₦airaland Forum

Hisroyalbadmeat:
I learnt from experience that controling the finance in your business is key, from my farm to my transport business, I'm the cashier,all transactions hits my account in any business day, my transport business seems a little bit difficult, but my policy is you must transfer my money to my account same day,

Sounds nice, but your business cannot grow like this. You need to put in structures and, most importantly, employ an Indian manager. Indians and Lebanese managers are the best hands to handle Nigerians.

This is why you employ Indians to be at the helm. Even if it means the Indians or Lebanese who h@te Black people, do it.

Are you more sensible than Dangote?

Employ an Indian manager today!

Orlandoo:
Nigeria military is not that gallant.

Nigeria is a country of many nations.

So, it cannot work again. The military is way too compromised to work as it did pre-1999.

WizardOfNG:
That's the way things are going with Nigeria. Some people will be shouting Tinubu and making it about the President alone without accepting he cannot fight ideology and indoctrination causing the internal sabotage and compromise.

We all need to start seeing things as sensible, reasonable and critical-thinking adults who know how to identify problems and search for specific solutions to those problems.

Did you blow all this grammar when Buhari was the president?

folake4u:
Thank you.

Really, it is not by thrusts alone and unfortunately, they learn about sex from porn.
Many of them are also terrible at romance.

Some men experience their first sexual encounters with sex workers. The picture there cannot work. Now, I see where the problem comes from. Also, some men believe it's traditionally odd for them to give head.

pansophist:
What exactly will the US fight with? Missles, nukes, bombs, soldiers? What exactly?

China reign supreme in all these fields. The US right now is like a zoo animal. It is strong, but under the dominion of the zookeeper.

Disrupting Chinese investments in countries in the Global South. Happened in Mexico, and has had attempts in Brazil, Argentina, Peru, Morocco, Indonesia, DRC etc. In fact, when I see a country experiencing political turmoil, the first question I ask myself is: How much have the Chinese invested in this country?

folake4u:
I also think lots of women should learn how to ride for unlimited satisfaction.

Riding requires a specific body type to function optimally. The reality is that: both genders aren't physically fit to satisfy themselves. There's also the cultural perception that prevents women, whether as wives or girlfriends, from sexually expressing themselves while on bed.

pussyphilia:
To solve this problem, men should learn how to give their wives head! Don't just rely on your pen1s to satisfy your woman, rather combine your pen1s and your tongue/lips. Target her cl!t when washing her plate and you'll be able to make her scream with excitement due to explosive kum.........ing!

w to get him to thoroughly wash their plates in a way that leaves her in explosive 000g@@@sm.

I wonder why some men oppose doing the bold. They say na tradition yen yen yen

Maybe they should stop engaging dirty women.

I agree with the quote attributed to the Qataris. My fear is with the next administration, especially as power would go to the north. The person has to be pro-business.

Dokitto001:
GDP measures economic activity per year. So yes they can invest 300b Usd over decades

No, they cannot. $300BN is more than 50% of Singapore's GDP. No country can afford to invest in such an amount in a country that's not in the top 5 economies.

In the video, $300m was quoted, not $300BN.

OP has been a long time Nairalander, that is the only reason I could believe the tale. So after all the attitudes by your wife, you both relocated to the UK?

Wow!

I love breasts! I can pay any amount to suck the breasts of Black women!

I love breasts! God bless the day he created breasts.

In breasts I thrust

Happy Breasts Day!!!!!

Antoeni:
Iyanya Should Have Invested His Earnings Wisely When He Was On Top of The His Game,
Instead He Was Spending His Money On Unnecessary Women, Drinks, And Living a Lifestyle That Was Above His Earnings.
Now he is Grounded, The New Kids On Block Are Not Backing Down, You Better Go And Learn Furniture, Barbing ,Vulcanizing , Tailoring 🪡, Barbeque meat/Fish Preparation , Or Better Still Go to Your Village and Start Farming.

He should have gotten into cocoa farming before it got hot. Now, the price has plummeted. Lagos cannot favour everyone. There are young millionaires in Taraba. Taraba is in Nigeria. No need for visas.

I no too like fame sef. The best money is enjoyed privately and being relatively unknown to the general public.

jedisco:
Hehe. I hope UK retains a reasonable pathway as many masters students might get stuck or see themselves repeating masters and phd on-end.

If I was in Nigeria today and looking to study abroad, I wouldn't be prioritising the UK.

Or they return to their home countries after the education obtained from the UK?

