Paragon311:
Married couple staying together under same roof and not having regular sex life will bring in infidelity both ways.

Communication is the very key to keep your marriage on top notch...

He needs to Man up and be in charge of communication.

You r right, he needs to communicate effectively to the wife cos the problem may be something communication can fix. Please can we confirm if the wife was like this before she gave birth? If she was not like this, it means she had a difficult n painful experience during her pregnancy n childbirth period, n that experience is still fresh in her memory. She is afraid of being pregnant again reason she is denying him sex. He needs to talk to her.

Masterkernel1:
He's yet to make up his mind, that's if... El-Rufai won't contest for the presidency. He has burnt bridges in the South, outside West.

I don't see him winning any Northerner in the North, with no political ally in the East or South-South

It is going to be a difficult journey for him. I know how Northerners behave because I am from that region. Also, South-East n South-South r not in good terms with the guy. But honestly speaking, I am tired of having a Northern as the president, they can not change anything, they r too selfish. Let it shift to any of the South abeg. Let us try their own luck n see.

ComeAndobo:
The US government and European Union flagged the systemic cleansing of Christians going on in Nigeria especially in the North.

We need to speak out more on this. These so called Bandits operating in predominantly Christian communities are doing their master's bidding. Christian leaders need to be more vocal don't just collect money and sit down.

There is an audio recording done by the Fulani killers in Hausa going round currently, where they declared that they r on a mission to wipe the Christians in Kaduna n nothing will stop them. The guy that did the audio was mentioning his name without any fear.

psalmistkakah:
Samsung is better, the power got burn by one stupid tiger gen tgen..I change the power is over 3 years and is working fine

It happens to me too. My was affected by low power supply by NEPA after I removed my stabilizer n plug it direct when the light was not able to carry the stabilizer. This single act cos me the power unit of my Samsung TV but after changing the power unit in 2016 till date my TV is functioning well operating from morning till night almost everyday.

Amotolongbo:
If God has nothing to do with evil, immorality and abomination in name of everything, then you are invariably saying that God has nothing to do with the earth cos those are the major things happening on earth.

You need to calm down, the guy is simply telling u the truth. Truth is always bitter but if you overcome human thinking n allow your conscience to speak to you, you will truly realize that bbnaija is not a program that a true man of God will encourage it. God will n still have something to do with the world because of the righteous living on the surface of the earth. He was about destroying Nineveh because of their evil ways until they heard his voice n repented.

xpressionx:
Not again.
Can't Buhari just change service chiefs and inject fresh ideas?
The way he's acting seems like he has given up on this country.
Anyway he once said it.

There is something hidden about Buhari not wanting to change his service chiefs. But I believe God will expose everything thing someday.

This country don enter one chance mode.

I am tired of all these grammar presentations on paper.

Mraphel:
Igbos does not want presidency. We want to leave the zoo.

Neither PDP nor APC like us

The man said south, it could be south west, south south n south-east, so chill.

heendrix:


It's simple he should get off this servitude mentality. Even if ur broke, having peace within you would ease virtually most things

So if he has to leave for the village, have his personal peace and pick himself up then I think that would be the best thing to do rn

From what he shared I can categorically tell you that his brother loves him but he finds himself in a very unfortunate situation that marriage can cause. Marriage is so complicated most of the time n sometimes it takes the grace of God n luck not to experience this. His brother needs to use wisdom in resolving this issue surrounding his home. Women should learn to handle their Inlaws well to avoid calamity in the future, the same people you maltreat today will give you problem n not support u when your husband is no more. The problem is not with the sisters of the wife but the wife herself. Why will she allow her two grown-up sisters to come n stay with her? Moreover, if she talk to her sisters to respect the guy n stop causing wahala, they will obey her. She is not comfortable with the guy living with them n she wants him out.

skimena:
the truth is my mind is not going the same direction with my body. my mind is saying no and my body is saying yes

Follow your mind and forget your body. You r about to make a mistake that will destroy you in the future. Sleeping with someone's wife should not be a priority for any man, it has serious spiritual implications.

