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foolish man. pumping nike oshinowo back side with atiku is no abormination. looting treasury and doing your daughter inlaw is no abomination in egba land?

yeye monkey fowl.

[size=18pt]Randy Alfa
Defiles 14-yr-old, says I’m nurturing her for marriage[/size]
By CHRISTOPHER OJI
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Alfa Okah
Photo: Sun News Publishing

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Lagos-based Islamic cleric, who was arrested by the police for allegedly defiling a 14-year-old girl in a mosque, has denied the allegation. The 52-year-old suspect, simply identified as Alfa Okah, is undergoing interrogation at the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID), Panti, Yaba, Lagos.

He, however, told detectives that he never defiled the girl but confessed inserting his fingers in her private part.
He was alleged to have made love to the girl (names withheld), in a mosque in Surulere area of the metropolis severally. The victim’s guardian, Marian, is said to be the wife of the Imam in-charge of the mosque.

It was the Imam’s wife who reported to the police that the victim had been missing for some weeks. During interrogation, it was found out that Okah might have been having amourous affairs with the young girl. He was arrested by the police and he admitted knowing her whereabouts.

One of the detectives interrogating him told Daily Sun that he later took them to Akute area of Ogun State, where he kept the girl. “When we got to the house, we only met a man, who revealed that Okah slept with a young girl and kept her in his custody. He also told how he couldn’t find the girl when he came back from his place of work.”

Okah later confessed to Daily Sun that he was actually dating the girl, adding that he had the intention of marrying her. “She is my lover. She was 12 years old when I started dating her, but I have not made love to her. I only romanced and manipulated her each time I had sexual urge. You know she is still young. I am only nurturing her to grow before I could start sleeping with her.” On the girl’s real age, he said: “The police are just saying that she is 14. No, she is 15. She is my girlfriend and I know her age.”

He explained that he took her to Ogun State, because she complained of being maltreated by her guardian and was ready to go back to her parents, who also live in Akute. He said: “As a lover, who has her interest in mind, I decided to support her in the little way I could. I paid her transport fare and kept her in my friend’s house, while we were still tracing her parents’ whereabouts. I wonder why she left my friend’s house without either his consent or mine.”

When asked how many times he slept with the girl for the past three years, he claimed he had been her friend, Okah became furious and warned, “please, don’t ask me such a question again. I am an Alfa, I can’t tell you lies. I was only romancing and manipulation her and nothing more. I romanced her on the road each night her guardian sent her on an errand.”

On the allegation that he organised a birthday party for the girl, he said: “Yes, she is my lover. I only marked it to show my affection and appreciation to her. She is my lover.” His friend, Antonio, who was weeping profusely, as he spoke to Daily Sun said, he did not envisage any trouble, when Okah brought the little girl to his house.

He said: “He only told me to accommodate the girl for the night. He slept with her on my bed while I slept on the floor. I left them there to go to work the following day. Okah had told me he would leave very early for Lagos, for prayers. He begged that I should take care of the girl till he came back, but when I came back from my office, I did not see her.”

He, however, appealed to the police to allow him to go home as any further delay could cost him his job.

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/crimewatch/2010/may/27/crimewatch-27-05-2010-001.htm


as if this is not bad enough  you have these yeye people talking trash here

[size=18pt]Yerima’s baby marriage: Senate committee in war of words with women groups[/size]
From AMOS DUNIA, Abuja
Thurday, May 27, 2010
Yerima
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Attempt by the Senate to commence probe of Senator Ahmed Sani Yerima’s marriage to a baby wife turned rancorous yesterday as human rights groups and member of the Senate Committee On Ethics, Public Petitions and Code of Conduct engaged each other on shouting match over statement by the Committee Chairman, Senator Omar Hambagda, that he also got married to his late wife at the age of 14 years of age.

As if to add injury to the issue at stake, another member of the Committee Senator Aderemi Bablola, told members of the women groups from different organizations that the Senate cannot prosecute Senator Yerima over his marriage to a minor.

