backnbeta:

Not 'living' with her literally...But my point is; we all manage to maintain cordial relationships with inlaw's we don't like! There's always that in-law you don't like, but do you stop talking to your brother or sister because of him/her? But then; it's your choice! God forbid I stop talking to my brother or sister because of their spouse as far as they didn't choose my husband for me

You don't have a full understanding of a woman. You will be in a good time with your family members but the moment you marry a wife, trouble will start. I have seen a lot of men that abandoned their parents because of their wives. Some married women r selfish, they only think of themselves n their family members. They don't like anything good associated with their husband's relatives. A woman can make a man forget his family, believe me, a man needs to be a man sometimes to correct a woman that's misleading him.

I heard that Peter n Paul mother was a Pastor before her demise. Pls, let a true n respected man of God reconcile the two of them. Even if they don't want to do music or business together, let Love strive. They r special n amazing twins, they should not allow the devil to destabilise them for the good of their kids.

Righteousness89:
Katakata is now the order of the Day! Not just in Lagos or in Nigeria but all over the World..

I Just wanna take this Moment to wake anyone who desires to be awake to what time we are in and what is about to Happen!

Ladies and Gentlemen, I don't know the language or Manner I should use to Sound this that will sink in our Hearts and Mind..
We are at the Brink of a Great Dispensational Change! We are at the Brink of a " Great Reset" otherwise known as the New world order( Nwo). It's no longer a hidden stuff!

Just as the World is Making Preparation to Reset, launch the Nwo and officially bring in the programs of the Lawless one! So also is The KING of kings, Jesus Christ Preparing to Snatch His People away from Here.
We are no longer looking for a sign! We are listening for a SHOUT! A Shout of the Trumpet!
JESUS Christ is Coming! And you cannot take what will hit the World next!

Ladies and Gentlemen, today is an opportunity to be Reconciled to GOD through JESUS Christ!
Don't delay! Don't postpone!
There is no more time!

Naso Noah preached n people looked at him as unserious being until they all perished. Please, accept Jesus as your saviour today before it is too late.

Pavillon:


Lool.

They are meant to undergo Covid test again, regardless of the result presented.

Gabon did the same thing in the first leg on Friday, forcing Gambia to play without one of their key player

How many minutes will it take them to conduct covid 19 test on highest 25 people? We r not serious in Africa.

jidamsel43:
You don't need to rush to make a hasty decision on this because many 'strange' things happen in a marriage that requires wisdom and patience. I began to realize some things recently when I got married which made me conclude that Marriage is full of strange and peculiar situations. Since my marriage late last year, my tolerance, patience, forbearance have increased. I have been to a point of raising my hand to hit her but I deployed caution and restraint. There is no issue or circumstance in a marriage that surpasses the use of patience and wisdom.

Back to the issue at hand, call your wife and inquire why she decided to embark on the journey without your permission. if she gives you a convincing response, please let it slide down like that. Anybody that tells you to come hard on your wife just wants to destabilize your happy home. If your wife's reason is reasonable to some extent, you have to accept her and just warn her not to take the unilateral decision again.

I have been confronted with issues more serious than this. My wife and I are still together better and stronger. There is no perfect man or woman.

We are just managing ourselves

I am over 10 years in that institution n there r many people that r above that n also below it but I tell u the above advice is one of the best for you. This behaviour is more peculiar to our Christian women than the Muslim counterpart. I don't know what is given our women that courage, it is absolutely wrong.

Amotolongbo:
This would have been a very good initiative by the lawmaker, if he had provided the farmland and other equipments to plant these cassava stems.

You know Nigerian politician brain is zero, all they know is to deceive people n still money.

Funkyswagzz:
What is it with pastors and kidnappers.. are they the richest in the country. Pls they shud go for all these ruthless politicians and kidnap them

Is not about them being rich, it is a strategy to bring down Christianity at all cost. Have u asked yourself why r they neglecting Islamic Clerics? Why r they mostly concern about attacking Christians communities? This is a war n only God can save the Church.

SuperBold:


Every Yoruba sons and daughters should be satisfied first and their generation yet to be born satisfied before thinking of another tribe in Yoruba land..... Yoruba first and no one else

It's a good one but remember that by the time all the yoruba people working and making it big in other regions like the North r chased back home, I hope you get the capacity to cater for them.

I have said it several time that if Nigeria divides, the Igbos will do better than any other region. Look at how united n well coordinated they r.

Nbotee:
Y are u ppl jus talking from every corner of ur mouth... First d Army was neva there.. And then d army was there but dey didn't open fire and now dey fired but used blanks?

