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RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 3:46pm On Aug 12, 2018
iwatch:
ignore the troll
you know him?
very sick
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 12:53pm On Aug 12, 2018
LordsApostle:
PM me
for?
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 7:39pm On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
Just to correct something.. I don't go about telling someone I am nice. My actions is enough to do that and like they say, action speaks louder than words.

Technically speaking, if I was bad but claiming to be nice, the girl that called me recently wouldn't have called nor will the ex from years ago do everything such has wooing and offering sex. The ex from years back may not be desperate but the pain of not finding anything close to me. I mean, I was not selfish, never thought of solving her problem and expecting sex in return, never took advantage of her. We never had sex but other guys did all these and she saw I was the only one who gave genuinely and purely from the heart. She did beg me for everything she did.

I am also aware that women know who was good to them, the one that really love them, even though they often act unappreciative at the peak of their emotional outburst and anger with the nice guys... in their solitude, they reflect on this things. It doesn't matter if they have dated 100 guys, they know the one who really love them.

Also note, this has nothing to do with just girls cos I am not one of those guys who is ONLY good to girls. I know what a friend did to me when we were room mates in school; you know the way people treat you when it looks like you have no future because they judge you by current events and outlook (just as the ex from years back did) but God knows I had a type world view unknown to most people and I worked on my life using that (call it plan B).

So it happened that this former room mates needed to do his international passport with time running out for sealing a job with an oil company. Guess who made sure it didn't fail? the same me he had regarded as a redundant and hopeless person with no future while those he banked on failed him. I sent the money a week before the date he gave me. Since then, he changed the way he treats me.

My principle is, treat everyone equal (no one knows tomorrow) and it makes me a little servile in the process, not that I am stupid but I just love the feelings of making people happy. You don't need to thank me, the fact that you are happy and the smile on your face makes me feel unprecedented form of fulfillment that words can't explain.

However, I don't show this nice of me to every girl anymore... if a girl ever sees it, she should consider herself lucky but sadly, they often abuse it when they see it as such has been my experience.
hmm quite long

but like I said earlier actions speak louder than words. even Adolf Hitler will tell you he is nice. I would even trust someone who says 'hey im not such a good person' than someone who's always saying ' I'm nice'


don't blame me I learnt the hard way.


just like I don't 100% believe what others say about another until I have one on one experience with you to judge your character


life also taught me this lesson


besides people change

you might have been nicer then when you were innocent ,but due to bad experiences become for example a player
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 7:33pm On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
lol... she does like me. I saw it. Let's just say I am not really being emotionally invested like I used to...
OK if you say so
HealthRe: Where To Buy Neem Leaves Aka Dogonyaro by generationz(op): 7:31pm On Aug 11, 2018
mascot19:
I removed it for safety
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 5:59pm On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
ok. She does not complain.
maybe she dosent like you that much. if a lady loves you she will want to be around you or hear you more often. sorry
CelebritiesRe: 'Charles Okocha Charges N700k Per Instagram Post' - Guy Claims by generationz(f): 4:54pm On Aug 11, 2018
Rapsowdee01:
Maraji charges higher though..

y'all saying it's a lie are dying in ignorance. Instagram influencers are raking in money heavily !
do you mind them blessing CEO owner of the page break or makeup just built a house bought a mercedes from Instagram money.

all from advertising
RomanceRe: Why Men Shouldn’t Marry Women Above 30 by generationz(f): 4:50pm On Aug 11, 2018
fraspree:
Saying that if the female folks start saying they wount marry penniless men, Ur sounding like its not already the criteria for woman. Have you seen a single marriage that lasted with a penniless man? Am just a concerned folk playing his controversial character
do you even think before writing?

last month a lady committed suicide because of pressure to marry from her family

you don't know how far what you wrote up there


this is cyber bullying if you don't know

You don't know that what you wrote up there can send women into depression coupled with the pressure from family and friends


if you have been rejected multiple times by your female age mates then take that as a challenge and work on building your future and praying to God to send you a life partner that will love you for you.



stop spewing hate of the female gender about .At least you have a mother respect women we go through a lot . a woman getting marries late doesn't always mean she wasted her time. opportunities differ between people

while some girls can have 3 boyfriends at once. some spend up to five years in a relationship and have to wait another 2-3 years to enter another. that's about 8 years . calculate six years twice and assume her first man was when she was 18 that's 34 .

there us no age that's the best for marriage the best choice is Gods choice.


You don't know the power of words use it wisely and you would uplift a soul
CrimeRe: South African Orphan Narrates How Pastor Raped Her For 3 Years, Called Her Demon by generationz(f): 3:08pm On Aug 11, 2018
lastdon5:
Nonsense story to whip up sentiment... you'll write, you'll write nonsense...do it already.

