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Biglittlelois:
With the way you use vile words, I can only equate you with Dolts still seeking for their worth in life,

My last response to you.

Indeed

I can't be ignored sweetheart - hence why you quoted me first.

Hebetudinous m0ron.

Biglittlelois:
Genq, look above at AntiBrutus' comment of how you contradict yourself when it suits you, your hypocrisy stinks to high heavens, all becos you want to please your fellow wannabes here, grow up.

Learn to think for yourself little girl

The fact that you had to clutch on to AntiBrutus' comment shows how weak-minded you are - as if her idi0tic comments packed a punch lol.

A thousand of you #weakervessels can gather yourselves on this platform and be typing rubbish - it won't change the undisputed realities of day to day life.

Biglittlelois:
Not everyone against your opinion is a feminist.

Where on this thread did I call anyone a feminist? You must be ret@rded.

Biglittlelois:
Why are you contradicting yourself? First bolded you said plagued with having to work, meaning they have no choice cos the husband requires her to contribute for the household,

Second bolded you blame it all on feminism? How?

This woman up there decided to go 1950s cos her husband agreed with her, if he had said no, she most definitely wouldn't quit her job, same way some men prefer their wife to work than be a housewife and vice versa, it has nothing to do with feminism, it is only a mutual agreement of both parties involved.

In a desperate itch to reply me, you failed to utilise your thinking faculty & obviously you are clueless on what the word 'contradiction' means.

Now let me break things down for you since you lack basic comprehension skills - FEMINISM IS A SCAM & AND HAS GOT YOU LITTLE GIRLS LOOKING STUPID OUTCHEA!

Hence why the woman referred to by OP has decided to give up the 9-5 slave life for obvious reasons.

prof2007:
A part-time seamstress for 10 years, Katrina, who sells her retro frocks across the world, said: "My new life started in September 2018, after I left my job, which was starting to wear me down. I was getting tired and I wasn’t living up to my own expectations. I spoke to my husband and told him I want to be a housewife and he said that was fine with him. It was a fantastic feeling when I quit. I can do what I want to now and run my house as I want to run it. Now I’m a full-time homemaker."

Gbam.

Society has really deceived women, selling them the dream that a career would give them fulfillment, when in actual fact, the life of a modern woman is 2x harder.

Back in the day, a woman's main focus was on her home while the man had the SOLE responsibility of going out there, busting his arse to bring home the bacon. Unfortunately for today's woman, they are now plagued with having to work full time jobs whilst also having the added responsibility of trying to make and maintain a home.

Feminism is a scam and many working women are tired, exhausted and unfulfilled in their so called 'careers'.

LadySarah:
[s]Bleep off.
We'll the see who will contact sickness from cockroach infestation.

Let him keep eating outside instead of taking charge of his home.His eyes were shut when be was dating her.

All of you will keep opening threads here,you aint seen anything yet.[/s]

You just couldn't help but display how senseless and immature you really are -

Not like I expected any better from a classless git like you

Damn! this Diane chick is just my type

LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better ,only if you go behind that fancy counter...

WIsdom is profitable dear

Here we go again! - the disgustingly condescending tone of a NL misandrist

Whenever y'all don't wanna be held responsible for your actions, that's when the topic of equality will come up. Lazy pigs!

A dirty woman repeatedly leaves the kitchen in a filthy state. Instead of addressing her disgusting habits, you expect the man to take up responsibility of cleaning up after her - because he's her slave right?

And no, being dirty is not a 'weakness' - it's a sign of laziness and poor upbringing.

"Our kitchen" indeed

Mizwisdom:
Once a year, any year you decide to have kids

Mizfoolishness,

I trust you to show up here with a stupid remark as usual

@OP from your responses I'm really intrigued by the kind of relationship you have with your man - I see a husband who loves you and is patient BUT if you keep up this way, he might end up cheating. A full blooded man? Once a month? Ha!

Btw, if you were a victim of s€xual abuse, I'd suggest you seek help before it's too late.

NiRfreak:
Yes, that's the truth. It's a reason many guys aren't planning to marry because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so they feel there's no point in forming a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out.

I must admit that up until very recently, I was a strong advocate for Nigeria but I finally give up - Nigeria is done for!

I must leave this sh!th0le.


Sidenote: the idi0t under me called pocohantas only commented on this thread because she saw me comment. How do I know this? because she and her minions have made it a perpetual habit of doing so (just visit any thread in the family section). Moreso, as you can see, her numerous rants on this thread shows an individual who clearly lacks common sense and foresight. Any opportunity to insult guys ey? Because no one wants you? Frustration won't kill you girl

Dude please marry her ok. Simp!

