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Bankerboy:
Guy you have a problem, why is it dat you hate ur bro's wife dat much. Ordinary bedsheet. . Is either you remove it or you wash it or you pack out for them. . U've almost rejected every advice here , what do you want us to do 4u nw?

The moment I step out of this house, that's the moment the moment I ask for my share of my late fathers property, the truth is, if they can have sex in my room why can't she wash it, I didn't say I hate her, I said she disgusts me, which right now she looks more disgusting to me,

greatiyk4u:
Go to the nearest big store and buy a new bed spread to replace the one disgusting you or simply pack out.


Your choices are limited in that house, thread with caution to avoid spoiling your brother's marriage.

The reality is you don't know today is Sunday and val, most stores are not open here

uncleck:
everything still boils down to your emotions. It seems yours is a weak emotion. Fortify your emotions with rationality. See the world as something that your emotions cannot control one bit. Whether you love/accept someone or love/unaccept them, it doesn't affect them one bit. That is the reality of life. Strengthen your emotion. Forget about your upbringing and all that. We grew up in a dream world, but laslas reality is reality. If you doubt me why not just go and tell your sister in-law to go and wash the sheet?

Let me tell you a little story, 4 years back a jambite about 19 years back then was staying over in my house as she came from Lagos within two days of her stay she was in love with me, I don't seem to notice much, next day I saw her wearing my track suite, that was the end of it, I wanted to tell to have it but while leaving she dropped it, I threw it into the waste bin right away, you need to understand the challenge, I'm facing right now, is not on telling her to wash it, if I do that I'm disrespecting my brother, if my brother was did not take her to my room is she stupid, wife or not, I'm only calm becuase she's not the only culprit, if she was the only culprit, I will not mention a word before she picks it wash it and dry it is she stupid, does being her husband place give her any right to contaminate my room.

Bro I'm a strict person, If my brother is not around or let's say she can't try it on her own, lol if I move out of my brothers house it won't end there and I don't have issue with him, if I move out of there many more cases will arise

Romanoff:
If you're not paying rent in that house, wash the sheets and move on or start looking for a place.

You no get mouth for that house o.

I don't even understand your own, I'm telling you that I can't wash a sex sheet not that I can't wash the bedsheet, I prefer to wash a truckload of normal clothes, that had been used by coal miners than washing that, seems you don't understand the word disgusting, who is dragging house or house rent here.

To think that you are even a woman saying this does not even show you have any values or respect.

uncleck:
You see the bold statement? It's just in your head. I repeat, grow up. There's something inside you that allows some little sights, smells, thoughts, feelings etc to irritate you. Kill that thing. How can a grown man say he is irritated by a sheet that sex took place on? You said you've not had sex. If you can control the most powerful urge in the universe, I don't see why you can't see sheet as just normal sheet you use to know. Someday in your journey as a man, you'll see and touch shitsss.

Well if you can't, just look for wrapper...

You should have asked why have I not had sex, it is not on any self control stuff but although as a child I wanted to be a priest, I grew up to see somethings as impure, including people, note this is not in the moral concepts, I only accept people that I love, by love here I don't mean sexual attraction, for instance even if my brother has an infectious disease, I may not leave his side but a stranger that I dislike with common cold could irritate me, that's how some things work for me, first of all I don't like my brother's wife whatsoever so this type of thing from her even seems more irritating .

I might stay up and work throughout the night so that tomorrow morning I can sleep in the living room a bit before sorting everything out tomorrow by noon

merieam16:
Sleep on the floor or is d floor also disgusting

I'm allergic to cold floors,

Callmegerald2:
You are taking this issue way too seriously. Do you have a well thought out plan when you leave your brother's house? What would be your reason for leaving his house if you are asked? If you had a fight with his wife, that will be a different case. Just wash the sheet. Lock your room henceforth when going out. This can't be more difficult that this. It disgusts you, fine. A lot of things disgust us. Just ma. up and get it done.

This is already past 5 o'clock, despite that I can't touch the bedsheet for at least 24 hours, even if I man up as you said and wash it, it will not dry now, whatever they did was around 2:40, if she washed it since 3 o'clock it should be dry by now, this is more than enough reason for me to leave a house, people are different,

uncleck:
At 26, you're grown. Stop complaining about little things like this. Pick the sheet and wash or buy another one and fold the old one inside an abandoned case.

Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, or even worse

Callmegerald2:
There are a number of options available to you. First, keep calm. You still live with your brother. Wash the sheet. Do not confront his wife. She will make life miserable for you under your brother's roof.
Secondly, at 26, maybe young should consider getting your own apartment. Maybe a room selfcon will be cool. If they could have sex in your room and not clean up, it may be a subtle sign to get your own room.
Thirdly, do not discuss this issue with your brother. Next time when going out, lock your room.

