don warn myself already but na true story, I'm serious

paulolee:
ir wrong?? u didnt bang the hell out of her even if you said u wr crushing on her..
u supposed to bang her brainz out bcoz a real gee hardly say no to his begging crush..

Guys I think I have realised my mistake, do you think I get a second chance, I wish to make it up to her if she's not already taken

Iceyjayzz:
All these super stories self...

Does this look like Super Story to you...I still like the girl, she's back in the street, is there a chance I can have her back

So it was December 23rd 2019 and my family had gone home for Xmas, I was the only one left in my flat because I was travelling home on 26th so the whole flat was mine...at first I felt like a Bachelor, I'm 25 it was Christmas eve, the weather is cold and Chilly, few guys came around, I had lots of end of the year parties to attend.

So on the night of 23rd December I was at this end of the year party with my friend OG, after taking two bottles of small stout, I notice this girl I had been crushing on, I told my friend OG and he arranged the seat for us at the other corner...

He called the girl over and we got talking, apparently I used to exchange greetings with the girl on the street and she seem to realise I had interest in her...Our discussion went smooth, she confessed to liking me too.

At about 10:30 I wanted to go home, I told OG, Seems I will be alone in my flats let me try my luck on her...OG encouraged me with some few Bro lines and asked if I got some CD, I didn't see the need for the CD I just told OG, that won't be a problem as far as she will follow me home.

I tried my luck, seems fate brought us together she agreed to go home with me...seriously I didn't contemplate sex in the first place, I just wanted to go home with her, have some fun mummy and Dady time, cook us something well, I only meant to cook noodles or prepare tea because since my family travelled I had been surviving entirely on tea and noodles or eat out...

On getting to my flat things didn't work out exactly as I had imagined on closing the door, I held her and kissed her on the forehead she was in front so I held her from behind, holding her tummy I whispered to her ear, "would you want to carry my baby", that statement triggered a reaction which made her start contemplating if she will carry my baby ofcourse she would like to but what happens to this, to that, her education...you know all those type of reasoning in other to stop her from talking I had to move in and planted a kiss on her lips so passionately.

The next few minutes we would be on the couch, we went on and on up to a point she begged me to make love to her...Well I was not prepared for this so I was like, I'm not ready for sex now, she begged and begged and I maintained my ground.

Up to a point she asked if I'm okay like down there, I said yes I'm okay, she asked again is it that you have it small down there that she wouldn't mind, these questions are getting rather embarrassing, truthfully I was hard but not prepared for sex, I like the girl but I just wanted to get to spend some intimate non sexual time with her.

I made it clear to her I desire her and I just want to stay close with her for the night but I can't have sex with her I don't even have a CD, so she repeated her annoying question again saying tell me the truth are you sure that you are okay or even if it is small I wouldn't mind, just make love to me, at the height of these embarrassing questions, I pulled off my trousers then my boxes and ask her now does it seem like I'm not okay or that I'm small down where, I made it clear to her I'm not just ready for this today, she confirmed I'm okay and my size too is okay.

She still begged me to just let her hold me, stuff like that, at the end looking rather disappointed she said look at the way I'm begging you, it even seem like I'm rapping you already...

She left a little disappointed but more so in love, the next day she confessed to having fallen in love with me, when she came the next day I didn't allow her to kiss me when she tried, I got a broken lips from yesterday's rump and it won't just be right bleeding into her mouth...I fell for her too.

But I travelled soon when I came back on January she had travelled to spend some time with her sister, then I travelled again, I didn't see her again until a week ago but she don't seem to have the zeal to have something to do with me...Guys what did I do wrong.

Opp I'm interested, I will DM you now

For me I had noticed that despite nairaland's rather decided outlook atimes we still got one voice and many times we could be also empathic

While it may make sense the way you said it, what is the possibility that the three Niger you stated can unite for a common purpose, from all indication, the middle belt for all we know is North

I think this could have been a bright opportunity for our leaders to make a difference, people are not even expecting much this time around, they just want you to show that you are fighting for them,

Rubbiish:
God bless u sir
Instead of concentrating on his health, he is talking about marriage. I don't understand the way we reason, so much suffering in the world already, if u don't trust your health, why bring in more people to the world to suffer? Who will take care of them? Live your life to the fullest, take care of health & forget about marriage!

I'm working on my health, I believe I will get better I didn't want kids, she made me want to, I'm working, I didn't have a committed relationship, I wasn't thinking about marriage earlier, but sometimes things change

chuksoyo21:
Dude, am of the opinion you bring ur intending wife up to speed about your current state of health if you truly love her as you claim...
Since, your major dilemma in regards to the issue of dying young if you marry her is centred on your health issue, just come open up.
Hence, she has decided to stay with you, don't be scared...
You really have to be brave. Come out and explain to her. you never can tell, she might accepts to be with you just as you are.
Also, let your people know what your health challenges are.
Life is way too short to be wasted.
There is no wound true love cannot heal.
You have a choice to be very happy, make use of it wisely...