Sandra8:
As hard a pill as this is for men to shallow, they must certainly still shallow it.

Lol. Olodo. Men should shallow pills

OP are you sure you've graduated js3?

delishpot:
You threw the first insult dear. I never said anything to you. Go back and check your mentions. I did not see you until you saw me. Stop looking for a reason to justify your failures and whitewash your true identity. My hands are always lifted in holiness

Lobatan

delishpot:
You àre just a tool of the destroyer. She doesn't work as at when OP lost his job, which you don't know the reason behind her unemployment nor the history of her job search and you consider her a liability. Yet OP does not have a job but because you know his job search hussle he is not a liability. Like I said before, the demons in toy are specially projected at breaking homes by planting seed of hatred in the heart of husband's. Your plans have failed. God pass you. Op will settle bring back his wife and be happy for her move when he looks back to this moment. Shame on you.

Lmaaaaaaooooo! How did we go from throwing insults to lifting holy hands

"tool of the destroyer" indeed.

NL is pure jokes I swear. Lol.

delishpot:
Are you stupid? Don't you read where he said they have kids who need basics of life that he nor the wife can not provide at the moment without help? Where did he mention that she never worked through out their married life? A man lost his job and home. Wife decides to move the kids and herself to the village where they have shelter without bothering about rent yet you are here complaining that she is wicked. Do you want the kids to sleep in the streets? Sometimes you people reason like fools.

Who said anything about wickedness? Your stupidity knows no bounds.

delishpot:
Are you stupid? Don't you read where he said they have kids who need basics of life that he [b]nor the wife can not provide at the moment without help? [/b]Where did he mention that she never worked through out their married life?

My point exactly. Meaning she's a liability.

Like I said earlier, OP should be glad she's now her parents cross to bear. His calls and visitations should suffice for now.

delishpot:
Why can't she fend for herself? Did you ask the poster why he can't fend for himself without people's support or because she is a woman she should carry 3 kids on her head while going out to hussle? Or she should ask the man to stay home and care for the children while she goes out to look for job? Your yeye stinks shior!

Are you dumb? Didn't you read where he lost his job.
Where did he mention that she's ever worked?

cococandy:
Women don’t need you as an ally.

You’re hateful towards women and only are found in places where women are to be ridiculed and mocked.

Shove your faux concern

Fight for yourself.

Congratulations!

I know you've been dying to vent your anger at me so I'm glad you got that off your chest!

Will keep doing my thing tho

delishpot:
Joke's on you. She left for her parents just like I thought, he still calls and visits so she clearly did not dump him but men like you who hate to see women happy will never consider anything besides a man's opinion. Shior! Ask the woman her own side now and mouth will open in wonderment.

The joke's on HER really - a grown ass woman who went back to her parents house with 3 children. Lol.

Why can't she fend for herself? Its 2019 for goodness sake - should a woman's sustenance still rest on a man? What did her parents send her to school for? Where is her sense of accountability?

Now her poor aged parents are burdened with having to feed their adult girl child in addition to three extra mouths because she's proven herself irresponsible and unable to cater for herself without her husband's salary.

Such a shame.

geosegun:
Because we know it's all lies. When lies spread like that without debunking it quickly. Some innocent souls may start taken it seriously

Thanks bro.
Is it by force to buy what these misandrists are selling? Even their fellow women are getting tired of the agenda.

Pocahontas, I saw your pathetic attempt to throw shots at me . Too bad you and your gang can not silence me on this platform. The bible doesn't call your kind the weaker vessel for no reason.

As for you cococandy, I'm not wicked. I actually fight for the course of women - my desire for your kind is that y'all become as independent as y'all can be. Be empowered and stay off mens pockets

[quote author=Aurelius1 post=82648050][/quote]I've just seen your previous thread on being homeless. Your wife must be unemployed too.

Sorry but you put yourself in a terrible predicament when you chose to marry someone who couldn't contribute financially. Most stable homes need two healthy incomes.

drips8:
A lot of Nigerians don't listen to alte or the likes of odunsi

Too bad . Those guys are mad talented

sassysure:
Ur hatred for women will.roast u alive.

Hope u masturbates only cos ur type is not worthy of any vj.

Ur mum must have dealt a blow to u.
Sorry

Such a shame you had to show your stupidity to the world.

Next time, learn to demostrate self-aggradisement by keeping shut since you lack the intellectual capability to form a coherent statement.

SANTI should be on this list.

delishpot:
She left as in she divorced or she left to a place she believes would give her chances of surviving which you declined because of reasons best known to you or for ego sake?
Cos I have seen men suffering but will not allow their wives go to her family home where she can get some support, accommodation etc. They say NEVER the woman gets tired and leaves anyways for her sanity sake and then the men start crying foul saying she abandoned them cos they are broke. Oga sir, why being selfish?

