₦airaland Forum

midnighter:
Lol you wrote an equally long epistle to him, nobody insulted you

Because you can't think of anything to answer my point, you've resorted to childish tantrums and name-calling

You must be a baby or a jambite...I refuse to believe a grown man would behave like this, even on nairaland...I don't think it has gotten to that extent

Don't be silly - I simply couldn't be bothered to read your foolish ramblings after you categorically said white people tan to show of "wealth" .. dolt!

I guess typing up lengthy senseless epistles is now a sign of wisdom
Kudos to the "intelligent" woman and her arse-kissers.

midnighter:
Yeah, exactly. We are programmed to see ourselves as inferior because we are down and out, for the moment. In the same way, some Arab societies in times past frowned on whiter skin because it meant that the person was either a captured slave or prostitute from further north (I think Europe).

In fact some white people often spend long periods tanning their skin artificially or actually lying out in the sun, because having tanned/brownish skin is a sign of wealth ie. being able to travel to faraway places and spend money on leisure.

Are you serious! Lmao.

Can you please post some kind of evidence of the highlighted? I wouldn't want gullible minds believing fallacies they read on this forum simply because someone typed up a dissertation acting 'woke'.

NLanders out here saying a lot without saying anything

midnighter:
Yeah, that is the snag in being a human and not a spirit...our lives are just moments so we cant imagine some things coming to pass

I guess if we were having this conversation in some colonised location some thousands of years ago, we would imagine that we would be under Roman or Songhai control forever because nobody could match their military might, commercial savvy or their political intelligence...yet where are they today?

Unscrupulous use of technology is now wreaking havoc (especially) in the western world...social media and artificial intelligence are being manipulated by enemies to cause problems for them...check out the US election, the Brexit campaign and the Anti-Vax movement

Whole countries are subtly being led down the rabbit hole because of unregulated use their own inventions...so is technology really the be all and end all? At some point it will collapse under its own weight or another idea or type of strength will come in and render it useless...then another group of people will swoop in and start oppressing everybody else...then other people will call them "brutal" or "wicked"...rinse and repeat...

Thats just how humanity is...civilisations and empires rise and fall but it seems like the people holding you are superhuman... thats another psychological aspect of the subjugation...mental entrapment...when they flood our media with photos and movies of so-called "superior" beauty and great aspects of white people, do you think its a joke? They have to make it look like theyre the only ones who know anything or who are worth seeing or who have any kind of positive quality... propaganda and brainwashing on a massive scale to make you feel powerless..

Yup - and clearly, that sh!t works hence why there will always be an idi0t like Blackmiserable who disputes the points I raised regarding caucasians. You see, it's not a hidden fact that the average Negro loves his oppressor more than he loves himself. That's why a white man/white-looking Lebanese is afforded more opportunities, favours and power in our own country than we the citizens but the reverse is the case abroad.

It's also why we see the epidemic of the light skin craze amongst our women today. I love my women slim & DARK and what I consider beautiful are the likes of Stephanie Okereke, Naomi Campbell, Diane BBnaija etc.. It hurts to see so many of our beautiful dark complexion sistas using cream to measure up to the standard of beauty the white man has falsely portrayed. It's not just amongst blacks, many other races also see the fairer skin as more beautiful e.g. Latinos, Indians etc..

It also hurts to see the black race give up so much of our values and culture to adopt the lifestyle of these Neanderthals who have no roots.

midnighter:
The thing is that civilisation and humanity itself are based on the principle of "hunt or be hunted"

Empires are formed by groups of people who conquer and plunder other groups... white people are not an exception

The Songhais, Mongols, Ottomans, Romans all thrived because of this kind of subduing of populations and political manipulation

But because we are seeing it in our lifetimes it seems as if it has never happened before or that white people are "wicked"

The fact is that in terms of civilisation or statehood, to enrich yourself and stay on top, you have to make other people pay the price...thats what theyre doing

At some point the biggest modern empires, like America and China will still fall and somebody else will take over. I guess that should be when the big banks/credit systems begin to fail or when another country is able to overpower them technologically

Thats why theyre willing to cheat, maim and kill to stop that from happening. If anybody wants to challenge them or bring them down, they must simply be smarter than they are and beat them at their own game of chess

Touché - but I highly doubt the highlighted.

I don't see any other race becoming more technologically advanced than the caucasians - perhaps the Chinese? although I doubt their ability to surpass the brutal domination of the white race.

Blackmiserable:
You nailed it in No 5 but pissed me off in 6.