I told her she said she will be my painkillers and that nothing is going to happen to me, that I'm not going to leave her stranded

femi4:
So, why are you so sure of going before her

Is HIV even a killer disease, no, there are more deadly condition out there, I'm only correlating fact and fiction, that naturally this thing have a chance of occuring whether she is there or not and people will judge the whole story with her not mind that on my own I'm not even fine, and whatever happens got nothing really with her but which part would people look.

femi4:
you have HIV?

I don't think so, the last time I went for test, my status was nagative though been long like four years back, and not been engaging in uprotected sex though I know I can get HIV from other means but that's not likely, I don't have multiple sex partners and for some time I didn't have a committed relationship

TallPck1:
About your health. You need to start attending a good church like living faith and start breaking every spirit of generational curses and sickness and believe me you would be fine. Your health matters and you can also take the said lady along with you.

You need to accept Jesus as your lord and personal saviour. Remember seek the kingdom of God first and all other things shall be added unto you.

#God bless you!

As for the prayers we pray together sometimes but Islam and Christian prayers are quite different and for me coming ftom a family of diversified religious view, I lack a strong hold in any religion, I'm a Catholic my Grandma was a Muslim, one of my brother is a deeper life pastor, one of my brother is apologetic to tradition, as for my girlfriend being a Muslim, sometimes we have different views of forces. For example while she don't touch the Islamic Holly book while on her period I understood but I still tell her to pray in her mind as those forces don't care if you are on your period to strike, we pray together but we had never attended any religious program together

CharlesJok3r:
You got a superstitious family members. That's no good for you!
Fvck your family opinion. Marry your friend if you are into each other deeply. Death is not very predictable. You just have to be prudent with every decisions you are making and actions you are taking.
Just do something about your health asap. And have a mind talk with your partner and let her know the situation of things!

Maybe this Xmas when will both be much free I can get to talk with her but not on telling most of those, our future and her future maybe impacted in discussing such an unproven stuff with her about her but i seriously need to talk, I wanted her to come to my family house this Xmas but that won't be happening for now, I will host her somewhere else

HolyCaligula:
My brother, what i am going to advice you to do is the best for you.
I will advise you to take what i will say to heart.

First of all, are you really sure that this said lady is ready to marry you?

Because it seems that you are the only one that is serious and telling family members about getting married.

Does she in her mind wants to go into a relationship with you and get married to you?

Because what is the purpose of a relationship between two adults, if not marriage?

Now on the issue of her being an ogbanje,

Now hear me well bro, flashing back to many years ago when she told you that she can be with you without affection.

Forget the issue of whether she was afraid of heart break.

Any woman that wants to be with a man without affection, has a skeleton in her cupboard.

And for the fact that she kept rejecting you up to may this year before she gives in, should tell you that there is a reason why she keeps rejecting you.

And for your family members that have never met her to have concluded that she is an ogbanje, and with all that has happened in the past.

With my knowledge of spiritual and empirical understanding of the spiritual, i can bodily tell you that indeed, 'SHE IS AN OGBANJE'

TAKE it or leave it.

And this your illness, when did it start?
Was it after you met her years ago or before you met her?


Whatever your answer, i know you will not die and you will live long.

Forget about her, break up with her, focus on your health, you need GOD to heal you.

Believe and go to a real Church where the power of healing is being demonstrated fresh and raw and with faith you will get your healing.

But my brother, leave the lady, your family is right.

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

I had been feeling sick before I met her, there where times during those gap years that we stay for like a year without communicating, yes she's really serious about marriage, we used to talk about number of kids we want, how I will treat her if she gets pregnant, what I will get her if when she's delivers those kind of talks

niaralandtopuser:
if you don't have the will to fight or you are too weak, I will suggest you explain everything to her and maybe end the relationship. marrying against family wish is not for those who build their life on every family opinion.
even if you marry her or any other girl, there wil
l always be problems in every marriage

I want to fight for us but it is complicated, we used to be a family of seven children 4 boys and three girks our, first born married a woman against the family's wish he got living with her and one day they him and the wife had an issue, he got himself drunk got on the car, ran into a truck by accident he didn't survive it, our second born got married and the marriage had been really bad they almost heading for separation after three kids, I'm the only one yet to marry in my house and it complicated because they are being like twice beaten shy to the last

blesskewe:
Please take care of yourself first
Don't deliberately implicate someone's child

