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I finished with 3rd class from OAU 2013. That was cuz I was into many things in school.
I was into skating, taekwondo, swimming, student union stuffs. That really grounded me for the outside world.

2013- 2016, no job...was a shop keeper.
2016 - 2018... Was surviving btw odd jobs. And strong believer in God expecting miracle.
2019 - 2021.. Came to Lagos with 2 clothes, learnt pipe welding.
2022- till date...been to like 6 States for diff works and currently in the North.

For me, school wasn't a waste after all. Cuz I learnt lot about social skills and being concious about learning new things; so when I Came to Lagos, I saw opportunities and the instinct kicked in.

Jennyclay:
Na wa oo!! .

The rate of poverty in Nigeria is increasing everyday!!

Keep living ur life Tru tik tok and twitter. Smh

All these re just in your head. I should call you an idiot but then.....
In this Life... Just get Sense. Even with ur big house and money sb gave you. With this your rubbish Sense....you still have nothing.

Currently in one now.
You would think there would be no drama but na lie ooo.
If my phone rings and I refuse to pick the call....wahala
If she tries my number and it's not reachable...wahala.
"So you have gone to meet another girl abi?"
One time I almost yelled out...."shebi u sef dey cheat on sn nah" but I had to restrain myself.

But on d flip side, it's a very fufilling relationship as in; when you have a kind girl with the aßs of size of 400amps welding machine (sorry I'm a welder so that's d only comparison I can think of) without any billing whatsoever then you will understand what I mean.

You only live once but irregardless I'll advise you to fuçk it up.
Like today I'm refusing to go to work. Let heaven fall, let hell raze, idgaf.

Maybe when you do her, it's gonna be like doing your mum. Watcha think?

All my relationships, I always make it clear from the beginning that I work as a grass cutter in my company. The ones wey go stay, their billing no dey pass 2k.

akwesenana:
How did it go?

Pulled out early, i watched myself missed my chance to becoming a millionaire.

HardMirror:
if you waited till 2021 you would have become really rich off crypto. Crypto is not for those that rush

Lol. Who wud have known.....

neoG:
It is a paid advert you are right. It is all his alternate accounts he is using

And you sit behind your keyboard telling yourself that u re right with ur thinking?

incogni2o:
This thing be like paid advert

Got an LG soundbar from him. And it was epic

n3xt:
Here’s my honest review and feedback from my transaction with Princemilla

My transaction with him was very smooth and honest. The gadgets I pick from him were just as described.

The delivery was prompt and surpassed my expectation. He’s highly recommended.

Had a deal with him too. He's a sure guy. Actually my faith in Nigeria got restored lol.

I studied civil engineering in OAU.... But my salary was 50k for like 5yrs after graduation. I learnt welding and within 6mths, a friend who we graduated together who works as QC in a company brought me in as a welder.....
Well i missed work for 13 days cuz i traveled and i still got 212k mth end.... So u can see

As for my certificate... I left in the room i stayed when i was learning welding and when i received the call to come for my first welding job. I told my guy to keep it for me. 3yrs now i haven't gone nor askee for it. Even when i traveled for my national ID card..... I couldn't bother to spend 300 naira just to get it back.

LandMann:
Stop misrepresenting God and indirectly praising immorality and shameful behaviour of ladies and men in Nigeria. Both the op, the girl and you deserve to rot in hell.

I think you shld worry more about you judging aw pple live there lives.
"immorality and shameful" who re you to judge? Do you know the full story?

Thou shall not judge
While she might obtain the mercy of our merciful omnipotent God, do you realise you might be sent to eternal damnation for this your attitude?.... Think about it.

Im about to be jobless, the future is uncertain but i remain unruffled cuz i'm the one walking away.

We only have 3 options...
Hell.... Eternal torture
Heaven.... Deeper life big skirt ladies and gentlemen chanting hallelujah till eternity. No news, nothing.
Earth.... Beautiful women, i phones, AI, Rocking chairs, musics, Nice drinks... Etc...
I think a reasonable person would choose to come back to earth.

GreatVocalist:
On the contrary, I don't think anyone is actually worthless, irrespective of how they see others.

There's just this shame that comes with seeing a person you once considered worthless, doing good later on in life.

I bet you've never met a bold faced sneaky greedy person like the OP before.

Irony of life is that people who think they matter the most re actually worthless while those who think they re not worthy re actually the most worthy.

From your pics... I can see that uve not even experienced 20% of what life has in stock for you and u re calling a full conscious God created human a "dirty thing"..... Lol... Just dey play

When legends say.... Fear women, u think say nah joke? Fear woman dude. If she threatens to kill herself, then its just a threat. Nothing more than that dude.

Again why re u snooping around her fone? Are u that stupid? Whatever you seek you shall find they say.

Then you re asking if this is love..... Reason they say fear woman is because.. .. Like right now u re filled with pity for her, lets say u guys later got married and she feels settled in the relationship. You will see the ugly snake rearing it's head outside and this type of lady go show you shege you would wonder if this is thesame lady you married out of pity.

I was in your shoes one time, i almost faked my death too but last last when she didn't hear from me, 2 mths later she was married to who she got pregnant for. That means she must have been with the guy when she was being suicidal with me. Bro fear woman. SORA FUN OBIRIN.

Well to answer your question.... I think this is love. Because truth be told, you really love the attention she is giving you.

In one of those states i overheard olosho and one customer haggling over price.
Olosho said 300, but the guy was pricing 200.
In my head i was like damn.

