Bro my advice for is to seat her down and let her understand that ur family will always be ur family and u will be always be there for ur family(becos families are to support each other,she came into ur family so she should the tradition of a good family) I once had problems like this with my lady and it was becos she's not use to it since she's not born in Africa but i made her understand the way it is d that i will always be there for my family and she now respect that. But if ur lady continues the same then think of ur future with her,if really she fit in.
yemi16: I courted her for about 1yr..before we got married 6months ago.. Meanwhile while courting, she had told me she left her former relationship because the guy she dated then was like the breadwinner to his family catering for all his siblings and she felt quite uncomfortable with it....
I didnt read much to it coz in my mind it happended to my favour and i already have a well to-do siblings...as at my courtship period though...
Shortly before we got married, my elder brother who also just had a baby lost his job....and i had to support him and his family on a need basis especially with their little cute baby boy growing but i noticed my my then fiancee didnt just like it at all....
After we got married....i got a great job with this good pay and was very comfortable....meanwhile my brother search for job was to no avail....and his wife was on maternity leave.
To cut long story short, each time my brother comes to me for help....and i send him money, my wife complains that i larvish my money on my brother...that he should go and get a job and not rely on me always...we would quarrel seriously for days/weeks before time eventually settles things...
Just last few days ago....we were relocating to a new area within town and i called my brother to pick up a few stuffs (electronics, household items) i know i wouldnt or i planned replacing with a new one......He came and picked them up as i had informed him....After he left, my wife let hell loose....she went completely mad and we had a big quareel...she even called my brother to return a few stuffs he took even when i already bought the replacements...
I am used to going back to her to apologize just to let peace reign ...but this time i have had it upto my neck..!!!!... I dont intend apologizing one bit as i am sure i did her no wrong......
Now i am thinking deeply.....did i really overlooked the signs...?...did i really marry the wrong lady??....
Please i need your advise on how best to manage this...
Admin..pls help to update this on fp..i really need lots of advice at the moment.
Please i need a responsible and honest builder, to do a job in Lagos(Agbara)
mufutau55: Off-Topic Thread - To Discuss Anything and Everything that doesn't fit into an individual thread. Let's discuss everything pertaining to Building Constructions, Real estate and some more.
Note: Please no products or services advertisements... there are plenty of other threads for that already.
Hello, I'm looking for a responsible and honest builder to do a job for me around Agbara area. PLZ only honest people.
gistmelove: This list of major building materials in Nigeria and their estimated market prices is intended to assist anyone who is seeking for robust information about cost of building materials in Nigeria. It will also assist any entrepreneur who wish to go into the business of building material supply.
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Nigerians oversea can as well benefit from the list, to get the idea of what is obtainable in the market back home. Use it to make adequate planning towards your upcoming projects in the country. This list will continually be updated in ongoing basis through the help of the community and people in the business
There are some building materials you simply can't put any price on due to the sheer number of varieties, qualities, and categories. Therefore, this list includes the major building materials of broad category. We will continue to add new building materials until we fill up the table. Enjoy!
Lists of Building Materials in Nigeria in no particular order: MATERIALS SIZE FROM ₦ TO ₦ W/SALE ₦ CEMENTS DANGOTE CEMENT 50KG ₦1,500 ₦1,700 ₦1,350 ELEPHANT CEMENT 50KG ₦1,500 ₦1,650 ₦1,300 IBETO CEMENT 50KG ₦1,450 ₦1,600 ₦1,300 ASHAKA CEMENT 50KG ₦1,400 ₦1,600 ₦1,300 WAPCO CEMENT 50KG ₦1,500 ₦1.700 ₦1,300 SOKOTO CEMENT 50KG ₦1,500 ₦1,600 ₦1,300
ASBESTOS CEILING 1SHT ₦180 ₦250 ₦120 ROOFING TILE - STONE COATED M2 ₦2,000 ₦2,300 ₦1,800 ROOFING SHEETS, LONG SPAN
2 x 4 x 12 1 ₦280 ₦300 ₦220 2 x 3 x 12 1 ₦180 ₦210 ₦120 1 x 2 x 12 1 ₦550 ₦600 ₦450 RESIN COATED PLYWOOD 18mm ₦6,000 ₦8,500 ₦5,000 WHITE PLYWOOD
