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Demiladey361:
I fell sick six months ago and almost died. I was taken to some places but got worst. So later I was taken to church where they did deliverance for me. Then I got better. I didn't get better totally but gradually. Till date I still experience the sickness but not like before.

But I remembered when I was still very sick, my sister told me a pastor explained to her that the attack is coming from a guy who is angry with me and I have to make amends. I didn't really bother about it since I was getting better.

I broke up with my ex around last year when we quarreled. When I found out he is a cultist. I told him never to call me anymore. We were planning to get married next year but when I found out he is a cultist I ended it and it caused a lot of confusion btw our families but at the end they respected my decision and we part ways. Weeks later he called me and said he was really hurt bla bla...

Fast forward to when I was sick. I discovered when I was sick and recovering... I dream about him a lot even without thinking about him but I didn't take it as anything.

Then recently I decided to go to MFM church for a week deliverance to be totally free from this affliction... I fasted for a week and prayed but on the last day, the prayer was about spirit husband and behold I fell and started screaming "No No"... I was rolling up and down scattering everything.. A lot of pastors came to my side praying but I was still screaming" no no" "she belongs to me".

Then when I came back to my senses "the pastor called me and told me I still need much fasting and deliverance session because there must have been a strong covenant for him to say no" . Then he asked me about my past lifestyle. I told him I was worldly then and the only boyfriend I had that lasted long I broke up with him. Then he started praying for me and telling me to say I break every covenant with that guy and behold I was feeling very uncomfortable and shaking then I stopped.

.. After that he prayed for me and told me when the church reopens I should come back for the deliverance cuz the church is currently locked because of the corona issue.....

When I went back home I decided to pray about this guy again but I was still feeling very uncomfortable like I was going to faint then I stopped but then I began to recall everything about my ex.. I could remember he told me we should have a covenant then but I refused ... Then he told me to promise him I won't ever leave him.. I did and he also promised and that was all. Again I remembered he called when I was very sick, he greeted me fine and asked if the sickness caused some spots on my body I said no and then the day the pastor told me to pray about breaking covenant with him, my ex called me that very day to ask me how am doing.

But now am really confused right now. Have prayed about witches and wizards to leave me alone but still am not totally free and now am beginning to think towards my ex direction...

Could he be responsible for this and what about the spirit husband stuff cuz during the time I was sick I dreamt about someone having sex with me and me breastfeeding a baby in the dream.

And when the pastor called me again he said he saw a stretch on my life and he doesn't know where it is coming from that I really need to pray and gave me some prayer books.

Then I called the pastor my sister went to and asked him. He told me the attack is coming from a guy that he is very angry and because a covenant was made and I need to make amends cuz I was ungrateful to him. I was totally confused.

Am so confused and tired of everything right now how is my ex anyway connected to spirit husband.

Both are interconnected. The spirit husband is the demon he is using to monitor you. It is the result of making a promise to him and having intercourse with that diabolical man.

Just keep praying.

Toks2008:
Read what I wrote on the pics and do your research.

That is the most Authentic painting of the face of JESUS

And BTW, go get your facts right. Adoring a picture of Jesus is not idol worshipping.

No confuse yourself.

Stop believing lies. You are too old for that.

Toks2008:
Lol! Why will she bother when she knows her place in David's life.

Only fooosh married women cry a river over a cheating hubby.

Men will be men and there are better things in life for a lady to achieve rather than bothering her head over a man that can't control his dck.

Chioma nothing do you abeg. Leave all those ladies ranting online... If they have the chance they will gladly be another baby mama cos women are their own worst enemies.

Do you know that having the picture of Jesus or believing a fraud that that's the pic of Jesus is tantamount to idol worship?

Have you seen him face to face to prove or disprove the authenticity of that picture or you just believed because many people said so?

The pic of Jesus is useless in the worship of God .

What happened to freedom of speech?

Balaxx:
So if Tyson fury come out tommorow con say "whites buy only from whites shop" e go like am

It won't be the the same because most big businesses are owned by white companies and blacks believe anything made by the white man is the best. Hence black businesses are marginalized from the word, go. It is 100 times more difficult for a black owned startup in the USA to secure funds than a white owned startup.

