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victorian:
He's from Kogi.

hehehe

I talk am na them them . IBO or middle belt

InvertedHammer:
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Simple and luxury do not go.

Forget luxury. Lead a simple life and you will never run out of money in life. Life is not that complicated.
They claim to be big boys and drive somewhat expensive cars but a life challenge of N5m will be catastrophic. Some people sef!

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do you know how much mark zuxkerbergs private jet costs or his house or his other properties. mark zuckerberg bought off his neighbors houses so he can have peace. if that's not a luxury for an average man then I don't know what is. after knowing the big things mark still lives a simple life . No gold chains ,no big wedding , no wealth flaunting you hardly hear about him in the new except its about his work

bill gates has a massive yacht, lives in a luxurious house. Yet he is still very simple and gives most of him income to the poor.


so my dear its possible

teewhydope:
Hey! I always get double data when I sub on my mtn sim, after subscribing you can use *559*63# to check your double data bonus. but i've stopped now since airtel now offer me 7gb for 1.5k

but this airtel own dey select sima abi?

Princeofnigeria:
[s][/s]15000 salary lol that's my subscription in a week.




I hate this country

who asked you now ?

cruchenutii:
Hmmm I don't know oh, Please let me know

he he he
what's there not to understand.

cruchenutii:
Ha! 150k wig is on the high side & 60k is too much If a man earns less than 500k to be honest.
Let's note that 60k is not the whole money for the home in a month, It's just the stipend for the Wife alone so It's a lot.

Also the issue is, women can assume a particular class even when they are not. I'm always ask to know a lady's background before I judge.
You can't be earning 150k Net income as a lady & be using 150k Wig, it doesn't work that way.

So anyways, which one are you? - A simple lady or the flamboyant type?
Lemme know now before I propose to you oh, because I'm ready; so no medicine after death

he he he

right now I'm a simple lady working hard to live a luxurious yet simple life.
if you know you know

Jiang:
All things being equal 5k should be enough, this is for her to buy personal women things & if she is not working. But if she works just surprise her with gifts from time but no monthly allowance


But if you intend to travel alot, atleast 50k should be enough especially if you got atleast 4 kids, that's excluding school fees but includes all monthly house hold spendings. This applies wether she works or not as long as you are absent

shuo 5k for a woman that isn't working per month?

even as a struggling student I wasn't get that as allowance . na die be DAT hehehe

victorian:
He has already settled food and drinks at home.. Their store room is filled with yams, bag of rice, garri and the rest. It's not for food at all. Fridge is filled with all kinds of drinks. This Sallah was eat and drink til u can eat no more
It was great fun.

He Should be earning much and he's a top official in a federal government office .

My dear, I have a big link am working on with my lawyer which is 100percent concrete and legit . Also with my kind of biz and the kind of links I want is different from what the husband can link me to.
But my lawyer? That man knows people and has worked for a lot of top shots.. So am better off with him, than with my friend husband.

Anyone earning 60k as salary, should please look for other source of income.
Cause for me, am looking at other source of income o

Am not focused on just my company alone.

this your friends husband is an IBO or middle belt man abi

cruchenutii:
Okay sha, 60k a month is pretty much. Also we need to consider if the money for her alone OR for the home in general, food stuffs, children snacks etc.
Her husband has to be earning close to a Million, else that Family will go poor by excessive spending.
I know some graduates that earn less than 50k a month.

On a serious note sha, you need to connect with your friends Husband to link you up with his friends, 60k a month is like a full time Salary oh

60k too much ?


it depends on where the lady shops.

for some a single human hair wig costs between 15k - 150k , depending on your class and a woman can't have only one weave she will be fixing continuously. she may have like 5 to ten different styles and would change them every six months depending on the price types she buys.
A single designer bag is between 45k - 120k .I'm talking of Chinese ( fake) designer o lol not the real deal. she can't have less than two of that.
clothes is another list of expenses, shoes , makeup ,treats etc

so all these depends on her class. for a simple lady 60k is a million bucks but for some 60k is just a night at a three star hotel.

lefulefu:
Well it depends.if na slayqueen u marry..lets say of Daniella Okeke calibre..then lets say as from 500k-600k for her monthly upkeep. But if na local mgbeke u marry as wife then 20k-30k will be enuf for her monthly upkeep.

chisos

mgbeke can be great one day you know.

iClef:
Sorry, Sir. The reason you're being attacked is because you're talking like a married man and this post is meant to be posted on family section.

My advice is: use the cummulated money and setup a side business for her. Profit from the business can be used to maintain the home. When you start acting too responsible and bumping a woman money, you're training her for a disaster in the future.