1/8 x 8 1 ₦900 ₦1,000 ₦600 ¼ x 4 x 8 1 ₦1,500 ₦1,550 ₦1,200 ½ x 4 x 8 1 ₦1,800 ₦2,000 ₦1,500 ¾ x 4 x 8 1 ₦2,500 ₦2,650 ₦2,000 VENEER PLYWOOD
1/8 x 4 x 8 1 ₦1,500 ₦1,600 ₦1,300 ¾ x 48 1 ₦2,300 ₦2,500 ₦2,000
DOORS
FLUSH PLYWOOD DOOR - LOW DENSITY 1 ₦7,000 ₦9,000 ₦5,000 FLUSH PLYWOOD DOOR - HIGH DENSITY 1 ₦10.5K ₦15,000 ₦9,000 METAL SECURITY DOOR - SINGLE 1 ₦20,000 ₦25,000 ₦20,000 METAL SECURITY DOOR - DOUBLE 1 ₦30,000 ₦40,000 ₦30,000 CHINA IMPORTED DOOR - SINGLE 1 ₦16,000 ₦20,000 ₦15,000 CHINA IMPORTED DOOR - DOUBLE 1 ₦25,000 ₦35,000 ₦30,000 TURKEY IMPORTED 1 ₦30,000 ₦35,000 ₦25,000 IMPORTED SECURITY DOOR - DOUBLE 1 ₦60,000 ₦70,000 ₦53,000 LOCAL FURNITURE DOORS 1 ₦7,000 ₦20,000 ₦6,500
Lists of building materials is almost endless. Ask the price of any specific material using the comment and lets give you the price idea. You can as well correct any price in the list you think have changed.
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It all depends on the conditions of the cast and the environment. It is always advisable to allow concrete to cure for some days if you can afford to wait before loading it with weight. But if your engineer sees reasons to continue work maybe 48 hours after a cast, he may have good reasons for doing that.
femijohn21: A plot of land with two uncompleted shops on it for sale, very close to Lusada market and also facing Igbesa Rd. The environment is developed already.
Title: Deed of Agreement and survey. Contact: 0708 184 7366 for more info.
I think you must be STUPID for supporting such a thing,that's a house of God and no body should pay money to enter into the house of God (church) if they need money for the programe the church and the members should take care of that and not the visitors. the church should spend it own money to bring people into the church so they can worship.that's what ministries is all about,bringing people closer to God and not using the people to make money.
jared007: see the way u are complaining more than the members. The 1000 naira is to restrict invitation of people to the auditorium becos of limited space. If u can't pay the token, why not appreoach the other viewing centers? By the way no one is gonna eat their 1000 naira fee. The money realized will be used for the sponsor and support of the ministry.
it's not her fault,after what she went thro ? as a man & the husband he should be supportive.
Manager123: This happened to my Big Sis. (though not blood related) she's a Sister to me. I was one of her bridal train.
After four years of marriage with a child(3 years) armed robbers came to their home. They loot away all of their valuables and raped her (three of them). Her husband was made to watch the whole show. . She was taken to the hospital and properly treated. And she was back to normal, No STDs. But ever since, (it's been over 6 months now) her husband have refused to 'Touch' her. When he was confronted, he said he couldn't bear to sleep with her after having to watch another man Making love to her. The family had set in but all to no avail.
Now, she's feeling miserable and even wish the robbers had killed her. I feel very upset and sorry for her. Mummys and Daddys in the house, any advice on how to overcome this Has anyone experience such Please help, your advice are needed.
It's some they have to seat down and talk about,in my own opinion the man should resign but not to seat at home,they can open a business close to the house that way the man will have flexible time. he can take the children to school and pick them up after also do some other things.
Naija women,if you can't make him happy in bed then let another woman do it for u,other women go to sexual class so they can satisfy their husband's and you are saying abnormal.you knw how many women de pray for that kind man ?
sixtuschimere: Popular South African Gospel Singer Buys A N29million Car For A Nigerian Pastor For Healing Him(Photos)
A South African gospel singer Sfiso Ncwane has bought a N29million car for Nigerian South-African based Pastor Francis Anosike for healing him of heart attack.
Rev Francis Anosike is the founder of Rock of Victory Ministries Int'l Church based in Johannesburg.After healing popular South African gospel singer Sfiso Ncwane,the singer decided to show appreciation by buying him a 29million AMG Mercedes Benz GL 63 V8.According to Sfiso,he was lying on his death bed at his house in Durban when the Nigerian Pastor rushed to his house and prayed for him. You can see Sfiso Ncwane and wife handling over the car key to Rev Anosike in one of the pictures above.Sfiso owns no car.
Speaking during the handing over of the car key to Rev Anosike,he said:
"I don't even own such a car myself, but I have no problem with it because the gift is nothing compared to the gift of life God gave me through Rev Anosike".