Senator Hambagda told the women that when his first wife, who he married when she was just 14 years, died two years, about 40 young girls between the ages of 19 and 23 years of age applied wanting to get married to him.

The Borno-born Senator further said that a segmentation of the application showed that out of the 40 applicants, 27 were between the ages of 19 and 23 thus had to struggle to get a 30-year old to marry.
According to Senator Hambagda; “My first wife was married when she was 14 years old and our first daughter is today a veterinary doctor. In the place I come from the Shuwa Arabs marry girls at the age of 12.”

The statement of the Chairman of the Senate Committee on Ethics that was directed by the senate to probe Senator Yerima following a petition by the National Human Rights Commission and protests by women groups that stormed the National Assembly, sent cold into the spines of the women rights groups that appeared before the Committee to further their attempt to get Senator Yerima brought to books in accordance with the Child Rights Act and the Constitution.

In her remarks before the committee, Mrs. Asmau Joda described as most unfair attempts by some Muslims in positions of authority to hide under the cover of religion to tarnish the image of Islam through their selfish interpretation of the holy quoran.

Mrs. Joda explained that if the case was looked at from the correct documentary sources of Shari’ah which was all encompassing, it would be clear that Islam did not encourage Girl-child marriage, adding that the idea was to allow girl-children to attain not only body and physical maturity but also a level of mental maturity so as to enable them shoulder the responsibility of parenting effectively.

According to Mrs. Joda; “Although Prophet Mohammed (P.B.U.H.) married A’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, at 9 and the marriage was consummated at 12, some Islamic jurists said that, that was unique to him, meaning that no other Muslim is encouraged or even allowed to practise it. This is the position of Ibn hazm as respected in Fathul-barri, Page 97. Vol. 9 published by; Dar al – rayyam, lit-turath, Cairo.”

[b]She further added that documentary Shari’ah sources showed that most of the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) wives were old widows and divorcees stressing that the fact remained that His first wife was 15 years older than he.[/b]

“It has also been reported that Abubakar and Umar bin al-Khattab, two of the most senior companions of the Prophet, peace be upon Him, sought the hands of His daughter Nana Patima at different times but the Prophet said to them; ‘She was too young or I am waiting for the destiny to take its course.’ And He did not marry her off until when she was 18 or 19 yeas old. This fact is reported in the following Shar’iah sources: At-tabaqat al-kubrah libni Sa’ad, Vol. 8, p.23, Nisa’un mubash –shiratun Bil-Janna, by Muhammad Mahmud Ismail. Pg270 published by Dar-al-Sabuni, Cairo.

In her own remarks before the Senate Committee, National President, Medical Women Association of Nigeria Dr. Mma Wokocha said that the issue had so much medical implication that had some severe consequences on the life of the girl-child.    http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2010/may/27/national-27-05-2010-013.htm

ahbaycity:
When you alone with him don't quibble, don't be proud. Pride for a woman

doesn't mean asserting herself. You must learn to trust your man.

Marriage is always a lottery: it takes time before you find out whether

you have drawn the lucky number. But assume its the lucky one up to the

last moment. Sometimes you can out stubborn fate. anything else.

distrust can hurt a person more than anything else.A person's heart

opens up only to trust. And don't be in a hurry to ask questions. Truth

pour forth in words of is own accord, like a spring out of the ground.

If he lie to you once to put you off- he will lie again, and neither of

you will be able to shake off the falsehood.
Men are impatient,their glance are slippery,Its never lingers for long.

A woman must be clever and hold on in life for the two of you. A woman

cleverness is tenderness and kindness. That's harder than physics or

maths
Not every man has fortune, just as not every man has character. Nor does

fortune necessarily mean success
i admonish all to be gentle as a dove and [size=18pt]be ready to sting like a bee[/size]

who send you? na only sting like bee you go advise?

do they cheat with animals? human beings cheat it is sad fact.

