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talktrue1234:
What else can I not find on Seun's website

I'm a simp.. problem?

Preshieben:
Pm.
I agree .
I make and have my own money...

Can I cheat on you sometimes? Sorry I mean can I get entangled sometimes?

I meet those criteria. I stay and work in Lagos but let's start like this....I'm not gonna ask for sex, neither re you gonna ask for money. Then we re game till marriage. Watcha say?

Don't put your mind into getting a job. What you've been seeing is what you re gonna still get. Learn a fucking skill. 3 mths I was at home cuz of lockdown. To survive I had to learn bricklaying skills. That helped me a lot. Now that I am working, I am learning TIG welding and later would learn SMAW. Build skills upon skills. That's d way bro

Never overlook the ass, never go full retard.

This gives me sleepless nights
Do they even fart?

funmisticqueen2:
Was it yesterday, or two days ago, when Kennedyiheme02 created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5726717/understanding-high-value-woman

I read his post and the 9 pages that followed, and laughed to myself. I was also mentioned many times in that thread, maybe to get my controversial opinion on the matter or help the thread trend. I didn't talk too much, because there's no point. Cheetahs don't need to prove to dogs that they are the fastest sprinters. This is not a diss at the thread. Not is this a response to that thread. This is my opinion on the subject matter, which is being a high value woman.

Yes, I think I am qualified to talk on this topic. Because I know enough about being one to write a book on it. Ladies, here's a question, do you think I should write a book on being a high value woman? Please answer in the comments. Thanks.

Maybe I'll break this into 2 or 3 parts, because being a high value woman, is all encompassing.


So who's a high value woman?
The definition varies. But a a high value woman is a woman who has a high value, and most importantly, is an asset.

A thing to note is that value is in the eye of the beholder. What everyone values is different. The only person whose value counts is YOU.

You are a high value woman, if you are first of
all valuable and an asset to yourself. Before you are valuable to others.

A high value woman prioritizes herself first, prioritizes her visions and goals, prioritizes her appearance. She is an asset to herself. She is her prize.

If you think being all I said above is easy. Then you are deceiving yourself. It's a lot of work.

Many of us as people, especially womem do not love and value ourselves to begin with. And there are many reasons for that, it could be your upbringing, past experiences, trauma,abuse, disability, and many others.

Here's some questions for you. If you were your friend, would you love your company? Are you afraid of being single and being with yourself? Are you the woman you want to be? Are you actively striving to be her?

A high value woman is not necessarily the things said in that other thread. The first real truth you have to know is this, A high value woman is someone who loves herself, despite her flaws and imperfections to see that she is worth investing in. She is an asset to herself thereby an asset to others. She is not a liability to herself. She prioritizes herself.

A woman who thinks this way will act differently. Thinking this way puts you in a sphere of like minded people who can only see your value. It chases away the flies in your life. It changes your behavior to accept nothing less because you are deserving of the best, and if you cannot get it, then you are enough.

Being a high value woman, starts in the mind first. It's is not a long list of physical attributes like age, virginity, body count, or the ability to cook and clean, or to give all the sex positions in pornhub and Kamasutra.

Michellekabod2, Riele, Rehkina ariza sexylassie2 blu03 xhosanostra

Modified: please note that reading and internalising threads from people like the thread I
mentioned will only bring down the value of a woman. This is a strategy they are known for. To incite fear, worthlessness and a sense of desperation in women. This brings down her perceived value, and makes her low hanging fruit, easy pickings for such men. You are what you read.

If you have all this qualites but no Large pointing boobs, then u re worthless.

chatinent:
For the underscored, don't think you're doing others a favour chatting with them cos you feel your life is better; it really is not.

This girl is really stupid. This is sn who is still a student in UI, she hasnt even experienced life yet and then she thinks she is doing sn a favour cuz she responded to his DM.

superfitsez:
men there ain't no benefits, you just Killin ya self, you pussy ass niqqA,,
make money and get married

You shld stop being foolish

The normal me used to be the daydreaming type of guy. When i was younger i was a staunch introvert so i formed the habit strongly. When i grew older, the day dreaming shifted to fantasizing about sex.

In my university days whenever i was in class i often drift off fantasizing about boobs and shít which later aggravated to being absent minded. Reason is because most of my brain energy is being lost to seepage due to sex fantasy. My condition deteriorated into a very dull brain which led me to not being able to cope with sch activities. I lated suffered an extra yr and graduated with a Third class degree.

Few mths now ive been stable with gf with lots of séx in crazy styles and crazy places and ive noticed some changes about me; i no longer fantasize about sexual stuffs again and 90% of the time im always present to the moment and constantly in the zone. Ive been more sharper and my brain grasps more things easily. Its like letting the wild dog out of the cage. Ytd Big Boss was explaining a formula for fabricating a pipe reducer (piping work) and it was amazing how i could easily grasp it compared to the other slow brains arnd me.

Who knew getting a stable gf would solve my spiritual problem?

Yormey:
Hi guys

I am an adult, female. I live and work on the Island.

I need a companion who will be a friend and also be willing to go on dates, see movies, and just go out together.

He must be single, not married, not dating.

Anyone who is interested should pls send a DM.

