CosmicPhoenix:

Which means 98% of Nigerians masturbate since we are the poverty capital of the world

kenny1111:
Good afternoon everyone,

please I need advice from all parents and Educators and parents on Nairanland. today I just realized my 3years old son cant even read Letters A to F talk less of A to Z but can read Figure 1 to 10, I am seriously worried.

I don't stay at home except for weekends as I am working outside my state, but due to the curfew I find my way back home yesterday so I was able to discover this problem in the early hours of today.

I know the mother is trying cos I have seen different live videos where she was teaching him and working on his assignment, most times I pity the boy so much because of the beating from his mum alone makes me sick but I can't really complain since I know is for his own good and I know how stressful it is for a mother with 2 kids to manage her time and all that....

I called his teacher immediately and she told me my son will be going to Nursery class when the present term is over due to his age, sadly she didn't say things I expect to hear from her so I told her I will visit the school once the curfew is over, I need explanation, is private school that bad these days ? my son can't even write 2 and 3

I have bought Video CD, bought many play book materials containing letters and figures displayed boldly, I bought counting and so on when he was 2 years so i expect a better result by now.

pls sir and ma, I need help on how to guide this boy to learn better, what should I do and how should I go about it.

Note: any time I am home, I always go through his books, assignments and read his school rhymes for him.

pls Help

concerned Daddy

Kingdemi212019:
Your pikin don choose watin go benefit am in life ,he came to the world to count money not to speak grammars

Lessonteacher:
which religion do you think is the true religion?

Dtruthspeaker:


Since they refuse to use their knowledges, someone else who has need of it has taken it from them to use for his own purposes. And his purposes need not be beneficial to you.

I think the world would end when Africa, the last Populous Stronghold of Lovers of God in Truth, Falls!

And unfortunately, this shall be!

NGpatriot:




His associates are all actually successful all over Nigeria from local to the federal level as VP, governors, ambassadors, ministers, agency directors, presidential aides and so on.

Don't let hatred and bitterness fool you, Tinubu produced and promoted more successful people than any human being in Nigeria.

anonimi:


You are a smart chap.
Guess who made the Alpha Beta Company tax collection and ThiefNuibe's pension laws if not the born-to-gain Vacant Pastor (VP).
A smooth operator of a rogue is what he is.


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mascot345:


I really appreciate your advice. I am a transmission engineer. Thanks alot.
I am still single too. Maybe my bank account is just deceiving me. But I need to manage my money so that I won't go back to poverty.

My company gave me a moderate car for official use. I don't really have much responsibilities at home or in my family.

mascot345:
Please , advice needed . I feel so tempted to buy this Mercedes Benz. My monthly salary is just 350k. I have negotiated with the seller ,,, He gave me #3.5million. I am just a contract staff.

My company can decide to sack me anyday, anytime. We are always afraid. Or they might decide not renew our contracts.

Every staff is always afraid of losing his job or contract renewal. And every staff is always saving for rainy day.

SukaBlyat:
My love for breast is out of this world
Especially breast that have huge nipples
It's so bad that the first thing I look in a girl is the size of her breast.

I just fvcked this girl from mbaise
OMG!!!!! See nipples
I was hypnotized by her breast as I sucked,licked it even while fvcking her.
This made me cum really harrd!!!

She later complian that her nipples is paining her and it's sensitive so I stopped.

I'm addicted to breast and hard nipples
Is this normal or I'm I a pervert?
It's all I think about most of the day
Breast, breast and more breast

angelfallz:


Horrible advice.
Real men know how to handle women, beautiful or otherwise.
Please google search and download this book "The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi
It would teach you a lot about women, and you would come to understand why your advice is so horrible.

CuteVally:
Good evening Nairalanders.

Please i need an advice on the next step i should take in life. I am a guy, 25 years of age and still living with my parents, though i am not jobless but recently my bank account just hit one million and 200 thousand naira.

So my parents are advising to buy a landed property in my home town that will take about 900 to 1 million naira. But the thing is that i am 25 and i feel at my age i should no longer be staying with my parents, so i want to rent a flat and furniture it to my taste, i feel it is time to move on, i need my freedom to finally face life like a man.

So my question is, should i purchase a landed property at 25 and continue living with my parents or pack out and start my Adult life. Note: i am not jobless".

Skepticus:


You need to first ask yourself what responsibility and being responsible truly is. Don't define it by Nigerian's standard.

Responsibility is the state or fact of having a duty and being accountable for its consequences. This means having control over your actions, life and dealing with what it brings.

Marriage in itself (especially monogamy), is an artificial construct of humans when we began to settle down into societies. It is optional. If a kid becomes a consequence of you, pair bonding with a woman, you have a responsibility of taking care of the kid, because it's your genetic material and the kid never asked to be born.

But society shaming because you refused to pay (bride price), for someone else's daughter, and taking care of her (regardless of your age or financial status) is downright stupid and disingenuous.

