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Yes..it is possible to sue but difficult to prove since they are married...Unless there is A camera or A record of the wife saying "No" when she is being raped..

beardlessdude:
1. first, are you homosexual?
2.Why are you not married?
3. Are you dating?
4. If you dont smoke, drink, club what do you do?

See where your mind go ...As a man Thinket, so is he.... People choose not to get married...it doesn't define their sexuality...And haven't you heard of married men that sleeps with men... Does that make them straight? Or decievers...
1. So.. I am not Bro...
2. Ladies pretend a lot when you are doing well for yourself...
3. Yes..
4. Being Decent...
Thanks ...

Kriss216:
In my opinion, if you dont cheat, or smoke, or drink, or club, you're irresponsible and incomplete!

I need to start right away then!

When you are single, matured, working especially in high earned jobs..You hear people tagging you irresponsible because you're not yet married despite doing well for yourself..
But does it mean Married men are irresponsible, because they are married? Not at all..I feel the most irresponsible gropus are married men...They cheat at any given time...I see them, they discuss it, especially after 2yrs of marriage..they start cheating as if there is no tomorrow, even the so called decent ones..they do it codedly..
A lot of men cheat...We may not know because they are related to us and will pretend when we are around, but they do cheat
Truth be told... Whenever I feel irresponsible for not being married, and a married man start discussing how many women he has slept with or intend to sleep with after marriage..I feel responsible, because I don't cheat, don't smoke, drink or club..
What is it that makes married men cheat after marriage?
I hope I don't cheat when I get married and I don't find a reason to cheat too.

Hideki:
"This thread is my Advise to the young man living with his wife and sister in-law in a room self con"



I read on this forum about a young man and his wife living in a room self con and the wife's sister is living with them. Everyone criticized him and advised him to save and get a bigger apartment and live comfortably (Instead of saving to increase your stream of income, you are saving to increase your liability "rent" how are you gonna get out of poverty when you are increasing your liability and expense on a fixed income? Sadly the ladies were encouraging the young man to SAVE and (become poorer) get a bigger apartment without thinking twice. (May God deliver is from partners without wisdom)

I will use a real life scenario to support the subject.
My dad got married at about 26, gave birth to 8 children in a single room(3.6mx3.6m). My dad worked as a bank security guard all his life (All his eight children are/were bankers). My mum was into ajo/esusu. We lived in that single room until my oldest brother got a job.Who says you can't start a family in a single room? let alone a self con. Listen, we are all going to make different degrees of sacrifices to get a better life. You better start now.

Let us use my dad as a case. If he had waited(for years) for the situation to improve, before he started giving birth, he would have been too old/weak to give my elder ones (then teenagers) the beatings they deserve to keep them in check while growing up in the ghettos.

You will have to focus on what is important on time. I could remember when my dad deprived us of a coloured TV. My mum had saved a little for us to purchase our neighbors spoilt coloured TV. My dad took part of the money to buy an Oxford dictionary for my oldest brother. My siblings and I got so angry that we wanted to read up/ copy out the whole dictionary and sell it the next day.

Thirdly his income never improve! (his meager salary increase could not knock off inflation) This is life and is real. you may never have that increased income. Are you going to pause your life hoping for an increased income? "you don't get caught up on where you would rather be and fail to make the best use of where you are."

Fourthly, you will have an increased sense of responsibility. My dad knew the value of a bottle of beer. A bottle of beer then was N40 naira. That is equivalent to 4 exercise books. Instead of having Deborah waiting for him early in the morning for books, he will decline the beer.

With the right training and God, you may not have to LABOUR for too long. at 56 my three of my siblings were graduates and gainfully employed and forced him to stop working. we had relocated to a three bedroom apartment. At 60 my Dad became a high chief. @65 he was Knighted and we gifted him and my mum the duplex he had always fantasised about and his Son in-laws once gifted him a car each ( imagine you have five son in-laws). At 56, the first child of my dad's closest friend was 12.

Lastly, do not allow narrow minded people impair your judgement. Narrow minded people are dangerous. They don't have a game plan. they just want to live comfortably (big rented apartment own a car with all their savings) and retire to nothing. These are the set of people that will see their children going into crime to make money and they will look away. They want to "meet-up". There is nothing wrong seeing a young man hustling and sacrificing for his family. There is something wrong seeing an old man struggling.

When I got my first job after a year, I was entitled to about 2m for a car loan, I took the loan, use one of my brother's car to front. I got married (while living in my elder sister's BQ a single room selfcon and I gave birth there.)with part of the loan, I used the other part to complete my professional certification cos I was paying in USD. After repaying part of the loan for a few months, I borrowed from my sister to pay back the outstanding on the loan. I left the company for one of the big 4 audit firm. worked there for two years and I came back to my former company on a middle management grade.

Many may disagree with the subject, but while we argue about the correctness or suitability of the subject, our greatest enemy "time" is ticking.

Finally brethren, beware of narrow minded people! flee from them. They always want chop chop and comfort at the present they are myopic.

You are such a wise man...
People save to increase their liability

BigTableShaker:
Ohh I see.
Camry is not a female car o.
Don't mind them.

frozen70:
No car was made for a particular gender

Get it if you can afford it and move to your next plan

It's going to be your first car and font be surprise your next car will start loading so that you can pass it on to madam

Pls note that cars used by women are supposed yo be in a better condition because women takes care of what they have and pay more attention to it

No one wants to be stranded with a car he or she drives

Maidstone is the key

Thanks

Bobbydell:
Go for Corolla 2005

With Bad Road and everything?

