OP who beat you

Girl wey like fvck, na em you dey kill yourself

Bro Gaboon viper mostly is a sand and moisture ground Sandy snake, wetin E dey find inside una store. Please protect your store again any other occurrence. The most venomous in Africa cut the stomach if she has kids or bury her deep inside the ground. Is sweet for pepper soup, I don't eat other snake but I already ate viper twice

Nice one

OP no find my trouble oo

John1152:



if na so then why are we alive, why would someone in his right senses die for us, why would our parents sell their life to train us through school?

Love heals everything

My brother you said it all...

Klass99:


Lmao at the part in bold.

Escorbarcole, please listen to what this user has said. Read her post over and over again, pay particular attention to the parts I have quoted. You can only help a person who wants to be helped and who wants to change. Anything short of that is an exercise in futility.

A neighbour's 20 something year old kid, escaped from the rehab center he was forcefully admitted to. This was around 2009, he carried on with the sort of lifestyle your brother is living after his jail break from rehab

He hasn't been seen or heard from in 10 years now. No one knows if he is dead or alive, this is not a hearsay story. My family shares a fence with this other family. There was nothing they didn't do to help this young man, money was spent on bribe to police officers to release him for marijuana use, on school whenever he claimed he was sorry/repentant and ready to take his education seriously and on rehab.

My heart broke for his parents, the mom especially. It got to a point the father was despondent - you know when you've done all you can as a decent parent and a child refuses to catch sense, it takes a massive toll. I honestly feel bad when people blame parents for a child's poor attitude in life, you don't know the full story and children have a will and a mind of their own.

Raise up a child in a way that he is supposed to be good, so when he grows up he will not depart..... Most times is Nemeses (my nigga go call it Inamensis ) will make the child die early before the day of his repentance. When the Bible say that, I simply understand it that is reference that a child stand chance of spoiling, but if he eventually does the way he was brought up has a big game to play in it soul.
I believe if there is an apparent called Nemesis/Karma, then it can come from anywhere parents or child. if you have a stronger opinion about this please reason let me learn. I pray the Brother have more life to retrace his steps and go for the best.

anuofGod:
Are you an atheist?

He's confused

Mandela27:
Your brother doesn't need you to be too hard on him now,although it has gone farrrr to crack.damn! I know every family hates when a member becomes a drug addict,but there's no much you can do than allowing him peace of mind and being less judgemental.Meanwhile keep all atms out of where he can see,have his time,try to initiate deep discussions with him and do more of the listening,he would get bored and whenever he wants to leave,tell him to calm down and stay little longer with u,don't judge him no matter how worried u are,You females can put up different characters so just cry for him that u don't like those his friends,he would consider ur tears instead of ur judgements.Don't take him to a rehabitation center,he's not a mad person.what he needs is ur time,although it wont be easy and it will take a little time before he starts having more of ur time too.I wish u luck

@OP I like spending time in this kind of thread just to give in my best, in my other post I thought you're a male.
yes this poster mad a great point. please the more anyone get hard on him, he becomes worst. love him and always let her close, my dear you can always compasate with good small girls of his age indirectly , maybe by letting your fellow girls visit you at home, it will make him to feel socially relax and catch feelings, now you'll use the advantage to bring him more closer to you. But make sure you're no one gets hurt (unwanted pregnancy)

Mariangeles:


No more "drilling" please.
He's struggling with addiction already as it is.

Apart from prayers, he needs your love and encouragement.
As someone earlier contributed, cut him off from the company he keeps, look for a good rehabilitation center to get him treated.

I love this one @OP. it works perfect, you guys should welcome any good things he's doing and pretend like you're not noticing his bad side. he go turn around

robinso01:
Start by cutting off his friends, they might be in it together, take him to rehabilitation center and reduce his freedom of going out any how without monitoring.

only him can rehabilitate himself, remember he's damn good with his career. if he feel love, the same brain that gives him information to perform in his career, will give him information to coordinate and perform in his family. they are keeping the boy far. they need to build his career/profession/entrepreneur mindset

EngrMarve:
This one needs deliverance oo

Deliverance doesn't work. I'm a good Christian buy the way...

Escobarcole:
Hello peeps, I really need your opinions and counsel on how to handle this issue that is affecting my family.

Recently we found out that my youngest bro, our last born, does crack.. He's 24 going on 25.

As i speak to you he's supposed to be a graduate but nothing came out of his years in school. We knew he was doing weed which didn't go down well with us especially my mum, because my family is somewhat disciplined and responsible. Then lately we discovered he does white, from his own confession tho. An incident happened almost 3 months ago where he took my mums ATM card and stole 85k, also transferred another 15k from my mum's other account using her phone and deleted the sms alerts so we got some military men involved and he was drilled thoroughly, it was after then he opened up on sniffing. That he mixed with the wrong crowd and boom.