Must be an adult- I am too
Must be working so that we will both have money to pay for dates and movies - I do also
Must live on the Island
Not problematic or wicked.
Must be kind-hearted and willing to explore
Must be fine/cute/handsome or just presentable or neat.

I don't have a car so if you have cool oh.

Thank you and pls DM

PS: I am an anti-social introvert and this is my attempt to try and go out this year cos I'm tired of my room

If you re a fashion designer, then i think i know you. Met a lady who used to this same words who lives on d island.n

Boringdraw1:
I'm currently in my finals mechanical, how can I work here?

Lol get a certification in Qa/Qc course or learn Arc welding..(Both Stick welding and Argon welding)

Welders re th highest paid over there

kingxsamz:
Proving a point now makes one a "keyboard jockey"...
I'm sure you just learnt that word.
To be honest, I didn't expect anything intelligent from you though.
Goodluck.

Fucking kids

kingxsamz:
Which stupid charm?
Charm that can't be used for anything positive, is that one charm?
Since charm is higher than technology, why is this country still backwards?
Why is Africa, which claims to possess juju/dark magic, voodoo and stuff, still backwards? Why aren't we leading the world?
A reasonable human would ask these intellectual questions, but no, you choose to believe the hogwash you grew up to believe.
Smh, charm that couldn't stop the white men from invading our lands, and taking our brothers into slavery.
Come, which secondary school did you attend sef? ... You're really falling their hands.
Smh.

Lol....keyboard jockey

kingxsamz:
So those four blurry photos posted by a blogger looking for traffic is proof that charm/juju exists?
I'm sure you didn't even watch the video.

Can you see why people always tell you your head is not correct?

He said the truth bro...dont cower behing keyboard punching charm doeasnt exist...switch off ur fone, get on the streets and know how life is

You re just jobless i swear....u said you live in lekki, so why shld this be a novel thing to you?
Lekki is the headquater of runs girl

funmisticqueen:
change that mentality of yours, and we'll see

Bomboclat

CasNova:
Are you are a Christian? If yes, why is it difficult to go to church?

Just like aw pple decide profession, i havent decided my religion.

funmisticqueen:
you that cannot afford 2k date. Girls have suffered

See this 19800 otondo calling sn broke....anyways see i will be single soon abeg do and matchmake me.

inspirator1:
There are build ups to a point of decision with threat. Some people's temperament gives room for tolerance but once avenues to establish, correct or make a partner stick to principles or agreements are exhausted; hell looses. I think your woman is that kind of personae
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Op you didn't tell us what lead her to make such assertion with threat. If it's what you agreed to while renege and make your relationship looks childish and a power tussle stuff? Keeping to your word of promise even when threat is involved does make you a lesser man to a person of understanding. however, you have set a wrong precendent that you can be push around with threat and not man enough to keep a woman.

She has always been inviting me to programs. Ive always declined lol

Illuminated993:
You should be initiating the breakup yourself, for her audacity to give you conditions. But you haven't gotten to that strength of heart to do this.

Cant be a thug all the time...sometimes u take a break.
And again i think what women really want is just to be treated like shìt and bent on d floor. Ive always been d bad guy who does shìt and always getting away with it. With exp and age you focus more on ur goals and tend to be more laid back. This is how i am now but i think d tide is changin. I love that guys comment that said...one will turn to two, two will turn to three if u re too carefree with women.

beardlessdude:
expatiate.

Daalu

KiidaACE:
Call her bluff....

That is if you really don't wanna go cause one will turn into two and two into three and on and on the threats will keep pouring in..

Hmmmm. This is eye opening, i think ive gotten d answer. Thanks bro

yusluvad:
You should understand better bro.

Pls expantiate

Kingdollar28:


All these secondary school love sef

U and the girl are both stupid... Period!

When all u do is alluminium....love matters would be stupid to you.

Riele:
Imagine !

What should i call you , a weakling ? .

Get out!!!! Bomboclat

Starz825:
Just to go church...u come open thread..na so u bad reach

Last time i went to church...this woman said she was spiritually attacked just cuz she had a wound on her leg. She asked d whole congregation to stand up and pray for the death of the phantom person lol. Church is crazy these days

ceeroh:
Follow her. A day won't kill you

I will understand if she made it a suggestion. But making a big deal out of it is just absurd and i wont have it

She told me specifically that if i do not go to church with her next sunday, i shld just forget about her for the rest of my life.

Her claim is...she has never made such request like that b4, so for her to insist on it means she is very serious about it. Tho my response was "I'll rather die" but reason why she would be so clear cut about it kinda bothers me. One mind is telling me to just say fùck it and be a man but another voice is telling me to give it a rethink or something.

TheGoodJoe:
Meaning of Relationship

the way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected.

Its to relate...relating.
The lady is going out and she related it to him..dude got pissed off.

TheGoodJoe:
Nice advice but I will like a tip from you of something you feel I did wrong.

An excerpt from the write up will be preferable.

You re just a broke pùssy asß bìtch full of himself, who re u to tell her what to do? Is she your wife...u guys arent in a covenant, you re just in a relate-tionship. Bomboclàt

NeedAdvice00:
She didn't respond to my message after my last response. Does it mean I'm boring or .....?

You re just an idiot who is trying to be to ubunja.
You talk too much and very disrespectful.