justwise:


I go for the first point

The third point is obvious to everyone even if you have never traveled before.

Lol. You could be right

justwise:
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You are so right, just don't understand why people do that.

He posted his accomplishment on Twitter for all to see. Clearly he's trying to achieve one of the following:
- Show off and gain admiration from others
- Inspire others
- Point out the clear disparities between practicing in Nigeria and practicing abroad.

I go for the third point.

RoyalBlu:
OP did you just ask if a registrar can achieve this in 15 years?

Please don't just go there.


Congrats Doc.

One of the ones that makes twitter interesting.

Why do you say this?

Akiliogidi:
Good for him...
But then, stop this unnecessary comparison, like Drs in Nigeria don't make money??

I'm talking in consideration of time frame - in 3 years post housemanship, a doctor is still in hustle mode, writing exams trying to achieve registrar status, some are still looking for jobs, renting flats and driving old cars.

This is not a thread for discouragement. It's just to point out the enabling environment of the western world where you are able to thrive and achieve great things within a short period of time.

Nigeria kills dreams.

Popular Twitter doctor known as Dr Funmilayo @OurFavOnlineDoctor has purchased a 4 bed house and Benz within 3 years of migrating to the UK.

Why won't doctors keep leaving in droves? Can a registrar even achieve this within 15 years of practicing in Nigeria?

chical:

You mustn't comment on every issue. sometimes you should just read and pass. If you cant respond maturedly, just be quite

*quiet my dear.
You really should've taken your own advice and also "just read and pass"

This might not be a common opinion but I actually think it's better this way.

Don't think for a second that a woman's life is rosy after the death of her husband. If she's widowed when the kids are young, she is forced to juggle the responsibilities of both mum and dad - working hard to provide while still being a nurture.

If she's much older and LUCKY, her children might try their best to give her a comfortable life at the very least. However, this will not erase the issue of loneliness especially if she's past her prime and unable to get another spouse - notice that, in most cases of mother in law drama, the mother in law is usually without a husband and is therefore fighting the daughter in law for the attention of the remaining male figure in her life (her son).

Bottom line is everybody dies eventually - whether male or female. The point is to ensure you live a life of quality while at it - which is more honorable than existing in misery and loneliness in old age.

executive12:


It's typical of Nigerian women, probably because of the Nigerian culture that heaps all the family responsibilities on the man.

touché!

pheonixdld2:
Becareful....the way you are venting and replying, remember that the reason she posted this here is to get solution and not feed anger and contempt into which will make things worse. You might not care if the marriage ends, because after all you are the feminist and everything has to be a war between male & female. Calm the Bleep down a bit. OK.

Lol. My guy, these women can never get tired of gender wars on this forum - its their coping mechanism.
Your average NL feminist actually lives a lonely existence in the real world.

AfroKnight:


Bro, I tire o.





When he was flexing her and the kids, she no come here come praise am. Now things are difficult for the man, she’s casting him before strangers and all these feminazis that don’t have sense, so that they can abuse men in general.

See them insulting the man up and down.

Men, this is a lesson for you. Regardless of what they say these days, Try not to be vulnerable to a woman. It is better for your guys to call you broke than for a Nairaland nonentity feminist (who is secretly leeching on her boyfriend) to do so. The only woman that can help you without spicing it with ridicule is your mother.

This man is down and he is staving off depression but there is no love for him on these streets. Just look at the comments.

True talk.

This is why I refuse to bite my tongue on this forum - these idi0tic feminists think they have monopoly of throwing insults. They'll gather themselves and be insulting peoples fathers and husbands because they have no male figure in their miserable lives.

Men must begin speaking up and refuse to be silenced.

pocohantas:


He should get a help and pay the person. After all, women offer nothing in marriage. It shouldn't matter if they stay or leave.

As for his sexual needs, he can remarry or download inmessanger.

Very childish post

Fountainofyouth:



Maybe you are blind and didn't see where I said not all of them, or why are you this pained? Is a woman feeding you?

Kill yourself biko - I don't have your time.

Tarabye:

Stop claiming Yoruba here, must you make specification
No wonder Nigeria is still like this
Go and join your east amaka bigoted cowards

As in - fountainofyouth should actually be banned for that stupid comment

CHoccolaTE:


Honestly, especially Nigerian men. Evil, arrogant and selfish group of people.
Even if housework and bread winning is killing their wives it's not their concern, as long as his ego is massaged.

And look at the hypocrites on this thread asking madam to continue showing a self centered egoist love and pray for him.

Let a woman be the one acting so useless in her marriage this thread will be counting five pages of insults by now.

You sha want every woman to end up as miserable as you. Period-licking feminist lesbiaan!