I don't even understand this Usman of a guy. It seems he has retired n not the spoke person again, then why is he talking on behalf of the military?

azmanaty2:
Islam is a cancer to the world

This is pure Jihad, n it is by God grace that these people will be released even after paying the ransom.

html14java:
Two point nine billion naira. That's three billion per se.

How many people are taking the exam? That's the first question.

Let's say 5,000,000 pupils are taking the exam and each printed paper cost 1,000.
That's 5,000,000,000

Are you sure the three billion naira will be enough?

But remember that candidates pay for these Exams. So, what r these examination body doing with the registration fees, that government has to sink such billions for the printing of question papers. Our government will never change.

jumper524:
these protest has made me to know men amongst men in governorship position.

kwara state, despite how large the state is and it's limited strategic position for police.
the governor was still able to contain it.


respect to borno state leaders most especially Zulum for being a real nigga and sharing those palatives accordingly.

ganduje has proven to be better than makinde.
ganduje didn't hoard palatives but makinde our eye service governor did.

wike the lion has again proven to be better than elrufai.

God bless all the governors that shared the palatives and please help those hoarding food for the masses to atleast have shame and repent even if they don't repent from all sins, they should atleast repent from shamefully and unnecessary stealing..

I am not a Kwaran but I reside there for now. The present governor in Kwara is more open n straightforward in terms of leadership. The guy is doing well n his focus now should be increasing the civil servants salaries n creating job opportunities for his people. He is trying seriously speaking with the limited resources from the State.

ybalogs:
It is a possibility even this man with his integrity issues will likely be involved in. Birds of a feather nah him all of Una be.

If the man was part of it, I tell you he will not have exposed them the way he did. When u partake in evil, you will be guilty inside n also be afraid to say the truth cos it will also affect u.

RealLordZeus:
The Blood being shed in this nation is too much

Let me be frank with you, the blood shed in this country is the cause of the numerous problems.

Commentor:
I totally agree with this.

All governors, who partook of this act are idiots.

That doesn't mean your son isn't a fool too.

Why all of a sudden is he quiet?

Falz recently did an interview with CNN, u need to watch it. The guy is not quite.

I must confess that this guy is extremely intelligent. His response was detailed n well presented. He knows his job n I respect him for that.

vanbonattel:
Send the children home as a temporal measure.

This is the best solution but making a public declaration will worsen the matter. She could have used this energy to send these girls home.

PhiliptheArab:
Good.

Hopefully, we collect lots of revenue from this.....

And we need better rail links between Nigeria and other African countries as well....for trade and investment to flow.

I hope Nigerians will not regret this move. Some of these African countries we shared borders with r the cause of the insecurity happening in Nigeria and the government is giving them an express road into Nigeria.

Uyi168:
At 3,the little boy should be able to at least read from A - Z, even if he didn't get the letters correctly.
The teacher and the school needs questioning.

Na big big money all these mushroom private school sabi charge..

Pls, we should stop misleading people. Age to enrol a child in school is 6 years but the quest for some parents n private school owners will say a different thing. This is one of the reasons today's graduate r messing up big time. The father should not stress himself when the boy gets to his picking point, he will respond positively. Just encourage the child.

Juliusmalema:
Just Imagine the rubbish..


These are students who supposed to have finished exams since June or so and because of Covid-19 it was postponed till now.

What sort of visionless protest will not allow the passage of sensitive exam materials to their destination.

The younger generation have overstayed at home, let them finish their exam and face their lives....The exam has lingered for so long.

From ENDSARS you now want to ENDFUTURE of the young generations.


Both the protesters And SARS are just natural killers.....


Stop obstructing them from writing their exams.

Nonsense.

Bro, End Sars protest is better than the Exam for now. What's the need of graduating or writing the exam in a shattered economy filled with corrupt leaders in the helm of affairs. Freedom for better life first before anything follows.

mimimiles93:

12 kinds of people protesting EndSars
1. PDP members and supporters.

