Babysawale19:
This shows this President is very lazy. So he’s leaving government of a whole country to a secretary. Secretary approving things in his name that will become a problem for him and his family in the future.

You spoke well, this is absolutely a thing of concern. Which kind President is this?

ussv:
Jude pass am till tomorrow, he should forgive the debt and give her back her life

Give her back her life, I don't understand. Has he taken her life? If she felt she has evidence of bridged of contract, make she go court now n claim her right. Pls, we r educated oh! Kiss Daniel has proven himself that he can do it without his former record label. May D n Cynthia Morgan should go n do the same please n stop disturbing us.

Sonofman25:
just imaging he CM is owning her OVER 40 million naira. Jude you short yourself at the leg oooo you have been part of psquare even before the brand became popular and on of a sudden Peter just wake up and didn't won't you to be part of it anymore then something is wrong

But we should look at it this way, Peter needs to move on please its about 3 years now after the breakup, Jude said he has been out of the way let the twins go back together. I think people need to allow this guy rest. Morgan n May D, had been brought to light by P Square brand they should go n shine abeg, n stop disturbing us. Kiss Daniel has proven that, they should follow suit.

Davash222:
I'm just wondering what Cynthia Morgan bought from Jude that she's owing him 40Million dollars.

Don't quote him wrong, he said he spent about 40 million naira not dollars on promoting her without making his money back.

OFFICIAL336:
You can never silence an Igboman.

Congratulations to Eze

I agree with you because there is one a colleague in the office, we both work in the same place in one of the Yoruba states. I am the only guy from one of the northern states n he is the only person from South East. He is full of confidence n direct in his approach. He also stands on his ground when making his opinion n contributions during a meeting without fear. In fact, my boss is always threatening when the guy rises up to speak. He had gone on suspension n received numerous query but despite all these he is still like a lion. But one thing I appreciate about him is the fact that his submissions most of the time r channelled towards a positive direction that will bring progress but is just that he is stubborn.

slivertongue:
the clerics that they used to grab power. well its their business after all they worked for APC

You said the bitter truth. When the guy use a Muslim Muslim ticket, they were happy n jumping in support of the guy, in fact some of them did an audio recording calling on their people to come out n massively vote for him n some even said that the election is a jihad to every Muslim. But look at it now, in one of the media interviews the governor granted on air recently, many called to appeal to the same person to allow them at least observe Sallah prayer in the mosque n prayer grounds under social distancing n other precautionary method but the guy refused. .see if only the masses will understand that this is not about religion but about the seed of deceit planted by the political class to tear us apart.

Naija246:
fraudsters no invade anything.
Alot of Nigerians are being tricked by various apps on the play store to reveal their bvn...most of these apps are run by criminal networks all over the world.

Some unscrupulous people are also tricking Nigerians to give up their bvn when registering for national ID.
My gf was asked to provide her bvn when she went to register her national ID recently.
Fortunately for her, she called me and I advised against giving it up.


Someone should correct me if I'm wrong but is bvn number now a requirement for registering a national ID card?

In fact, pension administrator now asks of it during data capturing. I wonder what they want it for? We r in trouble.

kiddkash:
you can't possibly eat rice for the rest of your life.
sometimes you have to try beans, yam , garri & egusi

women shouldn't take it personally

There r so many reasons n it depends on the man. 1. When the woman turns the house like a hellfire for the husband. 2. When the woman is too demanding n the husband is struggling financially. 3. When the woman refuses the man sex.4. When she don't respect n submit to him. 5. If she is flirting with other men 6. If she is unable to bear him a child. 7. She can't cook him good meal n she is very dirty. 8.lack of trust 9. Always quarrel with his family members or even his mother. So many things r responsible n like I said it depend on the husband.

An old man once told me that in their time father will not accept what his son or daughter brought back home, he will gather his family n relations n ask the child in the presence of these people to sworn about the legitimacy of that thing he brought to the father as a gift. If it is found that the gift is gotten through corrupt means, the father will reject it n the child will be inform to take it back to the rightful owner. But today the case is different, parent pushes their children to go n make money by all means, many parents don't caution their children when they discovered suspicious things around them. What I am trying to say is that, this generation of parents have failed in their parental responsibilities.

pDudd:
The biggest mistake is to marry any woman at all.

As a man, can you tell me exactly what you benefit from marriage that you can't benefit as a single guy. Tell me.

