A Nigerian lady identified as Shalom Titilayo Shoremi has been publically disowned by her family after she sought to get married to another woman.
The Shoremi Family decided to disown their daughter through a public notice published in the local newspaper. The notice included her image and the full name of the lady in question.
Shalom’s family went ahead to disassociate itself from her move to apply for the marriage and severed ties with her. They added that she wouldn’t be entitled to anything from the family inheritance.
“The attention of Shoremi family has been drawn to an application for a special marriage licence sought by Shalom T Shoremi, the family is disassociating itself from this move and has severed ties with her, “reads part of the notice.
“We also disown her o the grounds that what she planned to do is against the law in Nigeria, she will also not be entitled to anything from the family inheritance.”
According to the notice, Shalom had requested for a special marriage license at the Federal Marriage Registry to allow her to consummate a same-sex marriage however, the request was denied.
“She had requested for a special marriage license at the federal marriage registry on the 22nd of March, 208 to allow her to consummate a same-sex marriage, which was rejected as it is in variance with the marriage Act of the Federal Republic of Nigeria,”
The same-sex marriage probation act of 2014 declares such a union illegal in the country and states 14 years imprisonment for those accused of being in same-sex relationships.
Identity of failed Kaduna church bomber causes stir on social media
The identity of a man who attempted to denonate explosive devices at Living Faith Church Sabon Tasha, Kaduna on Sunday has sparked up heated debate on social media after he was alledged to be a Christian.
The name "Nathaniel Samuel" is currently generating controversy on Twitter as the adherence of Christian faith as well as Muslims continue to throw accusations and counter accusations.
While Muslims are of the believe that Nathaniel Samuel is from a Christian faith going by his name, most Christians rubbished the claim as they insisted that it is ploy by Muslims to shift responsibility of the attack.
Some muslims faiths believe the the current insecurity in the country doe not have religious corolation. They believe it could be either from the sides.
simplelex: A country where the president, vice president, senate president, speaker belongs to the same party.. How do we expect the country to work? There is no opposition party in this country, just bunch of idiots playing politics.. The legislative arm is meant to checkmate the executive. How is the senate supposed to checkmate the presidency when all of them gather chop winch from the same pot..
Boy how old are you? ...are you sure you were born from 1999 to 2015?
You and I should be worried that the hope of a common citizen to get Justice in Nigeria (court) has been tampered with.
I remember in 2011 when boko Haram started by killing Igbos, many people supported them by at last, the fire consumed those that started it.
I don't care about APC or PDP, but whoever that wins an election should be allowed to govern.
Oga please stop this bullshit already! Which Book haram started killing Igbo's? ...there was no single time, I repeat, there was no any moment that Boko haram targeted any Igbo anywhere and killed him. Just stop spreading lies in the name of seeking public sympathy!
healthserve: It's simple. Confront and tell her you know about the chats. And that since she has made her decision you understand and accept it and that you both can part wages peaceably. Do this and whatever her reaction is settle for it and act wisely in its aftermath.
Sorry but you've lost her already. Even if she's physically present with you, her loyalty will not be adequate if you find yourself. In troubled waters like needs that require medical attention
Better to let her go to go satisfy her unrealistic fantasies along with the list of that lustful other. Immediately she leaves shop for another and enjoy your peace of mind. When she returns after the other would. Have fvcked the living daylights out of her not knowing he was only trying to seduce and have a fvck companion, it would have been too late..
But if you want to keep her. Delete all her social media handles and throw away the phone
Tekzyflex: Old fire wood no dey quench! OK let me advice you what to do. Take her phone without her knowing. Delete the man's contact on her phone. Delete every form of social media contact she has with the said man. Just do it secretly. Thank me later
jahsharon: Dear World Bank, past Nigeria's Presidents including IBB, Obasanjo, Goatluck who followed your evil directives to the letter, what was the outcome? Was it not tears, sorrows and suffering? Your polices are strategically planned to put Africa in perpetual slavery.
It seems that you people in World Bank are even suffering from amnesia, if not, you will remember that Buhari did not listen to your evil advice when he was Head of State in 1984, that was why you Europe and US instigated his overthrow. Buhari does nor forget, he won't listen to your evil advice this time either.
The above is why Buhari has been doing all his government business transactions with China, India and Russia and not with you evil Europe and US. You EU and US give fake loans to Africa and also help evil Africa politicians to keep over 90% of these fake loans in your banks when the politicians steal the money. China does not give loans in cash, instead China will build the infrastructure with and for Africans. No single kobo or dollar will touch the hands of the politicians.