And when you do expose everything...names, pics and address.

This is the only way that Future occurance won't happen, because they'll know that she remembers and a day of reckoning is coming.
whether she is trying to whip up sentiment or not the fact is that she was abused for years as a teen

it took me over a year to get emotionally over a failed relationship ,I can only imagine what it would take for any rape victim to get over the torture. the person even if dead keeps on raping you as the thought lingers
please don't be inhumane



it was people like you she told her problem to that pushed her away.


even coming out to talk about it is courage

A south African lady killed herself because she was raped by her boyfriend.

this ladybis strong abeg


please when you hear stories like this put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself ' if this as my daughter would I react in such a way' .
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 3:01pm On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
who?
the new lady you call once in 50 years
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 1:18pm On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
Well, the first lady i talked to about to be wooing me was the first and last person I ever spent time calling... subsequent ones hardly got my call, well, you guess right... i turned out to be the opposite of what she had in mind when were dating.


Yeah the second one who called not long ago, we chatted a lot... but that is past now sha... I am best of both worlds. Just let me know which one you want and I will serve it cold and chilling. not every girl gets much of my attention sha... if you get it so much that i spend more than enough time with you, you are lucky but abusing it will never resurrect it thereafter.

I had hidden though... I just thought may be one girl out there will be different and not feel awkward about getting too much attention but I am wrong.... so hence forth, no girl gets it anymore, not even my wife.

The current girl I hung out with after the one that called me recently only get my chat like once a week and calls are like once in 2 weeks....
did she complain
BusinessRe: Why Is It Hard To Find Good Business Ideas Here? by generationz(f): 12:10pm On Aug 11, 2018
Coloradvantage:
you are going to loose your money fast with this big thinkling idea of yours? you want to be bill gate and dangote. think big and start somerhing small. I started agricultural comodity trade with just 45000k about 4 years ago and if I tell you how it is..you will be m$arveled. you might call that small thinking. but seriously don't business is no rocket science you need wisdom, patience and consistency. and don't go and pump all your millions in the name of BIG ideas. it might not work. and one thing bussiness is more stressful than we all think. fact# many can't handle it
what is this agric commodity trade all about
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 12:07pm On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
very well... she even offered sex, which I refused. These days her brother told me that any time he tells her we chatted, her countenance changes...

She even went as far as wooing me to have me back...

Though due to my experience after her and subsequent ones, I have resorted to hiding that nice guy a bit.

A girl messed up when I showed her that side called me desperate, too emotional and all whatnot, says I should stop the unnecessary calls and text. I obeyed and stayed on my line... For 3 months now with no calls, text or chat from me..

Out of the blue, she calls and asking why I don't call her anymore and some other things I wasn't really interested in.

I am too busy. The fact that we some times do silly things cos of the love or affection we have for lady, does not me we can't change. If we change, you may never get to see that nice side again, but that also depends on how you nurtured and handled the nice side of a guy.

Now the part where I say I am almost like the dude is, if I really like a girl and mean well for her... I take my time before asking her out and I don't care if she had dated any guy I know of, just like one that happened during my nysc lol...

You see, like some persons were saying dude took too long. What happened to the ones that didn't take long before speaking up? Where are they in her life now? Of course the op is not a virgin and she has had more than 3 body count by now(just saying), and I am sure the guys she had it with didn't waste their time in wooing her... So where are they now?

Like the NYSC chic, I delayed before opening up to her towards the end of our service, well I didn't get accommodation on time and so a guy got in before me. Till this day, I am the one who still check up on her while the other guy has moved on since. Above all, she is a very good and nice lady... Awesome wife material but her problem is she doesn't seems to make good choice when picking a guy to date. She doesn't know how to move out of a relationship that doesn't favour her... And clock is ticking against her already.
hmm no offence but I tend to be quite suspicious of people who tell me with their mouths that they are nice people ( bad experiences)

the truth is we can't be too careful


what works for A doesn't work for B

I had a room mate very sexy lady
she and her boyfriend could stay on calls for up to 14 hours in a day almost everyday (no joke)

it became quite irritating that even the other roommates her friend used to ask ' what is it you people are always talking about sef'
however the guy has such a hold on this lady. She hardly ever goes out he checks her every move and he isn't even around Lagos sef. when she went for a wedding they quarreled on phone because he kept asking.


However at the initial stage maybe you should try to tone the calls down. don't go changing from being frequent to not being . for example when you call let your missed call be only one. nothing more than that. let the calls be rare.
chat more on WhatsApp.

make the chats very short and precise too
this is for when you have started dating her. not before.