There r some doors n opportunities that will not open until you r married. I have come across some business opportunities that don't go to unmarried folks. They r afraid to bring you in because they don't trust you as a single person, meaning you can sabotage n even runaway with something valuable when the opportunity appear. A friend was denied a particular job opportunity simply because he was not married at that age. They told him face to face that at his age he is not married, they did not employ him because they felt he is not a responsible person. When you have a family our society look at you with a particular level of trust than a single person.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
After God na money sure pass. Money must be made by any and every means.

Your matter strong ooh, you mean by all means money most be made. Make the thing no carry u go where u go regret.

JasonScoolari:
Please I want to ask, what is the major occupation of this E-money?

Na IG of police you go ask this question because na him order the withdrawal of the guy police escort n call for the investigation of his source of income.

Donald3d:


In marriage, or in this case proposed marriage, compromise is key.
Couples need to start seeing themselves as team players, treating the relationship and marriage as a business.
Whichever decision is the best for the team, in the long run, should be the best decision .

Ask yourself, if you were running a business and you have an option of getting an investor of 42 or 15m, which would you take ?

Its not like he is losing his job, he is just getting transferred, all he has to do is "measure up" in other areas of the marriage.

Jide, move to Lagos and be with your wife, as long as you know and you are sure, at least, sure enough, that she isn't a proud person.

Men should stop feeling intimidated by women.


In this case, its not like he is broke, poor or jobless. This is just plain ego and "what would people say"

One of the best ways to succeed in anything, especially marriage is ignoring what people would say.

Marriage shouldn't be a battle field of who is better, but it should be a place where winning and improvement should be the priority.

In the long run, what matters in marriage is that you have more wins than loses.


EDIT :

I can see some people quoting me
If you feel intimated by a woman earning more than you, then mutual respect really doesn't exist and you are basing your control of your home solely on your financial power.

I am not saying a man should not earn money and take care of his family .

But have you every asked yourself, why some women married to wealthy men who take care of all their needs still cheat on them ?

Money isn't everything, there are so many other aspects of marriage besides money.

In this case its funny, because the man isn't even broke at all. He is wealthy, at least by Nigerian standards.

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It depends on the woman. If she is a humble type, the type that accord respect n also submit to her husband, the husband should not let her resign, they just need to discuss n find a suitable solution to this. But if the woman is the type that look down on the husband, n see him as nothing, in fact some will even try to take the position of the husband as the head of the house just because she earns more than him, I tell you he is in trouble because she can even seek for divorce if the husband ask her to resign.

thorpido:
You dated her enough to know her response to matters or were you two just fvckin?
Na now you wan bend person wey stiff?

You're thinking of quitting the marriage without working at it so your child will suffer?You've got to man up.
People may hardly change when they are grown.You need to talk to your wife from time to time and make her see reasons to compromise sometimes.
The best way to encourage someone to give is by showing examples of giving too.Make sure you do this to your wife often - time,attention,help with house chores and money.

Stop comparing courtship with marriage because marriage is too deep than courtship. Marriage has a mysteries that only unfolds when you get into it n at such it begins to bring out your true color n the kind of person you r. Ask yourself why you don't have too much complains like this during courtship than in marriage. Nice for you suggesting that he stays in it than thinking of quitting because marriage is an institution where we learn every day, both of them need to find a way to resolve their differences n learn to teach each other how to grow in it.

TheABOMINATION:
Only God knows what former president Olusegun Obasanjo smoked 12 years ago that caused him to see vision 2020.

The year 2020 turned out to be a crazy year. If I had known it would be like this I would not have stepped into it. I would have chosen to stay in 2019, wait till 2020 is over, then crossover from 2019 directly to 2021.

Do you also know what the year 2021 has in stock? It could be worse compare to 2020.

Bar1941:
Falz don take him dry music affect their destiny, anyway make them thank God, redeployment is better than dismissal.

You no hear where they carry them go, Borno, Yobe n others. I told someone that if you give me job for Borno, Yobe n other states wey boko boys don make them house, I no dey go because is like signing your dead warrant.

bolaayenimo:
See life... Abba Kyari yesterday, Ibrahim Gambari today

That's life oh! He was sitting in his house n destiny took him from kwara to aso rock.