China's policy of not giving cash but building infrastructure. with Africa is why the Kaduna-Abuja Railway has been completed, the Ajaokuta-Itakpe-Warri Railway has be completed, the Lagos-Abeokuta-Ibadan Railway is almost completed, the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway is almost completed, the Oyo-Ogbomosi Expressway is almost completed. What did Africa and Nigeria do with all the loans and advice that World Bank has been giving since time immemorial? The money is in banks in EU and US stolen by Africa's politicians.
Therefore, World Bank, EU, US, please shut the fucvk up. Buhari no send una. He is doing business with China, India and Russia.
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Well said!!... Though I am not a supporter of Buhari and some of his backward policies.
Believe me if northerners really hate the Igbo's you guys would have seized to exist in the north a long time ago. What am I even saying, see..there is no nook or cranny in the north you wouldn't find an Igbo trader living peacefully and also doing his business without any trouble but guys chose to open your filthy mouth abusing them of hate towards the Indigbo. Well..thank God its only the northerners that hate you guys
Adegbem01: I don't understand why Nigerian are so skeptical or is it just pure ignorance, I know I don't consume much data but at least in a month I used upto 30gb both on glo and mtn and if you know how to use your phone well, you can monitor how you use your data, and be sure that your network provider is not over charging you, expect your phone is collaborating with them sha, mtn and glo don't over charge at worst over deduction of data can not pass difference 0f 5-10mb tops. My point in short 5g, 4g 3g and sort, deduction of data is still base on your useage and how your monitor how your data and phone suck it.
Oga just tell us you work with MTN....just save us that epistle you typed up there!
JaneKenedy: Like you move out everyday, you meet people, talk with them and maybe pick interest in what they might be saying and needed to talk more about that, then exchange contact. And mind you...it's not on daily basis. You might meet a house agent, a manager, a banker, a project manager, crayfish supplier's, carpenter, a fashion designer, stuffs like that.......
Mostly for business or future need. I don't give contact to someone who obviously came for flirting sake.
Might be man, or woman, but anytime I do meet a new person, I tell him. He just have problems with the male part of it.
Like 1 day he was stranded at a location" name withheld"...a contact I had kept for long was who helped us. You see. But he was suppose to be a stranger and we haven't spoken ever since I collected the contact aside reintroducing ourselves on phone. He helped knowing he is my contact.
I select who I deal with. But there must be talking before I could arrive at that. And that's the problem we are having now. Talking and exchanging number with someone you don't know.
well...I kinda understand you now. But I just need you to pls just try as much as you can to be considerable concerning your marriage.
JaneKenedy: Thank you. I will give your sister same advice like you just did.
I didn't know marriage means not meeting a new person.
Thanks all the same
Ma'm meeting new person and flirting with a person are two different things! And by the way what do you mean by meeting a new person? as a married woman?
[quote author=JaneKenedy post=84374423]Thank you. I will give your sister same advice like you just did.
I didn't know marriage means not meeting a new person.
Thanks all the same[/quote Ma'm meeting new person and flirting with a person are two different things! And by the way what do you mean by meeting a new person? as a married woman?
JaneKenedy: I have always been a free spirited person. For instant, I don't segregate who I speak with, I accommodate all sane person except there's a reason I shouldn't associate with the person. Giving you my contact is not a problem for me, it's picking your calls or saving your contact finally, indicates you in my good book. Then I got married, I stopped many of this but giving contact and speaking with strangers, I couldn't stop. My husband married me as a virgin at 30. Even while we were dating I still maintained my stand. We did everything but any form of sex. We are just I year old in the marriage by the way. I already mentioned I'm a free spirited person but that doesn't mean I don't play mind games. I never hide anything even my daily encounter from my husband. But when ever I tell him about meeting someone new, what we discuss and how we ended, he would flare up and start quarrelling with me. That I talk to strangers, don't I know I am married, indirectly calling me a flirt. I have left the house several times for him. Everyday we would be talking about samething. I told him I cannot stop meeting people and telling him about it. We are practically always together that he could tell where to meet me even if there was no prior calling to know my whereabout. If my phone is not reachable for any reason, he has and knows who to call to reach me. He knows my daily engagements like that. Even when things happened in his absence, I tell him the exact way it happened even if I was at fault or not. Just the way it happened. Most times he comes home very late but I don't have problems with that again, provided I was able to hear from him. He is very caring and loving too.
