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Very educative I must say learnt a lot a d have actually penned down a lot... Please can I be added to snail farmers watsapp.. 08091332894 |
Snail farming seems very interesting following this thread.. Pls how can I construct a pen using tyres... Do I need to build a shade at my backyard before using the tyres? |
@kunlesufyan where exactly in Abuja are you? Just stumbled on this thread and would like to get more practical info from you, I stay at maraba axis and would like to visit your snail farm. |
Pls add me o the group.. 08091332894.. |
I'm happy for the op,pls your marriage is unique do what works best for you, as long as you have peace, communicate all your displeasure to your man just don't stop talking keep talking and someday he'l listen, don't listen to those who say don't spend it's your home spend, but always let him know your displeasure on certain issues , be firm when you have to be but do it with wisdom don't allow finance spoil your marriage.. .. Always read proverbs 31...You seem to be a virtuous woman.. GOD BLESS YOU... Your hubby is lucky, you are also lucky to have him. Just keep pushing him and he'l be just what you want... |
Dubemnaija2 If you knew him in person you'll also be emotional, we are humans and emotional beings.. Save your wish you are not my God who forgives a repentant heart no matter the offence... people can be soo emotional and selfish.. mistake that took 35 lives?? wish U were part of that 'mistake'[/quote] |
Oh God help Richard... No body is above mistake.. |
I'm really astonished at some people's comment on this thread... Humans forget so quickly whao! Even sons and daughters quickly forget that they were raised by their parents... The Bible says we should honour our parents whether mother-in-law or father-in-law they are our parents.. If the op feels his mum should stay longer why shouldn't he honour her that way... Na wah o . the way you tolerate your spouse excesses and even that of your parents should be the way you tolerate your mother in laws.. But if it's the woman's mother she can stay as long as she wants even if she troubles her daughter but the man's mother cannot stay... Please of talk to your wife to be more understanding and find out if they are having issues, then try and settle it... Your own mother can't stay in your house again when there is no one to care for her at the Village.. Na wah o e get as e be..... As long as they are not threatening to kill each other please let us learn to be tolerative of our parent in laws.. |
How old is your sis, lack of sleep could sometimes be a pre-menopausal symptom, it may not be her fault, hormonal fluctuations maybe...estrogen plays a key role in brain activities sleep inclusive... . When it's down you find it difficult to sleep.... |
Interested as well. Prigefarms@yahoo.com.. I'm in abj. |
nice thread.. Learning in silence.. |
Lovely thread, God bless blakky who started it and all other contributors.. I'm really interested in starting egg distribution business as it requires minimal capital to start.. And I just love agriculture.,though my profession is way off it.. I wud love to own a farm some day..i av really learnt a lot here.. Starting with egg distribution is a step close to my dream.. |
I also av the ceiling fan phobia too.. Started wen one fan fell from the ceiling though wasn't rotating and didn't hit anyone cos no wan was in the room.. Ever since I developed phobia for ceiling fans. |
Angel diapers is good... |
Lifeinunec.. abi unec no follow for unn........ Unec where babes dey use fork even drink garri... |
I'm so proud of my younger brother who happens to be among the First Class graduands,it was not an easy journey for him but God saw him thru,both in times of hunger he perseverd and was still focused,we give God the glory,the school really got standard,forget about those badmouthing uniilorin,you really have to be intelligent to pass through that school with good grades... |
There are just so many factors that contribute to permanent weight gain after childbearing.. 1.Lack of discipline:you still eat anytin u want to. 2.Family history:rate of metabolism differs(some women even if they have 10 children they still remain the same ,some after 1 child they are all blown up). 3.Nigerian economy:women now have to work along side husbands and are still expected to perfom wifely duties and still find time to kip fit..where is the time?when u wake up as early as 5am to start preparing urself,the kids,food for the family,then u get bak home late and stil does the same tins..no time for exercise.. 4.Poverty:some women may have the time and may desire to exercise but gym memberships are expensive,the money u make is not even enof for the family talkless of payin as high as 6-10k per month for gym.. 5.Environment:some people don't live in a very safe environment so coming out very early to jog or walk may be challengin.. 6.some don't just care about their looks and blame it on childbearing witout tryin to find a solution.. All the same what eva excuses,it all lies in UR HANDS it takes a lot of discipline,but if u desire it u can summount these challenges,gradually and slowly u can still get ur shape back.. |
