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Over 2000 years now and religion haven't solved any humanity problems apart from giving people stupid hopes and impoverishing them.
Science came much years after religion and look at what they have achieved so far.
Religion is a failed entity or whatever.... even God realized this himself when he attempted to wipe the whole humanity out one time but then.... He was hoping

The same "hope" religion leaders are using to cage their impoverished minions.

Lol.... During our time it used to be young and wild.... But genz came its now broke and stupid.

Lol..... Get out of your head brother, that place is really stuffy.
BTW I will try the "you look good and you re beautiful" line on a girl soon.

You have no problem against fighting, killing. In fact you propagate terror but when people step aside one day to show love, then BOOM.. problem. Na wah ooo

Baronthecelebri:
Foolish man

"If your views align with mine, you re wise, but if it doesn't.. you re a f<cking bastard"... Humans like that will never grow.

Nnamdipapa:
I have nothing against marry a second wife but personally, I will prefer to live alone if my first marriage fails. I will never go into marriage a second time. It is unnecessary bondage for me at this time. No matter how I am enamored with a lady, It will never pass a FWB situation and you cannot move into my house.

Whatever advice I would like to give you, the long and short of it is that... You can't do it alone.

DrFunmisticGlow:
motherfucker.

Prepare to lose sleep, develop hypertension and die faster than your predestined time

Reverse is the case bro... Im more at peace now. Just that I'll have to double my hustle

ukaface:
Why blame poor devil, except if you are implying your libido/ d!ck is the devil.

Just own up to your sh!t , and leave devil alone
Don’t act like a sissy

You weren’t a sissy when you went for the Second Lady, why now?

It's just a gymmick to appease the first wife so that the whole thing won't seem intentional.

oz4real83:
Hope u won't start blaming a brother, sister, an uncle, an auntie, friends, church or even the govt for not taking over responsibilities you voluntarily gave yourself?

The 3 of us are all in this together. Not only me ooo. We go gather share the blame

Samantha125:
What do you do for a living?🤔🤔🤔

Not regular kind of job but incase you still want to know; I'm a gtaw smaw Welder. But with this situation, I'm delving into farming this yr under my mum's supervision.

enm:
For your information she is here on nairaland so just be man enough and own up to her, be responsible and face the consequences.

While at it, congratulations for your bundle of joy from your soon to be second wife as we await the bit by bit account of life after this current episode.

Once again congratulations.

I was telling one of my friends recently to actually give marrying second wife a shot cuz it really feels good as there won't be too much emotional turmoil that comes with women.

ibechris:
While u are faking it,u are creating more problems for ur first wife.

Second wife and competition no be here.

As u are embracing it,ensure u also embrace the economic consequence.

Good luck.

The second babe is calm and besides they won't be staying together

AllBlack:
The first wife get pikin? don't lie.

LOL.. We have a kid together.

Met the 2nd lady mid 2022, but got pregnant late last yr. My parents are already aware esp my dad who told me to embrace my new status.

The first wife isn't aware yet but I will fake remorse and blame it on the devil and see how it goes.

Ten is happening oooo.

I remember one time when my friend invited me to a bar, na so I see my babe with her friend with 2 guys....that means those guys shared d babes one one nah.
But I didn't give a shït I just waved at her, proceeded to have a drink with my guy.

She later came that night trying to shalaye and shïts but I just shushed her and asked her if she had a good time.

You see, I'm a very cool motherfücker and whenever I approach a lady, and she starts doing shakara; I'll just laugh cuz I know that there re lots of pigs like you out there, she can have them.

Balablue64:
Simp detected, Death To All Simps.

Either you re a small boy or ur Brain stopped growing at the age of 4

This guy thinks it all ends at bride Price. The thing is if you don't have Sense, don't ever think of women.

Even if you get her for free.... won't you empower her? Won't you start a biz for her... won't you rent a bigger house cuz of her?...

My point is...it doesn't end at bride Price or it hasn't even started at bride Price.

Recently I was all full gymnastic on this gentle light skinned girl. I was extremely gentle with her cuz she dey form posh with her English.

Next thing I heard her yelling "BITE ME...BITE ME", at first I was like maybe I shld just kiss her on her neck or sth...but oh mehn she wanted me to bite the shit out of her.

I no gree for her ooooo. Bite you... for what!!!

PureFace1:
Women lie all the time to manipulate men and paint themselves in a good light and as someone valuable, don't believe whatever come out of women's mouth unless you see it for yourself.


Now you would think that Monica girl must be one correct and classy babe if that guy could be begging her for relationship, meanwhile Monica was just lying shamelessly to manipulate you and paint herself in a good light and boost how you view her. How can you verify anyway ?

You are very weak as a man if you believe whatever women prattle to you, 90% of what comes out of their mouth is all lies. You haven't experienced rejecting a girl advances at you but that girl would ran to her friends and told them all how you were the one in her DMs and hitting on her ? or you hit on woman and moved on after she rejected you but the same woman would exaggerate everything and say you were begging her for a relationship?