Aside from Anglophone countries, where graduate education has become an enterprise, in most parts of the world, you receive education and possibly an internship, and then return home. If the UK tightens its post-school pathway, what would the students do? Protest against in a country that is not theirs? Should someone decline an offer from Oxford University simply because the post-school pathways have been tightened?

Anyway, I don't fully blame those students. If the Brits had put their yansh in one place rather than colonising almost the earth, maybe this would not be happening.

DomPerignon:
If she's referring to herself and the pic in the OP is her, then she is contradicting herself.

Well, I know what passes as a 10/10 for this current blighted generation is equivalent to who is the biggest wh0re who charges the most because this hyper materialistic generation can only place a value on something based on its price tag.As for her submission , 90% of so called '' beautiful girls '' out there are nothing but mega wh0res.Its kind of sad to see how most attractive girls/women today are mostly whoring. This wasn't the case prior. In the 90s, patronising oloshos was seen as the most disgusting thing to do as most wh0res back then were at best a 4/10. But in today's dystopian hellscape, the reverse is the case. Most beautiful girls back then were being swooned on by suitors who wanted to marry them. Chastity was a key component of being considered beautiful. No matter how good looking a woman is , if word went round that she was a slut, she will automatically lose her appeal. But in today's current hyper materialistic world filled with simping cucklords, a sluttry wh0re is the epitome of beauty and the higher she charges her dumb ass clientele, the more appealing she becomes because today's magas equate value and quality with how high its price tag is .I

The economy has nosedived. The term "hookup" got popular after Buhari became president. Before then, it was popularly known as "runs".

Additionally, these girls watched their devout and submissive moms get cheated by their husbands. Their fathers fathered babies outside their homes and spent MORE on side chics. These ladies have realised it is "better" to be like those side chics and get all the financial benefits without the marital depression.

Our men, especially older men, were responsible for everything. They rewarded these mistresses.

We4all:
People should stop making it sound like 'beautiful women' earn on a platter of gold without doing nothing. These women are subjected to all sort of sexual abuse before they are gifted a benz or a house. The truth is, most women with dignity would rather choose to work hard than engage in what most of these girls are doing to earn a living. These women have no qualms sleeping with animals, multiple men, and eating poo just for the money.
r it.

Another point. People think it is easy to suck a minimum of five different preek per month. They think it is fun performing anal rimming and swallowing semen. Sometimes, I see it as jealousy because sex work itself is not easy work. There is nothing like free money.

The men who complain about these women will do worse when they attain financial comfort. Also, rather than complain, they too can offer their yansh to LGTV folks. It is a free world. Any man who says a lady who bought a Benz did so with her clit should offer his yansh for the same Benz.

Fine face privilege exists across the world.

The Nigerian side has to do with:

- Corrupt money (politicians, yahoo yahoo boys and drug lords), which has skewed the dating market
- The religious training from childhood that sex is a sin and very bad. When these men attain financial stability, they go out all for spending on toto and its associated features.

What sort of name is "Aisha Okon?"

Fake news! A mere figment of the reporter.

chiagozien:
Attached by Force.

Claiming other tribes

Wouldn't you love Nairaland?

olabrad:
My wife is from kogi state and she is Yoruba. Her family originated from the local government and still live there till today. Smart Adeyemi, a Yoruba man is an indigenes of kogi state, same with Dino Melaye, another Yoruba man. Some people will just open their mouth and say rubbish fueled by shameless ignorance. Small time now, they will start claiming that they travel more than all other tribes. Yet, their traveling has not enlightened them enough to know that several local governments in kogi state belong to Yorubas. Bunch of empty chest-beating noisemakers!

What he meant is that since some Yorubas won't accept that there are Igbos outside the Southeast regions. Why should outsiders believe that there are Yorubas outside the Southwest?

It is aura for aura.

musicwriter:
There's no other way it could be questioned in general without a body of organized system of learning (education) that can disprove it and transfer that new knowledge down to the present and future generation. Education is cultural, it's a culture that develops their system of learning as it is in Japan, Russia, China, and all other free countries. It is within that body of your own knowledge that you can learn enough to question it, and continouslly sharpen it by discarding unwanted ideas. The best way a drunkard stops drinking is when the person decides that he/she cannot continue that way. This has already happened in Europe beginning in what they call the renaissance period. That's when Europeans began to question everything, people began to choose to KNOW, rather than to BELIEVE. That's when they began to question and reject Christianity. The result was that it lead them to the scientific revolution, and that's when Europeans set themselves apart from the rest of the world.