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move if I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

Please if you know u can't cope with marriage don't go into it because marriage is not a child play. Madam finds a way to make your marriage work because marriage is full of challenges. If you hear another person own, you go say your own is even better. Don't deceive yourself, most of this people you r seeking advice from, may not even help u reason is that what works for Mr A may not work for Mr B because you have different husbands with different brain n understanding, so I advice that you calm down n take things easy, study your husband well n come out with a good strategy to solve your family problem, that's the reason God gave your brain.

Bahamas95:
No na! She is 5years older than me. I won't even marry a lady that's my age mate, most women get older than their husbands with time. I don't want a situation where my wife would look like my mum or elder sister later.

Marriage isn't part of our agreement, if she sees any man that's interested in her she can get married. "You scratch my back, I scratch your back" That's what we are doing now.

Who told you that marriage is not part of the agreement, you r an immature player. Oh! You think is because of your koboko that she sticks to you, capital No. She is looking for a husband or somebody she can trap with pregnancy stuff just to get married. If she can get a person like you to friend, can't she also get a person of your calibre who is richer than you n can also give her good sex, why u? Just be careful.

fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.

Bro, most of them r using this strategy to lure you into marriage, after you don't enter na fire go dey burn you.

shiwex:
Oh Boy, You did well, women are never grateful. Just ignore and move on. She will come to realise that you are right. Women are always moved by emotions...If she wanted a lavish dedication, tell her to pay for it simple. These are the kind of women that drain you and at the end of the day, you won't have anything for yourself.

by now you should have realise how women operate....all they think of is spend, spend spend. Take them to shop and they will pick everything they need and they don't need, when its time to pay...they will move back

wedding time, they will plan all rubbish, when its time to pay,,, they will backslide......

Shine your eyez....

This one is not moved by emotions, she want to show up, that we r doing well, simple.

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

Let her be, you have explained things to her, you don't need to kill yourself, women will always be women.

AdaoraJoy:
I won't be graduating this year ...It's now dawn to me

As it stands bro. Is not about graduating but about staying alive. Our system has been designed to be on total standstill once we r faced with issues like this. I have been advocating for the incorporation of online studies into our educational system but it all fell on deaf ears, now see the repercussion. You could have been in the comfort of your zone studying, it's all about putting a workable plan down.

temizeee:
well, locations and design matter's a lot, u have to understand that fact very important.....a room flat can cost up to 2 million naira sef depends on how you wanna equip it with quality material, how big it also prices of material in yr location..... someone might build his own for 500k or less in my location.....

Pls don't mislead him, 500k or less can not build a self-contain or a room flat for him. Even the soakaway, the roofing, ceiling n doors don finish that money.

TeeBabss:
That's highly insensitive, and one of the reasons some people don't believe COVID is real.
Shouldn't have been a senator

Honestly, the senator has spoken well. This is nothing but the truth. Covid19 patient returning negative in just five days. when I heard that, I knew something was absolutely wrong in the governor's claim.

ignis:
Any patient of COVID-19 that abscond the isolation centre is putting his life and that of his family at risk.
There is no sense or wisdom in such an act.



I don't understand these mathematics. So because 2 absconded, the active cases reduced by 2 automatically?

Did you watch the news in Gombe state where patients of covid19 protested against authority negligence on them? They said they were left with only the gateman in the isolation centre, no food, no drugs, no medical personnel to take care of them. They have abandoned them, now tell me why they will not run away? We r not serious in this country.

seunlayi:
Sincerely after this COVID-19 saga, China needs to tender an apology to the whole world.

Is It only apology, sanctions should follow.

NextD18:
A gullible Northerner is being punished by a Northern Dullard he voted and supported.

I don't care. They must all suffer it.

Please note that is not everybody in the north or in katsina state that voted Buhari n this man could be one of them. That's the fact.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Pastor Chris has groomed many Gospel artistes over the years. Today most of them are well known all over the world. Infact Pastor Chris has made many Gospel artistes than any other Pastor in recent times. I have observed this over the years.

Yeah! You r right, his anointing is really working in the life of this gospel artistes. He is such a great man of God.

Okortor:
Money that Would soon be looted and can't be accounted for. Shame on Nigerian govt.

They have already stated it that the money has been channel for developmental projects telling u that the looting continues.

realokopi:
Imagine what would happen if all the scientists working round the clock to produce vaccines abandon their quest and decided to pray for vaccines to fall from heaven...

Everybody has his calling n office. TB Joshua is not a scientist, he is a minister of the gospel, to me he is doing the right thing.