₦airaland Forum

cruchenutii:
Hmmm babe, are you talking from experience though?
Don't be fooled by those workout experts you see giving you advices, many of them have gotten a butt job & using exercise routines to maintain it.
Also know that Kathy Drayton has a very strong body, almost like a Man, It's not just about her body shape.

Having a broad shoulder & no ass is a turn off, she knows this & getting her ass done is something I actually would support.

I know the fake ones by sight. I also can tell which body type a lady naturally has or had before any exercise or surgery.
but I thought guys liked the Kathy Drayton and Selena Williams kinda body?

queenfav:
Sell human hair in bulk. Though you need good capital.

Eez not about the money ,but everybody. seems to be selling human. hair these days especially on IG how can one get and keep customers sef.

instead of getting a butt job toke should have just gone on workouts

her natural body shape is inverted triangle thus she has broad shoulders and no ass, no boobs and small lower body compared to her upper body

with good workout she would have been able to reverse that to have a triangle/ pear shape like Kathy Drayton
now she looks like she tied her hips to her body and its falling as she is walking . she can never take a normal photo because the ass and hips look weird.

GAZZUZZ:
I have had the IX35 since 2012 without any issues. Buy the four Cylinder version, it's extremely reliable.

hello gazzuzz
what do you think about buying a car with a mileage of over 100,000

Offpoint:
Please how much call bonus and how many Data bonus do they give on N100 recharge?

Want to be sure before I migrate from my current plan.

I really don't know

just buy a new sim and migrate so if it dosent work you will be safe

you knew you couldn't afford it and you went there.
what happened to living withing your means and contentment.

Even a father of faith in Nigeria Bishop Oyedepo said despite living close to one of the most expensive schools in Kaduna ,he sent his kids to schools he could afford to pay the fees.

Airforce1:
Where is the husband

husband at a bridal shower?

Jesus Christ

I kept twisting my toes in disgust while reading this

how can a rat feast onn your flesh without your feeling the pain?

hehehehe


Nairalanders guys won't like this


I've always found this lady very blunt and funny.


when an average lady says stuff like this just know she has been burnt a couple of times all in the name of love .

whether rich or poor generosity is the key word.
Not generosity after many demands but generosity out of genuine kindness and concern.

FunnyDude:
generationz I really like your input. You're very intelligent person so far. My present phone start developing fault yesterday unfortunately, I have no choice than to go get that iPhone.

By the way, the function iPhone is enormous compare to China phones. The iOS and internal design works differently. For a person like me whose source of income is based on the internet,it will aid my work more efficiently as regards IP and other stuff.

iPhone benefit is much for internet enthusiasts. Those saying I should go for 25k phone.. Lols.. I've been there once a time, I started with techno Y3 android, Infinix hot pro, then techno Canon and now Ulefone.

Truth, no person will choose Techno or infinix over iPhone.


God will bless our hussle.

Amen

oluwaseunla:
Yes I can. I will if it has not been abused. As a rule though, I won't want to be involved if abuse is extensive.

and Hyundai?

oluwaseunla:
Yes I can. I will if it has not been abused. As a rule though, I won't want to be involved if abuse is extensive.

what about dodge and dodge and ford cars

oluwaseunla:
Yes I can. I will if it has not been abused. As a rule though, I won't want to be involved if abuse is extensive.

what about dodge and ford cars?

hehehe


pot calling the kettle black

Thhe marriage between the two of them is a good example of a symbiotic relationship .

she has good genes that will be transfered to their kids and he is rich so she will never have to suffer again. That's just reality.

oluwaseunla:
This depends on a lot of factors, majorly, availability of technical know how to manage the vehicles, especially if outside Lagos or Abuja. This means that vehicles bought, most times get killed due to various abuse, eventually vehicles are labelled as bad. Consider the fact that the popular brands are a little more tolerant to abuse than an average Chevy.

Many Nigerians buy cars with second or third hand value in mind. Point one above drastically reduces this value, and most people can't be bothered.