Yesternight, his numbers wasn't going through, it was getting late as usual. I didn't know how to reach him and he was still out of town when I heard from him last. Around 9pm, I haven't heard from my husband, he hasn't called. I came out to a nearby bar where he usually spends his time, he wasn't there, I sat with my friend who sells food in the evening, a young girl, then I met his policeman friend and was complaining that I haven't heard from him. Then later I went to our house to go and continue waiting oo. Since it was already late.
Around 10:20pm, no sign yet, I came out again now saw him. He was just coming back. I was angry a bit but I calmed my self down because we were outside and I also was thinking he must be tired.
So I beckoned on him to let's go, he insisted we sit and have some drinks. We formed a table of four, the food seller friend of mine and one drunk guy, he said the guy is his brother. So while we were drinking, he( my husband) needed to talk with one of our Compound's guy there, so he moved to their table.
I left the drunk, smoking guy at the table and I and my gf( the food seller) went to her table, every thing is within 7-9 Meters range.
While we were seated at the food stand, gf narrating her encounter to me, I was still with my drink in a glass. A guy came, all of us sometimes sit there in the evening. One thing led to another oo, he was thinking I was having a stout because my eyes were already weak. He said he would drink out of it to prove it, my husband and his friend were around watching us. I said no wahala, let me finish, I would give him the last glass. I did.
My husband came to tell me, what that guy(our Compound's guy) said, that someone collected my drink from me, I was like wow, what's wrong in giving somebody my drink. A drink I didn't want to take again. I was hearing, I am not supposed to give my drink to him, I asked if they knew what transpired....we started another quarrel. This time around he accused me of flirting with the guy. Me!.... I told him, he would have told his friend that that was nothing.
If we started listing rights and wrong, it was wrong of us to be outside by that time looking for who?
I have thick skin for what people think of me from afar but someone I share a home with...I can't really deal.
Please, what do you think about this whole story, if I'm wrong in anyway kindly point it out, and my husband what do you think of his reaction, if you were in his shoes and I was your wife, would you think or behave as him
I am beginning to feel my marriage is not right. Someone that cannot trust me, I don't understand.
Please, what do you think. No insult please . Call a spade, a spade, I wouldn't mind
Madam its as simple as ABC.....just divorce him and continue your flirting, coz it seems you weren't ready for marriage after all!
Ebonygirl1: Hi Lady. There's this thing called "reverse visualization" that people do when dealing with other people or trying to develop self control. It simply means reversing roles or situations in your head. Re-read your story, then in places where you are the subject, replace it with your husband. I won't tell you whether or not you were at fault. Just do the exercise and answer the question yourself.
DDeliverer: Seun's site is becoming satanic. I was shocked this evening when some poor and good for nothing infidels were insulting Apostle Joshua Selma after an OP quoted a 2mins recording of a 2hours preaching and like a typical Nigerian jumped into conclusion. His fellow demon filled hungry and angry APC members followed suit and together they insulted one of the rarest Men of God I've ever seen in Africa.
Now these same demons might also insult Bishop Oyedepo. Their aim is to discourage as many people from the gospel of Christ.
They insult any man of God, no matter what he says or does. They quote him outta context and insult Christians and Christianity. Seun might be working for Satan after all...You would never know..
Wow! I have been educated today... so are you trying to say APC as a party is mainly against "pastors"? then PDP is for "Pastors" that's according to you.
Area4Area: I beg to disagree, Metu's last stunt still beats them all. The only stunt that can subdue that of Metu is if anyone decides to appear in court in a casket
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Aladegba: People like you are the problem of Nigeria. You didnt read the news yet you welcomed the development. Because if you do you will discover a brigadier general is being promoted to head nigerian high commission in egypt. This government is mad but i dont know why. e ni ori yoo o di ile.
Really? …..Like are you OK?? What has military attaché got to do with heading an embassy??
fergie001: I was very much against ASUU's position on this IPPIS until I have settled down and read ASUU's angle.
They are not against IPPIS, they are saying adjust it to cover for certain areas that contradict the University's autonomous laws. Their autonomy is backed by law.
1. IPPIS sets retirement at 60 years (max 65) whilst going by University's autonomous laws as agreed by the UMY/GEJ administration, it pegged Professorship retirement at 70.
2. IPPIS doesn't cover for sabbatical leave for lecturers.
3. IPPIS doesn't cover for adjunct lecturership, study leave, research grants etc.
4. IPPIS doesn't cover payment for arrears associated with promotion etc.
Some of them make the bulk of cash from 2-4 above.
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