I really understand whatever it is you re trying to imply and I always etch it at the back of my mind in whatever interaction I have with a girl.
But bro in this case there re receipts bro. I just don't wanna gossip about it, this dude is Just a fuçkin retàrd typical of these Red pill guys. But still that doesn't change d fact that I'm still mean nothing to Monica and she too can bounce me for the highest bidder.

FRANCISTOWN:
Lol! Moonlight tales to sooth your weak nature. Misery loves company.
Weak men can't not believe some men are not weak.

By the way. I'm not a Redpiller or such nonsense. Redpill is too weak. I identify myself with MisoMGTOW.

Number one way to foolishness is to believe whatever comes from the mouth of a woman.
That you believed MONICA already spelled the kind of man that you are.

Lol...fùcking kids

I live in a rural environment working on a project, I have many girls as a friends and I like them a lot.

I feel good whenever they ask me for help and it feels good being able to help with freedom from outcome.

Then there's this guy close to my house...he acts like all this Red pill fücktards, he dresses nice, speaks good English; not that it's a bad thing but shït u re in a typical village, common sense should tell you that u re supposed to dumb down a lil bit.
He's always bragging about him not spending shi shi on a girl and stuff and how he has lands and businesses in some places.

Well long story short.... Monica told me how dude has been trying to get in with his queen's English and how he came to her house kneeling down begging for Love, promising to rent another apartment if I'm d problem. Babe wey this guy dey see for my house ooo.

My point is that most of you guys forming hard guy re just creeps and doesn't have Sense but the hard guy and Red pill bullshit is just to cover up your weakness.

You just met a girl and boom...you started telling her about how many properties and assets you have ....that's going full retard

Jewessgratitud3:
It's not anything financial. I said it's something that won't cost her anything.

Like for instance some of our family pictures are with her and anytime I feel like going through the pics just to see my dad and Mom ( cos they are late) she'll say she can't bring the photos out. Even all our baby pictures in her custody she hid everything. Ok, bring these pics let someone else keep them she'll tell you no. Those pictures used to be in our eldest sisters house but the day she went visiting she packed all the photos and my elder sister didnt have issues bringing out the photos whenever we went there and asked for it but since she took custody, I've not seen those photos for like 5 years now.

Now tell me, does she have the right to keep such family treasure from everyone?

You re Just being pathetic.....she's giving you the tough love you need.

ceeceeuwa:
Na you call am wife. She is not his wife yet. They are just cohabiting. When the time is right, he will fo the needful.

Cohabiting or whatever English you want to use....2 adults have the right to live with each other if they wish to. All these rituals are just rubbish.

The secret of a sweet marriage is having a wife and a loving girlfriend.

It's counterintuitive but it works wonders.
If you have a sweet girlfriend somewhere...you mostly wouldn't react or bother about whatever she does. You would be too much happy about life to care.

And automatically that would your make wife less volatile too.

Lol... My guy wife go visit her Father for village....when she was supposed to come back, the family started all this dowry bullshit.

My guy just tell d lady..."if by tomorrow I no see you for house...then forever no come my house again".
By the time we got home, Mama don cook pounded yam and one kind native soup wait us.

This guy nah very busy guy, him no time for rubbish.

Savedday2:
The greatest mistake you ever made was to apologize to her. Guy you fiickup big time.

Even if she catch you red handed on top another girl, never, ever apologize. Instead Angrily send her out of your house and never , ever call her. After sometime she will stylishly bring the kpekus for more knacking.

Arhhhhh I'm not that Cold bro.

DaddyRochie1642:
Chai,....one thing is very obvious here, you are to Blame for everything here, hold yourself accountable it's Part of the process of healing process,... Being the one responsible for things that went south is not a small thing...just sincerely hold yourself accountable and they slow healing starts.

Right now I can't hold it. I'm really getting burnt. I'm gonna survive this tho but arhhhhh it burns.

And she still has my power bank too.....oh my God.

DaddyRochie1642:
Tell us everything

I told her I was out of town but that same evening she saw me with another girl.
That was few days ago. So ytd after football match I brought it up hoping to explain myself.

Babe I was Just trying to be social, I can't just be one swaggerless idiot...she no gree.
Ok I was wrong I admit. I was apologizing but she was Just crying and shaking her head.
Well that was it.

I got to work today and I just refused to do anything. This dude was talking too much and I lost it; I yelled some awful stuffs back at him and he told me to go.
In his words " Forever you no follow me worker". I told him to fùck off but I just woke up now and nah now my eye clear

Bliztzer:
Pele, wetin happen?

Which of those?..... Breakfast or sack

Who has had it worse?

There's heaven and there's hell, heaven is focusing on what you can control... While hell is focusing on what is outside of you; Trying to manipulate things to work in line with your conditionings.

When it's comes to women issue.... Just let them be. The factors you can control is you. And that's being nice, setting boundaries and having a purpose in life. Anything outside that... You re setting yourself up for hell.

But I guess u re just an attention starved kid looking for means to curry some attention in a fraudulent way by using some creepy manipulative principles.