₦airaland Forum

Enemyofpeace:
your head dey there, I give you my babe from now till Sunday. Her favourite style na doggie style. Pls be gentle with her

SouthSouth1914:
From bad to worse! Mourinho is done

izombie:
And finally, spurs will win a trophy. Say what you want about mourinho but trophies follow him wherever he goes.

SoNature:
I have never seen any former president who is as disrespected as Jonathan.

Jonathan is the only former president that no junior politician shakes with two hands.

My people, be nice and humble, but everything MUST have a limit.

coolguy4christ:
My girlfriend and I had issues sometime last year which eventually led to a break up. Early this year, we made up. I initiated the make up because I still loved her even though, it was she who ended the relationship.

When we started again, I told her I wanted a fresh start and that she should come out clean with me of whatever I need to know when we were apart. She knows how much I emphasize sincerity as I hate lies. She confided in me, that she had sex with a guy whom she dated briefly when we were apart but that she used protection. I believed her and didn't really bother myself because we were not together when it happened.

Few months later, I proposed to her and she accepted my marriage proposal. Since then, the relationship has been beautiful and we have become better as we were previously before the break up. We are actually planning our wedding in a few months.

Yesterday, she confessed to me that she had an abortion while we were apart. That she lied about using protection and that she got pregnant and aborted the baby.

Since then, I have mixed feelings for her:

Firstly, I am strongly against abortion and she knows that. Secondly, She lied to me!

The second reason is actually why I am more angry with her. She has lied to me previously and I don't know if I can believe and trust her again.

She has been very remorseful and she told me she came out clean because she wants to set everything right before we get married.

The issue here is that I don't know how can I trust her again?

YorubaPrince:
But, why is it that it's majorly guys that come on here to complain and rant abt their women?

They cry, wail and do stuff like sissies all the time. Why don't the ladies do the same on here?

WTF?

Rosay15:
... Then let her go, if you know you can’t trust her again then there’s no point in marrying her.

I just want let you know that, she can decided not tell you she had an abortion when you guys were apart if she want to and you won’t find out.
Remember she is a woman and I think you know what am driving at, for the fact that she told with all sincerity that means she loves you and value the relationship leading to marriage but if you think you can’t forgive and trust her again let her know cus marriage no be child’s play.
This is a life time contract which you know trust and loyalty is important.
Well, you know where the shoes hurt.
Peace

donchrisville:
Dude its quite a difficult scenario though. But i tell you this....in marriage trust comes first before love. you see this love shacking you guys now, give it 2 or 3 yrs in the marriage it fizzles and you guys are back to reality.
What keeps a marriage is that friendship loyalty and trust. Trust is the basis of marriage though.
If you would always weigh everything a partner tells you out of distrust, then you both are not fit to be in a relationship, talk more of marriage.\
Dude you wont be happy if you end up living that life. [s]Theres no joy in always investigating anything your loved one tells you[/s].

I feel maybe you can put her to a test of your own again, and check if she passes it without lying. Maybe she's changed or maybe she's not.
So put it to test

Bro as for the abortion, just forget that one, Its a mistake
without a doubt more than 60% ladies have gone through it. Either operation or drug.
If you've taken postinor before, you've committed abortion. So just move on with that...don't judge her with regards to that

seguntijan:
LYON victory clearly shows that JONATHAN is a failure. YES!!!
Some people will say DICKSON caused the failure, but if Jonathan is a leader, he would have influenced the primary and ensure the party presents a good representative at the end. Dickson winning the state primary shows Jonathan doesn't even have a party structure at the state level, A former president for that matter.

Some said Jonathan supported Lyon when Dickson didn't let the past president have his way, that's still a sign of weakness on GEJ parts not sportsmanship at all. A leader should have a vision and be able to influence his people to key into the vision. See what happened to Ambode at the primary.

GEJ is a good man, but he is far from being called a leader, he's a YES MAN, which is bad for leadership no wonder the likes of Allison and Oduah sent him to political oblivion.

MJBOLT:

when is he breaking the record for most goals in year,most european golden boot,most goals and assists in a season?he should try and finish as the highest goal scorer in serie a this season instead of celebrating scoring goals against farmers.

johnmattew:
I really pity beninoise,I wish FG sort out this border issue with them only .....I don't pity ghana

24kmagic:
Almost all the people above me are rejoicing over this news, and I wonder why?

Na Ghana problem Una want use take console Una selves? Face your own problems abeg.

The only asset Nigeria has in the eyes of the international community is her population, which ironically is a big liability to us.

You guys are indirectly rejoicing over our own problems, cos I doubt if Ghana will be so keen on doing business with 9ja if not for our population, again, something that is a liability to us.

I don't care what happens in Ghana, I care what happens here.

The border has been closed for some few weeks now and it didn't in any way bettered the life of the common man on the street.
I'm not for or against the boarder closure, I'm just after what will benefit ordinary Nigerian.

We as a country are useless, hopeless and absolutely backward.

SaintLucia:
And Peter Obi the Chinese man was telling us on AIT during the election campaign how Benin Republic and Ghana economy take better pass Nigeria. Na ordinary border closure exposed Peter Obi and his container economy.

Astark:
Paid stunt

handie:
Mtcheew. He should just enter the zoo and stay with the Orangutan Abeg.... Maybe he'll be a bit more useful there than he is on a football pitch. Zero pace, Zero technical ability, he can't even pass the ball or make a tackle. How Alonso became a footballer should be one of the world's mysteries.

maimalari:
Never make a LovePeddler a housewife. In tupac’s voice. Rip in advance

Badonasty:
Lol....people fear SARS pass soldier na...I still want to see a shootout between SARS and soldiers....I wan check something

IronGalaxy:
SOuth Africa is also Africa and your artists aren't big here sorry! same with North African countries

Donald95:
Our celebrities are now Laughing stock in the eyes of the world. Na wa o.

Giant of Afric- anus indeed

anenymasng:
Egede reach S.A?