The bold is true. Many years ago, I was pondering when we will experience an African Renaissance era. When do you think this will happen?

I see the Internet and its associated services as the means through which our people, especially young ones, will begin to question certain thoughts, beliefs and practices. Truth is: we cannot continue the way we do things.

Outthemudbyvoke:
Apt... The scars that emanates from entering a relationship from a position of weakness is everlasting and traumatic. I would rather die a monk hustling and trying to get rich than being a lap dog and object of ridicule begging to be loved by ladies

Na why my oga says he fears poverty more than death.

Hypergamy can be cruel.

Cousin9999:
You're a rich black man and can have your wedding anywhere, and you choose...a white country. Not only do you choose a white country, you choose one populated by some of the most notorious racists. Seriously?

All throughout Africa, there are gorgeous, sprawling mansions. There are beautiful mountains, waterfalls, beaches, and wilderness. If you want a fairytale wedding, you could ride up on a gold covered horse with an orchestra playing, dripping in diamonds, at any of these locations.

I agree with you here, especially as a Black African.

But then, I am not a fan of telling others how to spend their money.

P.S. There is Barbados and the Bahamas, as well as Atlanta sef.

Modified:

I see why they held the wedding there. They both studied in the US and the bride has never worked in Nigeria. The groom went to Loyola Jesuit. That school is too good.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuck-nwapa-6aa19a7/

cc: Ibeokehie: There must be a lot of well-to-do Nigerians in Texas as a whole and greater parts of Atlanta and Maryland.

musicwriter:
Thanks for this!
That always been my view. If it works, let us publish papers on how it works, it's benefits and what to do with it. But remember the reason we don't study it that way is because we don't have a self-inspired system of education in Africa, therefore haven't created a curriculum on how to study it. But that's by the way.

I attribute the bold to our cultural beliefs of not questioning things. There is this belief or upbringing that most Nigerians get from small never to question beliefs or things in general. It is why I am always glad the Internet exists. In my books, everything MUST be questioned. It is less about the education system, but the cultural upbringing. Religion also contributes. It is another reason I am not a strong fan of religion - it opposes the right to question.

In my upcoming book, I'll challenge EVERYBODY about juju. But don't get me wrong, it's not as if there's no juju. The problem is that people don't understand how it works. Juju is like numbers. Does the numbers 0,1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 and the other bigger numbers really exist? Or are they something we're making up in our minds. This has been a question that philosophers, metaphysicists and even mathematicians have been trying to answer for centuries without conclusion. Does numbers exist or are we making them up in our minds.

My view about the above is that we're co-creating our reality with nature. If you're adding 5+5 in your mind while awake it's only you that knows its ten in your mind. What people don't know is that when you're asleep and dreaming, you use a whole different type of mathematics to arrive at the same answer. So, numbers exist and also doesn't exist at the same time. It's just a utility that you can use whenever you want. It only exists when you're conscious of the maths. It's same with juju. If you cultivate it in your conscious, it will exist in your mind, and begin to control you. For those that believe it like my junior brothers, it will appear real in their mind such that whenever his di.ck rise, he'll attribute it to the jazz working, not realizing that your faith in something makes it create your reality and that it's normal for di.ck to randomly rise every now and then. Therefore, he'll be using correlation as causation and will never be able to figure out what's really going on.

You'll find more details in one of my threads titled: the science of jazz

I will follow your thread and, as you have stated, it is time we question these beliefs; if true, publish the result, patent the new technologies derived from them, commercialise them, etc. I don't see why a juju or cultural practice is potent, yet the practitioners are poor and live in squalid conditions. We have to understudy what happens in our environments.

AMINDA:
Square peg in a round hole. Beyond these theatrics, what has he achieved so far in the mining sector?

Alake has performed well. He has modernised our mining sector. One of the country's biggest non-oil exports is gold which is mined and REFINED in Osun. Alake has made it mandatory for prospective mining companies to set up processing facilities within a short period of time. This has resulted in processing factories in Nasarawa, Osun and Ebonyi.

Mr Dele Alake is doing well.

There is no specific salary because living standards differ, employee positions are different, and industries, skill sets and companies are also different. The best is a national or location-specific (preferable) economic class categories to know if one is in either the middle class or lower or upper.