He begged forgiveness and promised to change. He did for a few weeks but relapsed. He's been stealing my mums money and also asking friends and others for money just to get high. He does nothing except for his dream of exploits in his pursuit of a musical career (he's actually damn good)..

Right now i want to take action but i don't know how to go about it. I'm considering involving community youths coz that has proven effective in some instances, or yet again involve the army for another round of thorough drilling. Because we have prayed, and adviced yet to no avail. So I'm here for opinions and advice on how to handle this issue. Anyone here who's handled such cases before? I need your inputs.

As it is I'm the only one who can do anything about it as my other siblings (2 of them) are abroad, so it's just mum, my little bro and i here. Mum and dad are separated. My bro leaves with my mum but now mum wants him out coz of his irresponsible lifestyle.

Mods should please move this to the relevant section. Thanks

P.S - I'm not new here. Had to create a new account to stay anonymous

Bro no amount of drilling will help, you can only make him harder:
solutions:
1. Pray for him with love and advise, tell others outside country let them pray for him too, show him love and advice.let your mom do same too.
2. try make way for him so he get a good job, he will stop if actually you guys trained him in the way of the love.
3. Bring him more closer to you, take him out when you're going on social vices. talk about making money and chicks with him always (if you be guy man).
4. Carry him while attending church activities.
5. Always make him have fun with you, anywhere both o you find yourself.
6. If he get a good job and girl, he will on his own stop. because.

Note: All this will help him stop been introvert, showing him love and closeness will make him advice and deliver himself. the more you drill and talk Ill on him, the more he certified himself as a street blood and not gonna change soon. street is military remember. just do anything to make him busy, he can get a job in Nigeria no matter the grade he have.

Conclusion: you guys have money to maintain him, so just use the money to accommodate him so he will stop stealing it. if he go to jail today or mad. you'll waste more money more than the ones you already loosing or you'll loose to maintain him

Tillatalk:
Don't tell him directly ... Just tell him she be careful dealing with people online he shouldn't not send money to someone has not seen before .. they fit don jazz am boys are desperate nowadays

OP this is the best advice here....

ALEX182:


I think I will. I even asked him if it was Ebola but he said it wasn't and mentioned West Nile virus. Me I don't know if West Nile virus occured in Nigeria earlier this year so I just kept mute and decided to find out.

The guy is so much in love and part of me feels that this will break his heart and lead him to do something drastic. It's so troubling to me and a part of me just wants to waka far and act like it's not my business but another part is burning with anger at the scammers

Bro please is not your business like you said already, as you're working now dey earn living, na so the Girlee is working the Oyibo and earning her living. Get away to be far from the Oyibo Nigga. From the way you speak I already comprehend you're not one of those Momma-kid to get visa to US, you know as the suffering goes. Not all Yahoo people ravish money, some uses it to train theirselves to become better and big dream, to help the poor family, to build a big dream and probably leave Yahoo someday. Please you can get a way to advise the Oyibo maybe to stop paying the so called GF, but don't go straight in telling him that is a scammer from Nigeria, just twist his brain and let him be.

OkuFaba:
Onye Ahiazu nnwanne

Are you close to umuokirika, mpam or ihite afukwu?

madprophet:


I like you... You have gotten to a place of self discovery...

I see yoh are a senior man in the spirit and seem to wade a lot of influence but all I would tell you is this

Be very careful... A lot of times getting to a place of self discovery could be dangerous because sometimes it opens the door to pride and the feeling that you can get away with anything and everything but the truth be say

There are a lot of things that cannot be explained but this things needs to be serviced and oiled so that your generation coming after you can enjoy it too.

I hail you Bros... You be chairman..

Enjoy

Thanks Brother, from my notice if things are not manage well something become a curse to someone and takes him back. Pride, stubbornness and over consciousness is the main cause, so I believe life is just don't mind those things pulling you from inside but focus or your dreams, do the right things and work hard. Some people also have this personal gift but but misuses it, but na only God go help everyone las las

I love this fact thread....

Larry Gaga - Hold on ft. M.I. x Efya

Aniekpeno11:

Bro I am not doubting you o or trying to rile you. I was just wishing for you to share your thoughts.

Is okay, I just clearly did

Aniekpeno11:

Bros be careful what you wish for o.

I believe is nothing I have worry about shaa. Normal me in a secured environment I stay out late, but since the country get more controversial everyday. After 7pm anywhere i am that is not my house, I'm likely to sleep there for the night

Aniekpeno11:


Abeg what is your spirit telling you about me?