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Its really a tough one,but d cat needs to be let out in other to stop this incest..sleeping with ur fathers wife?whao...pls he should tell his mum immediately,there wud definitely be consequences like it cud lead to breakup of relationships both of the granddad's and d mum but this disgusting act has to be stopped.. |
obichiekweibe59:I love this post... Happiness in marriage is paramount,@op,don't open a secret account pls,u can still open that account and tell ur husband u av opened an account for a specific reason and dat u want to be strict about it,incase you don't know ur husband wud definitely be PROUD of the woman he married who doesn't hide her finances from her family,please don't spoil that pride,such women are rare and u are one of them..just keep talking to ur husband on the need to save..just keep talkin to him and enforcing it lovingly by telling him both of you u shld set aside a particular amount of money evry month and u shld be the one keepin it,mk sure u are strict with it since u'l be the one to hold it..devise means to make sure the money is not touched..just the way u told him u won't touch ur two months salary for ur project.atlist the good thing is he is aware..pls don't hide anytin from him and trust me ur not the only one in that shoe..so many people experience it and they still work it out.. I also tink the best way to solve marital issues is between you and your hubby becos you may end up taking the wrong advise on nairaland and it will make ur spoil ur marriage but nairaland goes on... |
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Sorry,I'v not got any yet o.. |
I'm a physiotherapist but in abuja,bt I cud help u get a physio in lagos..I'l let u know wen I find one for u.. |
When I had our first baby,just cud'nt describe the joy we felt being parents...and when ever my hubby plays with the kids,I feel so happy cos all I see in his eyes at that moment is just how deeply he loves his children... |
Get a creche close to the intended work place,so she can always go and breastfeed at any opportunity she has...buying pampers and baby food + other commitments from only one source of income nor easy o,talking from experience..pls let her work o.. |
She's not the only one in this condition,so many people experience this but wudn't come out to say it... The problem may be from her bladder,she may have a hyperactive bladder that doesn't hold urine for long...or other underlying problems.. She shld reduce water intake at night. Make Sure she URINATES before goin to bed,don't forget thats very important.. When ever she wakes up at night she shld go and urinate or set an alarm to always wake her up atlist twice at night to urinate.. She needs to have a bowel calender,what I mean is wen ever she bedwets at night she shld record the day and time,it will enable her to be more concious and to set her alarm earlier than the bedwettin time so she can wake up on time to wee.. She needs to do EXERCISES..BLADDER and PELVIC FLOOR EXERCISES..she'l need a physiotherapist for that..she can call me up I am a physiotherapist,if she lives in abuja splendid,it will be easier to work with her if not,I can always advice her on phone..08039523449.. |
olad99:All advise has been well said...but if u read the post well the op needs financial assistance or a dentist who wud either treat him for free or at a reduced cost.. So pls if u know any drug that wud help his condition call him and find out the best means to send the drug.. If u can assist financially call him to get his account number to send the little you can.. If u are a dentist pls call him to find out more abt the problem and treat him for free or at a reduced cost... I guess this is what the op needs now...HELP HIM.. |
So how do I become a member of AIM GLOBal. |
Kill the FEAR within...we can do ALL THINGS thru CHRIST.. FEAR makes people put their Destiny in the Hands of others.. Someone once said.."I can neva be happy until I get a job"..can you imagine that kind of statement... when you can Creat your own Job and be Happy and fulfilled in Life.. We are just afraid to take that step,we belittle ourselves but we'l be suprised at how much we know when we decide to take charge of our livelihood instead of putting it in the hands of others.. |
Well my observation... The op is not ready for marriage,she may be 29 but not yet mature,marriage is for mature people..if u go into marriage immature u end up fustrated.... Most Girls think"Tall Dark And Handsome + Cash"..Very Immature for marriage.. Few think "CHARACTER as a Priority"...Very mature for marriage.. When d op gets older she'l understand dat character sustains a marriage not physical attraction... I'm Married to someone who has Character,d cash is not flowing like a river but we experience Peace like a River..and im so happy becos I neva chose d alredy made guys but Chose Character.. So op please let dat guy go...after letting him go..sit back and adjust,Then Choose CHARACTER.. |