myang500:


The above is not our problem, we have a good sexual life, we are opened about our sexuality, thus making it easier for us to satisfy each other, besides your notion of me getting an enlargment is probably drawn from the fact that she said "your small di8ck" mind you am an average sized dickk guy, the only difference was that she had dated a guy with a plumbing tool for 2 years before we met, so it is always easier for most ladies like that to classify average size dick as small based on what they have been receiving. Infact the text message i saw which she hid between her and her love potion seller states clearly that our sex life is good, but that she just needs something for me to love her more.

myang500:

she said all women are the same that even if i am to re-marry, that the woman will be worse off than she is, but i disagree.

myang500:

she quickly termed it that i was trying to say shes cheating, that i need to get a life and stop being insecured. I was like i'm not insecured, and i cant be insecured over a woman of her looks. She got angry and said, me with my small pen**s, i was like an ugly woman like u can never make me insecured. I kept quiet but she continuously carried out her tantrums. This is coupled with the fact that somestimes last week, she made a statement out of an argument that she will have sexxx with another man in the house and i will never know of it.

Guilty conscience at play here She's most likely cheating or about to..

molybdenum0012:
Some people are actually dumb for real. They will not see the wide spread poverty in Nigeria, they will be citing billionaire Dangote.

How many Nigerians will be as rich as Dangote? Majority of Nigerians just want to live a decent life, which they cannot get here.


Western worlds provide that atmosphere for them. You don't have to be rich to enjoy what the rich enjoy in the western country.



Only in Nigeria where there is abject poverty you have to be rich to enjoy constant electiricy, good roads, quality education, security, and even drive a car:

These are basic necessity of life that ordinary vulcaniser should enjoy, but reverse is the case. That is why you see everyone in the country trying every means to get rich so they can enjoy all those.

And of course the aftermath of this is the craze for materialism among the youths. When you are starved of something, you will do anything to get that thing.

Let us call a spade a spade. Life is hard everywhere, but it is harder in Nigeria. Don't say because you have few businesses blossoming that Nigeria is heaven. Think of millions who go to bed hungry without food, think of millions of unemployed graduates who still struggle to have three square meal a day. Think of millions who have tried different businesses but failed, think of millions who learn a trade but still live from hands to mouth.


I have a master's degree, and I have looked for job with it but to know avail. Had to hide it somewhere and hit the street. Engaged in so many hustled and businesses yet still find it hard to live a decent life. And I am sure many young Nigerians are in similar situations if not worst.

If The Western countries are bad, then Nigeria is worst. No basis for comparison.

Thermodynamics:


A woman is inferior to a man, I have nothing against women, but that's a fact.

The only thing a woman can do that a man cannot do is to get pregnant and give birth.

But there are tons of things a man can do that a woman cannot.

Don't get it twisted, I love women so much, they make the world interesting and fun to live in, without them, the world would be dry, I personally can't stay without a woman.

But

Men are superior to women, it's just a fact, that's just how life is.

ultron12345:


You responded to my post in a very proper and polite manner like we all should normally do and I responded to yours with the same respect and courtesy. He however has shown that he had poor parental upbringing by accusing me of being a fraudster and a thief. You behaved like a proper human being and were treated as such. He however, behaves like an animal and must therefore be treated as such.

Your recent comments though have proved that the first impression I had of you was wrong and I will therefore no longer waste my time replying you. Feel free to think whatever you want of me. It has absolutely no effect on me in reality. Nigeria will continue to be a wonderful place. I am in my country, you're free to go to wherever you want, whether North America, Europe, Asia or the Pit of Hell.

alonzoiv:
It will be a gathering of bleached-up people.
Anyways, happy birthday to the youngest Oyo queen.
And thank you for keeping the Alaafin's blood younger.

ultron12345:


It is your useless father that is a public fund looter and your whorish mother that is into yahoo. You think we don't know the so-called ballers in your abroad are into drugs and fraud.