I'm not looking to confront her, I can wash the sheet, but it disgusts me to wash an after sex sheet of a woman that naturally looks disgusting to me, for this I will leave the house soon, but note maybe it feels this way cause I had not really had sex, the fact is that I can't touch that bed sheet, the closest I had come with a woman is kiss here and more mild romance but this us in a whole new level for me to handle, I know what sex looks like when I see one, my mind could be playing an exaggeration scene in my head but it still disgusting, if I can go through this kind of horrible moments it should be at least for my own women not for a woman that has no atom of respect for my person, the issue is not about washing a bedsheet, sometimes ago when I abd my sister used to visit the orphanage I wash the kids clothes including their bedsheet but washing this particular one it totally dirty to me,

Frip:
Sex no concern brothers o. What nonsense is this I'm reading.

It disgusting, seriously, and I can't just head back to my family house I just came back from there, and it some hour and 30 minutes journey, these things irritates me,

Cutehector:
Why would they have sex in your room

I won't judge much on that one, it is their house and no one knew I will be coming back today, but why in heavens name won't she at least wash the bedsheet, I'm disgusted honestly,

So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

Ride On Mr Premier

A step in the right direction, no side must be aided let them run it tribe to tribe, Yoruba VS Fulani, score 2:1 ....Sunday Igbo scored 1 goal for the Yorubas, Mayeti Allah Scored 1 goal for Fulanis, Terrorist herdsmen scored 1 own goal

OneTemplate:
Precisely.

So a non Alliance stance means it non of our business, there are millions of Igbos in the West, lagos alone have more than 3 million of us, same as Kano and Sokoto, for Igbos to come out and make this decision means we care, did you consider others before you act, would you protect the millions of Igbos in the North, would Fulanis also protect the millions of Igbos in the West, Best thing for Igbos and most others is non Alliance.

budaatum:
Not everyone here is a feminist. Do not let that be your excuse for apologising, if you do.

I mean if it were me, does that notorious seeming ^AlexBells look like he will apologise?

budaatum:
Of course you did not tell her its Nairaland, lol, and neither do you intend to tell her or show her that most of the responses here disagree with you, nor do I expect you to.

I hope you take something from the thread though because, as you yourself said, "a good woman is rare", and I think you know you might have found one.

I will tell her it nairaland and show her the thread and apologise to her, but I also hope she took her corrections, the truth here is I may have over reacted, I need to let her know it nairaland so in the future I can tell her that I did not apologise with my own free mind, that feminist made me do it, I will tell her I was forced to apologise to her, lol

Depending on how the whole thing went on, I don't think you did anything wrong, some girls obviously do not know their boundaries

This made my day, I can't stop laughing at you accept the Emir of Kano and give Former Emir Sanusi Automatic employment lol

This cracked me up, a little

AlexBells:
But for me once in a while I do give prostitutes money just to talk, when I'm super bored I do call meet a prostitutes ask her price, tell her I want talk instead, they as human as anyone else and some are really nice

Don't go and find something useful to do with your life, of all the girls that's around, why pay for slut you won't shag, is just like buying cloth that you won't wear

This woman has a degree in making Nigeria proud, she dey rep well

Still in the church, will give my view once I'm back, OP this matter enter you oo, today na Sunday, you no go church

Rugaria:
Shoot anybody sent by fulani jihadist to come and loot your resources. They have been mining their gold for decades illegaly while sharing the resources. Next will be to get them off our oil and gas resources. Everybody should "possess his possession".

I dont think you need to direct the young man into that wrong direction, these instigations could have impacts, this a step in the right direction but everything must not be achieved with the hate filled impact

This is wonderful, I think Enugu is deepening in the service sector, seriously the synergy between South East state especially between Anambra and Enugu is something else

Juliusmalema:
Just one endsars that is about to end, everyone has turned to motivational speakers.

The play has now been taken too far to mean reform or something new.

Are you the enemy or the people, make your place known let's know whom to fight, we appreciate every Excellent tips that make us better

gidgiddy:
The word "come" in the Ikwerre language is "Bia"

If you ask any Nigerian which ethic group says "Bia" as come, what will they tell you?

There sub-groups of the Igbo nation from Ngwa to Nsukka to Wawa to Ohuhu to Diopka to Ika to Asa to Ikwerre

They all have one ancestral language called Igbo and their ancestral surname is Igbo and thats they are all generally called "Igbo"

While the things you said above could be the case, it is the reserve of a people to decide who they are, while Nigerians and the world sees Ikwere as Igbos, they themselves does not and that's where the whole identity crisis

There is a lot of truths to that

Sammy07:
OP. should Have made his search privately

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In that case, any comment that would qualify must have been mentioned or the topic must have comments suggesting the implied meaning or a direct quote of the slogan.