A woman who has seen money will always want to see more money just as woman who has tasted a great bedmatician and has gotten an orgasm from him will always want more. If the bedmatician is not around, she'll look for another one because she needs to taste that thing "orgasm" again.

The day or month you'll not give after a brief quarrel is the month she'll go looking for that "monthly salary" you used to pay her from another man despite her working for her own money.

Na una dey carry una hand spoil una marriages while trying to act like real men who take care of their families.

Before a man should get into marriage, he should study how women work, but most men never do it and we always await their marriage disasters or epistles on front-page.

My wife this, my wife that — I trusted her, I did this for her, I gave her the whole world, I gave her all she wanted, she never lacked, she never this, I treated her like a queen, etc. but she did this to me — blah blah blah.

I don't wish married people bad, but I don't pity married men who think money is all they need to keep a woman or a home and with this, they refuse to learn how women work and focus all their lives on just money.

Money is good, but a millionaire who knows how women work is better than a billionaire who doesn't.

are you saying a man shouldn't take care of his wife because he is afraid she will cheat on him or leave him? shhh

the first responsibility of a man is to take care of his family whether his wife is working or not .
While the first responsibility of a woman is to take care of her home whether she is working or not

how the both of them then choose to go about it is theirs business. Everyone of them knows their limit and the nonsense they can take

as for me I would never let a man open a business for me only to push all the family responsibility on my head ... so what is he then contributing ..

what happens if the business crashes tommorow? will he take up the family responsibility again?

a woman already goes through a lot with child birth ,home care, taking care of the kids and a 9-5 job or full time business . this your suggestion is the number cause of stress on women then when the woman is looking worn out he will start looking for side chick


I will have you know sir, that poverty is much more likely to lead a woman to cheat on her husband than abundance. come to slums and see married women who hawk their wears branching into another mans house for a quicky to feed her kids.

MiztaFabulous:
In every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

the first five people who answered you are very dumb pay no heed to their advice.

post your topic on family section with matured people.

GAZZUZZ:
why?

please help me check the VIN

Kimsokrates:
One man's food is indeed another man's poison.
So na this fine woman na em ogbonna kanu leave for that ugly and ostentatious laura ikeji.
A woman'sbeauty alone cannot keep her husband

ogbonna is actually a leech . laura can take anything as long she has a man by her side

seborrhic:
Elephants in Iboland and Nigeria?Strange
Must have strayed from East Africa or the Sahel,hence its wide nature after reaching SouthEast Nigeria after such a treacherous journey.

there used to be elephants in ibusa delta state. chiefs were respected for the size of elephant tusks they carried.

if you were able to kill an elephant especially a large one you will be accorded lots of respect.

has the bombom disappeared?

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Mumu girl. A guy cheated on you. You still come allow am knack you wella join the girl wey him just knack finish


And she's feeling like what


If Na me be dat guy I go just dey happy say I get mumu girl like you. Good riddance to bad rubbish.


Just go dash the lucky guy double Toto for one day. mtchew

but sex is enjoyed by both parties na . There is nothing like dashing anybody Toto here

in fact she enjoyed herself more because at that point in time the guy will be scared. he won't know what is up her sleeeves and that will make him do whatever she wants at that time.

yeye blogger

FunnyDude:
She's not a graduate like me. I don't like her personality because she's not my spec.
Things just happened within this short period of time.

oh jeez
I knew it was beyond the nagging.

is she a drop out or a jambite?

you should man up and let her go. the longer she stays the more the heartbreak will be harder for her.

so because he posed in front of the car its his own ?

FunnyDude:
It's not easy saying that sentence as a guy. Bringing this to Nairaland was because I'm short of ideas.

lol it should be o
since it was very easy to do all the styles in just a few weeks with her.

In my previous relationship, I was just like this girl. I had so many toasters but when I met that guy he was the first person ( male and female) that understood me inside out ,( my personality type isn't very common so I just got used to people misunderstanding my words and actions ). So we just clicked like that . No too much toasting at all .
I was just like this Lady. ( well I don't know to what extent she is irritating) . I was always calling and texting to ask him questions about himself .I became like a detective. He began to complain that that attitude will make no guy stay. He was sometimes harsh and it was very painful that I even blocked him ( no sex was involved ) . he textedbme to please unblock him. whenever we spoke on it he would end with I understand and advice me to tone it down. I did of course. He was a very mature person.


the problem here was naturally I'm a very independent person . I can stay all by myself for days without needing people around me just lost in a book or in my thoughts. even I was surprised at my clinginess. but it was just normal he was my first boyfriend, and the first person I will ever open up my heart and the walls guarding it too.

for some people like me ( maybe your girl is like that ) when you meet someone who really understands you , you tend to like them and want to know everything about them. Its just the excitement it will die down soon

if you talk to her about it in a harsh way and threaten to break up with her she is likely to change.


most of you here complain about being with a lady who only wants your money now you have met someone who genuinely likes you and you want to throw her away ... you men are confused
for a girl to talk about other guys who like her the way she did my dear she is smitten. In life we don't value what we have on a platter of gold.