Why do your politicians steal your money to buy gucci and prada shoes when there are local manufacturers who produce good quality for less. Surely if I tell you to buy Aba made leather products to support the local manufacturers, I'm no racist, am I?

LexngtonSteele:
I am an ex Jujuman.

It means their love would be sweeter than the juices of the pineapple.

It might even be a cheating husband and a desperate wife. These people have spoilt show.

The pineapple didn't spoil.

These people should use their spiritual preservatives to preserve wealth for their generation instead of this nonsense.

truthsayer009:
Every man for himself now, we have limited resources available & I need to use it wisely. Let them stay in their father's house.

To your tents, O Israel sayeth the Lord.

No, joor, you are their father. Father 9f the fatherless.

truthsayer009:
Yep, for everyone. It has even made me to cut down on my girlfriends from 3 to 1. I cannot be keeping 3 babes in this Pandemic

Haba, that's not fair o. How will they survive now? Don't you know you were doing the lord's work?

truthsayer009:
I am doing good oh, nothing much. Just trying to stay afloat in this pandemic that is getting over gradually.

Yeah, the pandemic really messed up a lot of plans for all of us.

lekki1444:
I can tell you the rules he broke was not in this lifetime. it was in his past life. It was ordained for him to pay for it in this lifetime. this is why he was gifted with the talent of a reggae musician. reggae music is an affliction ritual. its a music sung by those under affliction and born under affliction. so he was born in affliction and the way the spirits had him express his affliction is by gifting him with the affliction ritual called reggae music. dabbling into spiritism in this life is just the symptom of an afflicted soul seeking solace and alcoholism and drugs is a symptom of an afflicted soul and not the problem

Are you a Christian?

Ola17:
You expect us to divulge such sensitive information on a public forum?

Are you one of them?

rawfact:
Hmm, lots of Spiritism-talk on this thread. But be very careful in your search for such knowledge, particularly above what has been godly and safely provided for you by the Almighty Himself through the Holy Bible.

While the Holy Bible might not contain entire knowledge or past events as attested by one of it's authors (John) in John 21:25, it should be noted that the Holy Spirit of God once led Moses to write in that regards in Deuteronomy 29:29 where it was explicitly stated that:


The secret things belong unto the LORD our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children for ever, that we may do all the words of this law.


So God ensured that was carefully penned down for future generations (like ours) because He knows man's unrelenting search for knowledge even when he hasn't applied the ones he claimed wasn't enough.

Meanwhile, Human (Spirit, Soul & Body) is mortal and very limited spiritually, even when physical maturity and godly spiritual exercises are achieved. In fact, he can only contain as much spirituality as God-Almighty DESIGNED him (her inclusive) to contain - hence should only be exposed or participate in spirituals that God-Almighty designed/approved for him pending a period when mortality will give way for immortality as described in I Corinthians 15:12-58, where anyone that successfully makes it (John 3:16) to the new Earth would be absolutely and eternally free as Super-Humans (100% Divinity) to engage in unlimited spirituality in the immortal body (godly) that would be provided by God-Almighty.

Imagine a scenario where a Professor of Mathematics compels his 3-Year Old Boy to be knowledgeable of Calculus for whatever reason, you'd agree with me that he would only succeed in doing him evil than good. He should rather leave the poor boy alone and allow him to grow naturally (safely) as there would be more than enough time for that when his brain is fully developed for such knowledge.

So, while we are gracefully planted (birthed and aging) on Earth as designed by God-Almighty, we should avoid the many temptations of going against "Deuteronomy 29:29" as such moments would be presented times without number before us, with several twisting of the scriptures (Holy Bible), same way it was done to Jesus in Luke 4:1-13.