Use your head. Don't let the society fool you. Do your own things at your own pace. What makes them do it most of the time is herd mentality meaning that since others get married, it's a must that you do regardless of whether it is sensible or not.

I'm glad that younger people are beginning to question certain issues that society expect them to do as part of the "human herd".

Dtruthspeaker:


He sees All your Thoughts, even those that wantonly stray to someone else, He sees them too.

You can not deceive Him for He Knows You More than you Think or Know, That is How Great He is!

The wise, fear the Lord for He cannot be deceived by any means whatsoever!

blazepascal:
stop trying to sound smart, its a sin.

ochibuogwu5:
If you have genuinely received the new creation-life of Christ Jesus Crucified, you cannot be keeping the naked pictures or videos of your spouse not to mention masturbating with it. Video sex is sin even for married couples.

The man and his wife were naked before each other at the same physical location and they were not ashamed....(Genesis 2:24-25)

You can remember the thoughts of your sexual intimacy with your spouse and dwell on it praising God for such gift of sexual intimacy with your spouse and sexual intimacy for legally wedded couple in the whole world but you have not sinned *because he/she is your spouse in the presence of God* but when you start imagining having sexual intimacy with another person who is not your wedded spouse then it is sin such was the teachings of Jesus thus "if you look at a woman with lust in your heart, you have already committed fornication with her in your heart" (Matthew 5:27-28)

I will encourage you to check YouTube for the 4 gospel message titled *NOT I BUT CHRIST* by Gbile Akanni so that you can receive mercy and grace into the *full revelation of what it means to be a Christian*

Great Grace Brethren!!!

Dtruthspeaker:
Do you really want Christ to judge that matter?

You do know that He can Separate All Your Different Thoughts you had in that Moment and All Your Different Thoughts will be Evidence for or Against you.

No man can Exactly and Accurately Measure the Truth of your Thoughts that way, so do you really want to go down that road and take the risk with your life?

Think am oh, it is not a mere and ordinary man that shall judge you oh, it is He Who Knows You More than you, Who is going to Judge the.matter oh!

My advice, Play for Mercy and Forgiveness rather than Innocence, You fit fail for the Innocent Matter.

Respect55:

I wanted to read but when I noticed you are trying to equate material thing to marital responsibility, I stopped.

Respect55:

So explain to me how a man can rape his wife?

majorbravo:

Hi bro,

I will only be in Nigeria for about 6 months to test the waters then I'll decide to stay or leave based on my experience. Abroad isn't really all that great either. Whatever talents we've got is spent on western countries who don't value black people as much. I just want to be able to contribute something to my fatherland. Possibly start a family.

smallsmall:


It is NOT POSSIBLE, unless you haev not read a marriage Vow before or taken one before. I have.

Marriage is a CONTRACT, and Sex within the marriage is part and parcel of that contract.
When you take your marriage Vows, you were asked some questions, to which you MUST respond "I DO", before you can be pronounced Husband and Wife...... and one of those Question is:
Do you Miss X, take Mr. Y and your lawful wedded Husband?
I VOW to LOVE and CARE for you.
I promise to be your loyal companion
I take you will all your strengths and faults, in health and in sickness,
For better for Worse, For Richer, for Poorer
I pledge to you, my life, as a loving and faithful wife (husband), till death do us apart.

A good examination of the MARRIAGE VOW/PLEDGE above shows that each spouse body, belongs to the other spouse and since one cannot be accused of raping one's self, you cannot rape your wife, neither can you rape your husband.

Everyone takes what BELONGS to them, willfully.
As long as the two are married, that PLEDGE and CONTRACT exists between them.
The moment any of the spouses feels that they cannot fulfill that VOW anymore, they have to take steps to DISSOLVE the VOW (marriage) so as to be free of it and UNTIL that is done, the Pledge subsists, in all ramifications.

If you dont want sex with your husband, you just divorce him and he is no longer ENTITLED to the Sex anymore because the VOW has been broken.
But you cant accuse him of Rape, as long as you keep that Contract and Vow.

Most ladies nowadays think less of the Pledge they make, when they enter into a marriage Contract, they are more interested in the Benefits and Razzmattazz of it but they sooner find out along the line that Trying to eat your Cake and having it, a sign of greed, is just as difficult and comes with a lot of pains.
You are not under any obligation to marry, enjoy your singleness and freedom but if and when you decide to trade it for marriage, doing so willfully, dont even think about trying to cheat on it.

Women are always looking for ways to trap men and hamstring them, using laws that the manipulate to get through the system but we must give it to them, they know how to get stupid men to line up behind their subtle plans, without raising suspicion.

Respect55:

You lack knowledge of legality in this country. A man can't rape his wife. It is understood under the constitution that when a woman signs that marriage certificate, she has intentionally and willingly given in to sexual acts with the man.

Conversely, a man can sue his wife for denying him sex and the court will entertain it.