That was just two, there are some more.

can you repair this type of car ?

GAZZUZZ:
I hate nissan

why? does it have anything to do with spare parts availability in nigeira

Export1:
2004 FORD ESCAPE XLS $ 500

Make: FORD
Model: ESCAPE XLS
Year: 2004
Mileage: 112257
Exterior Color: BLUE
Interior Color: TAN
Drivetrain: FWD
https://www.auctionexport.com/en/Inventory/Info/2004-ford-escape-xls-wagon-4-door-135160965?searchID=-1615880776#.W4UaOuhKiUk

how much would it cost to ship this car to Nigeria

cruchenutii:
Asin ehn, I really do not know why people don't understand It is perfectly OK if someone does not like you. We make our own choice but we get depressed when others make theirs. This is just very selfish honestly.

True. it is quite liberating to realize that not everyone ,not even those who we are in a relationship in with will like us as much as we like them. knowing this will help us set our expectations according to reality and not in line with Hollywood romantic movies.


ehn Mr cruchenutii have you commented on my on topic abi you have nothing to say in that line

durentchigozie:
I've given all the Green lights with eye conracts . yet all the greenlights were bounced. now it's in the avoidance stage, playing the psychological back the hell off game on me. it hurts so much.

we're in the same sch and see almost everyday but don't talk tho.

Im sure you are in 100 or 200 level stop fretting over this. Trust me compared to your education and future this is a flimsy issue.

concentrate on your education and work on bagging a first class girls are attracted to intelligent and confident guys. she might be end up being the one to want you more when you focus on more important things.

durentchigozie:
I've slipped into depression. help me.
every night sadness and tears.

this person keeps acting like they don't see me and I need someone to talk to on this issue. cause it hurts me bad

really ,you cry every night for a lady?

why don't you approach her and let her know how you feel.

trust me in the next two years when you remember this you will laugh over how you let this get to you. No human is created from roses we all have our flaws and imperfections

babyfaceafrica:
I do not agree verbatim with the assertion in the post.... most men do not just marry for ur washing and cooking skills...they marry due to these factors:

parental factors
when the see someone that is loyal and totally honest
when someone mistakenly gets pregnant for them
out of pity


most Nigerian men marry due to the above is
reasons....even if you are the best chef and can wash the whole cloths for Africa.... most men don't care about that....some men can cook themselves and most buy mama put even after marriage so please who your cooking prowess help and to the washing part....there are plethora of washing appliances around from 35k upwards so there is nothing special about washing

in my honest opinion,men just want a woman who can good them peace of mind(no drama/nagging),honest( some women are too secretive),respectful (especially outside,never downgrade a man) and give them good sex


in conclusion, marriage is fast loosing its value,as babymama is taking over..many men now see marriages like bondages...I how it changes

I like the points you gave but are these points you gave from personal experience?



what if the lady you intend who gives you comfort and is a companion can't cook and clean ?

FunnyDude:
I'm telling all these guys are just saying trash. The phone I ordered from ALIEXPRESS April 2017,still using it till date and yet at cheaper rate .
AliExpress is the best joor.

Just came here to hear diverse opinions.

* not stalking you*

it might interest you to know that Chinese phones have no market value. that phone you bought in less than six months the used version will cost less than half the price you bought it.

on the other hand a used iPhone five which was released in 2013 ( about five years back) still costs about 30- 45 k depending on the model.

If you can afford it its advisable to buy an iPhone because even if you use it for a year when you deicide to sell it you'll only have to remove about 10- 20k from your initial purchase price.


Plus using an iPhone exudes class even if you go our wearing bathroom slippers ,its easier for people to overlook it thinking you just want to dress down than when you carry any chinko phone.

I use a chinko phone by the way

cucumbae:
Gone are the days when getting pregnant out of wedlock is an embarrassment.This days we just see how ladies flaunt sex.