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=398300.msg5598128#msg5598128 date=1267304011]The guy is handsome save for the bleaching. He wasn't bleaching like 10 years ago. May be Omotola is showing him signs of preference for light skinned men and that made him insecure. Bleaching at an old age is kinda weird.[/quote][quote author=Sisi_Kill link=topic=398300.msg5545972#msg5545972 date=1266592225]Of course he's gonna say she'll never cheat on him. . . how many men want to tell the world he's cuckolded hubby?[/quote][quote author=Sisi_Kill link=topic=398300.msg5545972#msg5545972 date=1266592225]Of course he's gonna say she'll never cheat on him. . . how many men want to tell the world he's cuckolded hubby?[/quote]

0hsisi:
I was just about to say something similar.
Sammy Sosa's got nothing on the dude

0hsisi:
I was just about to say something similar.
Sammy Sosa's got nothing on the dude

YOU GUYS ARE STILL DOING YOUR USUAL BUSINESS. THIS IS BAD BELLE ABI?

this is very sad

more like nigerian greed factor at work here. you and your family probably went to a christian school free of charge. Christianity is always a force of good and change only twisted people like most nigerians will abuse its teachings like we do

REAL TRUTH:
@ Devonian:
  Touch not my annointed and do my prohpet no harm
The penterascal pastor is annointed so let him do according to his annointing,,,and let nobody judge him,,,even if he impregnates the said man's wife,,,the pastor has the license to do and undo,,,
The above is just the JOKE Christianity has now become in Nigeria,,,shame

more like what some greedy/ fatherless evil people have turned christianity into. a means to an end

spiderman:
The guy should know getting his pain killers in Nigeria is the least of his problems,
if its because of the lack of drugs he thinks he's gonna die in Nigeria,
then let him know hes coming to drug heaven. even Taiwan pain killer dey!!
i think he knew what was coming to him and refused to do something about it.
crippled and getting caught for DUI offence twice, haba, which one you dey.
ol boy face am, you're coming back home.

A BIG FOOL AT 40. i think they should change the laws for him so he can kill some people with his stupidity.

what do u expect from nigerians

who cares?

and all the winch, witches and wizards say amen

wbb

debosky:
 

Everyone wants to claim they've been there and done that. . . .even those whose only experience of Murtala Muhammed Airport is as a bus stop they pass through on their way to Oshodi every day.  

chei this is bad belle against a brother

debosky:
Post in English Language please, and not text speak!

All Nigerians (we at home and those abroad) need to work together to improve the country. HOWEVER - if we keep deluding ourselves that 'things aren't that bad' because a few people are able to make stupendous wealth (often to the detriment of the unconnected and unprivileged majority) then we are definitely going to get much worse.

The issue here for me is not about 'dying for UK/US visas' but how can we make things better overall and not just for ourselves/family?

I understand in the awful circumstances the country is in as a whole the tendency is to focus on self, but we need to somehow move away from that.

the reason why most nigerians defend the evil/ wicked people ruining the place is they will do worse if given the opportunity.  we deserve these wicked people ruining/ rulling the place

AngieFan:
You sound bitter.

Vincent committed a criminal offence. It doesn't matter if the offence was driving 1 mph over the legal speed limit of going on a killing spree in Peckham. The fact remains that he broke the law and as he is not a citizen he gets to be deported.

AngieFan:
You sound bitter.

Vincent committed a criminal offence. It doesn't matter if the offence was driving 1 mph over the legal speed limit of going on a killing spree in Peckham. The fact remains that he broke the law and as he is not a citizen he gets to be deported.

u spoke for me thank you very much.
why do most nigerians want other people to tolerate lawlessness?