Bobbydell:
What is your budget

1.5ml

BigTableShaker:
Pls and pls, do not buy any car used by a woman or a banker.
90% of women don't care about their car largely because someone bought it for em.
They just get in, switch on the ignition and drive, they never care about what's under the hood or creaking sounds etc, not until the car finally break down.
Tgen, she pick her phone and say "hey honey, the car just stopped moving" I'm stuck in the bush.

They say is a female car... that's what I meant.
Thanks for your input...I learnt something also

Bobbydell:
Well bro Highlander is rugged and maintenance is low

Ok

Bobbydell:
Get Highlander 2008

Maintenance is also a factor too..
Lexus RX300 is also cool but has high maintenance
Thanks

Please...I am planning to get Toyota RAV4 for myself..But someone told me is usually used by female...Another option is Camry...but the bad roads (potholes) in Nigeria is making opt for RAV 4...
What do you guys think?

Wtf Op...If it was once..I would have thought it was a mistake..that they didn't know they were cousin...More Than Once, twice and more...guy leave her... Whenever she talks about any cousin of hers, your mind won't be at rest...Free her... People don't change, they find a better way to pretend and cover up..

Scaryface:
Come and buy land oooo. 08121927129

I hope is not scam..Your advert

Boomzaga:
am into the maritime sector . company picks girls from different countries for us.

Wow...That's pathetic

LadySarah:
Do we also discuss how some offshore workers stay back for days to cheat on their wives who are eagerly waiting for them.

Women are arranged for them as soon as they come on land.

Yeah Some men arrange women for themselves..Not Company...I have heard that so many times and it is funny and silly

stanliwise:
Not everyone has your friend kind of wife. And some wife are mores smarter than their husband. Some bad wives are specialize terrorist, so those your learner strategy wouldn't work perhaps it could create discomfort in relationship. Wife and husband should have comfort when around each other.
One was out to spot a cheating partner is to have an open mind and not be blinded by too much assumption to an extent that you don't notice small adjustment to people.

Really... Notice Small adjustment...You never jam women... Except they are caught by chance..
Besides ..I agree is not all women...

This is an advice to those hard working men that works offshore or outside their residential areas or states and have to stay two weeks, months or more outside...
Don't tell your wife or Girlfriend that you are coming back any given time..Even if she knows the exact time you are suppose to come back, give her an excuse that you might be staying longer without being specific...
And try to come back at night especially when you don't have children yet or come back during school hours when everyone has gone to school or work...
Surprise her...You may get an idea of what is really going on when you are not around...

People that works offshore or people that works in another state will full your ears with stories that you can't even imagine...

A colleague was to go to site( offshore)...On his way going he forgot something... Begged to rush home to collect it... reaching there, his wife was with another man, the woman couldn't even wait for a day...He was speechless...And she has been fuvking that guy for 2yrs...
And this is not the only story...ask guys working offshore they will tell you...Even some neighbors use it as an advantage to Bleep your woman...
Stop telling your woman that you are coming back... Surprise them...

Whenever You Hear Most Girls Say...I Am In This Position Because I Worked Very Hard...This Is The Position ...Back On The Ground, Legs Hanging High....

After sucking dick they turn Motivational Speaker...

hollywater:
How i wish i can klick like twice for this your comment.

I am liking yours twice right now.

Hifeylove:
did he just said the lady gave you 2million to support you? Chaiii you get luck ooo but anyway just send me her number privately let me press her mumu buttons and advise her wisely.. freaky freaky...!

The guy doesn't know what he has...

She don go buy market... Desperate to bring the guy down...now it has backed fired..

Send me her number...How dare she date an idiot like you? She needs someone like me...

The collapse and death of a dream.

There are many factors that can contribute to the death or the Collapse of a Man's dream...Factors like finances, The butterfly effect ( little mistakes changed everything..murder), educational , death, and others.
But one factor that people tends to forget is the collapse or death of a dream when we get married and start having children...
Taking care of your immediate family is so stressful that you want to drop everything just to concentrate on your family.
I have witnessed it first hand...I have a lot of married friends and colleagues with Bugatti ( Very Big) ambitions and working towards it until they get married, you slowly see the ambition collapse to a Toyota Camry 2002 ambition.
I have seen men that doesn't take nonsense in office suddenly get scared of losing their jobs and Become asslickers.
When you ask men like that, Guy, What happen to your Big dream?.They start complaining how difficult it is to take care of wife and children.How the money saved for a certain project automatically goes to their wife's or childrens welfare.
That's one of the reasons most men are bitter, the weight, the stress and every family Problem being dumbed on them. They get scared going home, because something most drop..The urge to have sex reduces because of the implications ( having more burden to take of..i.e children..)
Believe me.I will be bitter too..if I don't have a good foundation for myself, and I start building foundations for my whole family.
Please Guys.Before you get married, irrespective of your age.Make sure you have a little balance.It doesn't get easier when you get married.
The He who finds a wife finds a good thing, obtains favour...no be when you no get stove to boil water to make garri your neighbor give you..
Be Wise

Bankers....If you know how many penis don enter there for her to be in this level...how many quickies and blowjobs....
Fear Bankers... especially the female ones...