He's talking about capital that I accumulated through intensive savings during my housemanship and National Service. Go f,,k yourself. You think everyone is lazy and stup1d like you. All they know is complaining of no money to start business but theres always money running into millions available to move abroad.

Carry on, how many hours have you worked this week? 300 hrs?

We know your type. Running daily from ICE, involved in fraud and drugs, sharing a room with 10 other people, living like dogs, while snapping pictures in front of fine roads and fine buildings they'll never be allowed to enter just to post on social media to deceive the gullible ones here. Shame will not allow them to admit their regrets and return home. That country that is the capital of homelessness, where more than 70% of their people are just one paycheck away from living on the street.

He's talking about saving $500 per month when confirmed statistics say almost 70% of Americans can't afford to deal with a $500- $1000 emergency need. Shey almost 70% of Americans are lazy na. Go and find out how much traders in many Nigerian markets make per month. Any trader in alaba will buy you and your friend and relatives over there.

https://www.marketwatch.com/story/most-americans-are-one-paycheck-away-from-the-street-2016-01-06

Why should I even be wasting my time replying this ba5tard. He might even just be in one interior village in Nigeria, using free MB, typing into his 3.5" itel phone held together with numerous rubber bands.

ultron12345:


I visited the US, and went to a shopping mall while there. The very next day, almost 10 people were shot dead at that very same mall. Just imagine how lucky I was, imagine if I postponed my shopping till the next day, I would probably been at high risk of been shot dead. And you think such experience isn't enough to make me flee such country, where everyone marches around with guns, and can just shoot anyone at will. Let me not begin with the police who are ready to shoot down anyone for just being black............God forbid bad thing.

Every country has ups and downs. Like I said earlier, if Nigeria favours you, then stay. If you think it is abroad that will favour you, then go. Everyones destiny is different.

ultron12345:


My advice is, if you want to live a modest life, working jobs, driving one car at most, owning one house after paying mortgage over decades, then abroad is for you

ultron12345:
Well, my travels to abroad have never been to stay there, just mostly for vacations, so nothing much to say about that. From Vancouver to New York to London to Paris to Sydney. I love traveling. My favorite destination is Singapore though (you can spend an entire month at Changi Airport and not get bored). If not for language barriers, I'll have loved South Korea too, and maybe Japan and Scandinavia.

No matter what country I visit (even my favourite Singapore), the happiest and most joyous moment of my trip is always when I land at MMIA Lagos, and see the three words highlighted in yellow- WELCOME TO NIGERIA. My heart just swells uncontrollably with joy and tears of joy flow from my eyes.

After I finished university few years back, majority of my mates started making plans to move abroad. Some succeeded and moved, while some are still at it today. However, I decided to remain in Nigeria and contribute my quota to national development, and I have never regretted it. In fact, staying in Nigeria was the best decision I've ever made in my life. What I see of some Nigerians abroad whenever I visit, especially in the US, the Middle East and most especially Asia, is not encouraging at all.


Nigeria has been a blessing to my family and I. From the almost free university education I received (without debt on my neck like my counterparts abroad) to a very fruitful business environment. Business has been booming. If I'm to be return to this earth, I'll choose to return as a Nigerian. I will forever remain in Nigeria. I can frequently go for visits abroad, maybe for a week or two, after which I'm returning back to my wonderful country. I feel sad that my fellow Nigerian youth fail to see the numerous opportunities I'm this country. All they think about is moving abroad. Even the Lebanese, Indians and Chinese have seen that Nigeria is a goldmine and are all rushing here to snatch a share of the gold.

However, everyone has different destinies. Nigeria will favour some people, while it won't favour some. Abroad will favour some, and won't favour others too.

My advice is, if you want to live a modest life, working jobs, driving one car at most, owning one house after paying mortgage over decades, then abroad is for you (legally oo, and be ready to endure excruciating amounts of racism). But if you want to be rich, Nigeria is the place to be. My wife, kids and I have chosen the later over the former.

Nigeria is the land of opportunities.