My wife went to uni in U.S and Canada and me i manage to finish secondary in Lagos,she also earn almost double of my salary but today she is my wife and I'm happy to have a wife with such education.
the money she earn's is for the family.
kstadaura: Can you marry a lady that is more educated,richer than you?. or she is working and you are unemployed?
Una sabi lie, she should go for local govt first b4 u start talking of state,hard to see a foreigner working in an office or bus driver,train in Spain and u talking of going for presidency ?
I never see some wey de stupid like this old fool,He ruled Nigeria how many times and his not ashame this coming from him. URGLY FULL.ENEMY of Nigeria.
midolian: Former President Olusegun Obasanjo has said in just two and a half months of the current administration of President Muhammadu Buhari, Nigerians were already witnessing the Nigeria of their dream.
Speaking at his Hilltop residence in Abeokuta when officials of the National Association of Nigerians Students (NANS) paid him a visit on Friday, the former President called for unalloyed support for the new government, adding, “in the last two and a half months, Nigerians have started to witness a Nigeria of their dreams,”
Noting that the country had tottered towards the precipice so many times but God had not allowed it to tumble, Obasanjo said, "When one takes a look at everything, the most crucial, and vital conclusion is that God loves Nigeria."
He said: "We thank God for peace even after the election. No single individual is a paragon of perfection. There is no Messiah except Jesus Christ. But there are people who still stick out their neck for the good of Nigerians.
"Thank God we have such as a leader now. What we have witnessed in the last two and a half months is that our dreams are coming true. We must give unalloyed support to the government.”
Speaking further, he said: "Many had thought after the 2015 general elections, Nigeria would be no more. Some had sent their families abroad. Some know the NADECO route. I don't know the NADECO route.
"I don't have anywhere to go. But to the surprise of many of them, God did it in a miraculous way. The election took place, though some did not want it to take place. But let us thank God it took place. We must also thank those who conducted the elections.”
The former President said no matter what the critics of President Buhari might be saying, "I will work for the success of this current dispensation.”
He, however, said criticisms that were objective and positive were welcome where necessary.
Canvassing support for the Buhari government, he told the visiting students that there was no alternative to democracy adding, "the alternative to democracy is worse than democracy. I experienced that. Abacha put me in prison and I was about to be killed. If it was under democracy (democratic rule) that would not happen."
He also spoke on the current campaign against terror, noting that President Buhari took the right decision by giving the military a November deadline to end the Boko Haram insurgency.
He said setting a target was part of military war strategy to measure the success or failure of a particular operation.
"President Muhammadu Buhari took a right decision by telling the military to quash the Boko Haram insurgents by November. It is not good to just leave everything open-ended. It is a strategy in the military to set a target for any operation. This will enable those concerned to work hard. Having a target is necessary. Even if that target was not met, the people concerned would have something to work with."
Obasanjo who cited the Nigerian civil war as an example, said the military had set a six-month target to crush the Biafran renegades, but the war extended to 30 months.
He said: "For those of us who were involved in the Nigerian civil war, we set a six-month target to end the Nigeria-Biafra war, but it extended to 30 months." Vice President, NANS, Ogunkuade Oluwatosin, who spoke earlier, said the students' body recognised the doggedness and contributions of the former president to the success of the 2015 general elections.
He said they wanted the Buhari administration to extend its anti-corruption war to the education sector.
Oluwatosin said: "Your fatherly contribution to the development of Nigeria is visible, even three months after the general elections.
"We need your contribution to move Nigeria to Nigeria of our dreams. We want student-youth inclusion in the government of President Muhammadu Buhari," he added.
daamazing: NICE Idea! But let the father make sure they dont join bad cliques,bad friend etc.he should keep a steay eye on them cus #Naija_no_b_america
him for rule as a leader not as a corrupt politician
thexzy: Put yourself in this Big Shoe, If na you wetin you for do? Person won come drive you commot for ur own doormot and u sit down dey watcham perform the act?? Guy reason this mata na
Nigeria na jona property wey him no wo step down ?
thexzy: For the man who still in power conceded defeat and accepted it that way......wasn't that enough justice done? Even if it wasn't for me buh for the poor masses who wouldn't have had ђεrε to run to... And Obj is here yarning trash, if Gej had refused to step down like Gadaffi nko, wetin dem for do?? Allah kia...eeeh
Family / Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by ghetto101(m): 7:35pm On Feb 18, 2016 
' abi na u urgly passss ?
