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Ayomidate:
So this doctor is here again to tarnish the image of his wife. When will you rest Mr docki. You go from one blog to the other creating fake username to justify what you did to a loving and loyal woman. Why not tell them on this forum how you use to beat your wife black and blue in Nigeria. Why not tell them on this forum how the police has arrested you on various occasion in Nigeria for beating up your wife. Remember to also let people hailing you on this forum know how you have a case with the human rights commission back home over your senseless beatings and abuse. Good thing you moved her to the UK last year. How have you been treating her since she moved to the UK?

You don't allow her to work, the moment she picks a shift with her agency you run away from the house so she can stay with your three kids. Don't forget the first kid isn't hers but she cared for the kids and lied to immigration the kid is hers to bring the boy here. You kept using the boy against her in the UK to disrespect her and lie to the police. You put cameras all over the house because you were expecting her to beat the boy one day so you can file child abuse against her but God pass you.

Kindly tell this forum how your wife has not been able to have just £50 in her name since she moved to England because you don't allow her work. You don't even give her money for food rather keep the food in your own bedroom. Tell people here how you use to seize her mobile phone not to get in touch with her family and friends back home and you did not allow her to keep friends in England. You've broken her phone on two occasions in your Plymouth abode and she kept hanging on to the marriage to make it work.

Kindly explain to this forum how you login into her social media account to chat with her male friends by trying to be her to see if she is dating anyone. You are the same person using her email address opened on your laptop to contact social workers that everything is fine when she reported you. Have you also forgotten all the threats you made to her if she ever end your career here and how you will end her life. You were only lucky to make a first report against her which were all concocted lies and she was giving a retraining order. You can go ahead and get all the restraining order you want in the UK but very soon you will roast.

She kept quiet all these while to save your career as a medical doctor but don't worry as the evidences against you are quite overwhelming. You can keep running for the little time you have but just kiss your career goodbye. This lady don too suffer and it will soon be payback time. Everything you were able to get away with in Nigeria has been unravelled. This is England you know and not naija�

Keep writing your fantasy stories

If he hates her so much why did he bring her to the UK?

USarmyID:
Maybe he is hallucinating. It's called Sleep Paralysis though. Our brain sometimes create make-beliefs of dark creatures or animals or witches whenever it happens. Research on it sha.

So sleep paralysis happens for days and leaves when we plead the blood of Jesus, abi?

Calapar:
Hello Nairalanders
There was a time a friend was having a lot of issues. Now he told me one strange thing: most of the nights when he was asleep, at the middle of the night, one strange force would compress a side of his mattress. He would feel it to the extent of waking up but wouldn't be able to open his eyes or do anything. He'd be shaking and be afraid until this thing would go away. He told me and I said he'd try to call out the name, Jesus or blood of Jesus.
He stopped experiencing this long ago until lately. His side of the mattress went down again and he felt it. He struggled to talk. It was like he was handicapped but he managed to call the name, Jesus and His blood and the strange spirit went away but he was very afraid. Till now, he hasn't encountered anything like that.
Has anyone had experience with spirit at night while sleeping? Please share your experience, let's learn.

If that thing keeps coming seasonally it probably has a right in the spirit realm to keep disturbing him. If it has a right, pleading the blood of Jesus is sometimes a temporary solution. Some demons get their right to operate in people's lives based on the persons background, what the person did and the vicinity he lives. He should keep pleading the blood of Jesus and pray for God to reveal the origin of that demon.

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not been myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Both of you are opportunists.

That been said, don't listen to all these men telling you to hustle hard because of a greedy woman. What happened to her hands to work and ray for success. Hustle for a better life. If your motive for hustling is to please other people you are doomed because you can't really please everyone.

As she left her ex he started to prosper. You better focus on your focus.

There is a high probability she's going to accept him if he offers to take her back so just concentrate on your future and don't let this get to you.

irunoko:
sociopathic- Kanye has some personality /behavioural disorders not just him but his wife who is an obsessive nudist

Yes, he's bipolar but that's different. Kim was isn't an obsessive nudist but a strategic one. It's unfortunate people can't see the business side of things.

adebayal:
Plz wasap or call lets discuss

Non is available at the moment.

irunoko:
Lmaoooo is it new to anybody that Kanye is narcissistic?

ESPECIALLY since he Lost his mom who has been concealing his bad character


A lot of celebrities are sociopaths but the media has a way of glamourizing them so you rarely see their character flaws

What is sociopathic here?

Don't you know that celebrities craft their media personalities and have friends in the media who sell these stories to bring attention to their brands? 80% of your celebrities including the so called humble ones.

All I see is a man and his wife who knew the power of media buzz. Now he is worth over a billion dollars.

Of course, they call paparazzi. There is nothing newsworthy here.