@Aniekpeno me and you no dey for those joke, but I know personal things I don do and pass in life, but the love of God and my gift keep and guide me. No police cell or prison (irrespective of my odd act in past life), no scratch on my body even as a war tasted nigga (you suppose know the whole story), I understand people clearly before they even notice my present and is left for me to move or stay, wayo people jam me three times no charm panetration, in Abuja 2010 entered 1chance they have to drop me after about 5minutes drive because I was fast to figure them out and the charm was not penetrating, even me no say charm dey the taxi but is not getting me down. They drop me and say make I carry my wahala dey go. The way I front things in this world like police things, dictating and foiling robbery case, cult matter settlement as none cultist presently, if you do it my brother your head go drop 2seconds. If I have business with you, then you for understand me wella, but since I have nothing with you don't force it. Because my spirit go end your world sharply, you don't make trouble with me if I have a nothing against you. As a street nigga I do my best to do right so do the same too my nigga

Modified: if I am to do something, I only make agreement with my God about it, immediately he authorizes me, I make my movement and nothing stops me, it has been working for me from day 1 till now.
Never experience car accident before even a day back then in school, I want to take my college to excursion, a guy told me he dreamt of us having accident and his dreams dey work. I laughed about 2 minutes and the only thing I have to answer him is as far as I am here, no blood will spill in this movement till I got back to school and no car I enter experience accident. Yes we went in peace after two days the moment we set to leave Calabar, two girls wasted our time with make up, immediately they finally came out and entered the bus, cultist and police had a shoot out releasing more than 200 bullet and I calculated, it was supposed to be the exact moment my bus suppose to be at that present junction where the shoot out occurred. Na so my life had been going, things happens in my back or ahead not when I'm present. My spirit don't take rubbish my brother is not my fault

sexuential:


How can this be explained or understood.

I had a son that b4 his one year birthday or after his one year birthday, in church, amongst the crowd, I was singled out becos of him and was told he didn't come to Stay. By 5yrs and some months, he kicked the bucket after spending 2months.plus in the hospital where he would have gone from but his departure waited till d 5th day from his visit back from D hospital.

2. Pertaining to this Same child, a day (night) b4 his was born, the mum fell into a gutter. Now, after his departure, a night to His posthumous birthday, around the same Time again, the mum still fell in similar fashion like in his birth time.

Pls help me understand this experience.

Boss I'm sorry is a simple case of strong Ogbanje or reincarnation, I don't believe in Juju but I think serious Ogbanje work in your village would have help him survive (to me natural world has it own way of operation). Please you and your wife should trace your lineage for better answer and understanding, especially before the next issue and you would have given the boy mark before he gave up to ghost. I pray God deliver your family

I think it works with, 70% of wild animals that doesn't feed on dead creatures

One of my best way to go

I dey follow up

0temSapien:
I was born into a christian family. Fast forward to 2016, I got this revelation of the truth and I'm still getting it till date.

What kind of school you attended for secondary, which Christian home you mean. White garment, penticostal or Catholic/Anglican?

anuofGod:

Lol, I saw the link on a recent thread and I couldn't stop my self from viewing it out of curiosity.
Now I'm sure I'm not the only wierdo on earth.
Though, I now see most of those things through my dreams, when I was younger, I used to see them live and direct, I guess it's coz I don't talk about them then sha.
But I have an added advantage now, precise future prediction through dreams, knowing the spirituality of people, and knowing the kind of energy that is present wherever I am.
Lots and lots more. God help us all

Sister I just wrote something under you before I read this, we have almost same gift Deja vu and realm operation. I don't like dealing with dreams, because in most of my dreams, I do fly away like jumping way higher (without wings) immediately things get out of control for me. Read my comment and tell me what you know about what I wrote
Now let me ask you:
-Do you fly in your dreams?
-Do you have sleep paralysis?
-Do you believe in spiritual attack or someone can manipulate you like witch?

Modified: Those years too, if I dream I don't talk about them, so dreams stop occuring to me as anything. Now when I dream, I can pause the dream wake up, go back to sleep and continue the dreams. I don't get to worst state in dreams, but recently I started eating in dream but whenever I realized am in dream I stop the eating but already I would have taken one or two spoon. sex dream with unknown girl was in childhood, now if I just see a hot unknown girl in my dream, I will wet like mad already to notice semens when I'm awake though for years now I don't agree with sex again in dreams but the seducing gets me wet (though it barely happens). The more I grow the more I try take charge of my spiritual self because I noticed I'm not just ordinary spirit, you have any explanation on this?

Phenomenal16:
...lol
The link appeared in of one of d recent threads
Nothing new u knw

Yes baby I have been reading the thread since last night I saw the link, so I enjoy all they say here men. I go like see ghost one day or face to face demon