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=418567.msg5756691#msg5756691 date=1269429811]folks do not see anything bad if someone like dora is being recycled.rubbish[/quote]over blown and over hyped that is nigeria for you.  she is over there.
one day dogs and goats will rule nigeria

[quote author=Becomrich/ link=topic=418372.msg5756625#msg5756625 date=1269429262]The cleric was preaching against the west, that is not right. I preach against people who kill innocent baby and women. Who are link to terrorist.

Like  AngieFan it is extremely rare for anyone one to be stripped of their  citizenship, mostly if you are born abroad.

Many nigerian are born aboard. To shock some idiot online. even nigeria law allows nigerian who have naturalized to British citizenship or any country to run for president. . In 2007 Prof Odili based here  in Toronto ran against Umaru Yar Adua.

Aluko/ and Odili went to the supreme court, the supreme court in Nigeria made it cleared that they are allowed to run for office of president. I could post the supreme judgement.[/quote]would your beloved nigeria have allowed odilli to run if he had criminal records in toronto? why do you think it is okay to allow criminality without sanctions?

no decent society tollerate evil and stupidity like nigeria, pakistan and the others. the UK is not about to join the list

what is love in your language or dialets?

RichyBlacK:
This makes Britain seem really backward.

In America, all citizens (by birth o, by marriage o, by mama o, by papa o, by too much money sef) are equal under the law.

RichyBlacK:
AngieFan,

I see your point, but this story is leaving me with the impression that immigrants have a far better deal in America than in Britain. Maybe it's because of what ElRazur said about the UK being a small island that's already full. LOL.

what right do you think a lawless immigrant should have? if you are nigerian you should have being nice to your host in your vocab. 
why do you expect a host society to be nice to rogues and fraudsters who are taking the hospitality for granted.  if thier home country was good and nice to them why did most of them leave for abroad?
you feel it is ok they are allowed to import the lawlessness in their homeland to thier host.

america by the way has very large prison for lawless people so which do you prefer?

would you really like to be killed or injured by a lawless gold medalist who cant respect laws.  he probably got the car as a disability allowance gesture.  he is a big fool, ungrateful idiot and fit for lawless society like nigeria. 

[size=18pt]along with the right to stay in a decent society is the duty to be law abiding[/size][/size]

good ridance as they say

[quote author=sista-jay link=topic=417339.msg5742346#msg5742346 date=1269259550]@ Poster

Gurl I feel for you. . . . . . . . while you can still run, run as fast as you can. . . . . . . don't look back! This sorry a$$ of man aint for you! [size=28pt]All you gonna do is end up havin just a bedroom relationship with him![/size] To be loved is to be recognized as existin!![/quote]you are right

adams de boy

wbb

wbb

[size=18pt]Would you allow your daughter become second wife?[/size]
By GIDEON OPARINDE
Sunday, March 14, 2010



In Islam, polygamy is considered an injunction from the Almighty. It is believed that Allah approves it. Christians think otherwise saying, if God wanted it. He could have created more women for Adam to marry in the beginning. Even Christians practise polygamy. Would you give your daughter to a married man? A number of parents responded to this issue in a little survey Sunday Sun conducted. Excerpts

MRS. THOMAS F.
Personally I don’t like it . I come from a polygamous home. I saw a lot of problems there, I know what it all entails. The bitterness, the regrets, the deprivation and the cut-throat rivalry among wives.
My mother is the first wife. She experienced jealousy, hatred, self centeredness, and more. In a nut-shell, my religion does not permit it. Hardly would you find peace in polygamous homes, and if there is, you should not sleep with both eyes closed. Be watchful, because anything can happen.

MRS. RICHARDS
I’m not in a polygamous home and I won’t let my daughter be in one .If she insists on being a second wife or third, it means she is ready to face my wrath.
As a Christian, I’m against polygamy . My religion is against it, so why would my daughter differ?

MRS. TAIWO
I can allow my daughter to be a second wife to a rich man, but just on one condition. The man must be God-fearing and be ready to love both wives equally . Once this is done I believe there is no cause for alarm.