TheMainone:
God please help this country through these trying times

God doesn't work in this manner. Keep God out of this n do the right thing, this problem will be over.

willi926:
Na she makes me begin to watch India(Bollywood) movies that year. The gal too fine abeg. Get well soon

Seriously, your eye knows beauty. She is one of the beautiful actress in India.

inoki247:
E no fit du dem anything dem still b kid na old people d thing sabi kill wella

But Amita Bachan is old now.

sisisioge:
Chai! Tiny lil Jada embarrassed my Will like this! How dare her! Biaych!

That Alsina of a guy gats no maturity. He is a kid. What does he want to achieve by blowing this off? Somethings r allow to remain a secret.

tayebest:
El Rufai my man!


This is what Buhari also want to creat but our NASS what to sabotage the process.


Infact, Senate should be cut off to reduce government cost!

This is absolute nonsense. Which kind of job creation is this? They r to work for 3 months n they r back to square zero again. God is watching Nigerian government.

yanabasee1:
This is terrible and I am so ashamed to be a Nigerian right now......

You can say it again. Our daughter's r not safe again in this country. Is this how Nigeria will end.

kikero:
Why did they do it?

Because in Nigeria, if you have a child out of wedlock, your family and community would label you a loose woman.

You would be ostracised by your family and community, you may find it difficult to get jobs, and you would find it difficult to survive economically.

As for marriage, forget it. Even if the man is willing, his relatives are not willing.

That's why we need to forgive women who have children out of wedlock and help them to survive with their children.

So because of these factors you listed in your comment, human being should kill another human being just to avoid the shame and discrimination associated with it. And just take a look at the way the police is channelling its energy into this case while avoiding cases that are r related to killing n kidnapping of innocent Nigerians anytime you reported a case.

Dreamliner787:

I swear, me either, this is completely two different physics and chemistry that does not relate

It's simple, gas is a combination of highly flammable chemical contents and that's chemistry, while the phone is an electronic device that radiant heat while operating n transfer it through radiation that's physics. Therefore, the reaction between the two effects will definitely cause fire accompanied with explosion because the content is enclosed in a cylinder, so pressure is build within the cylinder.

aolawale025:
He looks honest. Could be telling the truth here

I also have this feeling that this man may be saying the truth.

sanemind4:
Something is fishy
Meanwhile you can copy hd movies into ur hard drive if you stay in Ph or buy preloaded 500gbbof hard drive.

Interested, contact me.

phrancys001:
Just relax blood always connect, when it's time ur child will come to U

Go with this advice but I will add that u should also cater for the child. Put the child in school, keep paying the school fees directly to d school, buy clothes for the child n also buy foodstuff for the child from time to time n don't give the mother cash to buy herself then relax your blood will come looking for you someday.

dokie:
I'm confused.

Are all of us Nigerians just suppose to watch this man get killed because he came out to say the truth?

No words from religious leaders, human rights activists, entertainers, nobody. But a few weeks ago it was all about black lives matter in America.

But this brave soldiers life doesn't matter?



But that was possible because certain leaders were at the forefront.

If we had the Bishops, GO's, Imams, A grade entertainers and the human rights activists at the fore front of the protest, we can Que behind them. Thats what happened during the subsidy protests. People queued behind leaders like Tunde Bakare, Wole Soyinka, Femi Kuti and the rest. You don't open fire on people like that, because that will generate such an outcry that can unseat a government. But if na me and you, they will whisk us away in a matter of seconds, and nobody will ever remember that we protested.

That is why i am particular about our so called religious leaders and entertainers that we do so much to keep on the high. But when it is time for them to use their platform to do something reasonable, dem go miss. Nonsense.

Just imagine If we had an Adeboye, Catholic Bishops, oyakhilome, Bakare, Tuface, Davido, Pete Edochie etc with their followers etal, leading protests from different angles on the same matter: demanding the release of this man and the immediate sack of the service chiefs, do you not think that we would achieve speedy result?

There is no hope in sight in this country. Imagine all of us knew that this guy is saying the truth n doing what he should to liberate us but he has been abandoned to his faith, that's the attitude of Nigerians. Guy no matter what happens I am with u 100% n I applaud your courage n I will continue to pray for u, the Lord will save u from the hands of the wicked.

frankline461:
He is unhappy and whose business is that?