But specific salary? It does not exist because humans are different.

emmaodet:


Don't mind them.
I saw a thread about 3 weeks ago about airpeace or so pilot salaries and it ranged from 500k to 2m for the experienced ones.
See how people were rubbishing the salary yet the funny thing is that many of those looking down on such never earn close to that nor do they have a business they are paying workers up to 200k per month sef. That is if they have any in the first place.
I don't know were this entitlement is coming from honestly for a very very poor country fa

THANK YOU!!!!!

People who have never had the money have the most to say. That was how they looked down on senior associates at the BIg4 earning 1.1m. Or when they respond to someone who has saved the equivalent of 45m in the UK seeking a return to Nigeria. You read "45m is not money o", "The 30m go quick finish o".

None of them has 10m in liquid cash!!!! None! None works at any of such firms or has a thiving business that has generated a similar amount.

Our people are too arro gantly igno rant! I think it is mostly with southerners, or fraud money makes them think there is one magic tree where money grows.

GloriousGbola:
i counter you - they have raised prices in lagos

there has been a steady influx of northern upper middle class to festac in particular - and they have led to an increase in prices of homes

I have always considered Lagos and Abuja as the only places worthy of a significant real estate investment in the country. So, these people who sell these houses, where do they move to afterwards? Lagos wins because of its limited land mass, diversified economy and high population.

BTW, I am interested in how both groups will mingle/interact in a state where neither is the majority.

Rictech:
They did assign someone, but the supporter said he’s very busy preparing for a conference presentation with his professor. My labmates advised me to report that he’s currently unavailable to the International Students/Student Affairs Division, which I did. They’ve promised to look into it. By the way, all my labmates are non-Japanese PhD students.

Bad market there.

Ask for a Japanese or maybe Chinese. You need someone who understands Kanji to make the process seamless. Alternatively, if the person is non-Japanese or non-East Asian, a minimum of three years of residence in the country.

In my books, there is a huge difference between a "non-Japanese" and a "non-East Asian".

Ade1177:
Make sure you find your wife in university days or nysc

Once you enter the rat race looking for money You can no longer find a lady willing to build up with you, sorry is your name You will have to buy your love and continue paying till it expiresI will advice anyone still in the university to leave books in the evening and go out, read your book in the morning and afternoon, find good girls, have fun while at it. Before you close your eyes 4yrs don go, unless you plan to be single at 35
True love can only be found when you are in school

True words at the bold. I have read a few of the top-tier men in the West who married school girlfriends and lived happily after. I have seen a few of my schoolmates married girls they dated while in school.

Some of us, na so so book we carry for head. First class sef we no see.

musicwriter:
My advice to you is to take your mind off this type of thing and focus fully on your education. That's what your parents sent you to school to do. You'll have more than enough time for this later, else you'll end up like my junior brother who's in his 30's but his di.ck isn't working. He has used up himself in his stupidity. Now, he thinks that he'll get a big di.ck by taking my di.ck. 419 guys has finished him in the process, promising of using jazz to get back his di.ck. . He's so stupid and doesn't even know that's he's a scam victim, despite that I've warned him of everything I am saying.

Be warned!NB: this is something I am still actively researching. I'll write about it here on Nairaland when I am through

Juju can steal another man's preek?

I am glad you are working on the study as I plan to do the same and others in the near future. We need to start questioning certain practices to know if they actually work, how they work and why they work.

But I am curious, what made his preek to stop working? And when you "stopped working", it does not erect? Or the erection does not last for a significant period? Or he cannot ejaculate? And if/when he does, the semen cannot fertilise an ovum?

franchasng:
What you described is a natural process, it's nature taking its course not the female student's fault nor your fault so don't take it personal. Women by nature date up not down. Women by nature are wired to look up to their partner not look down. They crave to date or marry someone higher and better than them so they can depend on him, that is how nature wired all women, that some overcame this natural protocol is also normal because in every 12 there must be a Judas. Every young man must bear this in mind and always remove eyes from girls of his age and go for the younger girls where he would have more competitive advantage.Women tend to age faster than men.Women have menopause, men don't have.Time is against women, it's not against men.Women naturally work with time because of how nature built them.Before a woman look downwards when it comes to relationship, romance and marriage, she probably failed in looking upwards, or she was madly in love with her mate or someone younger from a long time. Take those scenarios away, women prefer to marry someone older than them, they prefer to date guys older, richer, better, taller, etc than them.

Thank you, sir. Well explained.

It is why I stopped believing in the modern concept of "gender equality". Men and women are not equal, as both genders have their privileges. Nature always wins.