Fountainofyouth:


Where I poked you hurts right? Pele, you will be fine.

Lol. Cry baby.. goan DIE

CHoccolaTE:
See another example of how women keep getting scammed with this marriage crap.

Men will never ever agree that they should be responsible for housework and childcare but ther selfish arrogant asses want women to be co-breadwinners and providers.


Op the lord is your strength. Ask yourself what he himself would do if you were the one sitting at home 24/7 not providing and not doing housework and then demanding that he should not employ house helps. Will he take it in patience and still show you love?
Or better still ask him.
Ask him if he enjoys seeing you get stressed and overworked because of his ego issues.

And the funny thing is that many men in marriages today are living like this because of the bad economy, they depend on their wives for financial support but will stubbornly refuse to help with house chores.

Lmao!
Frustration won't kill you - "men this men that"

MamaFryo:


What is this one even saying biko? Is he not meant to be the bread winner of the home as the society takes it. So when the woman now starts acting as the bread winner is there not something wrong? That is not even the issue, if he were to be the one working and the wife is at home, won't he expect the wife to do the house work? Now that he is the one at home, why is he not doing the house cleaning?

Based on your previous comment I shouldn't even be responding to an uncouth scallywag like you.

You said OP's husband should be locked up - of course you'd say something so senseless and idiotic being that you have no man of your own.

Local champion

Here we go again! Another topic posted for the sole purpose of inviting frustrated NL femcels to come bash your husband.

Just a quick question based off the highlighted statement below. Why is it that a man can feed, house and even clothe a woman and the children all of his life but you will never hear him announce this to the hearing of others - but let a woman pay the bills for just one out of thirty years, the whole world must know and we won't hear the last of it!

UnbiasTruth:

Mind you, I have been the one practically footing the bill after two months that my husband lost his job because we made a huge investment in acquiring some property shortly before he lost his job. So, I pay house rent, school fees, feed the whole family (we have 3 lovely children) from my salary.

MrBrownJay1:
Men/husband don't care much about what women think because they have a JOB to focus on

I just love this comment. Lol

nlPoster:


Could you post any link that verifies the bolded claim.

And why would a woman give her inheritance to her husband? Why would a husband give his inheritance to his wife?

Inheritance is different from earnings.

Don't be silly.

You are free to post the link that "verifies" any of your previous stupid comments.

baby124:

What are you talking about? Will you give your fathers house if willed to you, to your wife? Some of you just jump from 0 to 100 when the gender is different.

Of course not! I can never do something as foolish as that.

P.s. please learn to utilize common sense my dear - my comment was to address the common perception that wives are entitled to husband's inheritance while husbands aren't entitled to the wife's. This ain't gender wars, just facts.

baby124:
You better don’t try that rubbish. If he wants to fight, put it in your children’s names. It’s a man like him that gave you the property. You can both hustle for your own in the marriage. The one from your father is for you and your children.

Men please read comments like this CAREFULLY and learn coz these gold diggers women do not consider you as anything but a sperm bank.

Therefore, only will your properties to the kids (those you have verified to be truly yours via DNA).

Amarisa:
Whatever she inherited(money or property) will be useful to her immediate family,so the question of giving it up shouldn't arise..

The husband shouldn't even put his eyes on her inheritance..

I think it also depends on the individuals involved,If they understand themselves well,this shouldn't be an issue..

Likewise wives should stop putting their entitled eyes on their husbands resources!

I'm so repulsed by your backward and hypocritical mentality. So woman shouldn't will her properties to her husband - would you say the same in reverse?

Lol

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not an woman-child that we should be responsible for.

Fantastic comment!

Riele:
Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .

The nerve of you to ask such a stupid question!

Who doesn't know that the livelihood of 90% of Nigerian women is tied to a man in one way or the other.

Women = entitled, lazy pigs with nothing to offer than a rotten BOREHOLE in btw their legs.

makydebbie:



Mind your business omo ale.

Na you go die fess like chicken because you no dey mind your business, be taking panadol on top trolls headache. Kwasia.
Ony3.

Shut the fvck up!
Like you minded yours abi?
Puta!

pocohantas:


Oh pls! So many Nigerian men die of hypertension and heart attack every other day. He would just be another one of them. Nothing would be special or violent about his.

Likewise so many women die of diabetes, cancer or domestic violence and you shall be one of them

pocohantas:


Almost like you are already having a heart attack.

And that is exactly what your death with look like... A lot of struggle in your final moments, but it just wouldn't help.

Lool.
There she goes!
Stop crying and grow the fvck up poco!

P.s. The death you wish upon IgbosNIGHTMARE shall your portion.