2. Relatives of those President Buhari probe and eventually jailed.

3. Those who are paid by opposition party.

4. Those who see it as an opportunity to wake their dead music career.

5. Those who are being pressurized by others to join.

6. Yahoo boys and girls.

7. Cultists.

8. Those who see it as an opportunity to see or meet their favorite celebrities physically.

9. Those who chase clout.

10. Those who see it as an opportunity to steal people's phone.

11. Those who go there to look for husbands.

12 Those who go there to toast ladies.

You r not from Kaduna, stop spreading lies n misleading people. Kaduna is divided along religious ground. Majority of those on the street protesting r from Christian dominated areas, most of the Muslims in the North will not come out because their son a fellow Muslim is in power. If the president was a Christian from the North or a Christian from another part of the country, you could have seen a huge protest coming from the North.

lymelyte:
they have all been exposed already.. That international disgrace have been placed on them. Dat loan they go about borrowing to pay bulk of the national assembly salaries would be questioned. We have brought them to the spotlight.. They are been watched and observed already ..we won't even stop there.. This is just the beginning

I am happy about this development. Nigerians don suffer too much from these evil leaders.

inoki247:



You go wait tire oh all doz ones na aw to b a paid protesters dem sabi...

Pls, don't say what u don't know. These guys r mostly Christian youth from southern Kaduna, n don't expect a state with 90% Muslim population in the North to join End Sars protest.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

It is painful I most say but I pray that they settle n get back together most especially for their kids.

myBraine:
Who cares?

He's not ending anything out of pressure. Nigerians should make known their hidden agenda and stop hiding behind the EndSars mantra.

Buhari is not a Twitter president. If you're tired of his leadership, then leave his country.

You're unfollowing someone that's only following 26 world leaders. They'll all follow him back whenever they're in their right state of mind.

We all make mistakes.

Point of correction, Nigeria belongs to Nigerians, not Buhari because the people voted for him to be there n they equally have the right to use every right channel to protest his incompetent or even call for his removal. I don't advice Nigerians to leave but to stay n save their country from the grip of bad leadership.

Nigeria is full of lies n propaganda. Look at how serious they r in the pictures, like say they one go finish the work for sambisa

KingAzubuike:
So Edo state government dey owe am 13 months salary, how do you expect him to survive? To me, suicide was the best option jare.

Very wicked government

If the news about the non payment of their 13-month salary is true, I am seriously disappointed in Obaseki.

michlins:
this is a high risk situation oh. In US, there will be a designated survivor kept safe somewhere.

All the heads of Nigeria government are at same venue. Na risky something

Which risky. No be them put us for this mess we dey today?

I am from the North also but I can say categorically that all these pictures r rubbish. What are they celebrating? No be North spoiled Nigeria, truth be told.

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

I really like your stand bro, you have a good heart. Sleeping with someone's wife comes with a price to pay in the future. Many people have introduced a curse into their life by engaging in such a shameful act.

SeedofAbraham:
Good morning Nairalanders,

I've been having sleepless night recently as I've been confused in decision making due to the fact that I'm not well experienced about Job matters.

I presently got an offer at a State Public Service with GL 8 Salary Scale of 63k+ monthly (though it's poor) but with rest assured constant Promotion every 3 years subject to success in Promotion Exercise. There's also hope that in the next 18 years, I'll get to the Directorate levels (GL 15 - 17) where the Pay Structure seems better with Jumbo rise compared to the poor salary structure of GL 7 - 14... Meaning that I'll have to endure till then before enjoyment start coming. Please note that in addition to Promotion every 3 years, this State Public Service don't owe workers salary as they pay in due time as we all know that Public Service has Job Security. Also, I hope by God's Grace that I become a Permanent Secretary if I decide to choose this path while enduring the Salary (I can switch to Federal Parastatals if the Job Offer comes up later though).

On the other hand, I'm about to get a Full-time Staff offer from a Multinational Company (Headquarter is based in the US) with more than 120k Salary for a start. There are Career growth and the chance of living comfortably & enjoying life is cool compared to the State Public Service in terms of Salary. We all know that Private Organisations can decide to lay off workers at any time as there's no Job Security. Also, I don't know if Multinational Companies usually lay off only Contract Staff or they can decide to lay off Permanent Staff as well... Though, the Multinational Company have a Pension Scheme for their Staff & didn't lay off workers during this COVID-19 Pandemic as they were operating during the lockdown since they provide essential services.

I wasn't born & brought up with a Silver Spoon and I never pray to struggle in life henceforth as Poverty must die. I'm a Second Class Upper graduate with proven abilities and outstanding performance as I'm a Problem Solver.

I need the assistance of experienced Nairalanders as your advice and point of views with detailed explanations will be highly appreciated.

First, let me advise you that don't depend on your grade in school because our system here doesn't reward excellent academic performance. Your dilemma in selecting which of the job to go for, I strongly advise that you go for the state civil service job reason is that the pay difference is not much n in the private driven sector you can be easily laid off as we saw during the COVID 19 period. And you can easily have time to further your studies n run a business while working with the government. I could have advised that you go for the multinational job if the starting salary was around 250k n above.