Perfect example of the decrepit mindset of the average NL female. How dare you jump into these incredibly stupid and baseless conclusions?

NwaAmaikpe:






God was kind enough to make your burdens lighter by making your wife leave with the kids and you are here still weighing yourself down over them.

Amen to this!

baby124:
I think you should first resolve issues you have with women. Why you lose interest and don’t have sexual needs from them before deciding to settle with anyone. She’s also waited till she’s 35 and should not be making mistakes just like you. I hope going abroad will give you the freedom to be open about your sexuality and, try to stop forcing yourself to conform to society’s standards. She doesn’t deserve to be with someone who will lose interest in her emotionally and sexually. Sex can be a very big deal in marriage.

Wait, if you don’t have sex with women at 34. Who do you have sex with? Or you are a virgin? Are you attracted to men sexually?

You are very stupid and childish for this statement. Minister of LGBTQ detection. Idi0t!

Lmao.

All I see here is an unmarried, childless 35+ year old woman consoling herself.

I'm yet to see a woman past her prime who is single and truly happy. Even the holy book says; "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you."

Let's not get into the financial benefits women gain from marriage. Even to afford a flat on their own they cannot. In this Nigeria, most women cannot sustain themselves without the help of a man: husband, sugardaddy, boyfriend, whatever you wanna call it.

To fix their hair sef, they need a boyfriend - but you'll see them all over nairaland posting trash.

Sidenote: I would love if more women adopt the OP's ideology. If women reject marriage in its entirety, it will save men a GREAT chunk of our hard earned resources!

sassysure:
They think they are wise but their attitude towards women has made most men to train somebody's child as his in Nigeria. Who is losing?
U treat your woman as trash, she might decide to go to her gateman for peace of mind.

See them, lazy women who can't fend for themselves. Instead of walking out on a toxic marriage, they'd rather sit there worthlessly and have the man cover their financial needs.

A housewife who expects her husband to come home from a long day at work and start changing diapers while she sits there getting fat and shapeless off his sweat - mind you, she probably has a househelp too. So, if a woman has chosen to make herself so useless, why won't he cheat?

If una like, sleep with numerous drivers, gatemen and mechanics in a pathetic attempt to get back at your husbands - it won't bring you the fulfilment you so desperately seek. Feminism is not by mouth alone - get a job and get the fvck out. Your children are not a means to an end.

Midas01:
When a man brings home contractible diseases to his wife, the kids can easily get them

If this statement isn't the height of stupidity, I don't know what is. Kids can now get chalmydia from their mothers I guess.

funmisticqueen:
i find it very insulting to be linked in the same writing style as someone who has some form of psychopathology(missghosted)

At least you didn't say that i am amatarasha, that would have disgusted me to no end.

Insulting yourself won't help your case. Just saying.

PinkHealthGroup:
As a child, it is very much your business if your father or mother is polyamorous and fooooking 50 ppl other than your parent. Diseases and STIs are very real. No one should abuse the mindsets of children by telling them it isnt their business.

Your mother does not have to be mistreated or exposed to diseases
If she contracts Hep C, chances are her kids have high probability of getting it too. Anyone that says this type of BS needs to be shot. Children deserve loving, trustworthy parents. We have lied to our children for so long....and this is why the Nigerian family is built on hypocrisy and fake lives. How much more the govt?

Midas01:
Your first statement is pure trash.

If you don't know what that cheating and the likes does to a marriage and even to children then I don't think you're qualified to speak on such issues.

If you think most men tell their wives about adding other wives after them or about having a free pass to cheat in a marriage then you're very naive.

I've seen where women get beaten , humiliated, subdued, by their husbands because of sidechicks. My neighbor almost lost her life and one eye because of this senseless egoistic attitude of "men are polygamous in nature and can cheat whenever" attitude. Her little kids know their dad brings different women home and mistreated their mom due to that. So saying this is not the business of the kids is reflective of naivety.

Your mothers are free to walk away if they can - but unfortunately many Nigerian women are unable to leave such marriages as they cannot fend for themselves otherwise. These women ( who contribute very little to the household) have no negotiating power in that marriage - so, they grow old and bitter and continue to leech of their husbands financially - then have the shameless guts to poison the gullible minds of the kids against the father.

Unfortunately, these naive kids then grow up conveniently ignoring the fact that their wonderful mother had no dignity or financial backing to be able to walk away from the so called polygamous father.

So my point remains, it is none of your business as a child. Or better yet, if the child has a brain, he/she should think objectively and ask their mother the REAL reason why she choose to remain in that marriage.

Btw, Midas01 learn to express yourself in an educated manner.