I have a question , do you like her? answer me sincerely

FunnyDude:
She just like me. One soldier dey always disturb her from another state. According to her, the soldier hasn't saw her before they met on FB. But this man keeps sending her goodies till date.

She has guys on her neck begging for her number

I just freestyle toast her, gave her d normal initial guys caring and loving .. Na him she trip.

I just want to part ways peacefully. Your advice is highly appreciated please. C

it seems this is beyond her insecurity .you obviously don't like her.
maybe because you didn't put any efforts into wooing her this is what we call "see finish"


Try telling her that her actions are irritating you and you would break up with her


but seriously why is it so difficult for you to just tell her ' hey babe I don't think this relationship can work ' .why bring this to nairaland?

pocohantas:
1) Why do Naija guys think sex is a loss to the lady?

2) Why will a guy and girl have sex, then Naija guys will call only the lady olosho with borehole pùssy?

3) Why is there so much emphasis on female chastity and virginity, but none for guys?

4) Why is male infidelity more tolerated/accepted than the female one?

5) Why do Naija guys turn totometer, trying to calculate the mileage of their girlfriend's vagina?

6) Why will you give a Naija man a blòwjob and he'll be wondering which man's dick you learned it with?

7) Why would a Naija guy date a girl and when they break-up, he will be happy he at least fuckéd her. Does it take something away from her? If yes, what? Is it a gift or collateral to the guy? If yes, why?

8 ) Why are there thousands of thread on guys analysing the female vagina, its depth, width, colour... in relation to her sexual partners?

9) Why is a sexually experienced guy a stud and his female counterpart, a slut?

10) Why are Naija girls slutshamed for being sexually expressive, whereas the guys can share sexcapades on ashawo beer parlour thread?

12) "Virginity is the best gift a woman can give her husband".
Do you agree with the above statement. If yes, why?

13) "A man can love his wife and fùck around, but a woman who does same can kill her husband". Do you agree with this statement. Discuss in not more than 6 lines.

14) If sex is indeed pleasurable for both,why does the female get all the antagonism and the guy gets the accolade?

If you can correctly and sincerely answer these questions.
The answer you seek lies therein.

lol now you sound like the female version of toks2008

totometer that one weak me

Pipedreams:
Bro I tire o. Took advantage of her as if i drugged and molested her. Is this not a false r.ape claim? Fear Naija babes o

lol
but why didn't you call back na? was she that boring

its not like she was a runsbabe you agreed price with.

trust me ,when she saw your ride was when her thirst started. she had already calculated how you both will end up having happy ever after.

Maybe you should compensate her to diffuse the hatred she practical feels for you right now.

justi4jesu:
Exchange rate is 3 times what it used to be when I opened the thread so very very few people buy Wholesale

So why not continue with the few that still buy wholesale
?

justi4jesu:
I now export Real Gold. I have been buying for my customers.

Yes it is for Dozen and please read as i explained everything at the top there. Commission and shipping are seperate from item price.

what happened to this thread

MrHistorian:
Blogs are cancerous to Nigeria's growth. . .

the guy who shared it on twitter isn't a blogger

Wilfredpat22:
What stops us from buying our own cars? Must men always do this or do that for us? The other day s man’s younger brother was washing car for his elder brother wife... and the younger brother is 34 years.

No no it is wrong. Men should sell off their cars and encourage the women to hustle for theirs.

no matter how rich a woman is she will still want her husband to spoil her once in a while .Its just the way we are wired

haba that can't be oahiomole


if he was just an ordinary tailor how did he become nlc chairman

this mab is shorter than oshobaba

Prognose:
Most of them do. They don't see it as anything so they don't need to hide it.

@ Op, My observation:

They usually have a tattoo.

They appear plump. Not fat but plump. Like smooth skin and fresh some how. I think its the excess sperm ingestion

They are bold when it comes to sex.

Thier phones are a no-go area.

Thier phones tend to be expensive.

They tend to have Instagram accounts.

They don't need much convincing to send u thier nudes

They tend to take a lot of selfies even when you're gisting with them.

Note, it doesn't mean a girl that does this is automatically a runsgirl but the probability is very high.

the only one I agree with is the phone and the suggestive poses on Instagram or facebook

rev2214:
It is an old update

hello rev do you sell used bags ,can I see the bale

TechCapon:
sounds like you know her personally

I know her on IG

she dates one guy who looks like he's into yahoo. he bought her the car last year.