It takes two to tango

gone are the days when a man would marry a lady just because she was pregnant for him and not because of love . A popular musical artiste was recorded saying marriage is a waste of time , a man should just get a lady pregnant and take care of the child. Now imagine your daughter was dating such a person and gets pregnant for him would you still have this opinion ?





The worlds values a deteriorating and women alone aren't at fault.

ImaIma1:
It is not about getting a woman who cooks and cleans or for a woman approaching or crossing 30.

People marry for many reasons. I got married because we were tired of saying "bye" EVERY NIGHT. We wanted to be together forever.

I can boast of my cooking anywhere but sadly, my husband is a better cook. Infact, the late night chef is in the kitchen as i type this.

Besides, it depends on how a man sees a woman. Some men think that a wife is a personalized or customized maid with extra functions


People like to lump things together but really, reasons for marrying differ just like every marriage is different.

are you and your spouse above 30? was there any kind of societal pressure?

yes it depends on how a man sees a woman. if he sees as a customized maid when he 20 that will be his reasons for wanting marriage and nothing more.

Tabbaz:
Link revoked for security reasons. You may contact me if you still want to join

please can you send it to my email ,its in my signature

missdivineprove:
So you think it's good? no matter the age. any reasonable lady cohabiting with a man will definitely long to be married to that man.
besides is cohabiting part of courtship? wrong concept anywhere

No i don't support cohabiting in any form . Re-read my comment please. what I said was it was quite rare to see a man cohabiting with a woman in Africa and not being pressured into marriage.
The man is a grown adult and his responsible for his decisions . I can never force my own down anybody's throat. Also, I created the thread for peoples opinions whether good or bad not to force mine on anybody.

have a lovely day ahead

Hanseel1:
All Nigerian ladies don't share the same orientation.

Clock isn't ticking to anywhere time is still much and marriage isn't an achievement or a must for everyone.
I read about a US billionaire who engaged his fiance about 40years ago but still not married and they have 2children together so it's not a rushing matter.
Like someone said marriage isn't play play stuff, no need rushing into it.

well true . But the white people are more flexible compared to Nigerians on the issue of marriage.

for example if a man has kids with a woman from the east ,the children belong to the girls father until the man marries her traditionally. In case the lady dies untimely , the man has no right over the dead body until he performs certain right which include marrying the dead woman .

Also most churches frown at having kids out of wedlock .

Hanseel1:
I'm referring to Nigerian men in general not above 30 only.

I'm not single neither am I married, but since I'm living with my fiance if I asked I respond "married".

I wasn't and not being pressured to do anything, you can only be pressured if you allow your parents or any other individual to pressure you.

hmm good.

Its also good to know that despite the fact that you are cohabiting with your soon-to-be wife you face no form of pressure even from her which is usually the case with a lot of Nigerian ladies who feel their 'clock' is ticking.

babyfaceafrica:
does it mean girls only get married to have kids,have a sexmate,bodyguard and someone who can give her the comfort she wants in life?.. if you can answer this sincerely, I will answer yours..thank you

kids :yes this is because no woman wants to have kids out of wedlock . Those who you find around are either victims of circumstance ( unwanted pregnancy ) or they made the choice due to the age factor.

for the other factors it depends on the lady, her age and what she desires in a man. All the others change depending on the circumstance the lady finds herself in.
so please kindly share your own experience in relation to the topic.

merahki:
I mean no disrespect, but there is a not so subtle smirking and gloating tone discernible in your post towards the almost help that your husband did not marry, why? I honestly don't want to know why though, used that to emphasize how much your post rubbed me the wrong way. I hope it is all in my mind, if so, my bad.
I understand how you want to feel you are all that and more where your husband is concerned, but in doing so, you threw another woman under the bus. Besides it could be that your husband could not handle ALL that the almost help is, and settled for safe and easy to manage. I do get carried away! But I had to defend that who cannot defend herself here, lol. And I am out!

ERM Mr merhaki thanks for defending the defenseless * runs out of thread*


*waltzs in*

do you have any personal experiences that relates to the topic which you would lime to share?