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jeffizy:
It is a cultural thing.


And when you believe so much in a myth, it engulfs you and begins to manifest.

Whatever A Man Thinket So He Is.

Ladylite:
It is only Africans that see sex in the dream as a problem.

It is a spiritual problem to everyone in the world but some move on, others choose to become Mike Tyson and fight.

I remembered having wet dreams as a teenager back in the days...I thought it was spiritual,I banded and casted the spirit many times, until i was told it happens to every young chap by a Dr..
Since then...I don't reject p.ssies in the dreams..

ettaetta:
lol, I think it has to do with our culture/believe






https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7PLL1bMTb8

Exactly...If You Are Desperately Looking For Answers To Your Problem...If You Are Told The Solution Is To Eat Shit. You Might Consider It..

Have You Ever Noticed That It Is Only African Women That Always Have " Spirit Husbands" ..I Feel Those Spirit Husbands Discriminates Against Whites, African-American, Asian Women...
Fvck Those Spirit Husbands...They Seem To Like African Pussy Too Much...

Please, Someone Should Explain The Reason Why?

Demiladey361:
I fell sick six months ago and almost died. I was taken to some places but got worst. So later I was taken to church where they did deliverance for me. Then I got better. I didn't get better totally but gradually. Till date I still experience the sickness but not like before.

But I remembered when I was still very sick, my sister told me a pastor explained to her that the attack is coming from a guy who is angry with me and I have to make amends. I didn't really bother about it since I was getting better.

I broke up with my ex around last year when we quarreled. When I found out he is a cultist. I told him never to call me anymore. We were planning to get married next year but when I found out he is a cultist I ended it and it caused a lot of confusion btw our families but at the end they respected my decision and we part ways. Weeks later he called me and said he was really hurt bla bla...

Fast forward to when I was sick. I discovered when I was sick and recovering... I dream about him a lot even without thinking about him but I didn't take it as anything.

Then recently I decided to go to MFM church for a week deliverance to be totally free from this affliction... I fasted for a week and prayed but on the last day, the prayer was about spirit husband and behold I fell and started screaming "No No"... I was rolling up and down scattering everything.. A lot of pastors came to my side praying but I was still screaming" no no" "she belongs to me".

Then when I came back to my senses "the pastor called me and told me I still need much fasting and deliverance session because there must have been a strong covenant for him to say no" . Then he asked me about my past lifestyle. I told him I was worldly then and the only boyfriend I had that lasted long I broke up with him. Then he started praying for me and telling me to say I break every covenant with that guy and behold I was feeling very uncomfortable and shaking then I stopped.

.. After that he prayed for me and told me when the church reopens I should come back for the deliverance cuz the church is currently locked because of the corona issue.....

When I went back home I decided to pray about this guy again but I was still feeling very uncomfortable like I was going to faint then I stopped but then I began to recall everything about my ex.. I could remember he told me we should have a covenant then but I refused ... Then he told me to promise him I won't ever leave him.. I did and he also promised and that was all. Again I remembered he called when I was very sick, he greeted me fine and asked if the sickness caused some spots on my body I said no and then the day the pastor told me to pray about breaking covenant with him, my ex called me that very day to ask me how am doing.

But now am really confused right now. Have prayed about witches and wizards to leave me alone but still am not totally free and now am beginning to think towards my ex direction...

Could he be responsible for this and what about the spirit husband stuff cuz during the time I was sick I dreamt about someone having sex with me and me breastfeeding a baby in the dream.

And when the pastor called me again he said he saw a stretch on my life and he doesn't know where it is coming from that I really need to pray and gave me some prayer books.

Then I called the pastor my sister went to and asked him. He told me the attack is coming from a guy that he is very angry and because a covenant was made and I need to make amends cuz I was ungrateful to him. I was totally confused.

Am so confused and tired of everything right now how is my ex anyway connected to spirit husband.

Only African Women Have Spirit Husbands...
I think spirit husbands are discriminate against whites, Africa- American , Asian women....
Fvck Him

LawBreaker:
Is it a good idea to marry a girl cuz she is pregnant for you even though you don't love her. I have till this month to make a decision cuz their parents say that if the girl gives birth in their house the child automatically becomes theirs and will never be mine. It is really giving me sleepless night, I am seriously having double mind. When she got pregnant, the parents dropped her at my place and say she is gonna stay here and give birth. It was not really easily living with her. She was always going through my phone and making trouble with my female friends. As a result, our stay wasn't peaceful so her parents came and picked her back to her house. Most persons say as she is already pregnant for me I should marry her. I don't want something I will regret later on.

Don't fall into another mistake by marrying someone you don't love just because she got pregnant for you...
Forever is a long time to be miserable in marriage...Not only for you also for her...
Try and explain to them(Her Family) that you can't do it...
Just be ready to provide for the child, whatever he or she needs, get it irrespective of the situation ( I.e the child staying with them or not).
A child should not be raised in an environment that lacks love....

I repeat.... FOREVER IS A LONG TIME... DON'T LIVE IT IN MISERY.

Don't Bleep without condoms next time, then add withdrawal to the usage of Condoms... that's the price you have to pay for fucking without Condom.

Kobojunkie:
Good for them, but let's get back to the story here.
Paul wrote that line to slaves who obviously did not choose death but instead wondered, maybe, what Christianity required of them as concerns the relationship with their masters. If not all slaves chose death over a life of servitude and some of those who lived became Christians somewhere down the line, what message would you have expected of Christ to such?

Go back to your history....Masters( human)rape slaves, beats them etc...And you expect a slave to open her legs in obedience when the master says so...
I am done with this...
I am not a slave to anyone...no matter how it is phrased....