While everything you wrote up there is 100% true but then they were relevant in the unconscious past. The grip of unconsciousness on human race is loosening up bit by bit. So humans re now more conscious and pick their options more consciously.

For instance.... In time past pple pick partners to suit or please the Society, parents, pastors or religious leaders, but in this millennium most pple pick partners based on their own individual preference.

My dad married my mum cuz his mother approved it. My mum didnt approve of mine solely cuz she's from another tribe but i didnt budge.

The issue of religion comes into play.... Most pple tend to question their believes now. Same thing with pple consciously finessing their attitudes unlike in time past.

Child bearing too is an example.... Most pple stop at 2 now unlike in time past when pple go up to 10 children.

Those points i outlined might not be related but my point is that pple make more conscious decisions now as opposed to time past when pple acts out of instinct just to survive harsh realities making them going extinct.

So your theories cant be used to project the behavior of the new female/male specie cuz he/she isn't acting out of survival instinct but out of conscious effort to make his or her life more enjoyable.

Penetration (thrusting) is not the only way to make love to a woman. There are different ways to penetrate her soul for instance by eye contact.... When there is a merging.... The orgasm is beyond this world. It can even carry you for weeks

The last date i had with a babe, her beauty is breath taking. Told her there is a serene river around and would show her.
Bought some drinks and well garnished pork meat. Everything was just 2,500 naira. The date ended with a kiss.
The diff btw our my situation and urs is that we (me and this beautiful lady) both have sense. We both understand that money is hard earned and shld not to be thrown around foolishly.

Meanwhile in ur own case, u re a 23yo with no focus begging for validation. Don't put the cart b4 d horse bro. Stay focused, leave all this women stuff for now, seek thyself, know thyself and be thyself.
By that time, the ones that have sense will be attracted to you while the shitbrains ones will be attracted to their likes.....

CondenseMilk:
You are aware that another man is banging the punanni.

You now need advice on how to snatch her and continue from there?

Yes

Albertone:
Hausa babe dey bear Elizabeth?

I no say make una no lie give us, but let it be small small lies.

Pls go and watch your arise news.... Leave the outside world for us to explore.
But pls don't be too proud of ur ignorance.

Met this hausa babe. She was so sweet. She has problem with English so she talks slowly and listening to her is like meditating.
I come back from work everyday to meet sweet delicacies, neat room and the scent of detergent coming from my neatly arranged clothes

One day i was strolling with her to nowhere, i heard this lady telling her... "Elizabeth, your oga tell me say u block him number"; she responded with... "i don't want to talk about it".

Turned out she had a bf and served the dude a hot breakfast. Dude as been scrambling around talking to pple to beg her. Somehow that appealed to my ego cuz i was like.... Yeah im alpha male lol. (she chose me type sh>t)

4 days now, her number hasn't been going tru. .
I got an info that a guy came around cruising her around with a ride.
Damn it hurts and im in sifia pains.
I feel like simping on this one.
I need simping advice pls.....what shld i do?.

DonroxyII:
Human is the Most Powerful Amongst them all Na Only FearFear Be Our Problems.....

They All Exist But Pry On Our Fears If You Stand Your Ground, You Would Be Respected By them All & Non of them Would Mess With You .... Nevertheless, Be at The Top Gear of Your Reasonableness(consciousness) & Be a Sane Human That Understand Human Anatomy & Psychology Very well Such That When You are Emotionally Hacked, You Can Easily Reset Yourself Back to Your Default ...

If not, You Would Go Psychic Within Hours & Shut Down !

Yeah you really get the point. Thats what the zen religion calls mindfulness or being present.

Crystalom35:
mr used to.

Allow me to do mine. I no see u as person to give me advice. An unsolicited one at that.

No too dey form busy body.

I want sex. I get sex. Simple as ABC. Come here wan form wetin you no be.

People like una no even get friends for real life. Talk more of girlfriend.

You know how I know? Because from your typing and trying to be on a higher moral ground, you come across as boring, snubbish, weak.

I mean look at the nonsense you write see how try to tell others what to do with their life?

Who be you exactly to tell me the meaning of what I want to do with a woman?

You are nothing but a narcissistic person who thinks only their opinion and idea is right. Such people can't sustain relationship.

Because you become malicious and vile when others do not accept your position. You are not good in anyway. You just don't have any social power hence you pretend to be good.

If you can get women, you'd get as much as any other man. But because you can't, you formulate stupid theories in your head that sex doesn't matter.

Mumu

Bro im like 10 yrs into your future. And that's actually if the game is nice to you. So in a way im on a higher level.

Crystalom35:
virgin don drop motivation

Mugu... I used to do all this wayback in 2009-2012. But as you grow older and as the game became kind to you, you loose ur scarcity mindset and kinda relax and just be fun.

Crystalom35:
see mumu talk sha 😁 😁

So because I dey expect girl make I go look for work start dey do?

I wanted to bed her. And I bed her. End of story.

Every man gets approach anxiety. It doesn't matter whether you're an alpha male or a simp.

Every man dreads approach a woman. What makes the difference is the ability to overcome it and go for what you want.

Ur neediness can only attract low hanging fruits.
And its not about banging, its about being social, meeting quality pple and being genuinely nice to each other in this cruel world.
What's in banging for gods sake... Its just a sport, simple as that but when your disfunctional brain sees it as an achievement, u re bound to create an ego out of it.