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Very thoughtful of him.

Stay and play safe everyone.

Ignore that and mould her to your taste.

There's always a second chance in life.

Your perfectionism approach to life may keep you 'unmarried' for a very long time.
When I was young, like the devil told Christ, a girl wanted my to jump the sky before she could marry me.
Today, she has no wings to fly!
The truth is that you must come out of your dreams and embrace reality if you know what is good for you!

Acmepreneur:
I'm a witch? Lol
Money is very important to me and to everyone. My siblings and I suffered due to poverty and we shouldn't be where we are today if not for poverty. My siblings won lots of things at junior level that was snatched away from us at our very own eyes. I don't want that for my children, I pray they are intelligent though

My own story:
When my father died, his voice was still heard in the room singing hymns to God for 7 days like he did when he was alive. He was even heard praying for his children. Everyone in the house always sat still between 1am and 2am listening until it finally stopped after 7 days!

The mind of the youth is full of dirts.
Only TB Joshua can sweep the dirts out of that room.

Try out your luck and be less stingy and jealous.

Get her closer and let her understand that you seriously desire to marry her.

Go close to her mother and make your intention known to her.

Visit her often on campus with gifts for her and her close female friends.

Get her introduced to your own people and let them assess her.

Make her visit any time she's less busy and watch to see if she's the domestic type.

Try her with housekeep money whenever she spends up to a month or more with you and see how she manages it.....

That way you may be able to have an average assessment of her.

You must know if she's actually a wife material.

That was the tactics I used in getting my present wife more than twenty-four years ago when she came to do teaching-practice in my school which later turned to marriage-practice and later was for Real!

I don't know if such a 'formula' can still work on the present day 'Yahoo' girls oo

I have two words for you...be patient!

You write fairly well.

Can you do love story for me at N0.5 per word....I mean, original content that can be checked and proven?

WhatsApp number(chat only): ZERO SEVEN ZERO EIGHT FOUR SEVEN NINE THREE ZERO SEVEN EIGHT

Seriously, this country needs restructuring.

We need confederated states.

You must be a woman. And I like your sagacity.
But you need God to help you cool your temperament.
Too much venom in you sister!

Onyi22:
U mumu no be small, that fallen breast can feed all ur family?
Infact, show us ur sister breast

Tiwa, you are truly ours.

We love you.

You have shown us enough of your elbony body already.

But I implore you to give your life to God for decency sake!

Can someone dump one if he has his bvn number alone?

Accusing fingers now point to China!

You're courting trouble, China!

Don't join this group oo
This op up here, I'm sorry for you. Your 38k is gone!
I am one of their victims.
I paid N38k to their Abuja account via their Centre in Benin City and up till now, I cannot withdraw my referral earnings. They made withdrawal inactive.
For my N38k paid, I only go FIVE single sachets of some useless supplement worth less than N5k.
The pendant I was supposed to get is still pending.
I see them as a bunch of scammers as you will be asked to trick others into registering.
I intend to report them to EFCC soon.

Education na scam these days....after all the hustle for good education.....no job.
Money..wasted. Frustration sets in and Yahoo become a 'welcome' alternative!

The Fulanis in Edo State are friendly and peace-loving. They go about the business of etching out a living for themselves.
However, there are some terrorist groups in the forest, probably foreigners who kill our people for no justifiable reason. These have a hidden agenda which I believe is an organised front. The man at the top seems to be silent on the issue. God dey o

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In Benin tradition, adultery on the part of the woman is a taboo.
If you were an Edo man you would have been dead by now!

tunmiluabi:
My story is quite long, please run through with patience.

I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...

As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.

We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.

To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.

One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.

To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.

Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.

After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.

Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.

She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.

The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.

God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.

Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.

My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.

Thanks for reading.

Tunmi

He wants another person to die for him to live a worldly life.
As if the person doesn't deserve living well too!
Uncultured primate. Little wonder that the whites don't take us seriously.

You are an emotionally disturbed person.
Try to talk it out with your husband. Give him love and stop reminding him you contribute more to the family expenses.
You appear to be too mouthy.
You want to get out of the marriage?
Well, you will not know the value of what you have now until you lose it.

Go and confess to her.

And suffer the consequence or her juju may hurt you oo

Why are you guys here touchy?

MBA is here to in a way enrich most people.

Join or leave it.

Make no condemnation.

CORONAVIRUS nor make me invest yet, but I will surely do that once it's over.

What's the minimum investment please?
Let it be!

If you will sell for N300k, chat me up on WhatsApp: zero seven zero eight four seven nine three zero seven eight.

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Some football league's would resume play soon and the real games would begin.
But PANEL decision is making the trend now.
Just look below me!

Someone beat me up seriously at school during break time.

Two days later I became sick.

I never reported it to my parents.

A welcome development.

Things would soon come to normal.

What figure is this.....

EDUCATED ILLITERATES?

See them, reek of religious ignorance!

The Messaiah of our time?
Well, the guess is yours.
He is not Satanic as most religious bigots think.
Jesus Himself was tagged the devil too; remember?
He is the one CHOSEN to save us from the rampaging CORONAVIRUS!
Saved is he that accepts his vaccine!

Just finished a bottle of beer!

inedujac:
Is bill gates a professional doctor or a business man?

Don't see it as a joke....CORONAVIRUS is REAL!

KEEP TO THE RULES PLEASE!!!!