TheBusinessHub:
Generationz

Hello

evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?

Maybe you should take up boxing. In order to avoid the pain from the punches you regularly recieve, you'd learn to throw punches and become stronger.

TheSociopath:
Your comment sounded like you were married

Haha, I'm just a good observer.

TheSociopath:
Are you married?

Nope, why?

Houseofglam7:
Marriage is truly overrated

Yes, marriage is truly overrated. Some people are lucky and get it right without so much effort while some struggle to get it right. Thousands, on the other hand, are just suffering and smiling. The spark is gone and reality has set in.

I don't think many people really sit down to think of the worst happening before setting out on this journey.

tunmiluabi:
Yes... Assessment must fair because its takes two to tango. You will never really know the truth of the matter. I know better now.

This can only come from someone with experience. That's why I laugh when I see single people giving marriage advice. It was something I used to do frequently but learnt that you can never really know the true nature of what people have been through, enjoyed and endured in a relationship as an outsider.

I admire your maturity.

See how good and healthy he looks now. Fat is a terrible thing.

adadike:
Thank God for mauritius! NCDC, pls stop escalating the figures because of monetary gain. My little cousin broke her leg, was taken to the hospital for dressing and treatment. Guess what was written in the receipt? Covid 19 discharged. The mom tried to protest but they asked her to calm down, that's the new protocol.

This is hilarious. I was just asking a friend how it is possible to have 33 people recover in one day and 26 on the second day, 34 the third day. Is it that 33 people just decided on their own to get well in one day or what?

These people think we are fools. Even people without COVID are been added to the number of positive patients.

plaetton:
Lol.
I think it's kind of childish logic to say that systems should have been better prepared for an epidemic like this.
This kind of childish logic is difficult for me to engage with.
Like I said earlier, the way most Africans reason in very shallow terms and their hostility towards science is an embarrassment to the modern era, and a sad testament to Africa's scientific and technological underdevelopment.

Let's hope that neither you nor any member of your family would have to make a medical pilgrimage to India one day for science-based lifesaving medical care when your HERBAL 'MIXTURES ' have failed you.

You have resulted to insults as no one here accepts your "mature" logic.

plaetton:
Here we go again.
I will give a C for effort.
I found it hard to follow and understand your points.
But from all the anecdotes you tried to patch up, your summary is that I should not have too much faith in systems.
First and foremost , I'm not a person of Faith, and , scientific rationalism does not rely on faith. TRUST is a better word. Trust in scientific deductions and verifiable facts.

If you don't put your TRUST in systems that are based on scientific rationalism, systems that stand the test of time, systems whose pre-eminence have been proven time and time again, systems that have a built-in audit system and therefore are accountable, ..if you don't put your TRUST in systems, then I assume you will put your trust, your faith as you say it, in witch doctors, herbalists , pastors and prophets ?
That's your choice.

I will cast my lot with the scientific rationalism.

Btw, you have no right to grade me. You must believe you are smarter than everyone but your opinion is just subjective.

plaetton:
Here we go again.
I will give a C for effort.
I found it hard to follow and understand your points.
But from all the anecdotes you tried to patch up, your summary is that I should not have too much faith in systems.
First and foremost , I'm not a person of Faith, and , scientific rationalism does not rely on faith. TRUST is a better word. Trust in scientific deductions and verifiable facts.

If you don't put your TRUST in systems that are based on scientific rationalism, systems that stand the test of time, systems whose pre-eminence have been proven time and time again, systems that have a built-in audit system and therefore are accountable, ..if you don't put your TRUST in systems, then I assume you will put your trust, your faith as you say it, in witch doctors, herbalists , pastors and prophets ?
That's your choice.

I will cast my lot with the scientific rationalism.

Yeah, with the Lock down and numerous deaths, the worlds system has truly stood the test of time.

They have failed woefully my friend.


What stopped them from preparing in advance for an epidemic like this? Even the movies gave better warning signs than the garbage scientific organization called WHO.

plaetton:
Very funny the way Africans think. No wonder we are the most scientific and technological under-achievers in the planet.
If the rigors of the scientific method are too difficult for the African mind, then we should all just shut up and wait for scientifically derived medicine to be brought to us from India and China.
We don't have to be exposing our ignorance and stupidity online.

First of all, WHO does not subscribe to pre-science medicine .
It is not the job of WHO to investigate every silly claim by every crackpot in world.
WHO, and might I add, the entire civilized world, are interested in scientifically derived medicine, not voodoo medicine, or your great grandpa's herbal ' mixture' .

In fact, the words ' HERBAL MIXTURE ' is an oxymoron,
and should have no place in modern medicine.

Chai, with thw way you are writing, one would think you are the secretary general of WHO.