Kobojunkie:
Slavery was still very much legal even 2000 years ago, with some born into slavery... it was even considered by some an economic pathway. So, since Paul was not running some underground to free slaves -- doubt he even could if he had tried back then since even if he was a citizen of Rome, what I don't understand is your particular issue with the advice given. Would you rather he had advised the "Christian" slaves to revolt against their masters?

Note: I don't advocate people believe everything that is written in that book either.

Let me tell you a little history of some of the igbos(I am not an Igbo)...When some of them were being taken to the US via the Atlantic...They rebelled, killed their masters, some even decided to die before they take them to America.. Believe me...I will choose to die a free man any day, any time than to be slaved by someone...

youngvikthor:
good day nairalander I meet this fair pretty young girl early this year and we started dating ,I notice she can't stay without s3x we have self amost everyday.she also have high body count which she promised she have change ,

she cheat on me several times,she is just 18 and all she want is sex please what could be wrong with her because I didn't think this ordinary how can I hell her mature mind please

Introduce her to me...You will be paid dearly...

Ekwutox:
It's the same as when guys call women dumb, if you don't like the generalization then stop doing it to them.

I Don't generalize...

MoodyQueen:


Stop telling me sorry.
Go and tell that to the women you've raped.

Once again...I don't look like your father...You are pointing the wrong guy( I am not your daddy)

Ekwutox:
Actually YOU lack understanding, she never said she was raped by her father.

She said "fathers" not "Some Fathers"...
And she has a father..The generalization was the problem...
Example..."Men are Dogs" then they should show us their fathers among the dogs

MoodyQueen:
I also confirmed that you are a rapist.
You should also be castrated.

Sorry dear...I am not your father...Not all fathers are monsters like your daddy is....

Justbehave:
WE ARE saying the same thing.I never knew you were serious about your father molesting you. My bad. I shouldn't have said sorry.

She doesn't understand that we are sympathizing with her...We will continue to tell her sorry for her father's stupidity

malvisguy212:
and the devil has revealed himself. You start as a genuine seeker. You ask polite, but when I give you the answer, the demon in you reveal himself .
Why did you skeep verse 9? Well, I cannot exchange word with you on a faceless forum. That's immature.

Now I am a demon...
Because I chosed to ask questions...
Religious Fanatic ... Don't ask questions, just swallow everything you are told ,you read or else you are evil or demonic....

malvisguy212:
what is wrong in that verses? A servant should not attempt to deceive a master, but rather
genuinely work hard to do his or her best. Does it mean this verse encourage slaves? Now read verse 9 of Ephesians 6. Paul address those who own slaves, in
verse 9. There, he will remind them that they are no better than those they (the slaves) .

Your Argument would have been better if Paul had not address both the master and the slaves. Paul message is clearly understand,slaves (servant) obey your master. Master, do not man handling your slaves. But your corrupted mind sees only the negatives side . Can any good comes out from your heart?

Idiot Continue to be deceived ...I know when you pray you imagine a white man coming to save you, because they are your "master". And a man that looks like you is evil or the devil....
Idiot

budaatum:
You are not supposed to believe everything you read in the Bible. I'd even say you are not meant to believe anything in the Bible unless your intention is to tremble like a demon.

Try understanding the Bible instead, in its context and its time. I assure you you'd evolve.


Disbelieve and Know!

Make me understand the meaning of the passage...

Ephesians 6:5
Colossians 3:22
Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ.

Tell me how? How is it possible?
To sincerely obey someone that's Enslaving you ...that believes you are a shit in the site of human, that you are a second class human...

Many things just don't sit well...

ehmmy11:
Bro nothing do you.. U are 100% male specimen

Am exactly like you in that regards ...men that ish burst my brain

God bless G-strings Girls...Amen

MOnkeyBabe:
na patanla she dey wear KiTe

What about you?

Baloranking:
. E dey your body OP

I just like the sight of a girl undies missing in-between her bums or thighs

landmark86:
Your life
Your choice
All I no is dat u can't take my wife as urs

As long as she is not wearing G-strings...You are safe

Ugaboy:
u b indomie guy, only indomie people like quicky

Very Funny

I don't think I can't be in a serious relationship with a girl that doesn't wear G-strings...And I don't think can marry a woman that doesn't wear it...

I hope I never kolo?

Leave this bitch alone...Yeah spouses can rape each other...
But it seems all bad things happens to her...
Attention seeking bitch...
She gets off( orgasms) by people giving her attention...
Take away attention from her, she will be depressed...
Low self-esteemed LovePeddler

Millenniumlady:
Why are you taking it personal we're not dating though

In case you hear such words from a nigga, just know you are not dating a simp, you are dating a guy that knows what he wants and can't settle for a cheating bitch

Millenniumlady:
It's a small thing that's why before I star dating someone I'll ask them how they react to cheating because I can't stand a man telling me to remain faithful when we're not yet married.

And I will tell you this.... Immediately you cheat and you are caught...it is over... During courtship, in marriage...even If I hear you cheated on me when we were dating...You are a gonna...
What rubbish!

Must Girls Lack Financial education, they don't know the value of money and the time put to get that money...All they care about is who will give me the latest phone, shoes, watches etc...
Some girls also hustle very hard, but they use the money to buy wants and not need...
Most girls don't understand that they don't need the newest version of any phone..
In other to stop their reckless demands and spendings nstead of buying a romantic novel, buy books on financial education and make sure they read it... let them understand liabilities and assets...
Let them understand that every penny given to them is a potential pounds...
It baffles me how a lot of girls have no savings but carry big phones that can buy a plot of land in Port Harcourt..

Hightser:
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.

Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.

My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)

But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.

My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.

But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.

Please I need advice and contributions.

Avoid it like a plaque....I am talking from experience...And that's my biggest regret right now...

chatinent:
Well, most men make it seem like torture.

Really... Please explain Sir