This is probably one of the stupidest of stupid reasons to label the devil a white: "always going to and fro to other peoples countries, seeking whom to devour."

Migration is a part of life and it is never a bad thing. If anything, always going to and fro to other peoples countries and dominating them seems to be attributes we all should imbibe. Better put, always going to and fro to other peoples countries and helping them to develop.

Dude are you okay?

You attribute the HAVOC that your colonial slave masters have wrecked in other peoples countries to mere 'migration'? I'm baffled at the level of your idiocy my guy. Wtf!

What race is responsible for:

1. 400+ years of the enslavement and mass brutality of YOUR OWN PEOPLE.

2. The mass extermination of native Americans & Australian aborigines - taking over their countries and then years later, having the nerve to enforce strict immigration policies, restricting others, labeling foreigners as "aliens" and blocking people seeking greener pastures from entering these same countries that they forcefully took from the real natives (America, Australia, SA).

3. The horrors of Holocaust.

4. Meddling into the political affairs of other nations and invading those countries in the art of war. i.e. Vietnam, Iraq.

5. Going to others people's countries to kill/execute their leaders & presidents i.e. Gaddafi, Saddam.

6. The mass incarceration of black men in America & Lying on black folks to get them lynched, mutilated and/or murdered i.e Emmett Till.

7. Mass police shootings of blacks in America. Then when these oppressed folks coin the phrase 'black lives matter" these devils undermine their struggle with the "all lives matter" slogan.

8. Separating little children from their parents at the Mexican-US border and holding these children captive in fema-like camps.

9. The British windrush scandal - very heartbreaking.

10. Even to this day, forever meddling into the affairs of other nations - telling others what and what not to do - Looting the mineral resources of African and Asian nations who lack the intellectual capacity and military power to fight back.

Not we say we blacks don't have our own issues - we sure do - BUT I'm yet to see any other race who has been able or capable of the level of despoliation that WHITE folks have meted out to the lives of billions! It's so sad that I had to take time out to reply a dunce like you - get educated bro!

emmaodet:

Bro, you sef see am.
I attacked the lady not because of what she wrote now but have crossed her path before twice and she wrote something similar.
That was what prompted me.

No mind am. She even admitted on a different thread that her happiness in life depends on nairaland comments - just click on her page and see all
her pathetic topics, very miserable thing

midnighter:
Lol do you want us add your name as well...let us finish the page with your own matter

Be my guest!

They claim to 'ignore' but proceed to take up half a page talking about the said guy emmaodet you really struck a nerve bro

emmaodet:
You are a known anti-marriage advocate. Seems you are either a lesbian, probably a loser in relationship due to been infected with diseases like HIV etc, maybe a ruptured womb because misery loves company like you once quoted or poir background e.g barrack raised or ghetto raised, single parent raised etc.
Pls, Live and let's live - because you don't fancy it doesn't mean others don't.
What faced you is what is backing another person.
Marriage as outlived it's usefulness to you but it is the best thing to another person.
About Nigeria been backward - seems most frustrated ladies can't bring out there points without saying that line.
So to you, the white countries are advanced why we are backward? Backwardness is relative.
We have our settings and culture and that is not backwardness.
You can't be a copy cat for everything else it's better the whites come to rule you and change your country name, currency, constitution to US and lose your identity.

1. I believe Nigeria was never meant to be and must be divided into at least TWO different countries for it to work (North and South) ... Just like Korea and South Korea. Hausa/Fulanis are NOT one of us. They are more similar in culture and lifestyle to Chadians and Somalians.

2. I believe the girl child is sweeter to raise than the male child. I believe the girl child brings wealth (as most wealthy men have more female children than male).

3. I believe women have shot themselves in the foot with the feminist movement they want equal BENEFITS but not equal RESPONSIBILITY but unfortunately, it doesn't work that way sweethearts

4. I believe that society treats members of the LGBTQ community wrongly. Third world countries condemn them while the western countries celebrates them - these are both wrong. LGBTQ folks are MENTALLY deranged and DEMONICALLY possessed. They need deliverance and/or psychological treatment. Not condemnation or encouragement - they need HELP.

5. I believe the black race is cursed with the spirit of lack, disorganization, backwardness, and hatred as these things are evident wherever black folks are gathered.

6. I believe that if satan was a race he would be WHITE - very advanced a civilised people but extremely calculative and wicked - always going to and fro to other peoples countries, seeking whom to devour.