WHO does this, WHO does that.

You do not know how many times WHO and so-called scientific experts have made and retracted statements based on what is safe and not safe to be consumed.

When dumb Trump the president of the USA told people to use chloroquine, people took it seriously. Even when he told people to use bleach many died from ingesting bleach because Trump said so.

You are so obsessed with systems and structures that you can't see that most of the people at the helm of affairs of these systems don't give a Bleep about your life or that of your loved once.

As I said, science is all about evidence. Evidence has proved that Madagascar hasn't recorded a single death since the outbreak meanwhile major countries in the world you put your trust in and fly to when sick can't even combat the surging death rates.

Nobody is saying they should adopt the cure immediately but looking into it BASED ON EVIDENCE that no one has died is a step in the right direction.

You are like the man who became a professor who went and boarded a boat and started bragging to the fishermen right in the middle of the river how more learned he was than the fisherman. The storm came and it turned out he couldn't swim and had the beg the "illiterate" fisherman to save his life.

There was a time no doctor would have believed that something as simple as the washing of hands saved life. The man who made this discovery Ignaz Semmelweis was disgraced, put in an asylum, and murdered because he dared to destroy years of medical practical knowledge by telling his fellow doctors to wash their hands first before delivering a baby. You can look him up on Wikipedia.

This virus has proved that all the super countries and WHO aren't omniscient. If they did, they wouldn't be overwhelmed by the surging death rates now. Smaller countries are battling the virus better than the bladder nations of the world.

It's okay if you want to wait for WHOs cure just stop putting your faith in systems. They are manned by politicians/humans who put their interests first.

plaetton:
You still failed to answer my questions.
What exactly is a HERBAL MIXTURE , and would you entrust your health and those of your family to a herbal mixture?
These are very simple questions.

The question is why has WHO not considered the cure and gone on to test it contents to see if it is as safe as Madagascar claim?

Because they don't want a small African country to take the glory if it turns out to be really safe. The fact that nobody has died and a large percentage has recovered should have spurred WHO to look into what in that mixture seems to work.


If you don't think world leaders are playing politics with your health and that of millions around the world, think again.

Somebody is deceiving somebody and stealing from another cookie jar when the partner isn't watching.

optimisticage:
U have said it all. He actually took advantage of her quest for retaliation, without knowing wen to stop even wen she knew she was being filmed. Self restraint was key. I bet the police officer instructed his men and neighbours alike not to restrain or separate dem.

Of course. I watched the video, he kept looking into the camera to make sure they were recording and telling his boys not to touch her.

Very wicked man.

guy222:
All this wife beater's coming here to say trash, inrespective of what happend, she has turn her right to wrong, inrespective of what happen, can you slap a woman from one to thirteen good times even if she did not retailiate? If you cant then it simply means you are spilling trash.

First and foremost, I'm a lady.

Secondly, that police officer is simply a clout chaser.

Should a woman fight a man? No. Not becuase the man is right but because he is stronger and you dont know the level of his strength.

But that policeman is a mothafuxxking clout chaser.

He could have just told even one of his men to restrain her and arrest her, make her spend a night in police cell or pay a fine.

By recording that video to make himself look good, there is no way that woman won't go to jail. Even if the judge pity's her, no police officer will let her go and they will keep harassing her.

When she goes to jail tell me, what happens to her six children?

You see why I said the policeman is wicked, evil, and callous.

Those kids will be left to fend for themselves because a police officer wants to be applauded on the internet for having self-restraint when we all know 90% of them are demons in disguise.

Now those kids will be left to fend for themselves in this harsh world. Nobody knows the frustration of a mother with six children that would make her start slapping a demonic policeman in this country even when she knew he was recording.

That man is evil. As he didn't consider that woman's children people won't consider his own kids in their though times.

Gracealone:
The woman was screaming in the video that the policeman slapped her first.
Nobody mentions that again

You dey mind them.

Who in their right mind will see a police officer in country and start slapping them for no reason?

The yeye man was just chasing clout by not hitting her and recording it so that people can praise him.


I pray someone assault the policeman's wife while he watches and she's as helpless as that woman in the video.

Jokerman:
Why is Gates trying to force the world to use his microchipped vaccines??

Everytime vaccine vaccine...

Is that really an interview with Bill gates or a cartoon?

Where is your source that the vaccine is satanic?

You people are supposed to have gone to school na.

Even if Bill Gates is as demonic he is ten times better your billionaires and politicians who sacrifice your brothers and offsprings for dominance, bribe their way into having monopoly and oppress you with the money. No one in this world can say they have not benefitted from Microsoft. If Bill is a demon, what will you call your Dumb billionaires and Polithiefcians?

Go and work out all the fat will become muscle and you'll look more masculine.