That lady you said she came back was is when you started making cash because the desperation na wa
RomanceRe: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by generationz(f): 9:07am On Aug 11, 2018
iwatch:
she is young and still want to be free. I know girls are age are like that. if she miss this one, she will never find a man close to this guy... they don't come so easily and I know it cos i am almost like the dude.
you are almost like the guy?

so has any of your former girlfriends or female friends comeback begging you for a second chance.
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RomanceRe: Slay Queen With 2 Skin Colours. Check Out Her Legs (Photo) by generationz(f): 10:58pm On Aug 10, 2018
Reference:
Right. Just don't make it a lifetime ambition. I am sure my mum has more pressing priorities today than the surface of her skin. Thoughts concerning her legacy and would yearn to roll back the years to do what was more important. Such are the experiences of us all. The ability to put things in proper context and scale is an art lost on a lot of folks.
stop making it seem like having good skin isn't important. maybe it isn't top priority on your list or even on it at all but that doesn't make you better than those who take time to pamper their skin

do you know that the beauty industry is a multi billion dollar one globally.

from the ceo's of these companies to their janitor 'beautiful skin" is top priority even though they may deal with the issue from deferent perspectives. tell me if the janitor's at nivea wouldn't go praying to God that people always buy a bottle here and there if that would save his job.

to the actor ,musician, model etc bad skin signifies the end of your career

heck did you notice how people couldnt stop talking about Mitchell Obama's glowing skin while she was first lady?


even David Beckham and c. Ronaldo can't afford to have bad skin, they would have to kiss juicy endorsement good bye.

like someone said you dont wear good character on your body the first the people take note of are your looks, this either attracts them to you or repels people from you.

shalom.
HealthRe: Where To Buy Neem Leaves Aka Dogonyaro by generationz(op): 9:55pm On Aug 10, 2018
mascot19:
If u ar in ph com 2 uniport e full scarter
lol
I'm not in pH


do you mean it is planted there ?

if yes how can you help me package some and send I'll cover logistics.
RomanceRe: Slay Queen With 2 Skin Colours. Check Out Her Legs (Photo) by generationz(f): 4:14pm On Aug 10, 2018
Reference:
Shiny skin for what purpose huh....are you a solar panel. Folks, spend money amd time on what creates real value, will last a lifetime and will enhance the fortunes of your generations coming...not these purposeless, vain, temporary things. Donot waste your time investing in depreciating assets. Angela Merkel is as plain as they come but the stuff between her ears is dripping with legacy.
trust me even Angela Merkel will visit the spa once in a while rub a good moaturizer and wear sunscreen . she can afford it and it isn't a waste of time

A good skin speaks volumes about a person. you don't have to bleach to look good ,just maintain a uniform complexion free of rash and hyper pigmentation
FashionRe: Want Hair Growth? Use Weed: ! by generationz(f): 4:10pm On Aug 10, 2018
Homogeneositys:
Use murungun frm those hausa women mix it wit cream, it works very well, it is just #50 naira
please where can I get this murungun
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how much is it
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Jaysey:
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please where did you see it
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FamilyRe: Chebe Powder And Karkar Oil For Hair Growth Here by generationz(f): 3:58pm On Aug 10, 2018
bewitching:
Chebe powder and Karkar oil is a magical hair strengthening and moisturising mixture.

✓It is an ancient method with origins from African countries Chad and Sudan used to grow and manage hair.

✓It is a blend of herbs. It reduces hair breakage and aids length retention.

✓ It makes the hair thick, soft and long

Contact/Whatsapp: 09093308321

Location: Abuja

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how much is the powder and oil
FamilyRe: Chebe Powder And Karkar Oil For Hair Growth Here by generationz(f): 3:57pm On Aug 10, 2018
bewitching:
Chebe powder and Karkar oil is a magical hair strengthening and moisturising mixture.

✓It is an ancient method with origins from African countries Chad and Sudan used to grow and manage hair.

✓It is a blend of herbs. It reduces hair breakage and aids length retention.

✓ It makes the hair thick, soft and long

Contact/Whatsapp: 09093308321

Location: Abuja

#Chebepowder #karkaroil #longhair #dandruff #hairgrowth #naturalhair #blackhair #fullhair #edges
do you have the raw powder

if not how much is the cream and the karkar oil
HealthWhere To Buy Neem Leaves Aka Dogonyaro by generationz(op):
hello dear nairalanders


please I need advice on where I can get been leaves popularly known as dogonyaro


I heard it works for hair growth.




p.s those traditional herb sellers ( iya alagbo) shops are out of it




seun
lalasticlala help me push this to front page . its urgent .
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I know the second hand designer items bought from the authentic stores are usually costly . what I want is the cheap secondhand . i mean if a Gucci authentic bag is 1200$ for example the second hand will be $600 dollars thats still to expensive.

what i want is replica second hand.
something of good quality that will last long.
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