Move on dude. Sh!t happens.
Everyone cheats at some point

[quote author=Theyoungmatron post=83126992[s]]Frustrated fetal chauvinist.
Snail-skulled little rabbit, choke on the queasy convulsing nausea of your own trite, foolish beliefs. What meaning do you expect your delusional self-important statements of inexperienced opinion have on female gender? Your perpetual fantasies on women is inconsequential. It is baffling that you would believe that your tiny-fisted tantrums would have more weight than that of a leprous desert rat, spinning rabidly in a circle, waiting for the bite of the snake?
On a good day you’re a half-wit and a drool. You are deficient in all that
lends character with the personality of a wallpaper soaked in dank and filthy water. Your reasoning are asinine and benighted. You are the source of all unpleasantness, spreading misery and
sorrow wherever you go.

Next post from you will be completely ignored.
Thank you[/s][/quote]Awn!

Theyoungmatron:
So you were best of friends which is obviously the main reason why you guys got married, now you want to be a tyrant, a Nigerian monster Dude, you are funny!!!
Anyway, your life...your house....

If you desire respect that much, you should've waited cos the baby that will marry and respect you ceremoniously and unceremoniously is still crawling.

Coming from a teenage pr0stitute just like LilllyVal. I'm not surprised.

OP so your wife cannot raise capital to open her own business? Nigg@s out here marrying liabilities

irumole1975:
You're a straightforward lady and usually say the truth without bias.


But I observed most nairaland guys don't like you, why?

Lmao! Indeed.

iamadonis2:
My Girlfriend still reaches out to her Ex Boyfriend for financial assistance. I admit it gets me really upset.

I want the best for her and want her to grow financially,

WTF

What kind of loser girlfriend have you got bro! Doesn't she have a job?

Why can't she fend for herself?

AwkaetitiBabe:
But men started complaining and buckling under the sole pressure of providing. Women had to sit up and work to support themselves and family.

You are sort of right - BUT these are unfortunate consequences of modern day living.

Men were happy as providers for so long because they were almost guaranteed a loyal, submissive and faithful wife who looked after the home and the children - there was a sense of give and take, and this gender equilibrium created a sense of stability in the home.

However, a paradigm shift in the modern era ensured that the new age woman now feels it's ok for a man to continue his traditional duties (providing) whilst she abandons hers in exchange for competing with men at work and at home too. As thus, the power struggle between both genders left men with no option but to question why we must 'provide' for an individual who is now "equal" to us on every level playing field.

It's interesting to see that some women (like OP described) are beginning to get exhausted by it all.

Fountainofyouth:
You're just dull, was that not a response to you quoting me without commenting, ode.

Give it a rest abeg. Simpleton.

Fountainofyouth:
This one has calculation problem, what was typed minutes ago is hours to him

E pain am

Fountainofyouth:
No nah , I thought you wanted to blast me so that I can prepare my own , but since obviously do not want that, well, good for you.

Have a lovely hypocrisy filled evening dude.

I know you've been waiting for this moment. slowpoke

Fountainofyouth:
You are a bitter angry soul, on issues that has nothing to do with your gender or you, quoting bukatyne doesn't mean you're right, bukatyne doesn't change her ideology online unlike you that blab and blab on anything women, she nor dey insult like you to prove point, you are still a toddler fa, better start crawling so that you'll quickly learn to stand and walk straight up in life.

Lmao!

So is this the come back you've spent hours preparing?

A local champion keeps quoting me without mentioning my name here. you want my attention so bad huh? una go die for my matter

Fountainofyouth:
No nah, I thought you wanted to blast me so that I can prepare my own, but since obviously do not want that, well, good for you.

Have a lovely hypocrisy filled evening dude.

Don't act like you haven't loaded your gun already - you're free to shoot mi lady but you should know that I'm a gentle guy and do not like fighting the weaker vessel. However, if you want that smoke......

bukatyne:
The average female employee is on her way to work by 6:30am after preparing for the kids.

A lot of people are working jobs they find no fulfillment in. The corporate world is not called soul sucking for nothing.

Fountainofyouth, biglittlelois, virgoquin & other minions - Can you earless seals now see that your fellow kind has made the exact point I was trying to make?

But of course y'all cant think objectively coz you're so desperate to engage in a virtual combat with me - probably based off my previous comments on other topics Nice to see I've ruffled your feathers thou.
worthless gits

Fountainofyouth:
You just quote me no reply? I dey wait.....

So you haven't finished ranting? Oya na

Fountainofyouth:
You just dey craze, them ladies are showing your fvck up, you just dey foam for mouth dey type what will make you feel better today, ladies are stupid for not working, tomorrow, the career ones are feminist, you see say you nor well, better hide you head and blokos in shame, you nor be man at all.