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kestolove95:
I stay in Niger state, London street, but sowie I can hangout with u, Yoruba people are dirty

[/s]Iya Baba eh dirty

Bossydiva:
Wow... I’m for ever grateful sir May God bless continue to bless you exceedingly sir! U are really a humanitarian!

Where in Osg are you?

Zombiekiller010:

I only saw 3 caps, So 3 people are behind Nigeria's problem?

One thing I don't understand is why people don't wanna talk to God in their home. Prayers can be answered everywhere!

Some people just love to fantasize about their partner at everywhere they at

Just get a good phone, Naija police super daft. When I was using iPhone XR, 70% of the police I met couldn't operate it at all.

cruxgemmata:
To the governors lifting bans coz of Easter and Jumah.
Thinking outside the box no gree them. No visionary leaders anymore. They are all political and religious magas.

Here u go.

That image is deep uhh

WeRblessed:
First of all, the most friendliest people to ever come across on American campuses are Nigerians.

It's a blatant lie that they didn't want to associate with you because you're 'fresh out off boat'.

Everything you said is quite a huge lie and exaggerated.

You will not judge other Nigerians based on your experience with perhaps a small community college somewhere in America.

I have a lot of Nigeria friends. In fact, had quite a lot of them when I was still in college, even at medical school. They had great experiences in American college campuses. They had boyfriends of which some of them are married to their boyfriends today. Not all Nigerian college student come from a rich and influential family. Just to oppose what you said.

Another big fat freaking lie is where you said by the time they are 25 the guys they rejected at 22 are now making 7 figures. Where exactly in America are graduates with three years experience making 6 figures talkless of 7 figures? Are you insane? Even most surgeons with 20 years experience don't even make 6 figures talkless of a fresh graduate. If you are able to make $35,000 a year for at least three years just thank God.

I don't know who you are and what you are trying to achieve by writing this. Your write ups are totally exaggerated lies. Please do your research on Nigerian international students in America. Conduct your study and research from at least ten campuses and cities about Nigerian students-life in America before making your conclusive statements that is based on your own personal experience.

Nigerian students are not lonely. You are in college to study and work if you are available to work off campus or work-study on campus. It's not a Nigerian campus or college where some people's aim of going to college is to make boyfriends and hang around sugar daddies.

American college is real! What you write is what you get. No one has time to fool around after huge financial aid one took to study. No time to sleep around on campus when majority of them are studying and working part time or fulltime while maintaining their good GPAs.

If you got into American college with the mindset of making boyfriend/girlfriend, lover, talkless of marriage you are the biggest joker of the century. Do that sh#t in Nigeria.

Average American college student graduates at the age of 22 or 23. They get a job and start a career before talking about marriage. Some might want to go to graduate school or medical school, but Americans dont waste their money chasing a master degree or PhD while they dont have a good paying job first. They dont even give a hute about masters or PhD. Only Nigerians do care about them without first getting a job experience and skills. I finished my four year degree at the age of 21.

My point is that Nigerian students in America should focus on their studies. But they are not lonely.

The OP exaggerated and added lies.. I was just laughing while reading his write-up.

enemyofprogress:
Since I got here I have not seen a pant not to talk of the real thing

Got where?

TrippleEEE:
Check most of the animals , it is a natural instinct of the female species to Take Care of the Family especially the children But Humans want to change it because it's "male dominance ". Bittered and lazy set of women! I pray they get that equality they are looking for- alongside the curse it brings.


Bro. Nice write-up ! I learnt slot

Sometimes, the lioness would be the one to go hunt for the lion and her Fams... You’re right.

shortgun:
Why are girls abroad trying so hard to make us believe they are not lonely

Because they’re lonely

Greatzeus:
Anybody can write anything from anywhere and claim anything.
Expect more of similar threads in the coming days. Whether you writing from Canada or US or a one room crip in Okokomaiko , just stay safe. Corona is real and it's moving about looking for whom it will devour.
#Stayhome #Staysafe

Lol

successmatters:
Innison production capacity has been on the increase since the last 10 years. This company may become bigger than Toyota and Ford motors combined.

Chest-beat on!!

Nah Marketing strategy..

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

As usual, them don go Fabricate everything together. This will only fetch likes on Nairaland, it won't in reality

Aboguede:
Oga give me the site here sunshineway_13@yahoo.com

Am in europe and tired of agbo and EDO girls with their little brain

Sent.

Ghostmode2two:
Not in CA, in 9ja. Care to show me any dating site where I can 9ja chicks in CA? Thanks

No

tossedbae:
sorry I'm not in abroad

I meant IF...

tossedbae:
I kinda like/prefer their social lifestyle abroad than here, nobody gets to snitch or criticise you for staying single or being baby mama etc, every one has a right to live any kinda fvcking life he or she wants except or criminal act

Correct.. I feel your point. You’ll be at peace & at your own with whatever decision..

So you’re in Abroad today and going the baby mama way comes to be the way forward... Would you mind?

Zeinymira:
Whatever

No ma’am.. Wasn’t really trying to sound not straight.

What I’m trying to say is that UAE isn’t that easy like you believing it to be.. Arabs men sees their women, white and Europe girls as queen... You see black women? They believe they’re low class women that can be used for anything aside from dating. I have girls that travelled to Arab countries but couldn’t cope and eventually came back home. I can tell you more, just for you to learn so as to know whatsup before heading there..

tydi:
Yeah I know. But their women can't take their eyes off a black niggro, you know how we do it in naija, come In as a wolf in sheep clothing(in terms of I wanna work for you (Albab) boss ) get to corner her(wife/daughter) one side then the rest would be history

Lol

tydi:
My next move bro..

I'm in search of an Arab woman here in UAE to give me those Arabian cuties and we discus about her oil well she inherited.

Lol..

But you gotta be careful oo.. Arab men don’t joke with their women oo.. Ive has few cases of these Arab molesting black men that are trying to vibezz with their women..

tossedbae:
Only introvert like me will have it interesting there, I would loved to be there also

Lol..

Life abroad is my biz nah by biz and yours is yours.. Basically everyone is living like an introvert... No one gives a Fff..

Your beauty might help you more tho...If that’s you on your profile!

Aboguede:
Oga give me the site here sunshineway_13@yahoo.com

Am in europe and tired of agbo and EDO girls with their little brain

Okay... Hold on

Zeinymira:
I think it has to do with the culture over there. Most of the whites are from broken homes, so they got nothing to offer cos of the psychological problems they have developed as child. And the Nigerian men would want to secure their lives by marrying a white.

I'm sure it will be different in UAE

We talking of better country, you dey talk of UAE..

Ghostmode2two:
OP link me up with any girl who is lonely in Canada, I am ready to build solid and lasting relationship with her please

Are you in Ca?
Try dating site nah... You’ll see more than what your wanting!

Mtn
Airtel
Glo

Nah everything I Dey use

gypsey:
There is no such thing as naturally strong, how do even know who is naturally strong? anyone can get sick and die, even without corona, when did you last go for a health check up to know if you are healthy?

I was at the Doc last year Nov. If not for this virus, would have gone again this Feb or march.
If there's no such thing as natural/genetically strong, how come we have people that are genetically brilliant?

Apart from we Human having 2 Nose, eyes, Legs Hands and stuff... The rest thing about human are different. Nothing like all Human are same..
Some people can survive without eating/drinking for 2 days. Some people can't stay for 5 hours without food/water..