Biko

I'm not implicating her my main issue is marrying against your family's wish, what if you won't be there, would they let her take the kids, would they give her full right and recognition to take care of your ventures and the kids if you are not there, these things can ruin her life if she's denied access to her kids or her kids are brainwashed against her like I said I don't believe those things but people still does

niaralandtopuser:
my only advice is seek medical help for your health problem. your family is just trying to stop you from marrying her with the ogbanje talk. ogbanje no longer exist. civilization and advance in medicine may have drove them away . even if ogbanje exist, I think she will be the one dying early not you

I'm working on getting medication but on the other hand, I'm the last born and no body ever seem to believe I know what's good for me, if I went ahead with the marriage against their will, the can even shun the girls family from giving their daughter to me, and that will be really embarrassing

donbachi:
"Problem shared,is problem half solved"..what health condition are you in?let start from there.help may come from here.

Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

We both went home from school together from JS1 until my head spinned off in SS1 and it became rarely before we go home together but sometimes we do, most people thought back then she was my elder sister but the thing now is like I pointed out, there are just few businesses between a man and a woman. I'm just your regular male Nigga,

Pubichairs:
Don't let lust and de excitement from ur john Thomas ..enter ur head to avoid regret


She's already married...it will be nice if u respect ur self and her marriage...as for her she's just a shameless puta...

Na wetin my fellow man marry keep for house..

I don't think she exactly deserve that remarks you made, remember this was a girl, that been respectful and I want to know is could there be sexual attachment to her emotions, married ladies here, is there a time you really miss someone in the past that much and does it have to end in a bad way

SpecialAdviser:
Why not go get ur own wife rather than getting into trouble with someone's else?

Stop killing urself with memories of the past.
It may cause your downfall.

Go get ur own wife and stop flirting with someone's wife.

Many are gone but very few have the cause of the death revealed.

I have a girl friend already that I really love, I told her about that, she jokingly said she's jealous, you know how relationships are sometimes when I have some slight misunderstanding with my current girl, such a coincidence she'd call or chat up, thr more time I get chatting with her the more I forget the issue I had with my girl, though she asks me about my girl and advice that I call her and forgive her she still get really emotional most times

Mood11:
Miss her too so that you both will enter problem

Let us know where to wait for you. Mortuary or Hospital

See advice,

ednut1:
Movie title

It not movie, I'm being real here I'm on nairaland with a slightly popular handle

So around year 2007, I was twelve and just enrolled in secondary school, so this girl in JS2 then beautiful, well dressed and speaks fluent English walked up to me and say let's go home together, actually it was my first day in school. It was a village Secondary School I was supposed to know most people but she's a new face, I letter learnt she was town bred.

It was great for me, she was my senior, intelligent and about two years older than me, she usually called me her son, I didn't care as far as I rode on her influence, I was safe. Then in Enugu state the Junior section was different from the Senior Secondary school section so being in JS2 she was able to protect me from most punishments as she knows most people in JS3 and always finds favour with the teachers.

Years passed and one day I was in JS3 and she SS1, I had started envisaging a relationship, already had my first kiss with another lady about five years older than me and I must say I'd grown some balls, had other awkward relationship including some with my teachers mostly youth service members; I'm no longer a boy.

One day I held her really close and ask her politely for a kiss she was really surprised, laughed it off and I shrugged went away, we had our first fight. By this time I'd really gotten popular it wasn't long before she came back and putting she have understood the growth and all of that but I should understand where she stands in my life.
I told her I understand her completely but does this mean I get the kiss, she said I can go on, well I did but she didn't make effort she just stayed there closed her eyes and did nothing, I would rather say the kiss was boring. It never happened again, we got going and two years on she graduated, one year later I graduated I got admission and left she also got admission.

After some few more years we kept in touch but I got her wedding invitation. I couldn't go was having exam in school. Three years after her marriage she kept coming back calling, chatting telling me how she missed me. At one occasion she told me there were times she couldn't stay without seeing me and she don't know why up till now she still miss me like crazy.

I told she's one girl I once loved with everything but it a little too late. I told her o wanted to marry her despite the age difference and I mean it, she said it couldn't have been easy for us because I was pretty young and got no means to care for us. I told her if you made an attempt to take the situation up a bit the day I kissed you maybe it could have been a little different that she never understood the courage it took to ask being that she'd been someone I always respected.

Well the thing now is she's coming home this Xmas I don't want get in a scandal will her. I told her I'm no longer the good boy she used to know but she said I should flex her while home. I'm a club kinda guy, slightly bad though but there are just some people you don't wanna mess with. She's married wiyh two kids already.

That's a really huge one, , watching from Jupiter, Yahoo Boys food don land oo

Wow, this is really great, somehow the such have eaten deep in our system today, may God epp us in this country, imagine if we did not re elect Buhari