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What won't Abuzola spue out in an attempt to justify Muhammed's wanton, reckless and amorous cravings for women!!!

Stop wasting your time. Whatever you say doesn't nullify the fact that the person who founded your religion and wrote the book you follow was a casanova, a pervert and confirmed paedophilia. Shame on him and his followers!

I have a perfect formula, so I can't be broke. If I'm broke, it means WE are broke.

So, would you regard a man/woman who is very rich and popular a success if they have a problematic marriage?

There is this guy I dated back then, we have been in and out of r/s and last time I saw him we agreed that we will never see each other again, he had a kid and the mother of his kid has been a problem, keep in mind that the kid was conceived while I was in his life and born and I didn’t know that until he was 1 year old, so after hearing that I have been a fool for this long I broke up with him and it was for good and yesterday he came in crying saying that the mother of his child broke his heart and he wants me back, my question was “R u here bcoz the mother of ur child disappointed u or what” and the answer was simple yes, so from the above I have realized that he doesn’t love me but he just need some1 to keep him company until the mother of his child come into her senses, so now the question is how do I answer him, according to the story of him and the mother he is been hurt big time and I don’t want to hurt him again, Im not a heart breaker, I used to love him but Im not sure now and I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t know if those last feelings are for pity or what, if it were u what wud u do? Take him back or just kick his a$$ to the curb, he broke my heart so much that it has been a mission to let anybody in,

The choice is yours. Since you already know his motive, are you willing to help him achieve it?

If it was a guy complaining about his girld friend, most girls will say "give her a second chance'

Yeah, that's the sort of response you get from them most times. Or this, "I don't know what I'd do"

Abuzola, you're obviously drunk as usual.

Try to get some rest

Many who knew muhammed closely said he drank alcohol. And I have reasons to believe them 'cos I've been wondering how he was able to satisfy his sexual cravings for so many women

Abuzola, I don't know what you're talking about. I can see everyone's post except the one I sent to counter the topic.

Besides, if you're so sure that the wine of paradise is not the type that intoxicates, why do you think the one Paul asked Timothy to take could intoxicate?

And why couldn't Muhammed rebuke Hamza, one of his closest companions, who was a CHRONIC drinker and womanizer?  Weren't they doing it together

Abuzola, do you see how miserable and insecure you people are? You post foolish threads and each time someone tries to correct or enlighten you, their post is reported and removed.

Tell me, what happened to my reply? Nonsense!

Abuzola, sometimes I wonder if your brain in your anus.

Can you explain this:

Wine is forbidden for a Muslim here on earth:

O you who believe! Strong drink and games of chance and idols and divine arrows are only an infamy of Satan's handiwork. Leave it aside that you may succeed.

Sura 5:90
See also Sura 2:219.

On the other hand in Paradise are rivers of wine:

A similitude of the Garden which those who keep their duty (to Allah) are promised: Therein are rivers of water unpolluted , and rivers of wine delicious to the drinkers.
-- Sura 47:15
Surely the pious will be in bliss , their thirst will be slaked with pure wine sealed.
-- Sura 83:22,25

If you think you know the scriptures, you'll always find your match superior

They won't answer because they are terribly misled and confused. Anyone who could believe a womanizer and paedophile is a prophet of God can believe any nonsense you promise him

I think Tudor is naturally a nice guy.

He's just like every other captive of Satan, who needs that divine encounter that Saul had on the way to Damascus.

When that happens, I doubt if he'll not surpass many of us in vibrant and logical dissemination of the gospel, just like Paul.

Whoever he is, whatever you think of him, Jesus loves him still

Wo needs to impress? There's always someone for everyone!

I'll still repeat. Marriage is not a gamble.

What if you think you'll fall in love with him by-and-by but it doesn't happen that way?

Many women have men who're nice to them and they appreciate them for that; but their hearts are somewhere else.

Don't go against your heart. Be realistic and consider both sides of the bargain.