Talking about Jesus, there was also a time during His departure from Earth that He wanted His disciples to be filled with additional spiritual knowledge but He also knew that their "Being" wouldn't be able to accept nor empowered to use it for the next phase of evangelical work He intended (as God ordained the spiritual knowledge for) according to John 14. So what did He do? He instructed them in Acts 1:4-8 to wait in Jerusalem till the day the Father (God-Almighty) would release the same Spirit (Holy Spirit of God-Almighty) residing in Him on them - Very Loyal Jesus, you'd say - He didn't usurp His Father's authority.

And until that happened, Peter (one of the recipients) never reasoned, spoke nor act in any Super-Human way by himself except for once when Jesus revealed that he (Peter) voiced out the mind of God by revelation from the Holy Spirit of God-Almighty.

Even with Peter's new spiritual status, courtesy of the "Upper-Room" encounter, he still made a blunder that was so contagious, being a major leader in the house of God. He didn't reason it otherwise nor repented until he was publicly cautioned by another [later] recipient (Paul) of the Holy Spirit of God-Almighty. As you can see, mortality (Human Body) still limits consistent [good] spirituality even with the residence of the Holy Spirit of God-Almighty.

So, no run pass God, stay d lane wey God put u. Grow spiritually as God intended/purposed for you in relation to how He wants you to live, and all He wants you to do with the spirituality FOR HIM while gracefully allowed on Earth.

I wasn't going to dabble into the occult.

Starhearts:
Pls keep quiet

A lot of things happened
Thank God.
I finally traced my step back?
I will reveal some revelation soon?
I involved in a lot of things here in Cyprus.

Glad you did.

truthsayer009:
Ah! man ke? Male e no go rape my wife oh. All those house boys with their strong gbola

How are you doing, btw?

CalvinGaye:
He couldn't obey the ethics of RIGHTEOUSNESS.

How can you prove your loyalty and Faithfulness then?

The aforementioned is a very important Spiritual Virtue.

You break one little rule, you automatically have broken all.

And the WRATH OF THE LAW Shall be your Portion.

RIP to him though.

You are the only one who made sense of all the people who mentioned me on this topic.

Whoever is involved in spiritism here should come tell us the rules he broke.

Tenks.

@abokideals

did you have any previous knowledge in video editing because you said you graduated from uni with a degree in cinematography?
Are you using a Nigerian account?
Can I use a laptop with 3gb ram?

Every marriage has issues especially when kids are involved but I don't think it's fair that she lives apart and still take care of all the kids by herself.

hazard7:
Yes,I am getting better but my doctor told me "The most appropriate way to treat palpitations is for me
to avoid the triggers that cause your symptoms.". Which is quite difficult but am still doing my best.

Sorry, again. I wish you all the best and divine healing.

truthsayer009:
IKR, it may sound stupid to some people but hiring a house help who is physically more endowed than you as a Wife is a NO from me. It might sound condescending imagining that your husband could stood so low as sleeping with a help but I always tell people, prevention is better please, I have watched enough Yoruba movies where this happened

Then you won't mind a houseboy as a man?

ahmed486:
Ntel downfall has really started. Their unlimited is no longer unlimited they have added a data cap.

Their network has gotten really bad. clocking at best 150Kb/s at Secretariat where my office is in Abuja
They increased their unlimited plan to N18,500
And to cap it all, I just found out that they have introduced a data cap of 100GB

With all these, This will be my last month of subscribing to the network.

I would rather pay 20K for 138GB of Glo which clocks over 5MB/s in my location. Pending when a true unlimited network comes out.

How does this work with glo?

hazard7:
I wasn't able to talk about it till her death three years later(may her soul rest in peace) cause I was confused. I remember jokingly telling my religious education teacher(male) and he said "a boy can never be raped". I shrugged it off and since then I have to cope with the trauma cause the drug I was injected made my heart to race faster, my erections are very painful and the occasional migraines.

Oh my God, have you sought treatment for the heart palpitations?

emmanuelewumi:
Exactly, capital will appreciate when a business grows.


In 2004 Peterside Atedo the founding CEO of Stanbic IBTC Bank, said his friends who invested 100k when he started his bank in 1989, had the value of their investments grew to N120 million 15 years after.