MR. JIMI ABDULRAHAMAN
In Islamic religion, nothing whatsoever is wrong with it. A man can have a minimum of four wives, but he should be a able to satisfy them. In other words, he should not treat them differently and he should be able to provide for their needs and make them happy.
But I think it is not necessary for a man, because he is a Muslim to marry more than one wife.
For example, I have just a wife and I am satisfied and happy with her.
The more wives you have, the lesser would be your love for them.

If you have a wife, you will love her wholeheartedly, but if they are two, at least, there would be certain traits you would find in each of them which might attract you more to one than the other. In other words, your love will be shared between them, rather than being focused on just one of them.
Secondly, the more wives you have, the more expenses you will incur.
I will never allow my daughter to become a second wife, whether to a rich man or whatever. I would not be happy to see her suffer from her rival or her in-laws or whoever for whatever reason.

SALAKO OLUWAKEMI
I cannot and will never allow such. It means you are putting your lovely gold up for barter or for a mere cheap thing. Giving out your daughter to a rich man, especially an already married man is the beginning of an unending problem.
If that happens, it means both the daughter and her mother would be enslaved by such a man and his wealth.

MRS. ALIEMEKE
As for me, I won’t allow it to happen because it is not proper. No matter the kind of money the man is spending on her or the family in as-much as he is married I won’t allow it. My daughter will never walk into a polygamous home .

VICTOR ETIM
Scripturally, it is not advisable, because in the Garden of Eden, God performed the first surgery( taking a rib out of Adam to create Eve, his wife). God, of course, had the power to make him more wives, but because He knew what would befit Adam He didn’t.

DARE SAMUEL
Based on my belief, I don’t see any reason for a man to marry two women. It is of no use. God created a woman for one man and vise-versa. Having two wives, I think is abnormal and going against God’s ordinances.
Many girls of today are only after what they see, it is not that they really love the men they run after. So why should we be enslaved by their riches?
As long as I know, my daughter, when she is ripe for marriage will dare not marry an already married man, whether rich or poor.

FOLASHADE FENWA
I won’t allow my daughter to be a second wife, irrespective of whom she is dating, whether rich or poor. It is obvious that most polygamous homes are usually troublesome. They shorten one’s life-span . Happiness is far away from such homes but many endure and become slaves of love till death do them part, while some opt out and remain single parents and the husband takes possession of his children. At the end she could remain without setting eyes on her own children again .

MR. VICTOR STEPHEN
No, being a second wife is not a dignified position in the home.

MR. JOSHUA EMIANTOR
Most ladies that get married to married men do it for covetousness sake. If we really ask ourselves why they would not go for a poor man, we would then see they are after money and material things. The love is not there and I won’t allow it.

OLUWABUNMI OGUNDARE
It is not negotiable. Whether I give her out or not, what I know is that I won’t allow it.
All we want in life is happiness and I’m sure no woman would be happy seeing her daughter suffer in the hands of her rival or husband.
I don’t like it.


http://sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/wiveslive/2010/mar/14/wiveslive-14-03-2010-001.htm

so all the 3rd G/Fs and others are wetin? some people can deceive themselves

adigun101:
This woman is beginning to look everyday like an attention seeker !

dont let her rebrand you. be  very careful what you say cos she is a member.

deb:
Oga the word Business in the context of the awards is not just about buying and selling.

so what qualifies her for the award? must you take every award every tom, dick and harry is offering? do you know what is behind these awards in the first place or you just like talking?

AMARA,

@Sagamite cheii  [size=18pt]while we are here moving from church to church looking for husbands[/size] you still proud to say you will marry a Southy because they are Sexy

THANKS FOR TELLING SOME HOME TRUTH.

if you had a choice of something between your scheming, good for nothing, pot belly. gulder drinking LIAR LIAR village man and a nice foreign man i bet you will still choose your church going, God using tribal person becos your life depends on them.