Family / Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by genq(m): 7:51am On Nov 19, 2019 |
taylor89: Another man fvcking my wife
To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below
1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing
2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside
3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first
4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3
If she can keep to this three then I'm ready You have spoken well elder 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by genq(m): 7:47am On Nov 19, 2019 |
IgbosNIGHTMARE:
You'll be cheated upon repeatedly and NOTHING will ever happen... Lol! No be pocohantas? Someone whose been ran through already 4 Likes |
Family / Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by genq(m): 7:33am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Fisher007: Hmm where do I start from?
Marriage is a scam.
Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, adoption or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.
Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section
You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other. The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose
For men:
Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.
You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.
You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".
You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.
To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.
You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh
Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.
Damn it! If this ain't the fvcking truth, I don't know what is. 5 Likes |
Travel / Re: DON'T LISTEN TO Anyone Who Discourages You From Travelling Abroad by genq(m): 8:04pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
janettee: I don't know why people are always interested in dating white women, lol.
Nothing wrong with that but some of you just want to date them because they are white , nothing else!.
You would date a morbidly obese white woman but won't date a morbidly obese black woman.
Things you won't tolerate with a black woman, you would with a white woman.
I've heard stories sha . Never quite understood this either. White women age like cottage cheese Nothing compares to a sexy chocolate beauty - speaking of which, the day I catch Diane from Bbnaija ehn! Choi 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: The Difference Between "I Was There For Him" And "I Was There With Him" by genq(m): 7:50pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
virgoquin: I [s]know where this thread is heading to
Only ungrateful people who doesn't understand the value of loyalty that tend to discard their girlfriend or wife who stayed with them from the beginning when they were struggling with life and trying to breakthrough.
I don't know what some of you people want, the same people that go about screaming on top their voices that girls should try to build with their boyfriend and not go for the already made ones will still be the same people to open this kind of thread[/s]. Shut up. Just shut up woman! Listen fellas, there is a clear difference when a woman says: "I WAS THERE WHEN HE WAS SUFFERING"
vs
"I SUFFERED WITH HIM" That she was 'there' at your lowest doesn't mean she was actually loyal and sacrificial towards your growth - ask yourself if she truly struggled with you Too many entitled chicks out here 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by genq(m): 7:42pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
crackhaus: Jadeobee you are most definitely a bore, you probably can't hold a conversation that will capture his attention for more than 20mins. If no one was going to tell you this awful truth, I will & just did.
If you were interesting, your husband would spend more of his time with you and even if he has to hang with his boys, he will certainly make sure you tag along and try to keep you involved in their conversation. Exactly! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by genq(m): 7:42pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Jadeobee: My husband is starting to irritate me. He is always visiting his friends every minute, in a week it’s at least 3-4 times. Sometimes when we’re meant to spend quality time together, he will go to his friends house and spend 6-7 hours and come back at like 12am. If it’s not his friends, then he is on the phone with one family member for hours discussing one issue or the other. Every minute it’s one friend issue or family issue, I’m starting to think this is not normal. After discussing this problem, many times he claims he will try to change and find a balance but it only gets worse. I’m the homely type he is the outgoing type, but he can’t stay in one place. I don’t want to push him away from his people but for goodness sake, must he go to see his friends every minute, I just think it’s unreasonable. One of my friends also complains about the same thing, why are some men like this for crying out loud ? Let the man breathe abeg! He obviously doesn't enjoy your company. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Is This The Life Cycle Of An Average Nigerian Girl by genq(m): 6:42pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Biingoo:
9. At 29, none of those guys proposed...
So they turn feminist femcels coz they can't get or keep a man.. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by genq(m): 6:40pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Olalan: All dem yeye silly dumb girls claiming feminist would recoil to their shell once financial obligations pops up Lol |
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Family / Re: “my Mother-in-law Must Wash Plates And Clean If She Visits For Few Days" - Lady by genq(m): 11:01am On Nov 16, 2019 |
Elder0001:
You’re the kid here if you think your partner owes your parents some sort of servitude if they come for a visit. If your partner chooses to do stuffs for them it’s his/her choice not a mandatory something. Nobody is a slave , your mother has hands . May your MOTHER wash plates for her daughter in law. Even wash her slimey pant sef 1 Like |
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Family / Re: A Lot Of Ladies Are Single Because They Are Broke – Joro Olumofin by genq(m): 8:45am On Nov 13, 2019 |
No man wants a liability - make your own money ladies Oh, and sleeping with MEN for money doesn't count. Get a job! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Men, Can You Tolerate This? And Married Ladies Are You All The Same? by genq(m): 7:06am On Nov 13, 2019 |
zeb04: you should be arrested for this.
You dont even know me so why call me a slut ?
I should be arrested?? Lmao! You're actually funny my dear. Though it's not hard to tell whose a slut, by their ignorant comments you shall know them Remember Lilyvall was exposed on this same platform. She was just like you! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Marriages Don't Last This Days? by genq(m): 7:02am On Nov 13, 2019 |
Katier00: Why? We left the African traditional method of marriage to adopt the white mode. The African settings is that man provides for the family as the head while the woman face the home and take care of the children and support the family when she can by engaging in small side business Today is different we now have husband and wife as the head and house help as the wife taking care of the home. There can never be peace in this kind of setting Spot on! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Marriages Don't Last This Days? by genq(m): 7:01am On Nov 13, 2019 |
Vyolet:
[s]It will be rubbish once it's talking about how men should make marriage work rather than leaving all the responsibilities to women. You will be alright[/s]. Don't you witches ever get tired? "Men this, women that" 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Men, Can You Tolerate This? And Married Ladies Are You All The Same? by genq(m): 8:13am On Nov 12, 2019 |
myang500:
I have made several move to at least see that my instincts were through, but then I found out at a time that she was already having an affair with a guy but not too sure if they have gone as far as having sex, i even created a thread here on family section about 2 years ago. She already figured out all the ways I used to track her. So i just dont bother myself any,ore If this is true then I'm sorry you deserve what your getting in the marriage. You saw the signs and still went ahead to wife up a th0t? I can see the 'love potion' worked! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Men, Can You Tolerate This? And Married Ladies Are You All The Same? by genq(m): 8:05am On Nov 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:
I should shut the hell up? If that how you talk to your wife? You are here wailing and whining about her being disrespectful yet you cannot even keep your emotions in check and act like an adult.
Were you tied and dragged to the altar? You decided to marry someone after 2 weeks of dating. You decided to taste what you were not ready to eat. Be careful how you use your tongue on me. I am not your wife and I am not the type of woman that you can bully or suppress.
Be guided!
Oh else what? Are you femcels capable of doing more than typing lengthy epistles on nairaland and insulting men? myang500, don't let her incoherent rants silence you o. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Men, Can You Tolerate This? And Married Ladies Are You All The Same? by genq(m): 7:35am On Nov 12, 2019 |
crackhaus:
Someone is expressing himself regarding suspicions of his wife's infidelity and this viral infection is typing total nonsense about respect & strangers. What's the connection?
You must definitely be a cheat as well for that comment to be causing you discomfort. Don't expect anything less from that zeb04 character she's a known sluuut. 3 Likes |