That is the geometrical increase that can happen with a business or Investment in a growth company operating in a growth sector.

The bank grew from no branch, no customer, no profit in 1989, to millions of customers, multiple branches, billion Naira profit etc in 2004.


You also need N20 millon to get a bank license in 1989, you also need over 300k to buy a new Honda Accord from Honda's Place in 1989.

So the 100k invested by Atedo's friends could only buy fairly used cars in 1989 and the car should be a scrap valued at 50k in 2020

Atedo and his friends who believed in him and invested in his dreams are now billionaires in Naira.

But how easy, is it to get honest and trustworthy business partners nowadays?

Do you have to involved in the day to day running of the business and decision making when you invest in such from scratch?

hazard7:
It is so funny when people talk about rape(especially on nairaland) like they know better. I am like dude wtf are you talking about. Rape is a vile crime that should be punished by death not on only just men but women also. Yes women get raped often by men(your opinion) but could you tell me what do we do about men that get raped by "women"?
STEOREOTYPING
I have seen the threads of the likes of Badboibipo,missimelda09 and the likes about why are all men rapists. I have to say they asked a valid question but. They are stereotyping for cheap likes and shares. I don't support their whole generalization but let's ask ourselves(we men) that question. Why are "all men" rapist?
ANS: All men can not be rapist because that means your grandfather,father,brother and males from your family tree are rapists. Its as simple as that,am not trying to knock anyone down but that was what you are trying to say. Yes some men rape,doesn't mean all men. Making that statement its like a white man saying all blacks are drug dealers or all nigerian males are fraudsters. Is it really true? Tell me is......... It.......... Really.......... True?(Your opinion)
THE INJUSTICE
Why is it that if a man is raped and if he reports it he is shamed with answers like(did you not enjoy it?). Seriously could people be more retarded? Like dude,cause I don't have a vagina means I can't be forced against my will to have sex? Or cause my John Thomas(dick) raise up when am romanced means I consented to sex but if a lady is wet and achieves orgasms during rape means she is raped and am not? Right I forgot we are only humans after all,always seeing your side but can't even check my side of the story to see the "other side of the moon". I dig that.
Its a fact that women get raped more times than men(don't know how true is that cause I sure know male rapes are not that acknowledged) we (think) know that but the truth is we don't. Our society is bleeped up, government is bleeped up,our judicial system is bleeped up, the world is bleeped up and sorry to say,we the people are more bleeped up. Just tell me why if a female is raped by a male is a crime and the vice versa is not(just tell me). Men are raped day in day out nobody is saying anything and you are expecting the same men to show sympathy to a lady that just got rape. Sorry baby doll but no one gives a bleep about your "so called" trauma. Let me fill you in on this short story.
I was raped at the age of 7 by my mother's friend. My mom sent me a message to her and when I got there, I knocked on the door and she opened the door. She told me to sit down and offered me juice not knowing it had sleeping pills(mind you,this is a woman who is divorced with three kids and youngest happens to my close friend). I drank the juice without question and two hours later found myself naked. I felt weak and asked her what happened that I am naked,she said that I was the one that took off my clothes by myself while sleeping(like are you fucking kidding me,lady). I delivered my message and went home. I know you are wondering how do I know that she raped me? We almost close. To cut the long story short.......
On September 20,2000 I was coming back from school when I was called by that same woman to come and help her to buy 5 bottles of coke. I obliged thinking I was a good boy not know that what will happen on that day will forever leave "scars" that will haunt me for years to come.
I brought the bottles of coke for her since she was staying outside but she said I should take it inside which I did. I entered and found four other older women. As I was dropping the bottles, I saw her locking the door and putting the key inside her clothes. I didn't initially see the red flag,when I was done,I walked up to her and told her I was leaving and she looked me eyeballs to eyeballs and said I was going nowhere. On cue the other women in the room grappled me to the floor and that was how it started........
I was beaten with belt in order as I was told by my assailants to "remove the spirit of defiance in me" then I was forced to give "head" to each of the lady there including my supposed mother's friend. Then I was romanced all over in other to get an erection which it didn't work. They decided to inject me with drugs,I got a full erection and the rest they say is history.
MY SINCERE OPINION
Some people will believe,some will diss me that didn't I enjoy it since I got an erection,some will even mock me and say am a liar but its all your opinion,you entitled to what ever you want to say but don't come here to say "all men are rapist" that what you are reading now doesn't justify anything. Yep hon,it might be true or not. More men are raped but nobody listen to our plight because we are men,we are supposed to be strong,we can never be raped because we are men. Well I was,I still remember what those drugs injected in me have cost me both emotionally and financially. I have every right to be angry but am not because that's just LIFE. Not all men are rapist,the same way not all women are whores,the same way rape is not female based. It is just what it is.
To all those genuine rape victims(both male and female). It is tough at first but you need to move on,I know it feels like the end of the world but trust me when I say there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Yes grief,but don't let it pin you down,they(rapist) won you physically but don't let them win you emotionally.
Don't think you can't start life again,you can and you SHOULD. Look at the likes of Oprah Winfrey,if she can do it so can you. Those of you who are looking for someone to talk to,you can always dm me and I will do my possible best to help. Let's say
#No to rape
#No means No
#Justice for rape victims