DenreleDave:
TBH, If you claim that you love a guy or a lady and you dumped her/him because he cheated on you, then you are not ready for marriage.

Marriage is all about tolerance, forgiveness and continuity...


Maybe that's why I'm not ready too sha, I can't just imagine my babe cheat on me.. Chai.....


Cc: Lalasticala midnighters mistyebby RedCreme21 BlueAir blinking001

Toks2008:


So in all.your self acclaim wisdom, once a man sleeps with another lady or marries another lady then he is automatically irresponsible...

Toks2008:


I honestly don't know what they expect me to start writing...

That a woman should leave her marriage because a man cheats on her?
All these relationship experts that preach such are not only evil but clueless and foolish.

Rather than waste my time writing futile sermons on why men must be faithful to their wives I chose to write about how women can be the best they can regardless and they have issues with that...is that not lame?

It will amaze you that many ladies forming Amazons online are actually side dish of one married man who is not even taking good care of them.

kluivertngong:
Listen, Pussy. Age Is Only A Number And Maturity Is Only A Claim To Age. Being Mature Is Not About Age, But It's A Thing Of The Mind: What One Does, What He Says And How He Reacts And Treats Other People Determines If He's Mature Or Not. I Think You Should Be Tell Yourself That, Not Me. Yes, Granted. I Might Look Small. But, Hey, Baby Boy. What I Carry Up Here In My Head, All Your Family And Yourself Put Together, Are Still To Get To Know About It. Don't Push Me. Just Grow Up And Be A Real Man. Make Your Wife Happy, Give Your Kids The Respect They Deserve, Be A Responsible Man For Once In Your Life, Zip Your Trouser Up And Keep It Shut. Handle Your Family Problems Like A Man And Prove Your Worth.

pocohantas:


Who does it look like is dying so far? You will be here scaterring body, while I remain Poco.

eni4real:
Do you pick a particular moniker and disagree with that particular moniker all the time irrespective of what he/she says at different times??
C'mon.. .

kluivertngong:
You Tried, But You Got It All Wrong. Yes, The Bible Call Them Weaker Vessels, For A Purpose. Have You Ever Bothered To Find Out The Real Reason Why The Bible Calls Them That? How Do You Know That A Man Is A Real Man? A Man Is A Real Man, When He Behaves Like One. He Is Faithful To One Woman, He Considers Other Human Beings Feelings, He Makes His Wife And Kid(s) His Priority. Not Jumping From One Bitch To The Other, Just Because He Wears Trousers And Has Something That Dangles In Between His Legs. There Is More To Being A Real Man, Boy.

kluivertngong:
Mr. Poster, It Might Interest You To Know That, Women Are Not Some Piece Of Furniture Or Carved Stick. If You Pierce Yourself With Any Sharp Object, Blood Which Is Red In Colour Will Flow. When A Woman, Does Same, The Same Result. This Is To Tell You That, What Is Good For The Goose, Is Good For The Gander. Times Are Evolving, Things Are Changing. Even The Whites, We So Much Appreciate, Would Never Marry Someone They Do Not Love. If You, Cannot Date Or Marry A Lady, You Don't Love Or Have Feelings For, Then, It's Only Natural That A Lady Too Would Do Same. Stop Making It Seem Like Men Are Superior To Women. Because, It Is Not So. Not Even In The Bible.

CHoccolaTE:


Dont mind the frustrated woman hater. No woman in her right senses will stay with a man with such irritating evil ideologies about how women should swallow nonsense while men cheat as much as they like and show love to girls outside instead of their wives at home.

Funny thing is that he claims to be a Christian and bases his woman hating sermons on bible verses but at the same time he thinks it's impossible for men to stop cheating thats why he won't advice them to stop. So the God that declared adultery a sin did not make men capable of obeying his instructions to stay faithful?

By the way don't believe his lies about his wife being with him, they are still separated, he is tired of getting heat from nairaland females for his divorce so he has started lying.