If she's been an asset, discuss/plead with her. If she's been a liability, help her get a cab

It's often said that a man/woman who is successful at every other thing but fails at marriage is a BIG FAILURE.

How true is this?

First, does it mean people who decide not to marry are failures, regardless of other achievements?

Second, what if a man/woman tries so hard to make the marriage work but the partner is not cooperating?

Believe me guys, women will be more truthful, prudent and considerate in money matters if you have a free-access joint purse.

She won't see the need to be extravagant or overstate the budget, knowing that if the finances dwindle, both of you will be affected

And the rule has to be, "Chop-make-I-chop"

If, eventually, nothing is left for rents and bills, everybody suffers

Gender equality for life!!!

Don't be too sure, buddy.

What do you want to know in "dating" that you couldn't know in friendship? Well, maybe your favourite underwears

Friendship even makes people more open and sincere than dating

For him to have proposed marriage they must have been very close

Nothing like trial-and-error in marriage ooo.

That's what dating is for.

If you've known someone for 10 years and don't have serious feelings for him despite his admirable qualities, what's the guarantee that you'll eventually fall in love with him? And to think of all the previously unknown character flaws that marriage often exposes.

I don talk ma own ooo

@ iice

Ouch! Didn't know I was complimenting 

Majority of NL men still get hope sha

Ms. Gators. Hmm. . .how u take know?

"Experience" without practice? Talk another thing, brother!

Flattery will get you nowhere

iice, haba, which one be "flattery"? First, I think you have absolutely no need to be flattered (Hope you know what I mean ). Second, I know you're already hooked. So I can always be frank with you. I should have said more but I don't want anyone to die of jealousy

Coolu temper ooo, iice. You see say I grinned twice while saying that. I trust you In fact, you're my favourite here, seriously (secret crush). Ooops!

Tales by moonlight

I doubt if things would ever be the same again between us

Anyway, only lunacy would make me accept a pregnancy that comes without any reasonable explanations. How would a grown up woman say she doesn't know who impregnated her?

iice, so how do they become "rotten" without breaking many sisters' hearts?

And when they come crying to Nairaland, you'd also be one of those to console them and condem the "heartless" men.

Yeah, it's still the Aisha stuff. Why a 6 year old?


On the issue of virgins. So you're saying muhammed promised virgins but not 72 virgins? Whether 72 or 720 is not even the issue now. The issue is, did God really tell a prophet that heaven will be full of sex, and that men who're already married on earth would dump their wives for beautiful virgins? Will there be such paganistic orgies as described by muhammed in "Heaven"?

Crystal, is this about your "friend" or about you? It makes helping easier

that was very rude as i do not go out and make babies because it is fun, for you info i am a qualified gas/ engineer and plumber with 11 years experience with a psychology major, i was married before to a nigerian who i have two lovely children with, also i am studying law and run a business plumbing venture and an inventor PLUS THIS IS THE FIRST MAN I HAVE DATED IN 11 YEARS KISS MY ARSE AND KEEP YOUR BUSH MENTALITY TO YOURSELF  and what were you suggesting a termination perhaps? i believe in a higher power so the idea of murder is not within my realm i see you trust in god then spread his word more sufficently and GET OFF MY POST WITH YOUR NEGATIVITY

ROFLMAO!!!

 


"Hell hath no fury. . ."

See what I'm saying? You talk of intelligence and rationality, yet you think it's logical to make an allegation without concrete, credible proofs?

Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house

Pastor, sorry, I don't know how you define "intelligent" and "civil" debates. Can you make your point more logical and scientific (in the words of huxley) by citing one or two examples of debates you consider "unintelligent" and "uncivil"? Or are you simply insinuating that people who don't present their premises the way YOU present yours are making "mockery" of religion?

So what's your point? Are you disputing that atheists don't have disagreements? Or that some don't believe in "big bang" while others do?