Sorry, about what you went through.

Where you able to tell your mom?

truthsayer009:
Actually they don't, those housemaids begin to learn the Lagos lifestyle and they start seeing new opportunities around them.

For example, clear opportunity to snatch Madame's husband

Learn new ways of doing things, talking, communication etc. Travelling with madame to UK for childbirth etc

Lol, it seems like you were an housegirl in your former life.

fairfora:
it's on alimosho.

Okay.

fairfora:
It all depends on what you seek to achieve. I have friends living in Lekki and I've vowed never to join them. Not because I cant afford a befitting house in Lekki. In the estate where I live in Lagos, there's 24 hours power supply daily with perfect road network. We are served by the so-called 33 grid. People find it hard to believe when they visit that a place in Nigeria could enjoy power so constantly. Security isn't a problem and roads leading home are lit in the night.

My friends who built houses in Lekki are always on Generator. They spend hugely on water treatment. Roads are always flooded, etc. There's a comptroller of customs who wanted to live in Lekki. He moved with his family. Now he wants to come back traffic gets worse at peak periods in that axis. Most times I'd get to the airport much earlier than those living in Lekki. Most times, I get to VI or any part of Lagos earlier than they do. I always ask myself, what's so special about the Lekki sef? You don't want to even near that place now that rain has started.

The government of Nigeria has made city's life so difficult. Overseas, you could live anywhere and still enjoy all the benefits of life...in fact people preferred living on the outskirts where they enjoy the serenity. We have a manufacturer who cited their facility at a remote village in Germany. This is a multibillion Euro company. As remotely as they're situated, they've been able to reach the length and breadth of the world courtesy, functional rail system. From their facility, they could connect every part of Europe. From any airport, you easily reach them via train.
The day we have a functional rail system in place across Nigeria( if it would happen in my generation) , it's goodbye to lagos hectic life and I relocate to my town. From my town, I could get to the station early to catch a Lagos-bound train. 5:30pm, I don commot office to join a train that would take me back home. Do you know why life expectancy in Nigeria is so short? It's due to the hectic lifestyle of working Nigerians. We spend most of our active hours in traffic and accumulate stress in the process. The look of a 40-year old average lagosian isn't same when compared to that of his counterparts in Europe or US.

Which area is this, please?

Carchoice:
When you live among the rich, you start to act rich before you know it you’ll get rich.

emember to thank your brother for saving you from village people.

So why do housemaids, and butlers to rich people remain poor for the rest of their lives?

@sirjohn, you do know there is a video of Katheryn Khulman talking about people asking her why some people get healed and some not getting healed and she honestly admitting with the words "I don't know."

pocohantas:
Nahhh

I don’t want to believe a normal human being tweeted all that.

What if he's not normal?

TheSociopath:
What did you hear about sociopaths?

Everything the internet says about them, basically. Are you one?