I have been unhappy about the state of Nigeria for years now, how the youths have incorporated the 'get rich fast' mentality and no one is thinking about making innovations and inventions that will shake the world, all they want to do is sit behind their phones and laptop with a fake profile and chat with sex/love starved men and women for money and cards.

Maybe I can be the change, maybe you can too, it's starts from individuals. Get a laptop or a phone, start learning something online. Programming, digital marketing, vtu, writing, etc.

Stick to what you're doing, and maybe your case can be like that of ikorodu boys who are going from ikorodu to USA for free.

Sorry, we don't have more important issues

I am impressed we still have young people with a positive mentality. You r 100% right, sometimes I cry in my heart seeing how our youths have lost direction in life.

OBku4:
Wise Airline

I give it to Igbo's when it comes to business ideas n strategy. This single act to demonstrate their worthiness n readiness to fly has already won them a lot of customers when flight resume. I will not like to fly on planes that have been grounded for months without any knowledge of their worthiness to fly.

Yankee101:
E don start

It has started oh! My organization that receives subvention from the government is about to deny us our May salary. The last salary I received was in April. See how people are treated in their own country.

medTechworld:
END TIME HAPPENINGS!

The day Christ will appear everybody will be taken unaware. With what is happening on a daily basis, if they tell me say Jesus they come in 2hrs time, I no go argue oh!

CodeTemplar:
Police can be everywhere if thieves and bandits can.

The IGP statement is attributed to a failed system.

Romangalactic:

Shattap, be quiet.

OP, she is acting out whatever negativity her mom might have filled her head with, especially regarding men / husbands, hence the unnecessary suspicions. Like mother like daughter.
Your wife is on her way to becoming a single mom like her mother, you can assist her

You said the bitter truth. Her mom is the architect of what they r passing through. Please, parents should learn to keep distance from the family affairs of their children. Let them learn to live n settle their issues themselves, only intervene when you r contacted or when the situation warrant your attention. For the wife to dedicate 60% of her monthly salary on d mother, n the mother relocated to stay with them shows that the mother is the one manipulating the daughter against her husband. This is a serious issue on ground until the mother lives that family alone, else they will continue in this direction. I pray that God should visit that family n restore it back.

Confirmedzombie:
I dont know what to say again. This virus and cases will never reduce until a total lockdown is enforced till further notice.

Federal government should lockdown this country advice Nigerians to stock there homes.

Nigerians are too stuborn and only a tough hands will humble everyone and they stay at their homes.

People just prefer money to life.

Nonsense.

Advice the same government to provide for those Nigerians that don't have the means to stock their houses before they lock down.

Iamundisputed:
Who told this albino that Igbos want an exit? So those with properties and businesses in Lagos, Ogun etc should become aliens in their own domain and start being treated as foreigners right?

Nnamdi Kanu is a very selfish human being misleading poor youths cos his father doesn't own a pin outside his village. Ewu!

In as much as the Igbo's has investment all around the country but I must say they r doing the right thing by pushing to break out of this country. I am also from the North but I am tired of the games the Hausa/Fulanis r playing with the future of Nigeria. How can a single region/ tribe hold the country at ransom, whereas we have other regions with competent people that can give the country a good leadership but they r denied? The Igbo's n others r not regarded in Nigeria. This is pure wickedness, I am in support of their move to break loose.

DominusPrime:

Your sister has turned you to a slave. Being in one state does not stop you from applying for jobs in other states although there are advantages in being in the same state. But as it is I haven't seen how you are enjoying them. You didn't even mention that your sis is helping you look for a job. Also talk to the hubby too if he can help while you are away.

Your sister sees your being a housegirl more beneficial to her than you getting a job. Besides if you get a job in that state and still live in that house you will automatically have two jobs...ironically as it may sound that wont be a blessing at all.

I don't know the last time I applied for a job by going to the organization to submit my CV. I do it online. Please, I will encourage her to go back to her parent n find a way to subscribe for job advert online n also use that medium to apply because most of the job vacancies application today r done via online.